#bye bye hets

[liltingoddesss]

I.

FORGOT.

HOW.

TO.

BREATHE.

I LITERALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO SAY, I DON'T THINK THERE'S MUCH TO SAY ACTUALLY

#james hetfield #metallica #james #hetfield #papa het #i need him #i love him so much #i wanna kiss and bite his neck #he's such a slutty old man #i suddenly want to become a tattoo artist #his back!!!! #his neck!!!! #his white hair!!!! #the fact that he's 60 MAKES HIM EVEN HOTTER #he's my favorite person #i'm going insane #my thoughts are out of control #i need this man #i love him so much and i want to kiss him #bye

[lornasaurusrex]

I miss you Lorna… this is such a mess

This is an old message and I had several other similar messages, but I miss you guys and hope you’re all doing well!! I’m sorry to see nothing has improved.

I saw I was kindly mentioned by @awesomefringey and some other commenters the other day, so just wanted to log in and say hello and log back out for a few more months. 💕

Sending so so much love to all of you. Take care of yourselves and each other, please.

The video is still on YT.

#Anywayyyyy #The fandom added a whole lot more C to my C-PTSD #So a nice random message every few months instead of a freshly posted death wish is LOVELY. #Don’t fret. On meds and therapied but fresh tf out of money from it so @ L and H… lornasaurusrexx at g*ail is the PayPal if ur bored 🙃 #I hate to be like this but protect your hearts. They’ll never be able to look out for you guys and they feed these trolls ammo for snacks #and it seems to have only gotten worse. Gotta keep them hets hetbaited for their money whilst actively encouraging them to bully yall? Why? #STILL!? At this point it feels like they’ve both chosen that path deliberately now and I find it quite gross. but I’m also very far removed #So don’t worry about my opinions. Keep trusting your own intuition!!! You all see it. I love you guys and your beautiful hearts and empathy #But I hope they can sleep at night knowing the absolute fucking genuine WRECKAGE they left across the Big Gay War generation/era of Larries #Don’t worry guys I’m just as dramatic as ever. None of this has anything to do with them coming out or anything. Just how we were treated. #But trust I fuckin mean that shit from the deepest darkest pit of my Demon Larrie™️ heart. They encouraged this. 🤷🏼‍♀️ #Anyone who cares about my actual life updates: I’m a school nurse now and will be working at a bougie summer camp over break #Had a surgery I needed. Got new tattoos and piercings. In a happy and healthy relationship with the best dude for almost a year now. #OH and I went to New Zealand last year with Prettytruthsandlies!!!! We made a pact back in our Big Gay War/college days to go. And we DID!! #I got overstimulated and overfed and puked in Hobbiton. 🤣 (It was the best time of my LIFE GENUINELY🥰🥰🥰🥰🥹🥹🥹) #Okay BYE LOVE YOU GUYS #There are better and more humane ways to maintain a closet ..like literally STFU entirely. Ignoring it and not exploiting a kid is FREE #🇵🇸

[crystalline-teeth]

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#ok no one asked but #heres a bunch of my fave james images<33 #i genuinely have no idea what years these all are #he's such a big man pls #i love him #just look at him. ive never wanted a man so much #god hes so handsome fr i could cry #the dark hair. the silver beard. the blonde waves. bye #once again. his nose is SO cute #james hetfield #metallica #papa het #death magnetic era #wait no faves are probably like 2004 to death magnetic #this is so not st anger fmmamf

[menalez]

not that id see a male gyno anyways but if one said this to me id just get up and leave

#not dealing with u tryna convince me that i can be havin het sex as a lesbian bye

[sapphicyanli]

idk yall but i think shuri and riri can be girlfriends

#i dont read the comics or whatever so idk the source material but scientist girlfriends would be sick #go get namor an immortal husband or something he has like a millenia age gap with shuri #as if them being a het couple isnt concerning enough #black panther 2 #black panther #black panther wakanda forever #shuri #princess shuri #riri williams #mine #call me heterophobic idc #NAMOR LEGIT KILLED HER MOTHET HOW THE FUCK DID I FORGET THAT BYE #yall see female and male main charas and just decided to just go with it for no reasons huh

[ruuari]

I will always strongly be of the opinion that cis people should be able to write trans character fanfiction. please write trans character fanfiction

#and art #sgkjsdgkjs #delete later #sleepy late night unfiltered thoughts #but seriously though it makes me feel 1000% more supported and loved #and like. please I need people to write trans fic and make trans art like they do cis mlm fic and art #I need the same frequency and passion... plea #I need fandom to interpret characters as trans just as easily as they interpret characters as not het #that's my request. ok bye

[coolspacequips]

I think if all ppl can say about allura is that she's an obstacle to kl or that she's dead to be kl angst or that ppl shipping her w Lance suck then maybe just don't talk about her ever LMAO

