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connieaaa · 2 years
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How I was raised: "Whatever your hand finds to do work at it with all your might as if working unto the Lord and not for men."
How I am raising my kids: Anything worth doing is worth doing poorly. Say you spilled milk and you can't bring yourself to clean it up? Throwing a towel on it is better than nothing.
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arsenicisaddictive · 10 months
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The compulsive urge to apologise and the terrifying weight of being a burden
My anxiety is so heavy in my chest that it’s choking me
It’s like someone’s put a weight in the middle of my ribs and I can never quite reach it
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1/13/2023: Kids
It's nearly impossible to break a child's spirit. Kids are always happy. Not literally, but they bounce back from abuse pretty quickly. They can still be happy and funny and have good times with people, including their abusers.
Seems like you lose that ability as an adult. It's probably because adults can look back and realize how fucked up the situation was. Kids don't have that perspective and often blame themselves or think the situation was normal.
I didn't think it was normal, but I didn't start hating my parents as much as I started hating myself.
The "normal" images from my childhood are like memories from another universe. I loved crafting when I was a kid. Once, when I managed to track glitter around the house, my sister thought a fairy had visited us. That's a cute memory that's so out of place in my mind.
My POS sister was depressed for a short period when she was bullied in eighth grade, but she bounced back from it and became a happy, healthy adult (the opposite of me, huh?) You really do get over shit when you're younger.
I didn't "get over it" when I was a child, but I could still function even on the days the abuse took place. Not anymore.
Thanks for reading,
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eatclean-bewhole · 1 year
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These are some of the natural ways I help support my daughter's anxiety and ADHD. I give her Vitamin D, Lion's mane, and Green tea (L-theanine) in the mornings for focus and a mood boost. At night, she gets calming supplements like Ashwagandha, Magnesium and L-theanine. (She also gets THC-free CBD oil, as needed). A common side effect of anxiety and ADHD is poor sleep. Many of the nighttime supplements help with this as well.
It is worth noting that my daughter does guided meditations at night, or restorative yoga/meditation with me. For those wondering, yes we have tried medications. Three, in fact. However, all of them made her not feel like herself. More concerning is that she started to show symptoms of depression and described it as feeling like she "can't get out from under a heavy cloud of sadness." I was not willing to trade focus for her mental health. I listened to her, and we found that the natural supplements listed have shown more improvement in both areas than the medications, and without the negative side effects. I hope this post helps bring awareness to some of your other options, and helps you find what works for you or your children. Be well!
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rootsmudge · 2 years
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• Okay, so it was ingrained in me from a young age that there were other children who didn't have toys, so I needed to be greatful and as a result I always treated them with care and respect.
• I'd go to my cousins' house and see their toys left outside in the yard to get dirty and wet from the rain. I thought that was weird and gross.
• When I went to my neighbor's house for the first time I learned she was the type of kid that cut her dolls' hair, drew on them with markers, pulled their heads off, etc. I was shocked and appalled. She was my friend, but I needed to be careful because clearly she was a little bit of a delinquent (because that was the only explanation I could think of at the time).
• I'm pretty sure this stemmed mainly from watching Toy Story 1 & 2 and that one scene from the Polar Express. I was just a little bit afraid of my toys. And When I was really young, I would stress about making sure they were all played with and knew I loved them equally.
(My childhood anxiety manifested in really weird specific ways)
• Anyways, it's come to my attention that it was normal for kids to abuse their toys and apparently I'm the weird one because I don't know a single person who treated their toys the way I did.
• So basically I wanna know if anybody else was like me as a kid.
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permdaydreamer · 7 months
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This is for the people who didn’t party in their teens and twenties. For the people who didn’t have that “coming of age” movie experience with shenanigans and revelations. This is for the people who mostly keep to themselves. Who maybe prefer things to be quieter and gentler. This is for the people who don’t feel like they belong in a culture that values loud parties and flashing lights. I see you. And you are valid.
