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#can crabs be trans
theorderofthetriad · 3 months
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you're SO right, my apologies to the women of... *checks notes* 17th century Japan for ignoring their real struggles. the things i said on tumblr in the year 2023 must have been really hurtful for them to read.
look at yourself in the mirror, make eye contact through it, and answer these questions: do you think that sexism doesn't exist outside of Japan? do you think sexism doesn't exist in places where white people are from? do you think that only white people can be trans, or that Japanese people can't be?
i've seen this shit-tier argument quite a few times with minor variations and my takeaway from it is "wow, it is really fucking racist to act like sexism is solely unique to Asia." like, do you people ever read back what you wrote and actually think about what you've said?
sexism exists all around the world, trans people exist all around the world. historical cases of "women" who lived their lives as men exist all around the world. sexism existing and trans men existing are not mutually exclusive.
Remind me, how many other women in the show are dressing up and living as men? None? But aren't they all facing oppressive sexism? So why is only Mizu living as a man? Here is a little secret I'll let you in on as a trans person: we will take any excuse to be ourselves. "I'm going to dress and live as a man because of sexism!" is a great example of that.
The way you guys talk about it you'd think near damn every woman in the world would be living as a man, but actually, shockingly, women don't want to live as men. You know who does want to live as men? Trans men, shocker I know!
Anyways, I'm always gonna say Mizu Blue Eye Samurai is a trans man no matter how many straws you transphobes grasp for.
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draconicslime · 3 months
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exploding staff with my mind 100000 times they keep digging their hole deeper huh
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portiafimbriata · 6 months
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more for my carcinization fans:
an imagining of my current story's protagonist fucked up on the miasma
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colorfulcrabguy · 1 year
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Ha ha, go fuck yourself you pedo supporting crossdressed freak! Hogwarts Legacy is a legend and creeps like you should be killed!
To all the self-proclaimed allies buying Hogwarts Legacy, this person and others like them see your purchase as a vote of support for their views. I know that's something you might not want to think about, but it's true, and you cannot be an ally to the queer community when your actions empower people who think this way.
I implore you to consider what a video game is worth to you. Is it worth my life? Is it worth the lives of my trans sisters? Is it worth the lives of my Jewish friends? What are our lives worth to you? Because all it takes is one empowered bigot to end an innocent person's life.
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kawaii-pigeon · 2 years
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Having proship in my bio for a few months did pretty much nothing.
But yall...
Tempted to be chaotic evil
#im so fucking tempted#to put harry potter house in the bio#why? because im fucking sick and tired of seeing the discourse on my dash#-oh harry potter houses are sus!!!-#you are sus bitch#just cause you are and i say rightfully being a loud asshole about liking harry potter doesnt mean youre uwu pure 100#theres shit you like that some of us might have a problem with and thats FINE#liking harry potter isnt a fuckin hate crime#-but but supporting Rowling is killing trans people in the streets!-#cool so youre stupid? there are ways to consume media without contributing a cent#-but but public eye!!- nothing you can say or do will discourage regular ass people that arnt online a lot#OR the number of people who had to fight tooth and nail to like hp during the satanic panic witchcraft and demons are in pokemon debacle#you are so hung up that youre offended and dont want anybody else to like what offends you#sure theres a number of things not great about it but yknow what we did we fucking tuned a bitch out!!#harry potter isnt going to make you racist! nor will it make you hate trans people!!!#i get it i get the hurt i get the shit but#like im blocking posts and blogs left and right and center damn#and im just wondering when the bitching gonna end#and man ill be right with you throwing a crab rave when she kicks the bucket#just hooooly shit yall i would not wanna be around any of you hardcore harry potter haters cause idk if youre gonna actually attack some#poor bitch with a hogwarts purse
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butch-bakugo · 1 year
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Not to be an ass but yeah...
This lesbian was assaulted.... This trans woman was found dead.... Bi women get beat up on trains and are more likely to be hurt by their male partners than straight women..... This trans man died defending lesbians in germany.... These gay men are in camps in russia... This nonbinary person was killed.....
