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#calling out
hadirqabani · 1 year
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This is not being the bigger person:
• Not calling out someones fault
“because you understand where they’re coming from”
• Pushing aside constant disrespect
“because you want to keep the peace.”
• Watering down your pain
“so that the other person feels less guilty”
It’s suppression.
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bfpnola · 6 months
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If you’re anything like me, you’re immediately embarrassed and scrambling for a hasty explanation and apology whenever you’ve done something that offends someone else. But at the same time, these explanations can quickly become defensive, turning into rationalizing your own actions and dismissing the other person’s reaction.
You might even be confused or irritated as to why you’re being called out to begin with. We hear it time and time again – tales of the “social justice warrior” and political correctness police that want to turn everything into a fight to stroke their ideological superiority complex.
If only you hadn’t spoken your mind around someone so oversensitive! What a buzzkill. Surely anyone else would understand that you didn’t mean to be interpreted that way and you’re not really prejudiced against [insert marginalized group here].
You feel like your character is being personally attacked, and so you begin lecturing the other person about how they’re overreacting or their tone is too much or they used the wrong language. Conveniently, you thereby obscure the original problematic behavior that caused you to get called out in the first place.
No one learns anything, and soon everyone is just angry and inarticulate.
But listen up: Getting called out isn’t about needing to defend yourself.
Particularly if you’re in a position of privilege, thinking that you can simply belittle someone else’s feelings for the sake of maintaining your own integrity is not only counterproductive, but also allows oppression to fester.
So let’s talk about why getting called out is important and better ways to process problematic behavior and check your privilege.
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depressedenthusiast · 3 months
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ottogatto · 8 months
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you know @emma03080114 you may like & reblog pro Snape posts all you want and strive to appear as a pro-Regulus voice of reason, if you say "all Snape fans are idiots who do not understand the books", it's not gonna make you look good
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busterheadspace · 9 months
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THIS PERSON HARASSES AND TALKS SHIT ABOUT PEOPLE IN THE INSIDE JOB FANDOM
I made this post on Twitter and decided to keep it off Tumblr so she wouldn’t get attacked here but screw that. She’s still harassing people on Twitter and made a petty remark on a comment I left on her fic MONTHS AGO. I ignored you for months and if you’re being petty, fine I’ll be petty too
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Shylioness14, RazerMyBeloved on Ao3, and @/firebreatah/Breagannnnyeah on Tumblr and has been harassing me and many others for months.
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It started with me posting about Ron. I love Ron. I made a lot of content for him because I love his character. I know not everyone likes him, but she goes out of her way to comment on my Ron content about how much she hates him, going as wishing he would SH and kill himself. I hoped she would have stop but she has resorted to abusing the anonymous feature on Tumblr just to keep sending me hate comments.
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I know this is her because she leaves her opinion about how she feels about the show cancellation public. This Guest account doesn’t take a FUCKING dumbass to find out who it is! When ONE PERSON is happy about the Inside Job cancellation, you know who it is! She had a vent account where she boasted about Inside Job being cancelled and makes fun of the fandom for being sad about CANCELATION. She boasts about how mature she by making fun of us and sending anons messages to US!
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DO NOT SUPPORT AS SHE IS STILL CONTINUING THIS BEHAVIOUR EVER SINCE HER CALL OUT IN EARLY JUNE! THIS IS MY TWITTER POST MADE IN EARLY JUNE!! SHE HAS DONE THIS ON MULTIPLE SOCIAL MEDIAS!!! REPOST IF YOU WANT BUT DO NOT HARRSED THEM
https://twitter.com/Peanutsarecool3/status/1664318219870515200
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dtrizz94-blog · 7 months
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Calling out the Rebel haters
Rebels to Ahsoka Series
I’ma say this real perfectly clear.. for those of you people out there, saying that Star Wars rebels is “kids show” for those you’re saying that Ezra Bridger is “the most annoying ever? “And for those you’re saying that rebels are not important?
NEWSFLASH!
Star Wars Rebels became the most important show of the timeline. Even Ezra Bridger became important, lovable, respected character like Ahsoka Tano was.
Let’s be honest without Ezra Bridger in the world between worlds? Ahsoka Tano had no chance to live. She will end up getting killed by Vader. Without Ezra Bridger with the ghost crew? There will be no rebels, and the ghost crew are going nowhere to give hope to save the galaxy.
For those you casual toxic fans out, there are laughing ,joking , and making fun ..And personally hated it ..
My question is where were you from (2014-2018) Rebel series before Ahsoka Series?
Because you’re making excuses .
