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hellyeahsickaf · 4 months
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I found an extremely dope disability survival guide for those who are homebound, bedbound, in need of disability accommodations, or would otherwise like resources for how to manage your life as a disabled person. (Link is safe)
It has some great articles and resources and while written by people with ME/CFS, it keeps all disabilities in mind. A lot of it is specific to the USA but even if you're from somewhere else, there are many guides that can still help you. Some really good ones are:
How to live a great disabled life- A guide full of resources to make your life easier and probably the best place to start (including links to some of the below resources). Everything from applying for good quality affordable housing to getting free transportation, affordable medication, how to get enough food stamps, how to get a free phone that doesn't suck, how to find housemates and caregivers, how to be homebound, support groups and Facebook pages (including for specific illnesses), how to help with social change from home, and so many more.
Turning a "no" into a "yes"- A guide on what to say when denied for disability aid/accommodations of many types, particularly over the phone. "Never take no for an answer over the phone. If you have not been turned down in writing, you have not been turned down. Period."
How to be poor in America- A very expansive and helpful guide including things from a directory to find your nearest food bank to resources for getting free home modifications, how to get cheap or free eye and dental care, extremely cheap internet, and financial assistance with vet bills
How to be homebound- This is pretty helpful even if you're not homebound. It includes guides on how to save spoons, getting free and low cost transportation, disability resources in your area, home meals, how to have fun/keep busy while in bed, and a severe bedbound activity master list which includes a link to an audio version of the list on Soundcloud
Master List of Disability Accommodation Letters For Housing- Guides on how to request accommodations and housing as well as your rights, laws, and prewritten sample letters to help you get whatever you need. Includes information on how to request additional bedrooms, stop evictions, request meetings via phone, mail, and email if you can't in person, what you can do if a request is denied, and many other helpful guides
Special Laws to Help Domestic Violence Survivors (Vouchers & Low Income Housing)- Protections, laws, and housing rights for survivors of DV (any gender), and how to get support and protection under the VAWA laws to help you and/or loved ones receive housing and assistance
Dealing With Debt & Disability- Information to assist with debt including student loans, medical debt, how to deal with debt collectors as well as an article with a step by step guide that helped the author cut her overwhelming medical bills by 80%!
There are so many more articles, guides, and tools here that have helped a lot of people. And there are a lot of rights, resources, and protections that people don't know they have and guides that can help you manage your life as a disabled person regardless of income, energy levels, and other factors.
Please boost!
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chronicallycouchbound · 8 months
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I’m allowed to be lazy. Disabled or not. Laziness isn’t an inherently bad thing y’all just too caught up in hyper capitalist hustle culture to care. I don’t owe you productivity. I’m allowed to rest.
My rest is radical.
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johnnyiscaged · 1 month
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ily disabled people
ily disabled people who are dependent on aids
ily disabled people who are too scared to use aids
ily disabled people who have been bullied out of using aids
ily disabled people who feel like they don't need many aids or any at all
ily loud disabled people
ily quiet & mute disabled people
ily disabled people who "make being disabled your entire personality"
ily disabled people who are punk, goth, emo, scene, grunge, metal, vkei, decora and any "wierd" fashion style (especially if you decorate your aids to match you're the coolest)
ily creative disabled people
ily disabled activists
ily disabled people who need a helper
ily disabled people who want to be independent but can't be
ily disabled people who love your independent
ily disabled people who wish they could have a helper
ily disabled people who feel like you're not disabled enough to be valid
ily older disabled people who help younger disabled people
ily young disabled people who help older disabled people
ily overweight disabled people
ily underweight disabled people
ily disabled people trying to lose weight for health
ily disabled people trying to gain weight for health
ily disabled people with invisible disabilities
ily stigmatized disabled people
ily disabled people who don't feel like they fit into any of these phrases
ily disabled people !!
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Lazy: I should clean that thing but I’d rather sit here & let someone else do it.
Executive dysfunction: I have to clean that thing but I can’t get up. I like cleaning, I want to clean that thing I left out��� Get up. Get up. Just get tf up. It’s not that hard. Why am I stuck like this. Stop scrolling. Clean the fkn thing. Just get up and clean the fkn thing. Why can’t I just get up and clean it. Why am I like this. Am I just telling myself I have executive dysfunction? What if I’m really just lazy? Oh great someone else is already cleaning the thing. I ruined it. I failed. Idk why I exist. I can’t do anything right.