Amazing how you hear about violence aginest gay and trans people but i litterally cant find a single vetted article that shows violence aginest aro/ace pple for "aphobia". Like its always these excuses;
Aroaces face corrective rape! the "corrective rape" was not corrective and happend because the aroace person said no to sex and it was just mysogny because the aro/ace person was afab n would you look at that, the rapist was a cis man. Thats mysogny. Not to mention 80% of aro/ace people are cis women, trans men and afab nonbinary people aka the people raised litterally taught from birth that sex is not something for them to enjoy and they exist to please.
Doctors consider lack of sexual/romantic attraction to be a symptom instead of an orientation! Because lacking the desire for sex and relationships is a hallmark sign of trauma, abuse and mental illness. Its litterally symptom #1 to struggle with sex and commitment when your traumatized and ive litterally never met a not-traumatized aro/ace. I know this because im a traumatized aro/ace and no, "aphobia" isnt traumatic. Honestly, even if your aro/ace as a result of trauma, thats valid, just make sure your healing and that your honest about it.
Well, when i wore my ace pin, someone called me a queer! Thats a sign that me, being cisgender and heteroromantic asexual, am really queer! Experiencing misplaced oppression at the hands of homophobic and transphobic people dosent suddenly make you gay or trans. Also, they dont know what any of the flags mean so why tf would they care that you dont fuck unless its Tuesday? They just assume all little pins with a bunch of colored stripes mean child groomer gay pedo tranny, not demiaroace or wtf ever. They litterally only hate you because they assume you fuck the same gender or dont identify as ur brith sex. Thats it. It also dosent help that you go running around saying "im SOOO gay" and "im such a dirty little queer." When you are neither. When you say ur gay, they are gonna think ur gay. If they know ur cis and het and dont have sex, they dont give a fuck.
Well, your theory falls apart that aro/aceness is mostly brought on by trauma and mysogny when trans women, amab enbies and cis man aro/aces exist! Ok, you still havent disproven my point because 1. transfems and amab enbies usually have gender dysphoria which, speaking from my own experiences, complicates sex and makes it harder. Gender dysphoria is a mental illness and unless you bring to me 5 examples of cis het men who identify as aroace, you dont get to use them as a gotcha. Ive been gay for almost 10 years and ive still never met one, online or irl.
I also never stated that aro/aceness was purely brought on by trauma/mental illness and mysogny, its something that can just naturally happen. Ive just never seen it genuinely happen. Usually the person has trauma/mental illness or is afab or is trans or all three. All of these things, according to proven psychology, can affect the sex drive, attraction and desire for committed relationships.
Thats why every aro/ace you see is either really young and in pain, still healing from trauma or is older and admits to holding on out of spite or admit that its trauma related. There are always gonna be exceptions but unless those excepts make up more than 25% of a thing, im not considering it something totally stand alone. Its also why every ex-aro/ace carries the same story: they identified with it when they were younger and healing from some traumatic shit, they got older and got help, they healed and magically they werent adverse to sex and relationships. That dosent happen with gay pple or trans pple usually. Like 70% of today's aro/ace people are allo 5 years later. If not 5, then 90% by 10 yrs. If not 10, then 99% by 20 yrs.
Its not a coincidence. Adversity towards sex and relationships usually has a foot in the graves of social oppression, trauma/abuse and mental illness. Usually once someone feels empowered by their minority status, heals from their trauma and copes with their mental illnesses, they arnt aro/ace anymore. I speak from experience watching pple i knew when i was 13 go from traumatized and a "romance and sex repulsed" aroace transmasc nonbinary kid who hates allos and gags at sex scenes to being 20 and seeing them all just be ur average bisexual transmasc nonbinary person who kisses and fucks like everybody else. They might throw an arospec or acespec label in their like demi- or -flux but its usally just labels that mean that they are normal person who dosent fuck on sight or isnt always thinking about sex.