#ppl will truly be like 'Lance is bi 😊 but yuck allurance is het trash' bi means liking more than just ur same gender fuck u lol #i love kl but i can't fuck w the fans too much at large bc they love to talk about k and l screwing on alluras grave if they remember her #just say ur hateful and go dont bring allura into this didn't the show treat her bad enough FUCK #at least l fans there's a 50/50 chance they recall dead dead out of the way of Keith allura with some kindness #but k fans it's a 75% chance they hate her and go out of their way to talk about how awful she is and gotta say i don't trust like that #u can dislike any character for whatever reasons but the optics on this are bad and the specific things they say are red flags fr #so many ppl say Lance is bi bc it's a popular fanon to explain he's a flirt w girls but we actually want him to be gay #instead of actually saying it bc they think he's bi... the whole fandom was/is specifically v biphobic #i hc everyone as bi and that means sometimes it's a mf ship but it's still queer like come on #anyway this is for no one I'm just idek bye #text posts #might just delete this I'm so tired 😫 #not even to touch on specifically the misogynior of it all #it's 2024 and I'm still seeing fresh takes that are the exact same shitty takes from years ago

[spaghett-onaplate]

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okay now that its out of my system YOUNG ROUALS SEASON THREE WE FUCKING WON WOOOOO

#okay goodnight good day good afternoon besties we will get through the brain rot together #i am gonna embracemt old man and work on my jigsaw to tey and het sleepytired #i loge tou all and im so glad i could experience the brian rot with yku all bye bye #young royals

[stonerzelda]

Unfortunately that kitten had to go back to her foster mom who. I am pretty sure is going to be fired from the shelter we work with because holy fuck she was The worst -_- god she was cute tho im glad i got to spend time with her today

#like at first she was here with her mom who was a beautiful grey cat #but. she was not doing well. something was very wrong. she didnt move at all the entire day #she had brown pus in her eyes #her breathing was uneven. all she could do was move her eyes around really #so we called her to say we need you to come pick her up and get her checked out because she is really sick #and this bitch snaps at us like 'okay well actually shes fine' and just complains at us for making her come back to get her #and we're like. ok man like your cat is very ill sorry for being concerned about not only her health but her babys health too #let ALONE the health of allll the other animals that come into our store + families petting her that may bring back the illness to their own #animals... #anyway so they finally come back to pick her up and its two of them. one is level headed and the other was the bitch lol #like my coworker had taken them out and was sanitizing the cage and she goes 'well thats STUPID theyre from the same home' #and we start to explain that it doesnt fckin matter were doing what we can to keep the kitten as healthy as possible #but luckily het sister or whoever it was cut her off and was like 'nono thats what they should do. thats what vets do im glad theyre doing #that' and then she was like yelling and yada yada yada #anyway. they FINALLY turn to leave but just before she turns around and goes 'oh by the way i brought another cat to replace the mom. #just dont expect him to be bubbly since you expect cats to be so energetic. hes 9' #like. first of all. its fucking insane that you briught another cat in the first place cuz what happens if the kitten is already sick now #second of all. she adds 'also they havent met each other yet. bye' #LIKE WHAT!!!!!!! THE FUCK DO YOU M3AN THEY HAVENT MET EACH OTHET #YOU JUST LEAVE US WITH ONE POSSIBLY INFECTED KITTEN ANNND A SENIOR CAT THAT HASNT EVEN MET THIS KITTEN???!?!?!? #and were supposed to just leave them together overnight and hope for the best???? BITCH #so yeah anyway we ended up having to call the shelter who called the foster mom Again. thankfully her sister showed up to take them both #but then her fckin sister didnt even tell her she was supposed to take bith cats it was sooo. what a night man #just wow lol #thank u 4 coming to my pet store rant

[thestalwartheart]

i know you're a bond writer, but have you ever thought about expanding into the rest of the ben whishaw cinematic universe? namely the this is going to hurt fandom. there are less than 30 fics on ao3 and half of them are russian or chinese, and half of what's left is either some weird shruti/adam stuff (no that's not a typo) or a random crossover. never known a fandom as overlooked and unloved in my life! if this was 2012 there'd be 8467847684 fics. like, a canon gay main character with multiple possible love interests??? we'd be drowning in coffee shop au's and kink meme entries and all sorts. instead we have nothing, it's really bizarre.

(yes this is a shameless attempt to poach you, no i won't be mad if you tell me to take a hike sjfhfhs)

hsjksjsj attempting to poach me for another fandom might be one of the biggest compliments I've ever had. I'm not gonna tell you to take a hike.

(Would that someone would ask me to write for Paddington.)

ANYWAY. The short answer is no, I haven't really thought about expanding further into the BWCU (Ben Whishaw Cinematic Universe). Mostly that's because his films and TV shows are so good on their own that my brain doesn't feel the need to explore alternatives to the narrative. Though this ask has reminded me to rewatch The Hour, because if there's another bit of Ben media I could see myself writing for, it's that.

In regards to TIGTH specifically, I don't think it helps that I read the book first, so it's always lived in that memoir/nonfiction section of my head where I don't really tread fic wise.