The person who cleaned the thing: “why can’t you just clean up your messes? You’re so lazy.”
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Lazy = willfully won’t do it
Executive dysfunction = unwillingly can’t do it
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ironwoodcollective · 9 months
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🌳 For any spoonies for whom trauma and/or abuse are a contributing factor in your physical disability or physical chronic illness, we see you and we love you.
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introvertedx10 · 8 months
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byler-alarmist · 1 month
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CHRONIC FATIGUE GANG RISE UP LIE DOWN
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autisticdreamdrop · 2 years
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constantly fatigued autistics.. we see you
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hellyeahsickaf · 2 months
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When I say "I can't do that" what I'm not saying is:
I don't feel interested in doing that
I don't care enough to
I'm too good to be doing that
I don't think you deserve that of me
I'm not in the mood to do that
Not now, I'll do it later
Maybe
If that's what I meant, that's what I would say
What I am saying is:
It will negatively affect me in ways I can't afford
I simply can't physically fucking do that
I can't risk the potentially severe consequences I may experience if I overestimate my ability to do that
And if I explain that I am unable to do that, it is not an invitation to:
Tell me how much my disability hurts your feelings
Ask if I'm sure
Interrogate me because you believe yourself to be the judge of how unwell is unwell enough
Put words in my mouth ("why don't you care?")
Tell me how easy it would be
Remind me of how many other things I've been unable to do. I keep the score more than you do
Accuse me of exaggerating or faking to avoid doing it
Ask me again shortly
Make assumptions about additional explanations. (I must be mad at you, I must not care about this)
Offer compensation in return ("I can pay you" "we can do something you want to do after" "I'll get you something you like")
Ask what it would take for me to suddenly be capable of doing it
Tell me how you do things you have to do when when you're tired and then you can just rest and recover. I am not like you
Remind me of a time I was able to do that. Either I had more spoons or was less severely disabled if at all.
Say that if I was well enough to do X today, I should be able to do this as well. Energy doesn't work that way. Are you capable of running 8 miles right this minute just because you were okay to work a 10 hour shift today? That's what I thought
Suggest simply doing it a certain way ("take your time", "do it sitting down", "we can stop and take breaks", "just take your painkillers", etc)
But it is an invitation to:
Leave me the fuck alone about it 💕
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cryptskeep · 17 days
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anyone with cfs?
I'm assuming this means chronic fatiuge syndrome and boy do I have IDEAS!!!!
Okay so I was originally going to do Bdubs but I realized Xisuma gives off the same vibes as my friend with CFS
so here we go!!
Xisuma
General Lore:
drawing from some of my favorite aus where Xisuma is a very exasperated manager/owner of a store (my favorite it coffee shops) but personally I think he would absolutley own a craftstore
is Cleo's fabric supplier
thinks his employees are hilarious but is trying so hard to be the Big Boss Manager Man and serious (he is failing)
loves doing table flower arrangments with fake flowers (it's his guilty pleasure)
actually used to work in a flower shop
loves cosplay and spends so much of his money on building cosplays
CFS Lore:
mans big sleepy
constant headaches or brain fog, no in between
he has sticky notes EVERYWHERE that remind him of things that he doesn't want to forget
uses a wheelchair and decorates it for every cosplay he does
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johnnyiscaged · 1 month
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when you just layed down in a position that makes the pain more bearable but have to use the toilet and now you have to decide what to do. fatigue and chronic pain are just so damn exhausting i wish i could just take a shit
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monachopsis-11 · 1 month
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One of the hardest things for me about being disabled that I don’t see many people talking about is the guilt of not being able to do the kind of activism I want to do. I try to educate myself as much as possible when I have the focus/energy to read up on things but no matter how much I learn and how many petitions I sign and how many creators I try to support it feels so small.
I want to do so much more for the causes I care about, I don’t want to be complicit in the things going on in the world when I see calls to action by people who need help, to be at protests and events lifting up peoples voices who need it as best I can. I have so much admiration for the people who stick out unbearable circumstances without any choice or those who choose to show up for months until change happens but I don’t know how to do that.