Im not saying that every incident of aro/aceness is a result of trauma/abuse, mental illness and bigotry but i am saying that coming to terms with that shit usually makes someone less aro/ace. Im also mentioning how many times ive seen aro/ace people throw out excuse after excuse and label after label that all boil down to telling someone to stop getting therapy and just identify as this because "all labels are vaild and inate to you. You'll always be this." Then they mob you when you get help and openly say your not aroace anymore and ur labled a "traitor" who "wasnt an actual aroace and is just a troll" cause you dare to talk about rhw toxicity and fandomization the aroace communities suffer from. I know this cause im aroace and i dont touch those communities with a 10ft pole. Aint happening. I see a person with a demigreyromantic pin and i turn the other way hopeing to got they didnt see my aro one cause i refuse to talk to pple like that.
The definitions of romance and sex are fluid for a reason and just because you think you dont fit the societal definition of a "average amount of sexual and romantic attraction" dosent mean ur right about society and dosent make you akiocupioangleddemiaroacefluxspike, i promise. All these bajillion labels fall apart the moment you mention that its completely natural for a human's desire for sex and romantic partnership is supposed to fluxuate over the course of your life and multiple things influence it. Im not opposed to microlabels and sexuality modifiers and other things people do in an attempt to find community with others who have the same experiences as them and i never have but what i am saying is that little shit like that dosent oppress you on a societal scale and never has and to think critically about yourself and others to understand that what your feeling isnt always the truth and emotions can betray you.
You arent always a trustworthy person and its always best to make long term decisions on a full stomache, a mid mood, in clean clothes and plenty of energy with enough time to be sure. Quick decisions can fuck you up and the amount of spite and toxicity coming from the aroace communities when you even so much as glance critically at them is worth a few months of deliberation before you go in full speed. Just dont come crying to the normal aroaces when you hit a brick wall 5 ft in and get bombarded with cishet sob stories of people who lost their partner cause they didnt disclose their aroace status, cupcakes and dragons, the gay dads kicked me out copypasta and a bajillion people claiming that their oppressed with their only sources being "trust me bro" and " how dare you question my experiences". If you arnt 100% informed, ur on a hundred blocklists just for mentioning that you dont like the ace flag or some meaningless shit like that.
Trust me, dont bother.
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prophecyofgray · 2 years
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i have indubitable undeniable foolproof evidence to support all of my trans club penguin headcanons and that evidence is right here inside of this briefcase No wait what are you doing dont look in my briefcase do not open my [you open the briefcase and all of the evidence is just “i’m trans and i said so”] ah fuck.
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horce-divorce · 2 years
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succubi-tch · 8 months
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I hate when people bring up the "but I love Tumblr" regarding other people saying crab day is fucking stupid
Like of course we love the damn site. That's why none of us want to give staff money until they actually start listening to what we want, instead of implementing UI changes nobody wants, banning nsfw, and further acting on their transphobic bias regarding their tos.
It is not fucking hard to listen to your userbase, but for years Tumblr staff has acted as if it were impossible to. I've had enough.
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gaogaigoatgrrl · 1 month
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i hope that in the wake of predstrogen/predesterone's back-to-back deletion we don't forget about the ongoing building wave of seemingly organic transmisogyny from the userbase leading up to it, some of which may or may not have been the result of terf psyops but all of which certainly wouldn't have been possible without the eager participation of a significant proportion of users, including but probably not limited to:
the entire concept of transandrophobia (if this offends you, think long and hard about why you want so badly for it to be real)
the ongoing backlash against the terms tme and tma (if they offend you, think long and hard about why they might have practical value to trans women and people with similar social positionality)
the ongoing trend of trans women's blogs getting flagged on the flimsiest of pretenses and generally receiving far more scrutiny for "adult content" than anyone else's
the seeming unironic revival of "baeddel" as a slur for outspoken trans women, on the basis of a long-dead clique that, ironically enough, self-applied the long-dead (and tbf, etymologically questionable) slur from the middle ages to reclaim it
the entire "trans women should be fucking trans men instead of complaining about transmisogyny" genre of post
the backlash when tgirls finally started calling out the aforementioned bullshit
the copypasted anons sent to several trans women (many of whom were lesbians) sexually harassing them and threatening corrective rape for calling out the aforementioned bullshit
the backlash when tgirls called the aforementioned bullshit sexual harassment
the expansion of flexible queer label use (which to be clear, i am generally all for) to include "afab trans women", muddying the waters and making transmisogyny harder to articulate
the backlash when tgirls started calling out the aforementioned bullshit
the aita incident in which a trans woman described a cis woman claiming to be a trans woman in a group chat and giving other trans women terrible medical advice based on no actual qualifications or experience, and got a huge backlash for warning them about the aforementioned bullshit despite the stakes of, you know, following terrible medical advice
everything from the sixth point onward happened within the past... week? two weeks? my sense of time is a bit fuzzy. who knows what the rest of this week has in store?