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diagnosedaskiwi · 2 months
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besties i am crunching this valentines video. but I'll finish it. for you. my three beloved mutuals and the person who reblogs all my art and mildly funny text posts (you are my favorite, don't tell anyone)
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haggishlyhagging · 5 months
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“Women rise to [feminist] fame not because they are lauded as leaders by other feminists ... but because the mainstream media sees in them a marketable image a newsworthy persona upon whom can be projected all sorts of anxieties, hopes, and responsibilities,” wrote Rachel Fudge in a 2003 essay on the struggle to reconcile activism and renown. This is important, both as it relates to feminism's past and to its improbable embrace by mainstream American pop culture. On one hand, social movements need the diplomacy and charisma of people who can speak and agitate on behalf of them. On the other, the need to distill complex ideas and goals down to their most simple and quotable talking points has unquestionably done harm to those movements, feminism included. Mainstream attention has oversimplifed complex issues the wage gap, the beauty myth, the debate over decriminalizing sex work and misrepresented goals. It has attributed collective successes to one person and minimized the plurality of feminist movements themselves. And it has turned countless would-be colleagues and compatriots into foes scrapping over crumbs of access and affirmation.
Jo Freeman's Ms. article "Trashing: The Dark Side of Sisterhood" still regularly makes its way from inbox to inbox because the anguish with which it articulates the process of being sidelined, gaslighted, and shunned—all in the name of sisterhood—is still so relevant. Freeman defined trashing as something that often masquerades as critique but is wholly different: "a particularly vicious form of character assassination" that "is not done to expose disagreements or resolve differences" but "to disparage and destroy." After its publication in 1976, the piece garnered more letters than any previous piece in Ms.—"all but a few," notes the essay's current preface, "relating [the writers'] own experience of being trashed." Formerly a member of the Chicago branch of radical feminists, Freeman left the movement completely after her deflating experiences. But two of her essays, "Trashing" and "The Tyranny of Structurelessness"—the latter an outline of the idealistic, leaderless context in which trashing often occurs—still put words to ongoing phenomena.
Individual feminists are used to being insulted and bullied by people who bear an inventory of beefs with feminists in general, especially these days, and inevitably online. Trashing or its contemporary cousin, "calling out," is different and usually a lot more painful because it comes from fellow feminists. Thanks in part to social media, trashings have become more public and more frequent with participants, as feminist sociologist Katherine Cross put it, "hyper-vigilant against sin, great or small, past or present." It's possible for trashings to start out with a core of completely valid critique but spiral outward into chaos as more people pile on and context is diffused. Some are way pettier: I was once informed that I was being trashed on an online bulletin board because I hadn't posed an apparently crucial question to a screenwriter I'd profiled. Trashings might be focused on an ideal of ideological purity: "careerist," for instance, is a sneer aimed at feminists who have the temerity to want to be known (or at least paid) for their work. Other trashings might result from an opinion that's unforgivably at odds with current feminist orthodoxy.
The competitiveness that leads to trashing obviously isn't unique to feminist movements, but as many people have pointed out over the years, it's likely to thrive within them because so many women, across ages and races and classes, are socialized to see themselves as connectors and uniters rather than experts and leaders; it's even more likely to fester because of the unmended rifts of past feminist movements. The incendiary tone of trashing is also heightened because the line between one's activism and identity is often as substantive as a vapor trail; trashing someone's work becomes indistinguishable from trashing the person themselves.
-Andi Zeisler, We Were Feminists Once
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10yearsofblindchannel · 7 months
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Blind Channel Fan Week 2023: Day 7 - Music & 2022 Day
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Today is day 7 of the Blind Channel Fan Week! Today we are celebrating the heart and soul of Blind Channel: their music! So far they have released:
4 Albums
Revolutions🏳️🏴
Blood Brothers🩸👬
Violent Pop ✊🏼
Lifestyles of the Sick and Dangerous💲
22 Singles
Calling Out
Naysayers
Unforgiving
Darker Than Black
Deja Fu
Enemy For Me
Alone Against All
Sharks Love Blood
Wolfpack
Out Of Town
Over My Dead Body
Died Enough For You
Fever
Gun
Dark Side
Balboa
We Are No Saints
Bad Idea
Don't Fix Me
Flatline
Happy Doomsday
Deadzone
3 Collaborations
Timebomb with Alex Mattson
Snake with GG6
Alive or Only Burning with Zero 9:3
1 Accoustic Song
Died Enough for You Acoustic Version
3 covers
Ed Sheeran's "Don't"
Macklemore & Ryan Lewis's "Can’t Hold Us"
Anastacia's "Left Outside Alone"
1 feature as a collab
Nik Nocturnals Single "Lost & Bleeding",
1 Maxi Single
Antipode
29 Music Videos
Save Me
Calling Out
Unforgiving
Don't
Darker Than Black
My Revolution
Deja Fu
Can't Hold Us
Alone Against All
Sharks Love Blood
Numb
Out Of Town
My Heart Is A Huricane
Over My Dead Body
Timebomb
Snake
Died Enough For You
Left Outside Alone
Dark Side
Balboa
National Heroes
We Are No Saints
Bad Idea
Bad Idea Alternative Version
Don't Fix Me
Flatline
Happy Doomsday
Lost & Bleeding
Deadzone
36 vlogs in 8 seasons and 2 specials if you will (not counting the behind the scene music videos)
BC TV (3)
Life on the Dark Side (5)
Blind Channel's Journey to Eurovision (6)
Live on the Dark Side Finnish Edition (4)
Live on the Dark Side X-Mas Edition (3)
'Bad Idea' TV Premiere & Behind the Scenes (1)
America Goes Sick & Dangerous (6)
Sick & Dangerous Tour (3)
LA Archives (1)
Doomsday Diaries (6)
2 EPs
Blind Channel
Foreshadow
and have landed in various Charts across the world
("Dark Side" was in the charts of 13 european countries as well as the US, "Revolutions" placed #26 in the finnish album charts, "Blood Brothers" placed #9, "Violent Pop" placed #31, "Lifestyles of the Sick & Dangerous" went #1 in Finnland and #15 in the German Album Charts),
won six Finnish Grammys at the Emma Gaala
and have multiple gold and platinum discs.
