gotta love unsolicited advice i get for simply existing on here as a teenager, although its nice when people arent assholes about it.
so to anyone scrolling or opening my blog after seeing a single post, keep in mind.
1. im not a man hater, i dont hate men.
saying i hate men would be an unfair and unreasonable statement because i have nor and will never meet every man ever to confidently make that statement.
2. i know shitty women exist, i have been bullied by women my whole life, just as i have with men.
this is a feminist blog, speaking on feminist issues, the oppressors are men.
3. when i say all men, i dont mean all men.
ive explained this before, ill explain it again, no i do not mean all men when i say it, once again i would need to meet every man ever to make that statement, but i do mean enough men for it to be a concerning issue.
how do i know it's enough? the world is littered with proof that many men are not raised properly.
4. women arent sin-less angels.
yes, i could talk about the harm other women have caused me, but this is a feminist blog, where i speak on feminist issues, where men are the oppressors and women are the oppressed.
5. i am not a judge in a courtroom trying to be fair.
many of my posts come off as emotional, because they are, female issues affect me directly, i will be bothered by them and i will post about them and i likely wont have time to say "but i dont really mean all men" everytime i make a fucking post.
6. yes i am scared of men.
when i meet a man, i assume the worst, that is my own issue due to my own experiences and interactions with the opposite sex, and no i do not assume the worst when i meet a woman, because they have not harassed or catcalled me.
7. yes im young, stop trying to teach me.
i am literally just a random teenager on the internet existing, will i become embarrassed and delete this account at some point in the future? possibly. do i have a magic crystal i look into to see the future? no.
unsolicited advice, calling me dear or darling, giving me life lessons, it is not appreciated unless i ask for it.
i understand, you are trying to help, some of you dont have malicious intent, but i do not care.
i exist on here as a teenager, yes i am clueless about many things, that does not give you the space to give me life advice or a lecture as if you are my parent.
i know you know better, that is because you lived longer, its logic, random advice i didn't ask for from strangers will not help me, it will cause more harm than good, because a good point you are making may get lost in translation due to how annoyed i am.
please, stop trying to teach me unless i ask for it, i am pinning this post and will send it to anyone replying or reblogging with advice i didn't ask for.
please just let me exist on the internet without a lecture i didn't ask for directed at me everywhere i look.
i did not ask for nor do i want your help/advice, i am young but i am a human being like you, so let me exist and learn like a human being.
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