#co vents

[sncwbaz]

so, watched ep 1 of the atla live action and uhm, imagine not wanting one of your main characters to depict sexism because you believe it doesn’t read well in Current Times, so instead you double down on the character’s obsession towards leadership in order to give him that extra edge. but in order to make that work u have to make his sister quietly obedient instead of an outspoken leading presence that has the potential to overshadow him. because silencing a female character in order to write out a male character’s story arc of unlearning sexism is obviously a better and less sexist outcome.

#also the show made kyoshi say the opening of the show instead of katara cos apparently they’re obsessed with robbing katara of her voice #she’s literally just an entire different character and i cannot think of why except to make sokka look like a more prominent leader #which also goes entirely against sokka’s character trait of consistently feeling powerless #i don’t normally vent post about stuff like this but i’m just so baffled by this #atla #anna rambles #avatar the last airbender

[garoujo]

i’m not normally one to bring negative vibes onto my blog but i’ve gotten a sudden wave of unease being on here tbh so im considering drifting from here for a little bit once more. i’ve thought about creating a new blog but also wouldn’t want to waste the masterlist that i’ve worked hard to build for the people who enjoy my work + support me!

i’ve never had a super close circle of friends as such on here but i’m very grateful for the few friends i have made that continue to interact with me. i do really enjoy tumblr and i love creating, i’m grateful for the interaction i get and i know i’ve been on here a while but there always seems to be a sort of uneasiness that i feel stems from previous problems with other people on here.

it can feel a little silly from a blog like me feeling a little ‘outcasted’ and i don’t even know if i’d use that word, but i’ve just never been one that felt comfortable with the sort of underground, high school energy that i sometimes feel radiate around here. i guess i sometimes feel like i’m walking on egg shells to avoid sub posts / bad energy because i really only want to enjoy myself! but yeah, i’m gonna be less active for a few days atleast because i really need the rest anyway after my holiday + a few things on here have just sort of triggered my mental health.

but just know i love all of u, thank u for everything no matter what <3

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#ʚ・◞📎 — em entry. #cw vent #i’m gonna tag this cos ew it feels so gross to even post this like i don’t want sympathy i’m just spiralling i fear #idk sometimes i just get the random urge everyone is talking about me + normally i wouldn’t care …. #but if it hits at a bad moment w my anxiety / bpd it just sends me off the deep end sob

[bisexualseraphim]

Just saw some Free Palestine supporters on the road to my parents’ house and was about to wave at them but then I saw a couple of them holding signs making disgusting antisemitic jokes about Passover. Guys seriously how fucking difficult is it to just. Not do that 😭 You’re really not giving Palestine extra help by making horrible comments and jokes about Jews ffs can you not just promote support for Palestine without bringing hatred for entire minority demographics into it DURING THE TIME OF A RELIGIOUS HOLIDAY. It is remarkably easy to criticise Israel without antisemitism and if you can’t do that then maybe you should stay out of the movement because you’re causing much more harm than good

#It was in such a small town as well where I doubt anyone has ever even met a Jewish person #Like in the city I’d expect some of that cos there’s more people but a tiny Northern town? That’s scary #Makes me so sad when bigots highjack what should be a compassionate movement #I know it must be so scary to be Jewish or Muslim right now and it stresses me out just thinking about it #Like it’s scary being Jewish or Muslim any day of the year but especially with everything going on lately #I’m sad. People make me sad #When will the hatred and violence ever stop fr #Ugh my day’s ruined now someone send me something funny pls #personal #vent #rant #antisemitism #free palestine #free gaza #i/p #protest

[smol-being-of-light]

i’m incredibly angry every time a show gets cancelled always for the same reasons that the numbers weren’t satisfying enough

greed is taking over creativity and passion

it’s already enough to make me sad about the world we live in

also i already feel powerless when it comes to every disaster happening everywhere because i think that i’m too small and i can’t change things

but with fandoms i see the dedication of every single person and how amazing the group effort is

yet it’s still not enough

so i feel powerless depressed and overall beaten by this hellish system they created because of greed im just really devastated over this more than the show honestly at this point

#vent post #sorry it’s not very positive i’m angry and pessimistic #shadow and bone #lockwood and co

[incorrect-soc]

K so this isn't related to SoC (not entirely) but N*tfl*x canceled Lockwood and Co. bc apparently it didn't hit the target of views as to get renewed, which is bullshit since it was n1 on A LOT of countries. So, in light of literally every show that's not abt horny teenagers with pick-me problems, getting canceled after one season, regardless of how they do in the charts; I don't wanna be nihilistic but there's a high probability of, not only Shadow and Bone being canceled, but also of not getting the Six of Crows spin-off, and it's fucking depressing