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rooftopgenius · 6 months
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An uncool person in love with the cool stuff
Daily writing promptTell us about a time when you felt out of place.View all responses I was always termed as the quiet kid, the weirdo, the girl who is most lost. To be honest, I did get lost, but inside my own head, because mostly the conversations ran in circles and I got tired quickly ( neurotypical lingo for this is: she gets bored very quickly). So, it won’t be a stretch to say that I…
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dineanddiet · 8 months
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7 Treatment Options for Anxiety in Children
Anxiety is a natural response to stress and is experienced by individuals of all ages, including children. It becomes a concern when it starts interfering with a child's daily activities, social interactions, and overall well-being. Addressing anxiety in children is crucial to help them develop healthy coping mechanisms and lead fulfilling lives. This article explores various treatment options available to manage anxiety in children, empowering parents and caregivers with knowledge to support their young ones effectively.
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1. Behavioral Therapy
Behavioral therapy is an effective treatment for anxiety in children. Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a commonly used approach that helps children identify and challenge negative thought patterns and behaviors. Through CBT, children learn coping strategies and develop problem-solving skills to manage anxiety-provoking situations. This therapy often involves role-playing and exposure techniques, gradually exposing the child to feared situations in a controlled and supportive environment.
2. Play Therapy
For younger children who may have difficulty expressing their feelings verbally, play therapy can be beneficial. Play therapists use toys, games, and creative activities to engage with the child and help them communicate their fears and worries in a non-threatening manner. This therapeutic approach allows children to process emotions and build resilience in a safe and enjoyable setting.
3. Medication
In some cases, when anxiety is severe and significantly impacts a child's life, healthcare professionals may consider medication. Medication should be prescribed by a qualified pediatrician or child psychiatrist and is often used in conjunction with other therapies. Commonly prescribed medications for childhood anxiety include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs). These medications can help alleviate symptoms and create a stable foundation for other therapeutic interventions.
4. Parental Involvement and Support
Parents play a crucial role in supporting their anxious children. Understanding anxiety and its effects is the first step to providing appropriate assistance. Being empathetic, patient, and non-judgmental fosters an environment where children feel safe discussing their fears. Additionally, establishing consistent routines and encouraging open communication can help reduce anxiety triggers.
5. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques
Teaching children mindfulness and relaxation techniques can help them manage anxiety when it arises. Techniques like deep breathing exercises, progressive muscle relaxation, and guided imagery can be effective tools for calming an anxious mind. Practicing these techniques regularly can empower children to cope with stressful situations proactively.
6. School Interventions
Anxiety often manifests in school settings, leading to academic challenges and social withdrawal. Collaborating with school personnel, including teachers, counselors, and administrators, can be essential in developing a supportive plan for the child. Creating an individualized education plan (IEP) or 504 plan can provide accommodations and strategies to address anxiety-related difficulties at school.
7. Family Therapy
Sometimes, anxiety in children can be influenced by family dynamics or stressful events. Family therapy can help address any underlying issues that may contribute to the child's anxiety. In this setting, the entire family can learn effective communication and problem-solving skills, fostering a supportive environment for the child's emotional well-being.
Conclusion
Anxiety is a prevalent concern in children, but there are various effective treatment options available. From behavioral therapy and play therapy to parental involvement and mindfulness techniques, the aim is to empower children to cope with anxiety and develop resilience. Each child is unique, and their response to treatment may vary, so a personalized approach is essential. Seeking professional guidance from pediatricians, child psychologists, or licensed therapists can aid in identifying the most suitable treatment plan for each child. With the right support and interventions, children can navigate anxiety successfully and thrive in all aspects of their lives.
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One day the air is going to smell the same as it did when you were a child.
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drag-tween · 2 years
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connieaaa · 1 year
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My 13 year old got flustered while Trick or Treating. The house in question is impressively decorated for Halloween, with lights and everything, but the doormat says "Go away". Kid stands on the porch for a solid minute debating with himself on if this person is celebrating Halloween or not.
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writethewolvesaway · 2 years
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So, my childhood hero was a librarian at the library in our town.
