#between social anxiety and a good portion of my extended family being disasters big get togethers were always work even before this

[pacmagician]

A few years ago an extended family member did something incredibly shitty and I don’t want any sort of relationship with him but a lot of people in my family are still friendly with him.  I just worry people are going to start expecting to me to act like it never happened after they think enough time has passed when I have no reason to think he wouldn’t do something awful again.

#I am ok #I just don't feel comfortable at that house anymore #and he still has access to everyone he did hurt #between social anxiety and a good portion of my extended family being disasters big get togethers were always work even before this #someone got new kitties and it would be nice to see them but I just never feel ok in that house