#but MAN is the culture toxic

[arohuacheng]

the thing about pei ming. is that what the narrative shows you straight out is him in a relationship where he didn't follow the typical romantic convention of abandoning everything for the other person. and then him attempting to cover for his nepotism grandkid. and then his reputation for sleeping with a lot of women. and then it really doesn't want to let you talk about the fact that he's very consistent about making sure that the women he has relationships with are taken care of after he's gone. or that he was doing the honorable thing by not taking the easy way out of a war and did his best with an impossible situation with that woman afterwards and made sure she was taken care of to the best of his ability. or that shi wudu, water tyrant, trusts him so much that he's essentially appointed him as shi qingxuan's guardian in case anything happens to him. like YES he's a whore. AND.

#i love being a xuan ji apologist i love when women are toxic. in my pei ming fanboy arc rn though #sorry for being a pei ming apologist i don't think he gets enough credit though #he's not morally bankrupt he actually has a very strong sense of honor and moral standards. #it's just that he. likes sex. #he cannot help being aroallo. that's not his fault. man just likes sex but doesn't care much for romantic relationships #anyway yada yada demonization of sex in our current culture nd sex as immoral when not accompanied by romance all that. #if he was not a guy who liked having sex. if he had purely romantic relationships and then made sure they were taken care of after. #how would people talk about him then... #anyway in my head he's the aromantic god of love he's big nd strong and handsome and he's my everything. he's my older brother #he's my gender icon #we could be frat boys together. in another life #talking #tgcf #pei ming #tian guan ci fu

[lostryu]

you don’t get it. Shiver has won EVERY splatfest. IM SO TIRED OF HER!!!

Starting off with saying that i do not have a dog in this fight because I could literally care less about who wins. I am getting sea snails at the end of the day regardless.

This is a child's game. Shiver is a literal video-game character who offers no influence in the game itself other than to act as an MC during a special round of Turf war.

The only reason Shiver has been 'winning' is because Nintendo has given her the more relatable/likable options for splatfest. Yes, I agree that there is a balancing problem because of that, but once again, Shiver is not real. She is a video game character. The problem is not the people playing the game who happen to be on her team, it is Nintendo's. They chose the splatfest options and which character represents them. Take it up with them.

And you know what? It is wild to me is that in an effort to 'protest Shiver' certain people on team Frye and Big Man are 'banding together' to spawn camp on Tri-color matches and forgetting that there are real people on the other side of the screen. And they're probably children. You are bullying children because you think that you have been slighted in some way. You are toxic as fuck.

It's even stupider when you realize that even with the spawn-camp, as long as Team Shiver was on an attacking team, it still counts as a win should the attackers win. You are making yourselves and other people miserable for no fucking reason. It gets funny when you realize that your behavior counts as griefing and is a reportable offense.

So like, sure. Go ahead and do your campaign. I just cannot wait for all those matches to be marked as invalid and for you to be banned from the game lmao.

#splatoon #splatoon3 #splatfest #shiver #shiver vs frye vs big man #idk but maybe grow up #this is a video game #once again i am reminded of how toxic stan culture is #and i am so glad that i do not care #anyway if you guys keep behaving like this #it will literally make the game intolerable #if i see this keep happening #i am not above throwing games

[civilianplus]

the true teenage boy energy of fabian aramais seacaster believing he singlehandedly killed toxic masculinity by learning to dance

#obviously one of my top favorite fabian lines #but like whoa buddy toxic masculinity is still very much a problem #i know it's not the same but like. #imagine a young man learning about enthusiastic consent and immediately being like 'r*pe culture is DEAD' #very sweet my guy but the world is still real messed up #d20 #dimension 20 #fantasy high sophomore year #fhsy #fh #fantasy high #fabian seacaster

[goldenboikuvasauce]

I really love Warframes I don't really care that much about the human characters cos u can get that anywhere tbh not sorry bout it

#I only wanna see Valkyr push thinks off counters I only wanna see nidus shove sandwiches in his thigh stacks cos that's how he eats #I will enjoy AOI cos we Stan an Introvert baddie. #I wanna see CREATURE #tbh what other game is there where you can be a hot bio mech meat robot. #ppl say that it exists by I don't see it #oh the lore is beautiful and would be nothing without lotus but like tbh! #I #want. more. warframe focus I want more body and existential horror I want more world building. #I'm interested in the cultures of warframe #TBH NOT THE TOXIC OLD MAN YAOI LOID DESERVES BETTER

