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waterloggedsoliloquy · 8 months

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the C in Carousel Waltz stands for Childhoodemotionalneglect

#cecil drawls

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katimorton · 1 year

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#childhoodemotionalneglect can present in so many ways. We can pull people towards us or push them away. We can numb our emotions or explode. So often, how Childhood Emotional Neglect shows up on the outside is not always a good indicator of what it might feel like on the inside which can lead to feeling misunderstood and even more isolated. What would you add to this list? Share in the comments below! #mentalhealth — view on Instagram https://ift.tt/5dGKfYN

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gingerwarrior · 1 year

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Deep thoughts 💭

I wonder what it’s like to have parents who wanted you.

I wonder what it’s like to have parents who protected you.

I wonder what it’s like to have parents who didn’t fight over you like a dog with a bone then once they got the bone try to burry it.

I wonder what it’s like to grow up knowing you will have a parent who’s a real parent.

I wonder what it’s like to just be loved and be able to accept it without hesitation.

I wonder what it’s like to know what it feels like to grow up knowing you are safe & loved.

I wonder what it’s like to grow up and not be someone’s property.

I wonder what it’s like to go to a prom.

I wonder what it would have been like to go to school and not be bullied & mistreated.

I can go on for millions more but these are just some of the millions of things I’ve thought, wondered and hoped could’ve been different.

#mentalhealth #cptsd #ptsd #childhood #emotionalneglect #childhoodemotionalneglect #childhoodemotionalneglecttrauma #parentalabandonment #survivingabuse #survivingchildhoodtrauma #survivor #survival #neglect #rejection #trauma #traumahealing #traumarecovery #latchkey #latchkeykids #selfraised #selftaught #toxicrelationship #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #toxicparents #traumatic #traumaticchildhood #savedmyself #freedmyself

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elliot-wallace · 2 years

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The way you are treated emotionally by your parents determines how you will treat yourself as an adult. This has been proven over and over again in study after study.

Emotion is an undeniable part of your biology. If you ignore your emotions, you will feel ignored on some level, no matter how much care you give yourself in other ways.

Emotion is the substance of all relationships. If you are not attending to your emotions, you are by-passing a vital source of connection and joy.

Emotional Intelligence has been proven to be more valuable to success in life and work than general intelligence. It’s extremely vital that you know how to name, use and manage emotion, as well as how to deal with it in others.

People who received emotional validation from their parents in childhood are generally able to provide it automatically to their own children. People who didn't receive it enough themselves will likely struggle to provide it as parents. It is vital to recognize what you didn't get yourself so that you can make conscious effort to learn the missing skills, fill your own blind spots, and give your children what you didn't get.

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ex-depressed · 2 years

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#trauma #ptsd #cen

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pokingholes-cptsdwarrior · 4 years

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Asking for help is a big one for me. All of them actually. ✌❤ Reposted from @annecarly.mm List of things I can learn now as an adult if I want to❤️ . . . . . #childhood #childhoodstories #innerchildwork #myhealingjourney #vulnerability #childhoodemotionalneglect #childhoodtrauma #filipinoparents #writersofinstagram #artjournal #myart #lettertomyinnerchild #filipino #filipinocanadian #emotions #feelingera #feelings #emotionalsafety #trauma #emotionalneeds #mentalhealth #therapy https://www.instagram.com/p/CGdFnVcju5n/?igshid=1ejpc646ea47c

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littlebent-notbroken · 3 years

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I truly wish there were a magic phrase that would get abusers to stop abusing. Originally, I wanted to do a “script” or sorts—what to say back when someone says… The tricky part about confronting someone who’s gaslighting is that they’ll dig their heels in deeper, claim that’s not what’s happening, and turn it around on you. But don’t lose hope. In my experience, one of the most successful ways to deal with an emotional abuser isn’t to convince them you’re right or even to convince them of what they’re doing—but to learn to trust my gut and my memories. Once I learned to stand firm in my truth, in what I knew to be true, I wouldn’t allow myself to be pushed around anymore. Please, dear reader, I implore you to take all that energy you’re using to convince someone that x, y, or z happened to you…and channel it into compassionately standing in what you already know to be true, without the need for their validation. They will not give it to you if it means they “lose.” As the saying goes: you don’t need that kind of negativity in your life. Bye Felicia! #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #gaslightingisabuse #gaslighter #toxicparents #motherwound #reparenting #memory #mentalabuse #abuse #innerchild #consciousparenting #woundedchild #selfhealing #selflove #selfcompassion #childhoodemotionalneglect #adultchildrenofnarcissists #abusiveparents #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #gaslightingtips #selflove #selfcompassion https://www.instagram.com/p/CHgeffDjZD0/?igshid=1hpgsfr6eee4d

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ramyeonupdates · 4 years

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{ #vulnerability } || source: annecarly.mm

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nickedinger · 4 years

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“Running on Empty No More,” written and narrated by Jonice Webb #book #review #thepicturesaysitall #growth #personalgrowth #cen #childhoodemotionalneglect #emotionalneglect #audiobooks #selfhelp #books #bookstagram #bookstagram #bookstagrammer https://www.instagram.com/p/CFx_1G7B9eO/?igshid=1cnx3eqzo58c6

#book #review #thepicturesaysitall #growth #personalgrowth #cen #childhoodemotionalneglect #emotionalneglect #audiobooks #selfhelp #books #bookstagram #bookstagrammer

