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sadinator · 2 days ago
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Me at 3am,not asleep cuz brain
Brain working cuz I'm not asleep
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mahtayyar · 9 days ago
just saw your post and bestie in this house we put men in their place, you did exactly as you should !!!!
i'm an active speaker during classes, especially online ones. male species in my class got mad and *prepare yourself* asked me not to speak bc they can't get a word... like i enjoy seeing you mad but i don't give a tinker's fuck, go cry about it and put yourself on mute so we don't hear your fragile ass egos crashing, you've embarrassed yourselves enough already ✋🏻😭😭😭
thank you bestie sjskjskjs
omg i feel youuuuu, i dont speak during online classes but I used to be an active speaker during class and it would piss off so many people. People with fragile egos really cant stand well-articulated people speak their minds. At least my profs liked me (or a few did, others reaaally didnt- my psychology prof still calls me a Cadi (meaning witch but in a funny/endearing way). Their distaste only ever fuels me. ok not be dramatic but this quote by Brene Brown is exactly how I feel about these things. Not everyone’s opinion matters
It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”
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dreamy-hearts · 11 days ago
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Just wanted to bring it up cause I haven’t seen anyone talk about it,, multiple times yesterday Karl said that Sapnap “isn’t just there to see him, he’s there for work with Mr. Beast” I understand the issues with covid, and of course I agree that they shouldn’t be doing any traveling or meet ups yet but for the people who are using that as an excuse to shit on Karl and say unnecessary things passing it off as “criticism,” please take this into consideration :)
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medusanevertalks · 18 days ago
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“Another force in the construction of transgenderism, according to David Valentine, is the conservatism of a gay male politics concerned to reject and sideline effeminacy. Whatever the balance of forces that constructed transgenderism in the late twentieth century, one puzzling element is the lack of criticism by male gay scholars, particularly since hatred of homosexuality so clearly played a role, and one group of those who aspire to transgender are men who love men. [...]
The absence of any critique of transgenderism from within the male gay community is sufficiently conspicuous as to need explanation, and David Valentine seeks to offer one (Valentine, 2007). He argues that the lack of protest by gay men points to the useful function that transgenderism performs for a new breed of conservative gay men post gay liberation. These conservative gay men assert their concordance with normative masculinity and seek to deny and exclude effeminate gay men by casting them into the category of ‘transgender’. This ploy protected the normality of the gay men and helped in his campaign to be accepted legislatively and socially as just another jock.”
— Sheila Jeffreys, Gender Hurts; 2014
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icks4van · 18 days ago
Van has such nice beautiful shiny hair but why?
literally idk bc that motherfucker probs uses that 10 in 1 shit like tell me i’m wrong. it’s either that or those random tiny shampoo bottles you get from hotels bc at this point if he’s hoarded them he’s probably got enough to last him a lifetime at this point lmaoo
regardless of what he uses tho i still am enamored by his hair and so this is how i imagine me interacting with van would go:
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commanderceleste · 25 days ago
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The Man that Was, and the Woman she Always Was
Dear Abby:
I have made a habit out of picking flowers. 
Crimson, the kind of red that catches your eye from across the meadow; the kind that bleeds into the landscape surrounding it, yet always manages to stand out; the kind of red that etches itself into the corner of your eye, and rarely fades from memory unless you’re not actively staring or picturing it in a deep corner of your mind. An impossibility you try to pursue regardless.
Pink, with a softness reminiscent of a childhood memory. Bathed in innocence, overflowing with nostalgia. It breathes life and blends with the sunlight, in a lovely shade that is as subdued as it is breathtaking. It moves with the colors of the wind, and kisses your skin the way a butterfly would, if only the bastard wasn’t so hellbent on fleet, fleet, fluttering away, as soon as you even consider the possibility of reaching out to touch it.
Purple so intense it borders on obscene. So alluring and mystifying, you’d swear it’s an unknown shade of neon, yet to be exploited, used to the point of exhaustion. Not quite lilac, not quite violet. Because of course it isn’t. It revels in the incongruency. It mocks, curses and tears apart, in a way that makes you doubt whether it’s an outside-inside job, or the other way around. It’s a seductive force of nature you can’t help but stop and stare at, regardless of the hurricane moving in the background; the monsoon taking shape, wrecking every living thing in its path.
Beautiful things have a way of behaving in such a disinterested, chaotic, untameable way. They dance with elegance that rivals a ballet dancer, dissociating from reality, losing themself in what feels like a small eternity. A blissful pause in the relentless and smug fabric of time and reality.
What do you do when you come across that same beauty in human form? How do you behave? Is it sensible to try? 
Or is it more appropriate to let yourself go?
To go with the flow, and indulge yourself in the swift,  wondrous and destructive gravity that, in the blink of an eye, takes your breath away, with the same ease as one breathes. 
Is desire personified even aware of the havoc and ecstasy it incites? If it was, would it care? Or would that only enable it further?
Beauty is a magical thing, in this indifferent, chaotic and unraveling world. It seeps in through the cracks, and breathes life into an otherwise monotonous, uninspired canvas. It swims across an ocean of mischief and deception, waist-deep in the waters of desire and reverence it pretends not to be. It often feels like a freight-train; a bull chasing its target through the streets, heading downhill, inching closer and closer to the bullseye. A brute object at top speed, uncaring and stubborn as a mule. Not a care in the world. Not a single reason to.