[bo0bydrake]

i have got to emphasise on the fact that this is huge actually- gay rights in football is something that's just barely discussed. during the world cup in qatar, captains were banned from wearing a one love captain's band because it was too political (it was just a band with a rainbow heart on it), homophobia and racism is practically rooted in the songs sung during matches and there are no out players in the premier league, or more generally, there is only one (1) out player in the top leagues. having a character simply just,, be with another man and also a footballer in the premier league is a huge statement and will hopefully aid in trying to make football a better space.

#i listened to a podcast about why there are no out players in sports last year #and the conclusion was that it had to do with a lot of different factors #among them: the fans #take for example in the netherlands there's a hooligan group that roots for feyenoord. they threatened a fellow supporter who - #- started a supporter's group for lgbt+ fans. and also tried to light the man's place of business on fire #and in an away game to (albania i wanna say??) they brought banners that said they wanted him to die of hiv #mind you this is a FELLOW SUPPORTER #for the same club #and the songs supporters sing are a hell of a lot less tame than in ted lasso #homophobic racist antisemetic or islamophobic chants are just regular business in football matches #and in addition to that: locker room culture! #locker room culture in football and many other sports (with the men mostly) is toxic as hell! #there have been some efforts to try and nip this in the bud with trainings and seminars on diversity being given at youth clubs #but it's an issue in society as a whole that a lot of young men are just homophobic as FUCK #and i mean having a character on an acclaimed and popular show on tv/streaming right now could have a huge impact #esp on all the young ppl who'll see this thru fk tiktok and whatnot #im just really excited for what this will bring. and i hope it might do some good in football as a whole #ted lasso #colin hughes #ted lasso season 3

[ruelpsen]

having a somewhat shitty evening which means it's time to think about my fave burping for me so I don't lose my gd mind

#only a few more weeks in this godforsaken place and i'll never have to deal with these assholes again 🙏 #i'm so tired of this place man #thinking about my fave has gotten me through... maybe a concerning amount of frustrating things this year #my baseline for how often i think of him is already pretty high but he's on my mind almost constantly here #bc i am that desperately in need of something happy to help me take my mind off of stressful shit #if there's any genuine advice for me to give on this blog it's this: #when considering a college do some digging online about the culture #ESPECIALLY if you're a minority #and i mean dig deep too #if a school has money they may try their damndest to hide all the problems they have through whatever means necessary #people told me i'd fit in here which is true academically #but socially and culturally this place is full of the most toxic people and mindsets jfc #i could go on about this place and how much it sucks for hours #but anyway... my l*ndo burping 🤤🤤🤤 #thinking about drinking soda with him and him not letting me touch myself or burp 🥴🥴🥴 #sighhhhhhhhhhhh #not sfw #londarling

[citrine-elephant]

leon s kennedy would definitely be the kind of guy to physically overexert himself and take on as much of the labor he can because he feels bad if he doesn't. even if it's fair share, he's gotta jump in and help out.

dead tired, exhausted. who cares if he's being taken advantage of and used because the other party(s) know he'll do whatever he's asked. he feels bad. he feels like he isn't doing enough.

#resident evil #hi lol this is a vent #capitalism culture is making you feel like you're never doing enough #and you know it's bullshit but! #tfw toxic masculinity pressures too #and your boss thinks that you should take on all of the physical labor because you're a man who cares if you physically cannot #and retaliates by punishing you with more and more bcuz you went to hr and politely asked if they could convince her to chill tf out- #vent in the tags #but i mean this seems canon to leon bcuz he'll sacrifice himself for anyone #fuck that #brother! #gotta force yourself to stop and think 'fuck them if they get mad i've done enough' #imagining leon being so weak he's stumbling and shaking #but then goes 'let me help with that' before passing out #leon's bitch ass is a people pleaser and he's convinced he's not! #'nah bro i just wanna help people weewoo imma cop' #nah bro ur into being stepped on! #where am i going with this idk #using my suffering to push on leon #no i dont go that far i just. feel bad if im not constantly- #anyway when i finally spoke up i started sobbin while hiding under some boxes lol #didnt realize how packed that bottle was!