people on this website are so incredibly hostile to trans women even being able to name our own oppression, let alone resist it in any concrete way. and i know it's not just this website. don't you get tired of the crab bucket bullshit? holy fucking shit.
like, i've been lucky, i've overwhelmingly managed to dodge it (probably on account of frankly being a pretty boring and inconsistent poster). this time last year, i was actually bored that i didn't have anons in my inbox to argue with. but i've seen it happen to so many other women now, it's absurd. even if it never hits you personally, you can never shake the awareness that it's happening to so many of the cool girls on here, people you like and whose posts you laugh at and who you look up to. they just kinda seem to drop like flies over time. don't you get tired?
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daughter-of-sapph0 · 5 months
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how tumblr can avoid being shut down in five easy steps
allow porn
get rid of tumblr live and stop the stupid ui changes that make everything worse
stop banning trans women and black bloggers for no reason
actually do your job and get rid of the terfs / nazis / fascists and make it so they can't remake an account 75 times to keep harassing people
cut ties with automatic and become fully independent
I guarantee that people would be willing to buy your stupid little badges and crabs if you actually did those things.
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foone · 1 month
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there are many badges you can get after your name, like crabs and checkmarks, but there's a special one you can't pay for, you just have to be a trans woman. it's (Deactivated)
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bananonbinary · 9 months
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Tumblr's debt is a problem of their own creation. The app is buggy, the userbase is flooded with porn bots, nazis roam free, hate speech roams free, trans women have sfw content marked mature, art and posts are stolen for promotion, features are forced down our throats, ads are malicious and often gross or triggering and giving them money will not stop this.
If we give tumblr money they're not going to get rid of Tumblr live or restore the nsfw or remove ads or whatever you think they're going to do, they're going to KEEP DOING THE SAME THING except with more money to blow. Tumblr is a CORPORATION, they can get a government bailout like any other corporate entity can, and while people are throwing money at a dumbass corporation there are people begging to get bills paid and for food and other necessities.
Please open your eyes to the reality of the situation, its not just some guy anymore, David Karp is long gone its a soulless conglomerate now and they do not need our pity
a lot of yall seem to think that i want to like, bake sale save the baseball team. that's not what this is about. i don't think we need to "fix tumblr's debt," i think we need to make the website profitable (and the debt shows it isnt, altho from what i can gather a better word is "deficit" rather than "debt," ie, they are losing that much more money than they take in annually), because as it stands tumblr has no reason whatsoever to want to keep the current user base around. it's trying to attract a different userbase, because yall are PROUD of the fact that tumblr is a failing website and you dont want to pay them. you're loitering inside a store and acting surprised when the store wants you gone. of COURSE they're constantly introducing new features and not listening to what the users want, they don't want you here.
it's not a protest, it's not an attempt to buy good will, it's a simple business transaction: i spend a lot of time here, and i would like to keep spending a lot of time here. so i will buy my shitty internet crab, and tell my fellow loiterers that they can as well if they want. if you dont want to do that, you literally don't have to, but you can't tell me not to.
you people are all like "ohh tumblr isnt your friend dont give it money" but like. yeah. its not my friend. i would like to pay it for a service it provides, instead of expecting it to continue to provide that service out of the goodness of its non-existant heart. i dont think im the one with the parasocial relationship here.