#venting bc i'm upset and don't know how to deal with emotions #lockwood and co #anthony lockwood #lucy carlyle #george karim #six of crows #shadow and bone #soc #the crows #crow club #sab #kaz brekker #inej ghafa #jesper fahey #wylan van eck #nina zenik #matthias helvar #six of crows spin off

[cats-artbag]

#submas #pokemon #warden ingo #self insert #vent #myart #somehow did this after a 'bathe-the-cat' day #prob just cos i didnt wanna forget it #roughed it out more on stream and this was the result #my heart was dying from it the whole time i was animating sfgsdgddhd #who knows if i'll ever polish n color it completely #never happens #nobori #pokemon legends arceus

[trashasaurusrex]

I had been weirded out by the way DogBlud has talked about our ADHD with us, but like..god, man.

Why would you tell someone "I need to act as your brain, otherwise you'll forget things"? Specifically because of their ADHD? I never signed up for that.

She got mad when we couldn't make it to work days days during the holidays. During Christmas. On Christmas. During Birthdays. I had hoped it was distress from a changed schedule, but, even she acknowledged that the holidays would be a huge off time...so...mm...

"I don't trust you to do certain things because of your ADHD." I...

"Our ADHD is gonna ruin everything." Wh...

I look back now and see an example of how to Not talk to people. Anyone. At best, she was trying to accommodate for everybody's needs by putting our disabilities into the conversation and raising concerns. But. Only verbally. The moment someone missed a deadline, we'd receive angry DMs. Even though we had all agreed at the start to test out schedules and not follow hard ones just yet. That it would ve at least taken 6 months to a year before we'd see traction on our site.

Im treating this like a workplace. I'm saying what I did and didn't like. The personal stuff I don't have anything for just yet other than my word and my feelings.

#dogblud #vent #im #why would you expect your co workers to happily work on the holidays if all four of you can decide on scheduling together???

[avaetin]

I'm checking this account's bookmarks on AO3. And holy-

You labeled one of the greatest Percico fanfic of all times as "meh. it's ok."???

Respectfully, I refuse to accept your 'judgement'.

#and you can see that there's a total bias between this account's no. 1 and no. 2 ships #to the point where it's almost as if they hate the no. 2 but still claims to support it #i can't get over this bookmark. “it's ok”. what do you mean it's ok?????? i still read this every now and then #am not dropping the fic name cos i don't wanna shame the account #just venting cos holy fudge i can't unsee that bookmark #dear readers we writers check bookmarks fyi haha

[dervampireprince]

If you're a UK citizen, please sign. (You cannot sign unless you are a UK citizen). We shouldn't be punished for falling in love with someone from another country. And certainly shouldn't have to earn above the average UK wage.

[ID: Text that reads: Don’t increase the income requirement for family visas to £38,700. Currently the financial requirements to bring your spouse to the UK is £18,600 per year and now the Government wants to more than double it. Most people in the UK don’t make that per year. We believe this policy punishes those who fall in love with someone with a different nationality. 59,809 signatures out of 100,000.]

Link to petition: https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/652602

#not my usual sort of post but as someone whos partner lives in another country... #i dont like the idea of us losing our future if i can't earn above the uk average wage #and even if this didnt apply to me it isnt fair on anyone else #theyre bullshitting that this is somehow gonna help the nhs? i guess cos they think they'll be less patients? #jokes on them when they find out a lot of nhs doctors and nurses and workers moved here from- #-other countries so if this goes through they'll be less patients but also less staff so nothing would change anyway #the government just want any excuse to stop letting people into the uk because they're always scapegoating and demonising immigrants #the vampire vents

[jammyjams1910]

Having the same birthday as another (and more popular) student isn't rly the best..

Also, other that one teacher, nobody at school remembered it was my birthday, not even my friends, not until I reminded them, which was.. quite saddening,

But when I learnt that that one teacher actually remembered I sOBBed in front of him-

Shout out to Mr G ✨

Also this is the teddy bear mentioned

(Age reveal ig?)