[respectthepetty]

The Reddit folks (and @kiri-kenku) noticed Jojo posted this on his IG:

Red lines seem to mark relationships

Blue lines seem to mark friendships

Sooo....Mark and First had a relationship?

First also had a relationship with Force's character?

But First's character is just friends with Title's character

Is First going to give us the Yok ho phase back?!

The square happening around First, Khaotung, Book, and Force just reinforces, to me, that POLY IS THE ANSWER!

A guy like you should wear a warning. You're dangerous. I'm loving it.

#Only Friends #Only Friends the series #This is going to be messy #And like Marie Kondo‚ I love mess! #Seeing this image gives me hope that this is going to be a strategic hot mess which is my favorite kind of mess #I like my fictional relationships lead-paint toxic #I like my fictional man problematic and slutty #If there is a Boy Culture (the movie and the series) twist to this‚ I'll lose it! #*puts on 80s synth-pop song and dances around my house knowing that Jojo is answering all my prayers in 2023*

[that-was-a-bit-stupid-of-you]

YOU ARE TELLING ME THESE MEN ARE THE SAME?????

#I DONT BELIEVE YOU #how does it go from- soft rich funny guy who gave up the love of his life for his happiness and helped her through every step #to toxic abusive alcoholic who considers his partner his property and even hits her??? #like wtf man #aditya jab we met #aditya x geet #aditya kashyap #young shahid kapoor #shahid kapoor #kabir singh #jab we met movie #geet jab we met #jab we met #bollywood #bollywood movies #desi aesthetic #desi culture #desi academia #desiblr #desi tumblr #desi things #indian #indian movies #indian cinema

[leonardalphachurch]

i pulled out from zero discourse but saw some of torrian’s tweets about it again and MAN i don’t really like the guy all that much but i really truly think if you’re still out here shitting on zero you need to shut the fuck up. “you mean it’s all bad because of corporate decisions?” always has been. now stop blaming a black man for it or else admit you’re just fucking racist.

#makes myself mad #genuinely if you’ve ever tweeted at torrian uh. fuck off i don’t want you here #i don’t think torrian responds to criticism well but when you put your heart into something that you’re barely qualified to do and your #bosses force you to make it even worse and carry the brunt of the entire long running show on your shoulders #while running a company that is literally notorious for treating its black employees like shit #and offering ZERO support to employees who are struggling with its toxic fan base #oh right did i mention the toxic fanbase. did i mention the racist fanbase. did i mention this show was built on a foundation of #‘gamer culture’ aka fucking. racism. #i don’t know. i don’t blame the guy. #i think for the most part ppl have been good lately about moving the fuck on from zero #but. like. man am i still mad about it

[my-thoughts-and-junk]

While I think a romantic arc involving Simon and anyone other than Betty would like cheapen his overall arc about moving on and finding purpose for yourself in a world which doesn't accommodate you or whatever i DO like to imagine. Possible options. For comedy

#random thoughts #adventure time #option one: early 2000s 'pair the main guy and girl together' shipping culture option aka fionna and simon #while this would be so fucking funny (simon becomes tuxedo mask real???) it is also possibly the most boring #and i dont wanna see fionna get romatic with anyone #also it's kind of fucked up since ice king watched finn grow up #and even though simon and fionna are very different from ice king and finn the association's still there #but like??? if they DID do this i'd lose my shit it'd cause riots #anyway option twooo: single mom and deadbeat dad aka simon and prismo #toxically coparenting their child: an entire universe #prismo and simon custody battle!!! THEY ARE DIVORCED #prismo putting simon in that fucking muumuu??? NO PANTS??? #it would be soooo voyeuristic in nature. like hal 9000 & dave #imagine going to the wishing room and prismo's fucked up little man is just sitting in the corner #in a recliner nursing a beer #not reclined at all he's doing like a harrowed hunch

[ewwis-but-fandom]

thinking about how different nanami looks before he went back into the jujutsu business. sure, he's still wearing corporate wear now, but it's so much more expressive. a cream suit, blue shirt, patterned and brightly colored tie, and eccentric glasses. even his hair — where it was once gelled down and perfectly smooth, is now spiky and pushed back, stray hairs here and there. it's clear that he's so much more content as a jujutsushi than a corporate salaryman

