#childless mother

[mywickedtruth]

A woman sits at an oversized flowerbed,

with its oversized weeds,

pulling them out,

one at a time, by hand.

She is alone.

The earth is hard and dry

and can only grow weeds,

which are strong and tough.

They flourish in this neglected bed.

There once were flowers here, she remembers,

but destruction,

in the shape of hope,

has laid those past flowers to shreds.

She digs, looking for a soft cool spot in the dirt to lie down upon;

to cool her from the hot summer sun.

The bed, once rich with beauty,

now lays full of sorrow. And weeds.

#personal #so very very personal #childless mother #mine #July 19 2004

[fizzytoo]

coffee with some new and familiar faces! jade introduces her husband, jones, and mckenzie shows off some photos of her baby!

#ts4 #ts4 gameplay #sims 4 gameplay #postcard legacy challenge #jones and mckenzie's baby brought to you by mccc <3 #mckenzie's a single mother idk who the baby father is #jones and jade are childless and i think they prefer it that way #postcard: gen3 #sim: adrien herrera #sim: rua kamealoha #*jade #*mckenzie #i haven’t edited their tags yet

[intairnwetrust]

As someone who was raised by a single mother, I find people who hate on Feyre for becoming a mother or saying she is less badass truly insufferable.

To be a good and loving mother is the most badass shit you could ever be.

#Not judging people who are childless by choice but feyre wanted to be a mother so let her #acotar #feyre archeron #pro feyre archeron

[swear2g-d]

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#oversharing on the internet again hello #miserable because today my therapist decided to ask if i ever wanted kids and like. the answer is yes but i'm so terrified #of becoming my mother that i would never in a million years actually do it #i love kids i want them but if i'm anything like my mom... i couldn't do that. #and her response was the standard 'well if you're self aware enough to know your fears then you can work past them blah blah blah' but like #i would never chance that?? if my kids had my childhood 2.0 i would never forgive myself #i know she's right it's probably something to work past but i've already resigned myself to a childless life #& i have a sneaking suspicion that i'm infertile anyway so it doesn't even matter #i'm only 24 it's not like this is a pressing issue #is it standard practice to ask people with parental issues where they stand on having kids #all of my therapists have asked

[wildflowercryptid]

YOUR POST ABOUT NATE'S RINGTONE REMINDED ME OF THIS EDIT I MADE..

Handshake emojis. Our Nates call our Cherens their moms. <3

NO BECAUSE THAT EDIT IS THE EXACT REASON WHY I STARTED TO ACCOCIATE THAT SONG W/ CHEREN. 😭

but yes, nate ( and the rest of the asperita trio ) just forceably adopt cheren as a parental figure. they imprint on him like a bunch of baby chicks. in return, they keep him updated on the lastest memes so he's not totally lost when his students reference them in class.

#to them cheren is simultaneously a big brother an uncle and a mother #i also imagine when hilbert is back in the picture and starts dating cheren he's in on the bit too #the trio ask hilbert if he'll take them to mcdonald's and he just goes '' go ask your mother '' so they run off to find cheren #hilda and bianca are their childless double income gay aunts in this scenario as well #all of the bw kids are so fun to talk about ngl #they're very silly goofy despite all the horrors #pokemon #pkmn bw2 #antihibikase #asks #mj.txt

[aquatic-batt]

thinking about Wolfface (she/her) and Gingerstar (she/her)’s relationship teehee

#local childless mother takes in lonely child #…only for that child to push a false prophecy about eradicating one of the Clans #they’re sad :( I wanna give them a happy ending though I want them to be happy as a family #Christmas kids by roar is so them coded #Wolfstar #Wolfface #Gingersnap #Gingerstar #warriors #ocs #casting shadows #Jutlin’s characters #wing prints

[cherishsims]

Sydney, Leigh and Kimberly. Triplet siblings who grew up close but then Sydney exposed herself as a selfish narcissist lol

#they used to be quads in the old legacy but hunter just doesn't exist now lol #patrick does and he's his own entity who exists just for jokes #in the legacy kimberly was the mother to sam and melody etc but in the storyverse it's now sydney #bc kimberly deserved to be the cool childless wine aunt #sydney griffin #leigh griffin #kimberly griffin #ts4 #griffinverse

[demonaria]

i wish i could send this directly to the "girl with a list" on tiktok bc i find it so fucking depressing— maybe its just bc i am someone who doesn't intend to have kids ever but...

recently a coworker announced she's pregnant. everyone was ecstatic for her and we all congratulated her profusely, asked her how far along, if she knew boy or girl, if they decided on names.

idk, i thought it'd be the end of that you know? she's pregnant and it's one more thing about her right now and in a few months having a child will be what this state translates into, but it's just that: one more thing about her we get to learn. she still has her likes and dislikes, her hobbies and struggles, her thoughts, and life.

i must have thought wrong. instead of greeting her by her name, the current inside joke in the office is to greet her by the name she's chosen for her babyboy— a beautiful name, but its not hers. all she ever gets asked about is morning sickness and how her belly is doing: "is the kid letting you eat alright?" and while, yes I understand that is probably what's keeping her the most preoccupied atm, it's like suddenly she's lost all identity to just become a mother-to-be. suddenly, she isn't a person, or a woman, but someone carrying a child, and the moment that child is born, she's gonna be a mother, and that's the role she's forever condemned to, like that is all she's ever going to be, like that is all a woman is supposed to want to achieve.

perhaps it doesn't bother her, and that's fine. it just makes me sad, because at the very least, i wish someone remembered she was a person before she became a mother.