I feel guilty for not helping as much as I want to and not being able to donate either. It feels like I’m at the same level as the people who say things are awful and then ignore it and turn away and do nothing.
But I am fatigued, overstimulated, in pain, and barely able to keep up with my life. My job, self care, chores etc. are already too much to handle to the point where my therapist has even told me it would be a bad idea to try to volunteer because I just don’t have the energy.
There’s only so much I can sacrifice without destroying myself in the process but I feel like I owe it to the people who are being hurt to suffer with them, I’m not better than them, what excuse do I have to protect myself when they don’t have that ability themselves? What excuse do I have not to help?
I don’t know what the point of this post really is, just that it’s hard and if anyone else experiences this I’m sorry.
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idolkisses · 7 months
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A flower blooms from above...
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ME / Chronic Fatigue Syndrome flags!
i wanted to make these since i rarely see posts about my condition and id like to be able to have a flag attached to it like my other conditions!! free to use without credit, but just my handle somewhere is appreciated..
need IDs, tagging @accessmogai for them ^^
please do not retag gender tags, theyre just for reach!
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thanakite · 7 months
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Scientists are currently working on a blood test for Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and the early results are apparently showing a 91% accuracy rate!
Now to be fair this is still early days and the testing done in question had 61 people with ME/CFS, 16 healthy controls, and 21 people with MS (as MS and ME/CFS apparently have enough in common that being able to tell between the 2 in a blood test is big/important) which overall isn't a great sample size and likely could benefit from having equal numbers of each and of course will have to be able to repeat the result consistently
But this is a good and important step in the right direction for many
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chronicallycouchbound · 8 months
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I am sick and tired. There is no “of” just sickness and tiredness.
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hihi <3 can I request some headcanons for mountain with a s/o (gn) who is just,, chronically fatigued because I am,, going through it rn :(
exhausted but can never sleep, joint problems, forgetfulness, clumsy
all those kinds of things if you don't mind <33 have a great day !!
𝘔𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘹 𝘤𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘧𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘨𝘶𝘦𝘥! 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘦𝘳 hc
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pairings: mountain ghoul x gn! reader
warnings: descriptions of pain (from joint problems), frustration
authors note: hello! i tried to do a little research on chronic fatigue before i wrote this! if it’s inaccurate i apologize. this is also my first time writing for a ghoul! and i don’t know a bunch about mountain so i really tried! anyways, enjoy!! take care of yourself!
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• Ok so i think mainly his way of taking care of you is just doing things completely unexpectedly and really without much of an explanation.
• like think about it-
• you’re laying on the couch one day, heating pad on the joints that hurt the most
• AND BOOM
• mountain appears out of nowhere with a steamy warm cup of herbal tea
• and yes, he did research on how the certain herbs would help, what their health benefits were, and if they were of help to people with chronic fatigue
• or one day, you’re around doing chores, but you’re dropping things and your muscles feel so sore
• THEN ONCE AGAIN BOOM
• Mountain is there, giving you muscle exercises to try to help, and offering a massage
• if you’re having a day where it’s really bad, and it’s hard to get out of bed, he will…
• BOOM
• you guessed it!
• he’ll show up with a care package. it’s filled with loose and comfy clothing, a large water bottle, a weighted blanket (if it helps), an ice pack, and a extra heating bad
• then some of his own clothes
• ALSO if you have muscle pain that lessens when you put warmth on it (like heating pads), cuddling with him would help a lot
• in my opinion, ghouls would be SUPER warm, like furnaces. huge furnaces.
• so if you cuddle with him, it might help.
• if you have really bad muscle pain that can get so bad it causes mobility issues, he’ll try to get you a shower chair, and he’ll gently wash your hair for you, or help you in any way
• he’ll make sure you’re getting plenty of rest
• if you can’t sleep, he’ll stay with you. he’ll help you with tasks if you didn’t feel up to doing them
• if you’re feeling really down about things, he’ll remind you that it’s ok to be clumsy, and that you’re not being lazy. he’s proud of you, and wants you to be as comfortable as possible.
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authors note: hello! i’m so sorry if i portrayed chronic fatigue incorrectly in any way! i do not know very much about it, but i did try, and did research. if i was incorrect or used any stereotypes i deeply apologize and would like correction! thank you!! take care of yourselves!
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