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risingphoenix87 · 5 years

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Reposted from @vbtnf #childabuse #emotionalabuse #emotionalneglect #cen #childhoodemotionalneglect #mentalhealth (at College Park, Maryland) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0lahqnhKdR/?igshid=zh69yj64xhoc

#childabuse #emotionalabuse #emotionalneglect #cen #childhoodemotionalneglect #mentalhealth

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complexptsdrecovery · 4 years

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Depression and exercise barely go hand in hand when it’s CPTSD recovery related. Me, trying to get out of bed early, it’s winter DownUnder with a freezing wind, just isn’t happening. SO I changed it up and went this afternoon. CPtsd means change in routine can be a challenge too. To get around this I set a time to leave for gym and almost stuck to it. You know what it’s like when a parcel arrives! @chloe_putra love sharing our parcels. 😊🥰 She’s overseas so we jumped on video chat and thanks to @boutiquemodesty_ i now have some new purple scarves! If Depression is giving you a hard time take some slow, deep breathes, look around and work out your one next step. If you’re feeling frozen or flooded the best thing to do is move your body. It helps get us focused to do our one next activity. Speaking of which I need to move and do my washing 😂😂#childhoodemotionalneglect #complexptsd #abandonmenttrauma #dissociation #depressionhelp #anxiety https://www.instagram.com/p/CEQ9abXHsbz/?igshid=1cedy4mnxsodh

#childhoodemotionalneglect #complexptsd #abandonmenttrauma #dissociation #depressionhelp #anxiety

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katimorton · 1 year

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Childhood Emotional Neglect is one of those things that has a lot of myths around it. We often dismiss it because it's 'emotional' vs. 'physical' and because 'neglect' doesn't sound as dramatic as 'abuse.' But the reality is, Childhood Emotional Neglect can impact our life and relationships in a million different ways. What are some questions or topics you have around #childhoodemotionalneglect that you want me to unpack here or on my channel?? Share in the comments below? #mentalhealth #emotionalabuse — view on Instagram https://ift.tt/vEMPfhT

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luminalqueen · 4 years

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What a beautiful truth. Expecting or wishing for others to change the way they treat you is exhausting. And painful. We all heal in different ways and at different speeds. And some simply can't or won't. Ever. That's their journey. The day I understood this realization was the day I began to set myself free. 🙌🔑💖🙏 Thank you, @annecarly.mm For this wonderful post 🙏#Repost @annecarly.mm • • • • • • It me🙋🏻‍♀️❤️ . . . . . . . #childhood #childhoodstories #innerchildwork #myhealingjourney #vulnerability #childhoodemotionalneglect #childhoodtrauma #filipinoparents #writersofinstagram #artjournal #myart #lettertomyinnerchild #filipino #filipinocanadian #emotions #feelingera #feelings #emotionalsafety #trauma #emotionalneeds #mentalhealth #therapy #lifetrauma #unhealedwounds #healyoursoul #acceptance #freeyoursoul #itsnotyourshit #letgooftheold https://www.instagram.com/p/B71090JA9P7/?igshid=1ruzue7f3wfoq

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elliot-wallace · 2 years

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Do You...

1. Sometimes feel like you don’t belong when with your family or friends ?

2. Pride yourself on not relying upon others ?

3. Have difficulty asking for help ?

4. Have friends or family who complain that you are aloof or distant ?

5. Feel you have not met your potential in life ?

6. Often just want to be left alone ?

7. Secretly feel that you may be a fraud ?

8. Tend to feel uncomfortable in social situations ?

9. Often feel disappointed with, or angry at, yourself ?

10. Judge yourself more harshly than you judge others ?

11. Compare yourself to others and often find yourself sadly lacking?

12. Find it easier to love animals than people ?

13. Often feel irritable or unhappy for no apparent reason?

14. Have trouble knowing what you’re feeling ?

15. Have trouble identifying your strengths and weaknesses?

16. Sometimes feel like you’re on the outside looking in ?

17. Believe you’re one of those people who could easily live as a hermit ?

18. Have trouble calming yourself ?

19. Feel there’s something holding you back from being present in the moment?

20. At times feel empty inside ?

21. Secretly feel there’s something wrong with you ?

22. Struggle with self-discipline ?

#childhoodemotionalneglect

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responsiveparenting · 5 years

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Posted @withrepost • @alifeinperfectbalance Repost @gmtdesign @anxietyhealer. #childhoodemotionalneglect #responsiveparenting (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/Byzy-CcHf3o/?igshid=qvxb0xsst3cu

#childhoodemotionalneglect #responsiveparenting

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neaato · 5 years

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Repost from @annecarly.mm - Going to birthday parties as a kid, nobody sent me off saying “Have fun!” It was all “Behave yourself.” “Don’t break anything.” “Don’t embarrass me.” . All the adults praised me for being a “good girl” coz I just sat there quietly. I was quiet because I was afraid to move. I was disconnected. I didn’t have the permission to have fun. . It took me a long time to get here and I don’t quite get it yet but here we go: “I’m allowed to have fun!” . . . . . . #havefun #behaveyourself #childhoodemotionalneglect #justbeinghonest #asianparentsbelike #filipinoparents #breakthecycle #childhood #childhoodstories #art_dailydose #art_we_inspire #artjournal #myart #lifeofanartist #illustration #illustrator #doodle #drawing #annoyedasian #filipinoillustrator #filipinocanadian #canadianartist #asianillustration #emotions #feelings #emotionalsafety #trauma #emotionalneeds #emotionaldrawing #vulnerability https://www.instagram.com/p/ByWAs1sB1XF/?igshid=5q0rfftor60a

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