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It's so iconic that bisexual is a label that has no gendered implications. There are bisexual girls, and bisexual guys, and bisexual enbies. It's so cool and genderless.
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talkingattumble · 6 months
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Hold on I’ve got a hunch so basically almost every “what’s your sexuality/label” post I see ends with bi and ace in second and first so
Reblog for bigger sample size
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sav-the-bi-queen · 16 days
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The reality of being a bisexual
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wlwsunflower · 6 months
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sexuality is weird and annoying and i hate it. for five years now i’ve been saying i’m a lesbian just because it was easier than trying to explain how i actually feel. it is so much easier than saying:
“i’m attracted to girls and guys, basically any girl that breathes but only a very specific type of guy, you know the ones who look so intimidating, are kind of scrawny, have tattoos and messy hair but are actually just big softies. but the thing is i have no romantic attraction or feelings towards guys, i know for a fact i will never marry a guy or even date a guy, i don’t feel anything of that nature towards them. so i guess that means i’m aromatic…but i’m not. i’m not because my crushes on girls are deeper than just sexual attraction like it is for guys. for girls when i have a crush i know that i want to spend the rest of my life with that girl, that i want to have a family with her, that i want to be there for her when she’s upset and take care of her when she’s sick. so i guess i’m bisexual and aromatic towards guys…i guess even though my sexual attraction towards guys is very rare since my type when it comes to guys is so specific and i rarely see that type of guy walking around where i live.”
it’s a mouthful and confusing so i just say i’m a lesbian. i say i’m a lesbian and since i’m only romantically attracted to women it works out fine. it works out fine until there’s a guy i have sexual feelings for and i can’t tell anyone or act on it because it’ll look like i’ve been lying about being a lesbian…which i mean technically i have but i don’t want to have to explain myself and get confused looks from everyone.
sexuality is weird and annoying and i hate it and why does everyone have to make it this big thing when it really isn’t.
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viiihouse · 8 months
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💜Happy Bi Visibility Month, lovelies💜
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ughalicesblog · 1 year
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HE’S SO
kit with a fan in london today
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wordwovencackle · 2 months
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I never felt so uncomfortable about the voices of other bisexual people until trans rights activists, the majority of whom are bisexual, have become so comfortably homophobic.
There have always been bad apples. But now, when lesbians aren't even allowed their own spaces to talk about being solely attracted to the same sex, I've frequently felt sick to my stomach. There is no reason why those can't exist alongside a shared space for homosexuals and bisexuals, but here we are! I see many bisexuals who are so deprived of talking about their same-sex attraction, experiences, struggles and joy that they are desperate to connect with openly homosexuals but homosexuals are rightfully wary of risking what little they have left. There are barely any lesbian spaces in real life or online left!
I'm sick of bisexuals dictating what homosexuals should or shouldn't be attracted to and yes, I'm also pointing at trans rights activists for being insanely homophobic and going too far by spewing conversion therapy rhetoric like saying someone's sex doesn't matter during sex, or going stealth until clothes come off and traumatising or triggering the other, or lying to trans people in general that their "masculinity" or "feminity" changes their sex or that they can change their sex through surgery, which trickled down to calling homosexuals transphobic at the drop of a hat.
Since when do homosexuals owe you affirmation? Since when do you feel entitled to their spaces? Why did the majority of bisexuals see this happen and just shrug because they aren't monosexual and thus not the target?
"Genital fetishists," are you all daft? A fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs. The attraction towards genitals is intrinsic to sexuality and sexual attraction. I feel like I'm perpetually talking to first graders.
I'm so disgusted with the online bisexual "community" for blindly nodding their heads like spineless, "no infighting please" puppies. Do you think none of this matters? How safe must your life be to not care about others?
As a bisexual, what occurred that made you think you could comment on the experience of monosexuals? And I'm well aware many call themselves "gay," or "lesbian," while being bisexual. If you have a vagina and you would have sex with someone with a penis, you're not a lesbian. If you have a penis and you would have sex with someone with a vagina, you're not gay. If neither of you have the same genitalia, it's not homosexuality.
"Labels don't matter," was for those who weren't sexually awakened and were figuring themselves out. But this is what it has led to: the utter deterioration of homosexual spaces, and it's vile and there should be a lot more shame about it.
I'm glad that in personal relations and daily life, the connection between bisexuals and homosexuals is a bit better. But the physical gay and lesbian spaces we were once proud of are now paradoxically wary of homosexuals for fear of being called transphobic.
And I'm also blaming bisexuals for not being critical. For prioritising fetishes and kinks before sexuality. For not listening to the experiences of people with a sexuality different from their own varied, but not exhaustive, experiences. I'm blaming bisexuals for not standing up for homosexuals.
I'm not ashamed of being bisexual. I've never been ashamed of it and I never will be. I'll post this post and continue like normal - and isn't that a privilege?
I will always love other bisexuals who aren't homophobic. There are plently, but there should be more. And louder.
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will80sbyers · 23 days
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This was such a good article!!
You can read it all HERE
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perfect-bi-paradise · 10 months
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Hey everyone, I'd like to take a moment to talk about a somewhat misunderstood bisexual symbol. This symbol consists of four symbols linked together; these are the signs for female, infinity, intersex, and male. Now what makes this symbol misunderstood to the point many bisexuals reject it's use is that they see the gendered male and female symbols and believe it only represents attraction to only two genders, a notion the bisexual community has rejected about bisexuality itself. What many people fail to realize is the infinity symbol ♾ part between them and what that represents. The infinity symbol is there to represent the gender spectrum and bisexualities natural fluidity, meaning that bisexuality links both binary sexes and all genders! In viewing infinity as an endless bridging between both sex and gender which is where the intersex symbol comes in since bisexuality was not only a term for a persons sexuality, but was also at one point used to describe a person who is intersex. This was one of the reasons "Hearts Not parts" was originally founded as a bisexual term and beautifully shows in-between female and male there are infinitely more genders and possibilities and Bisexuality in regards to not being limited by sex or gender automatically recognizes and includes them all.
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hellomynameisbisexual · 11 months
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REPOST: 🗣️ bisexual men, LISTEN UP
Your sexuality is your greatest power. It's a blessing not a curse to be bi
For many years I carried self hatred, but isn't it funny how what you deem as your greatest 'weakness' is in fact your greatest strength?
when I stopped looking for acceptance from other people, I gained the most important thing acceptance from myself. Bro, accepting yourself and being confident in who you are is attractive af, others will see your light shining and come over to bask in in
TRUST ME.
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Bisexual girls with a preference for guys deserve love
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ivygorgon · 7 months
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It is time to Celebrate Bisexuality Day, tumblrinas!
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Text from CBD wiki page:
Celebrate Bisexuality Day (also called Bisexual Pride Day, Bi Visibility Day, CBD, Bisexual Pride and Bi Visibility Day, and Bisexuality+ Day) is observed annually on September 23 to recognize and celebrate bisexual people, the bisexual community, and the history of bisexuality.
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virginia-the-opossum · 7 months
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Happy Bisexual Week!!!!
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bidotorg · 2 months
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💘💜💙
Donate here:
https://donorbox.org/bi-org
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ughalicesblog · 1 year
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