#well at least my family remembers cos.. yk- sooo- #yaaay it's Jammy’s birthday #tiny vent #jammyjams spills the tea #jammyjams talks #ttte jamie💛 #< but irl #gacha neon #my video #my edit

[lokh]

LISTEN listen shuro wants to be more genuine and open and needs to learn to not be a pushover. literally Who better to practice with than laios like Literally

#LIKE WHATS HE GONNA DO??? GET U IN TROUBLE COS U SAID SOMETHING SLIGHTLY WRONG #i understand that this becomes. complicated. a bit by the end of the manga cos of status #but like. cmonnn #OUGHHHH UGHGOGH OK WAIT LIKE. their fight was already an example of this #but sets a bad precedent becos now it seems like the only time shuro is really sincere is when getting angry #so maybe at the start its like that but someone (kabru??) catching on to this and like #idk helping him along like u could try being more open about other things like #concern (he has many) or annoyance or affection #and actually venting annoyance from the beginning probably stops it from escalating into actual anger later... #anyways. yep sjbffjjcjv

[dougielombax]

Never watched this show but I’m noticing a pattern here.

I knew Netflix were fucking DUMB but this is insane.

Inside Job, Dead End, 1899, Warrior Nun, now this, they cancel everything as soon as it’s getting started.

Why even bother.

It’s a disgraceful practice borne out of an endless and immediate desire for more fucking money,

For fuckness’ sake!

Feel free to reblog this.

#personal stuff #dougie rambles #lockwood and co #netflix #fuck netflix #anti netflix #inside job #dead end paranormal park #I’m still furious about Inside Job being cancelled. #fuck #vent post #reblog this

[mrskokushibo]

Just need to say how grateful I am to my Tumblr community 🙏💜. Love you guys so much. It's my only safe place rn.

I can't vent on Facebook or Instagram bc my awful in-law family is watching like hawks. I'm still stuck in a shit situation, but every time I go on, Tumblr, I feel a little less shit.

#sorry for venting #i will take this down probably cos it's too sad #lysm #love my moots #depressing shit

[panb1mbo]

i'm halfway done with my program + i'm finally on break i would sound excited but i don't fucking want to

#i am tired i am stressed i am sick of academia #i do not feel cash money abt this at all #maybe i should feel happier abt this achievement but tbh i just want like a massive amount of weed and maybe to cry #where is the sign up sheet to become a basement pet cos like i'm outtie i'm outtie 5000 #do i tag this as a vent post a school thing or a picture of me??? ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh #ok 2 rblg

[artificial-horizon]

Being visibly mixed race/racially ambiguous and visibly trans/GNC is being inherently confusing and unreadable to white cis people. Like, they can tell you're sure as hell not a white man or woman but they can't decipher you beyond that; they don't know how what to do with you because they can't put you in any category.

You are both masculine and feminine, but not enough of either to fulfil the white criteria for manhood or womanhood, and regardless, brown people are gendered differently to white people anyway. You could tick off almost all the criteria for "male" features (such as, and notably, body hair) and still be read as a cis woman, because the level of masculinity white people accept in brown (perceived) women is higher than what they accept in white (perceived) women, because brownness itself is masculine to them. (Though it can be feminine and androgynous at the same time, too. Again, POC are gendered differently than white people.)

They have these set ideas of how they're meant to relate to people, set ways that they treat, let's say, white women, Black men, East Asian women, Middle Eastern men - but they can't even tell what you are, so how are they meant to treat you? How are they meant to relate to you?

I don't doubt at all that this is why I've always been ignored in public, even before transitioning; never treated as a fellow person to connect with, but an anomaly that happens to occupy the same spaces. I scare them by defying categorization, so it's better not to engage and risk upsetting their preconceived notions of gender and race. Alternatively, they will just be bigots instead, though I can tell that's hard for them too as they aren't quite sure what specific flavour of bigotry to throw at me.

[cw for following paragraph: non-graphic description of an incident of racist and transphobic harassment]

I always think back to this one time, having recently come out, when I was harassed by a white man on the bus. Seeing me in all my gender ambiguity and reading me as Black, he expressed his disgust at us Black people, at how "you can never fucking tell whether they're girls or boys". Honestly, in all my interactions with white cis people from then on, I never stopped feeling the echoes of his words.

#im venting so apologies if this is worded badly and/or some of it isnt good analysis #i have many thoughts but i'm really struggling to put them into words #also @ the last paragraph i am a mixed black person hence saying us jic that needed to be said #me writing things #racism #transphobia #mixed race #biracial #multiracial #brown and trans #trans poc #idk any tags that are about the intersection of gender and race or transness and race #also is there a term for that type of oppression anyway? #like if not there definitely should be cos POC are oppressed along gender lines in white supremacist society #and its not necessarily transphobia or homophobia or misogyny #its specifically the oppression that comes from not meeting gender standards because they are inherently based on whiteness

[luvaaheee]

"it feels fake"

#my art #vent art #uhh vent art yknow!!!! #something something feeling the pain isnt true enough to be taken seriously despite outside forces saying otherwise but inside it doesnt co #connet mentally so youre stuck in a limbo of wanting support but never actively looking for it something