We are also taking a look back at last year, 2022, and everything it had in store for our boys (to say it was a lot is the understatement of the year!): First they released "Bad Idea"🥀 and got to have it’s live TV debut at UMK 22📺, met and hung out with The Rasmus, then they spend 3 months crowded together in a tour bus🚐 on their very first US Tour🇺🇸 with From Ashes to New and Whisky Fire from the Gods and then in Europe when they became friends and opened up for Electric Callboy 👨‍🎤on their sold out Hypa Hypa European Tour, won six Finnish Grammys at Emma Gaala🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆 (Band of the Year, Song of the Year, Rock of the Year, Export of the Year, Most Streamed Song of the Year and the Public Vote) and also got to perform, played their first US headline show in New York🌃, performed at the legendary Whisky a Go Go 🥂in Los Angels, played many important summer festivals such as Wacken, YleX Pop, Knotfest Finnland, Weekend Festival, High 5ive Festival in Sweden 🇸🇪and Exit Festival in Serbia 🇷🇸on their Summer of Sick & Dangerous Tour, met their idol Olli Sykes of Bring me the Horizon, had their major label debut with the release of their 4th studio album Lifestyles of the Sick & Dangerous 💲(which was also Aleksi's first album ever), were on the billboard at the times square of Helsinki, went on their first European 🇪🇺 headlining tour together with their friends from Lost Society, were featured in the EMP Magazin, Metal Hammer Magazin and had their own Rock Sound issue, won Teostos Export of the year award🏆, had a song with Zero 9:36, made the cover of the All New Metal Playlist on Spotify, showed the middle finger to He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕, had their Album "LOTSAD" be released in Japan 🇯🇵and be promoted by Metal Gear developer Hideo Kojima, became Knotfests Album of the year🏆, partied at the Fishmas Spectacular on their writing and recording trip to LA🍻, went on a cruise, ringed the year out with their epic almost sold-out performance at Helsinki Ice Hall🏟️, performed with Robin, finally managed to convince Alex Mattson to remix one of their songs and gave us the Remix of "Bad Idea" as a Christmas present and did so much more cool stuff.
Feel free to celebrate however you want using the hashtag #10YearsofBlindChannel.🎉 (I try to reblog as many posts as possible, but if you want to help me see your post please don’t hesitate to tag me @10yearsofblindchannel. If I accidentally reblog something you don't want me to share here please let me know and I will delete it asap.)
Edits made bythe talented and creative mind that is my butterfly in crime 🦋 @there-is-just-me-myself-and-i.
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ijustwantedt0read · 3 months
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TRIGGER WARNING: Lies , grooming, mentions of p3dophilla, mentions of death, and manipulation
Hello , my name is cloverover. Clover for short. I'm autistic, mixed , bisexual and questioning polygamous. I'm 19 years old and taken as well. I know this is odd , considering this is my first tumbler post and it's already drama but I can't stand around and let my boyfriend be slandered
The person below is my boyfriend's ex. Recently, he has posted lies about my bf being a p3dophile.
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The following screenshots below were made in 2023. So Dexter's name is different because he was referred to as "ghost" around the time. Also this is a part . Also this is part one , I will make. Thread of remaining post soon enough.
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superdynamo · 26 days
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https://smatkug.com/
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runkiexmoo · 9 months
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I woke up, receiving a chat from a lovely person, telling me someone was claiming "my art" as their own
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This is the original, was posted on May, based on my Screenshot info it was "May 24 2023, time: 7:06am"
"but that's not the same art" well if you looked into my older blogs, you can see that i posted them at the same day
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The one who claimed it
And they posted it "June 14 2023", they even put their watermark, damn
Anyway i already dm'd them, i just want to continue freely posting my arts on Tumblr without worrying anyone stealing it cuz it's definitely not worth it lol😭 this already happened to me twice just wtf
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maxcatz · 9 months
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lucifer EXPOSED!!!!! CANCEL THEM!!! @s1lly-gh02tz
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troythecatfish · 3 months
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Via Instagram
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unclefieiri · 9 months
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Everyday feels like a day to call off 😮‍💨
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