#idk i randomly got the #nanami kento #brainrot #he's a permanent instalment in my brain i fear #im not even updated on the latest chapters of the manga #but i randomly got round to thinking about Him #he's a good man !!! #and he's got drip !!!!! #honestly i dont even have the words to wholly communicate my thoughts on him #but the whole change of him before and after going back to jujutsu high Rots My Goddamn Brain #he's an icon #his rejection of the toxic japanese workplace culture #his embracing of his compassion and his conviction to be a a jujutsu sorcerer #his whole backstory about haibara and why he quit and most importantly #why he came back #I LOVE HIM YOUR HONOUR #jjkposting #nanamibrainrot

[pinkfey]

me trying to explain to cishet men that playing video games is a boring baseline interest for them because all men play video games and they need to develop a personality beyond being a gamer if they ever want to be taken seriously or considered their own unique person and not just another part of the male hivemind that is gaming

#i have this theory that young men in the modern age cannot think of their own masculinity apart from video games #it dominates cishet male ‘culture’ #it’s their one unified hobby. ‘gamer guys’ do not exist as a label bc in the modern age you’re lucky to find a man that doesn’t play games #it's how they bond it's how they spend time together it's how they come together to spew bigotry and indoctrinate one another with white— #supremacist ideals. i mean it’s a social hub for them. it’s so deeply ingrained in their lifestyle. #not to mention how it's the only medium aside from the internet through which they express their emotions (i.e. anger rage and hatred) #the concept of what it means to both perform masculinity and be accepted within male circles now intrinsically involves video games #white supremacy and patriarchy feed on gamer culture because gamer culture is the direct descendant of toxic white men #so now in the 2020s cishet men define themselves via video games. it’s tied to their own gender identity and how they connect to other men a #i was going somewhere with this i have more intersections to talk abt but. anyways. i hate men i hope they all die and i mean that lmao #anyways.txt

[capriszn]

i think all my personal problems would vanish if the alternative to every systematic issue wasnt rooted in whiteness

#once again feel like i cant put it into proper words but !!! #but i hate how some things in life dont work for me and then the expected solution is well do it lke white ppl #like me being pissed off at relatives and hierarchal thinking in our culture doesnt mean i want to act white now……. #me not wanting to get married or have children doesnt mean i automatically want to be a girlboss fuck a career man #me critisizing muslim men doesnt mean!!!!! i gaf!!!!! about white men!!!!!!!!! UGHHH #i wont ever act like we dont have toxic shit going down in our culture but i dont think we need to align ourselves with whiteness to fix it #like theres clearly huge problems but why is the alternative always capitalistic individualistic white supremacy paradigms #one thing about me…….i have never wanted the white boy………. #personal

[bojackhorsemanobviously]

thinking of how bojack wanted everyone to like him because his parents despised him and the fan love probably felt amazing/surreal for him that he fed off of it to an unhealthy degree. . and then due to his own fault ended up having so many people hating him.. what a blow..

his parents doomed him to fail while he's his own worse enemy i think are two statements that should exist.

#sorry i just didnt agree with everything was bojacks fault he is much a product of a toxic unloved abusive childhood and then the toxicity o #hollywood culture #and his own choices #he has lingering effects of childhood trauma that were neve healed.. #champ was a fraud my man needs real theapy #rambles #bojack horseman #i do not look at him as a role model i see him as #charlotte say it best: you make me sad..

[ghoulhusband]

thinking about benny being trans again. benny can you tell us what’s up with your fucking ghost gender please

#i LOVE transmasc butch benny. love love love. HOWEVER i think trans dude benny who’s internalized toxic masculinity while at the same time #resisting it is very crunchy. you’re gonna die because you’re so fucking vain because of what a dead man’s gender gave you yknow what i mean #the dismissiveness of where he came from who he was and who he loved because he doesn’t want any part of any of it the rejection of self of #family of community of who he was pre benny. and yet he doesn’t really wanna be benny as benny has been put out for him. his him is a suit #he outs on but he’s slowly tailoring the suit to fit him better. something veeeeery crunchy going on there #like obviously most of this has more to do with benny rejecting the bootriders and what it means to live in the post war world in the #wasteland (and also the racial/cultural othering mr. house pounces on) but then to throw gender in there on top of that. oooooo #benny gecko #benny fnv