#in no way do i mean that wanting to be a mother is wrong #i just mean that motherhood shouldn't make a woman less of a person in the eyes of society #idk we have this perception that mothers are supposed to give and give and give and their entire lives should revolve around their children #and i think its kind of fucked up #demonaria says #motherhood #girl with the list #childless

[mywickedtruth]

My empty womb echos with the unheard heartbeats of bead babies

#my sons would have been 19 now. #childless mother #Mother’s Day

[hotniatheron]

"no one is talking about antisemitism"

maybe if you logged off you would see that that's not true? idk just a thought

#like how deluded and racist do you have to be to see dead children and go I feel unsafe bc of them. #YEAH YOU SHOULD FEEL UNSAFE. FROM THE US GOVERNMENT WHO SANCTIONS IT. you know? where YOU LIVE? #NOT A MOTHER WHO IS NOW CHILDLESS!

[clinically-not-straight]

"Men did this, men did that"

Wrong...

Wrong. Some cunt did that because he's a massive dick. I was not involved.

#don't tell me I'm the one calling out women for being childless but also chatting shit on single mothers #cos im fucking not

[meadows-ribs]

tw: motherhood (?)

i am a mother

letters are my infants

words are my toddlers

and stories are my children

And i love my kids

as any mother should

stuffing ambition into a

lunchbox

and bringing pride

to the dinner table

a feast for our

egos

carefully braided with

our souls

pushing aside the days of

starvation

that lie ahead

And i hate my kids

as any mother could

late night without

rest or hope

bloodshot eyes in the reflections

as i carefully spoon soup

into weeping mouths

lashing out from beneath feverish

dreams

dreams of what i had long ago

when i was free from this

curse

my children are a

curse

that i created

and supplemented with my body

i should have weighed

the pros and

cons

but how do you weigh something so

small

and precious

and helpless

the desperation they cry

as they enter this world is

heavier

than any star and

louder

than any storm

and as they look up at me

with accusing eyes

i see

they are just like their mother

-i guess it’s genetic (young mother’s lullaby)

#original poem #personal poetry #poem #poetry #poets corner #writers and poets #writing #poets #my poem #original poetry #my poetry #poets on tumblr #poets of tumblr #poems and poetry #my writing #pls dont come for me for mistreating my children i am childless #mother #mother poetry #poet #poetsandwriters #motherhood #bad poetry

[jimkirkachu]

are there any 30-something single tos spirkers out here desperately wishing for a human fixer-upper to share their life / never ever ever have children with?

asking for a friend of course

#not trek #personal log #fatigue #exhaustion #wishful thinking #tomorrow will make 5 days of babysitting the niblings and i want to make it abundantly clear that i literally never signed up for this #children are so hard on ocd/germophobia #i love my niblings to death but holy mother of macaroni and cheese i have ZERO nurturing or caretaking impulses #they have so much energy and ask so many questions and make SO MUCH EYE CONTACT it freaks me out #stop looking at me stop visually perceiving me it's too much #and i probably only have a few good years left with them before they figure out what a fucking loser i am #so i feel like an absolute monster for not knowing how to cope with my stupid symptoms & just suck it up in favor of creating nice memories #but asdfghjkl my limits are so frustrating and i don't know how to push through them or let them go or whatever it is that normal people do #niblings #family drama #nd problems #and somehow having no one to snuggle with to recharge my stupid batteries makes everything feel so much harder #because the kids' parents have each other #both their sets of grandparents have each other #and i am literally the only single and/or childless person left in my entire family 👍 #never want children #but do want snuggle buddy or spouse or something idk? #but lest we forget i am #unloveable #forever alone #soul sick #heartsick #jtkchu's brain #jtkchu is toxic #stfu jtkchu

[izacore]

I don't know why Louis pretends that smoking is bad just because he's a singer. Like, dude, it's bad for your health, go check your lungs

Yeah, I wish he cut down on smoking a bit but it's because I always worry about them can't help it 😕

#ask #anonymous #also you gotta laugh because you have lottie going on and on #how she wants to be the healthiest she can be now that she is a mother #and don't want to risk it with anything to the point of her taking out her fillers #but father of the year is a rockstarrrrrr and doesn't take his 'son' into consideration :) #just another proof how he lives as if he was childless

[thecruellestmonth]

help your batfam drinks post reminded me of a rogues handwriting post i saw in the tags a while ago that had the exact same energy with the male rogues getting more thought out ones and then Catwoman's was like "MOM STYLE! she's such a maternal mommy friend to the male rogues lmao she's such a mother hen!"

Oh man. Not to put anyone on blast, but that sounds bad. 🤣🤣🤣

#Selina often has one kid with Bruce in future timelines #but she is not super motherly as a priority at all. #Poison Ivy is the one who classically identifies herself as a 'mother' but to her 'plant children' not actual kids. #I could see some male rogues being more enthusiastic about parenthood than Selina would be. #Not only does Selina fully enjoy her glamorous childless life but also #she has enough of a heart to have reservations about whether she could provide a proper environment for her beloved child.

[lightthewaybackhome]

I wish I could skip tomorrow. I wish I could make my Mom, extra Mom (MIL), and all the amazing moms I know feel extra, extra, extra amazing and give them a chance to see how valuable they are. I just wish I could do it while skipping the day. It is one day I wish I just could not exist. It's one day I wish I could crawl into a hollow tree and have it close around me, hiding me away. I don't want to share my pain because I don't want to ruin the day for anyone. I don't want to share my pain because I have been so blessed by a brilliant and loving Mom and extra Mom. I don't want to share it because it feels selfish. So, I want to just hide away, let the world celebrate, while I simply disappear for 24 hours.

Some years are better than others. I focus better on all the moms around me, but my own childlessness snuck up on me today, blindsided me. And I want to wear black and watch war movies and cry.

I will never be a mother.

#if wishes were horses #mother's day #motherhood #infertility #childless #empty arms #personal journal