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dont tell me to help a poor people. i am a poor people. i am allowed to spend THREE DOLLARS on something i like for myself, and not give literally every single dollar i have to charity and mutual aid. you have NO IDEA how much or if i do for other people, and you won't, because you aren't owed every detail of my life like that. people are allowed to have things they want for no other reason than they want them sometimes.
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Tumblr staff have started banning multiple transfem accounts for speaking up against the harassment campaigns aimed at transfems and lack of moderation to combat it going on and the ceo trying to hand wave all away.
I'm genuinely scared for where this site is heading
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i’m gonna answer these two at once because… yeah it’s easier.
i think its a shitty abuse of power. i have an ask in my drafts about the copypasta that was going around harassing trans women(whether they were tirfs and hated trans men or not, it’s irrelevant because it was still sexual harassment. it was also often sent to people who had jack shit to do with trans discourse) but at this point things have gotten so much bigger. in the uk an unnamed trans girl at the roller rink was almost stabbed to death, a 16 year old nonbinary student in oklahoma got beat to death in the bathrooms, brianna ghey’s murderers were finally charged with murder and i believe it was legally classified as a hate crime. on top of that with all the legislation passing…. shit is getting scary and it feels like this is only the beginning.
you can also tie it back to how trans women’s existence just… as trans women is seen as inherently sexual and in need of regulation. i’ve seen this enforced socially- women often tell other women “friendly” tips on how to conform to femininity with threat of punishment, and the scale to which trans women are subjected to this is disgusting. whatever you do is sexual because no matter what you do it will be considered inappropriate- so here’s our top ten tips on how to conform! but here it was just straight up censorship on… posts about bugs bunny? fully clothed transition timelines? venting frustration at staff for not dealing with the people harassing her? and for the ceo to threaten to get the fbi involved, if i remember correctly, is just fucking ridiculous.
i’ve also seen posts on other trans women being banned for just… talking about this? which really worries me. banning her was one thing, and that sucked ass enough on its own. but to subtly threaten users by saying “if you call us out, we’ll destroy your blog” is a whole nother level.
it also worries me how many people are, AGAIN, making this a transmasc vs transfem issues. crabs in a bucket; or something like that.
there are some valid points of “where was the solidarity when we were being sexually harassed and threatened?” and like… i get it. a few months ago me and some of my mutuals were getting RIDICULOUS amounts of sexual harassment(on my main blog, not much here) and we were told to get over it and it was just bait and ext ext. but…. why aren’t we extending the sympathy we wanted at the time? it’s so weird that coming from the “be nice and respectful to everyone, regardless of belief, we’re all human” crowd it cant be bothered to be brought up unless our own issues are being talked about. i’m also worried about how a large chunk of people are blaming this on trans men who talk about our oppression, or use this to “prove” we dont have it bad as if we weren’t ignored when similar shit was happening to us a few months back, or even saying we don’t have any problems at all and we should shut up and listen to other trans people.
it also worries me how many people are getting banned for speaking up for her(predesterone? im not good at remembering urls). how the censoring of trans bodies is also being defended and enforced- “she was threatening me!”. threats by cis radfems arent taken seriously- i saw that the other day with that one user comparing trans people to hitler and my reports doing jack shit- but when a trans woman lashes out because the staff didnt defend her, THATS a serious threat?
i left twitter after a month this year because it’s just intolerable, and i’ve never been on tiktok and instagram just lowkey sucks and reddit is… reddit. this has been the chillest and safest place for trans people so far, and seeing that get burnt to the ground just makes me wonder where all of us will go.
@staff, treat your userbase, especially your trans userbase, fairly. it’s not too much to ask.
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noomon · 8 months
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ding!
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. . . nagi seishirou. crabs, mr. krabs?