I wish you soon cross paths with the kind of beauty and confidence that I hope looks back at you, every morning when you wake, and gaze at your reflection in the mirror. 
It takes courage to set yourself free of the chains, and see yourself for who you are. It takes an eternity. Or at the very least, it feels like it. It often borders on torture. It breaks your heart, and just when you think you can’t take any more, it takes pause, only to double back and hammer you down harder in what feels like a second later.
When you find a particularly beautiful flower, you have a multitude of options at your disposal:
You can pluck it, break its lifeline, take it into your home. You can water it, try to prolong its lifespan. Truth is, its days are numbered the instant you cut the cord. Not out of cruelty, but perhaps a short-sighted decision you can’t back out of.
You can bear witness, and admire its glow and allure from a distance. Cautious. With fear creeping up your back if you so much as consider to come near it. You become a masochist, wishing you could be near it, longing itching and crawling up and down your spine in a never-ending game of self-induced sadism. 
Or, you can write it a song. A poem. Try to capture a fraction of its beauty in a blank page, hoping to do it justice with something as mundane as graphite, knowing too damn well that you’re running a fool’s errand. When the alleged masterpiece is done, you can only distance yourself from it so much. No matter how much you punctuate, tweak or make the metaphor less awkward, there’s always a sense of restraint. A feeling of inadequacy and unfairness that you can never quite scratch. A feeling that you don’t have enough words, space or talent to capture its magnitude and scale. No way to immortalize the way in which it transfixes, freezes in place, and makes the rules of time and logic to suddenly grow irrelevant and nonsensical, even more than they usually are.
Chances of you reading this are slim. Chances of you finding beauty, comfort or a mere shade of intrigue in its origin and purpose even less so. I can only hope it brings a smile to your lips. A fluttering, warm and cozy sensation in your chest. A fleeting hope that, regardless of what the world may think, or how unfair and uncaring it may be, you’ll always be able to look back to this. This messy, bold and sincere attempt at bringing joy into your life. This genuine gesture, seeking to brighten up your day, and bringing the kind of happiness that you brought into mine when I witnessed you become the woman you were always meant to be. The breathtaking, soft-spoken lady with an accent that turns the roughest of edges and the most hardened hearts down to their knees. 
We’re all fumbling in the dark, struggling to make sense of it all, hoping to have a legacy, miserably failing at remaining unscathed in what often feels like a bloodbath. 
But every once in a bloody blue moon, you find something to make the struggle worth enduring. Something that keeps the pain and heartache at bay. A flower. A shade of color you didn’t know existed. A woman you can’t help but be transfixed by, her inner and outer beauty suddenly making all your troubles fade, the same way morning dew and promises do.
I hope you find the same joy and beauty that you’ve brought into this world, by the simple fact of being in it. You deserve that, and so much more. 
Godspeed, and keep shining on.
Owen.
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wild-desert-highway · a month ago
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Posting this here instead of on my art blog since it’s a more relevant topic, but for context a bunch of people have been taking some art I made about Mary mother of Jesus and saying how I commented on her character being a immigrant WOC and a single mother is (racist, fake woke, not relevant to her story, valuing politics over religion, making everything about race/politics, just using progressive religion for clout, irrelevant since there’s no evidence she was a WOC, insert whatever other ‘gotcha’ here) 
So people seem to think my Mary art was solely about her race and concluded that I value political wokeness over faith. Which interestingly is not the point I was trying to make at all. My PERSONAL observation, growing up in a Protestant Christian setting that is completely conflated with conservative American nationalism, is that Christians with conservative values tend to demonize people in modern day with the same traits and experiences that many important Biblical figures had (including being immigrants, POCs, women, single mothers, etc.). Very importantly, they do this because of political values, not religious ones. This leads to an inaccurate reframing of Biblical stories that are more palatable to conservative beliefs, sometimes regarding race, and sometimes other things. This is purely my personal experience with the churches I went to and Christians I have interacted with. If that’s not your personal experience, very cool! However I was making an observation based on my experiences and not yours.
 Additionally, I believe that politics and religion are inherently connected and acting like they’re not is itself a political statement. It’s not a matter of political wokeness, it’s a matter of personal ethics. I am trying to disconnect my personal ethical values from the conservative American ones I was raised on, and that involves recognizing the parallels between Biblical figures I was taught to honor and people in modern day I was taught to look down on (again, including immigrants, POCs, women, single mothers, etc.). In my experience, American Christians characterize these people as having personal moral failures instead of being victims of an individualist society that failed to protect them. The fact that Mary, one of the most important characters in the New Testament, was all of these things, leads more often to having those traits stripped away from her character instead of using them to relate to a modern context and motivate Christians to have empathy toward the minority groups we are called to care for. Especially since she is a woman, she is often molded to fit the ‘ideal Christian woman’ model that involves a bunch of purity culture/submitting to men and misogyny (IN! MY! PERSONAL! EXPERIENCE!). But since yall wanted to clown on my post, not only do I not revoke everything I said originally, I’m gonna add to it and say Mary was autistic too. Simply because I’m autistic and it might make you mad. Enjoy.
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clownsnake · a month ago
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youtubers who give art advice are so obnoxious lmao they’ll be like “can you take REAL constructive criticism??” & then spend 20 minutes just insulting someone’s artwork with no intention of helping them improve, & not even critically engaging with the good parts of their work. 
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