The library was probably about a mile from our house, so I’d ride bike there in the summer and spend a few hours reading or looking for books (I was 13 ish for context.) I had pretty severe social anxiety.
So, I’m in the library by myself, and I just can’t find anything to read. I think to ask the librarian, but my brain is telling me “you’d be bothering them” and things like that. I debate this in by head for probably a good ten minutes before I decide to go through with it. It takes me a good ten minutes to walk twenty feet to the front desk.
She’s sitting there, writing on a paper. I stand and wait till she’s done, then say “excuse me” because my parents were very insistent on manners.
She says something along the lines of, “What can I help you with?”
I ask if they have a list of book suggestions or if she has any book suggestions for me.
I’m not exaggerating when I say her face lit up.
She hurries out of her chair and leads me all through the young adult section, giving me some awesome suggestions and asking me about what types of books I like, etc. We spend a good twenty minutes on this. She was really excited about giving me books to read, which made me a lot less self-conscious.
Eventually, she recruits her other librarian friends to also help me find books (there weren’t many people there, they were going to be closing soon) so I’m parading around the library with my librarian entourage, getting book suggestions and having the time of my life.
This librarian helped me more than she realized just by being genuinely excited to help me out. It made me more confident in social situations in the future, and today, I can truthfully say that I can manage socializing pretty well. Her book suggestions were spot on and excellent.
Also, she was talking about this book and described it “like a really well written fan fiction,” and that’s how I got introduced to fan fiction.
Thank you, librarian from the library. And people, never be afraid to ask your librarian for book suggestions.
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10/8/2022: Normal
I wrote the other day that when I was a child, I still felt happy and confident at times, but something lurked underneath the happiness--a crawling feeling that something wasn't "right" about me. It's like a constant droning hum in the background. I'd stop thinking about it once in a while, but it was always there.
I still feel like that. I haven't felt happy since I was 13, but I'll have times when I feel accomplished and even a little confident. On rare occasions, I actually start to feel "normal." I remember that I have a personality underneath all this bullshit. I feel like a human being again.
But it doesn't last long because I always snap back to reality and remember the abuse and self-hatred. I stop feeling confident because I think of the ways that my parents and my worthless sack-of-shit sister would laugh at me. Believe me, there's nothing I can do that they wouldn't laugh at. The way I acted, talked, looked, joked, walked, blah blah--it was all up for grabs. And probably still is. I've heard my dad and my POS sister making fun of me before.
I stop feeling like a real person. I'm back to feeling like a dissociated ghost. I don't think there's a real, functioning human being underneath all of this--or if there is, I lost touch with her a long time ago.
I'm not sure how to describe it. I just feel--lesser. I feel normal for a second, then remember that I'm NOT normal. I have no relationship with my relatives. My brain is scattered beyond repair. I dissociate constantly. I hate every single thing about myself, and God knows that my parents, POS sister, elementary school classmates and toxic, abusive "friends" undermined my confidence at every turn.
This isn't a person. This is some barely functioning "thing" floating around the planet. God knows my worthless sister outright called me "that thing" multiple times (funny how Mom and Dad weren't too quick to correct her.)
I don't know if it's ever going to change. Don't know if I'll ever feel like a person again. Sometimes, I think I was human once, a long time ago, but then I shifted out of reality. Now I'm just trying to exist.
Thanks for reading,
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eatclean-bewhole · 1 year
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And we wonder….
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bog-ghost · 2 years
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theresa caputo, the long island medium, was actually such a comforting person to me growing up?? like I'd watch her show and yeah she's strange, but she also got overwhelmed in situations with a lot of people and always seemed to be feeling other people's emotions really strongly??? and I remember this one time she went to a restaurant with her husband and she had to make sure they got a table in the corner of the room because being surrounded by people was so hard for her and, like... 11 year old me with anxiety and trauma was like oh, she gets it, and it was such a light bulb moment for me that made me feel a little less alone even if I was scared all the time and didn't have much support, so... idk if that's an experience anyone else has had but yeah theresa caputo kinda goes hard
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