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“your least favorite food is crab?”
it took all of it in reo to process what his friend, seishirou, told him. the two had just finished football practice, and were just lazing around before they walked home from school together. conversation topics often revolved around simple things like if they were going to go to a convenience store or if they had already finished their homework, and then it shifted to their least favorite food.
“are you, like, allergic to it?”
“what?” seishirou quick reply is accompanied by a short-lived sigh. his eyes are glued to the screen of his phone, fingers idly tapping on the surface as he contemplates what to say. “no,” he said, shaking his head. “it’s a hassle to get the meat out of the shell. i’d rather have it when ‘ts out of the shell.”
“really?” his best friend snorts at that. “then what if your future spouse loves to eat crabs? are you going to remove the meat from the shell or are you going to let them do it by themselves?”
he gave reo a small frown. “i can’t get the meat out of the shell, reo. my hands always get scratched or even nicked,” seishirou confesses, glancing at his slightly calloused hands as if to prove a point. “hopefully they can do it on their own ‘cause it’s a pain to do so.”
“mm.” reo nods at that. “hopefully they love you so much to the point where they’ll deshell your crabs for you because that takes a lot of patience and skill, too.”
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it had been two or three years since that conversation went down; honestly, seishirou could barely remember it now.
“ok, i never thought i’d live to hear the day where you actually deshell your crabs instead of having someone else do it for you,” reo decided to tease from the other line. seishirou knows, and he could tell that reo had an amused smirk on his lips, possibly wondering what on earth had gotten into seishirou to be doing such a thing.
“it’s a special occasion,” he answers, continuing to work through the crab with all of his attention and precision. “plus, ‘ts what they’re craving for today.”
he never thought the day would actually come where he’d be doing this, but at least he’s doing it for you, and he’ll do it over and over again just to see your eyes lit up from delight, and reward him with a soft kiss on the cheek—even if he won’t admit it verbally—seishirou would do just about anything for your soft, loving kisses.
this is what being helplessly in love does to him; it makes him do things that he never thought he’d be doing, like deshelling crabs because they’re your favorite.
“sei, i’m here!”
“gotta go.”
with that, seishirou hung up on the call. “hi,” he murmurs, his eyes drifting from the crabs he was deshelling to you, who joined him in the kitchen. “you’re early.”
you nod, greeting him with a chaste kiss to his cheek, which made the corners of his lips curve into a sheepish smile. “yup, barely any traffic today,” you replied. “wow, why all the crabs? i thought you didn’t like them that much.”
“it’s just a pain to deshell,” seishirou answers, shaking his head. “you said you were craving them today, no? i went to the supermarket to buy some and make ‘em for you.”
“that’s so sweet, sei. you didn’t have to!”
he nods. “but i wanted to.”
“oh.”
it may be a certain challenge for seishirou to remove the crab meat from its shell, but he thinks all of his efforts are worth it to see you happy and content.
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“i think we ate mr. krabs and his extended family.”
“yeah, but they’re really tasty.”
“hm. you’re right,” you chuckle, taking another bite of your food. “thank you, sei. this instantly made my gloomy day brighter.”
seishirou quietly hums as you wipe the excess sauce off his cheek. “you’re welcome.”
yes, this is really what being helplessly in love does to someone, and not only someone—but nagi seishirou. and maybe, just maybe, he’ll cook crab dishes more often, as long as he gets to share the warm meal with you. it’s worth the hassle, really.
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shivasdarknight · 8 months
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unfriendly reminder that the people organizing "crab day" are christian terfs that aren't at all subtle about it.
tumblr's debt is their fault. they've shown that they don't care about their base - especially the trans women/fems on the platform - and should not be rewarded for this behavior.
use your money on better things. plenty of fundraisers that need help you can donate to (please reblog this to add in yours/flip through reblogs to find someone's fundraiser) or you could help out the Entertainment Community Fund since LA has predictably sided with Universal.
or any other number of funds.
just do not participate in crab day.
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