I will say, however, that there is one kiss in it that I think about every time I write a Q kissing scene. It's the second one in this gifset, and it's possibly one of my favourite screen kisses of all time for how hot and natural it is. We've spoken on this blog before about Ben Whishaw being The Kisser Of All Time (cited by Hugh Grant and Mark Gatiss). In TIGTH it is incredibly obvious how true that is.

So idk if it's comforting in any way, but even when i"m writing Bond fic, there's a tiny morsel of TIGTH at the back of my mind 😉

#ask box #i have thoughts on why media (esp british/us media) starring canonically gay characters is less popular fandom-wise than queerbaity media #or media that features “straight” characters #in quotes because of kirk and spock and sherlock and watson okay? no screenwriter on earth can tell me those relationships are het #but i don't feel like getting into trouble today #so sorry tigth fandom you deserve so much better than 30 fics #deleting any mention shruti/adam from my brain now thankyou bye

[liltingoddesss]

It's been a long time since I send you something and I know how much you love current James so...here he is only for you honey <333

aww honeyy!!

i do love him sooo much-

he's literally my dream man

#james hetfield #metallica #james #hetfield #papa het #i love him so much #i need him #i wanna kiss his face #i'm going insane #thank you sweetheart!! #in hav3n #bye

[hydesjackiespuddinpop]

First chapter of my jeia penpal au is up <3

#that 90s show #t9s fanfiction #my fanfiction #fic: pen lovers #leia forman #oc: gregory james #jeia #otp: bye babe! awwww! #het ship

[crystalline-teeth]

weird shots i grabbed from a video because. hello.

#fuck hes so fine #from every angle #you KNOW i had to get the cigar in there #look at him!!! look at his hair!!!!!!!! #and his mustache???? bye im gonna *** #i need to have the filthiest makeout sesh with him #james hetfield #metallica #papa het #i am going to be so weird and say i wanna sniff him #ok goodbye #no and another thing- #i wanna give him back rubs and massage his forearms #and hands

[wastelandbabyblue]

gay people are the same people who say it’s okay not to come out and how scary it is to do so but in the same breathe talk shit about harry who’s already hated by many and perceived by millions… like if it’s scary to come out to your family and friends can they even imagine how terrifying it is to the whole entire world ?? sorry but there’s no justification to complain about someone’s sexuality #touchgrass

nah lol gay people have every right to talk about it when someone has been using the community to sell and get sympathy. his team has been obviously selling this unlabeled thing to cater to all sides and it's not sustainable when his public image is a guy that has only been publicly with woman and only sings about woman. I don't think this is Harry's choice, at all, but he's the face of it. like, we see the things he does that have deeper meaning, but other people don't they won't go on tumblr.com and search 'Harry Styles gay' and look for some masterpost about it, so his team needs to stop trying to sell him to every side without committing to anything that isn't Mr. Het Rockstar who loves woman and sex with woman because hey you heard his lyrics! and you've seen him with gf!

#like you think the community is going to know about medicine when that was never released officially #or that harry used to wear a pride flag pin #no lol #gp will see what his team puts out there and what they're putting out there is ugly #im not gonna defend het hl anymore bye lmao #its time they get dragged tbh

[milkteahoe]

People worried about Fatin looking at Kirin and Henry too long- she’s clearly sus/jealous bc Leah knows who they are

#manifesting this #leatin is canon bye #it’s not setup for a het storyline I’m like 80% sure of this #the wilds spoilers #the wilds

[palestinalibre]

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#I'm all about criticising and problematising shit but sometimes you just gotta enjoy #especially when it's queer art made by a queer person. if you look at it from the het/gp lenses it's probably gonna be frustrating #i think we can problematise the situation also analysing. enjoying and acknowledging the effort he's put into saying something yk? #and yes saldy that something isn't what a casual fan or the gp is gonna catch. but that's what the situation is right now #but I can't stay trapped in there bc there's nothing I can do about other than #interpreting harry's art for what I see. and luckily that pov will reach more and more people #but HarryStylesTM is too big rn to expect that everyone will see those things. and I imo he doesn't even want the whole world to see them #he is very very protective of his truth his privacy. his story #you do you but for me. I can't have a bad time every time he (they) puts something out and #my expectations (however well intentioned) arent met #I (try to) understand the situation and reality he is in. I problematise that situation whenever it's necessary #while still enjoying what he's creating and trying to communicate #because that's the way it best works for me. that's the way I can have a healthy relationship with the fandom #and discuss and learn while I'm here but still enjoy it #so of course you do you. I'm just trying to say it's not a sin to wany to enjoy things even when the situation behind them is shit #each chooses which things they're gonna enjoy. which things they're gonna criticise and which things they're gonna ignore #want* im ignoring all the other typos bye #yes it's still a fight. but it's not sustainable to live in hell all the time. I'm sure THEY don't and they don't want that for us either