This is something I'll probably never actually do but I'd love to take a plain white t-shirt and write 'I HATE SEX' on it. I'm sex repulsed, not sex negative, but it's annoying how somehow you have to justify being sex repulsed by specifying that you're not sex negative
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“You’re not oppressed for being proship!”
Okay cool, I agree, I never said I was.
But also,
You’re not being oppressed because people create art that’s personally unpleasant for you.
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I do love how immediately Alanna just accepted that not only was Egwene hooking up with someone in the White Tower, but she was hooking up with multiple people and genuinely needed help on how to manage her performance in three ways while still satisfying herself
like you know that Egwene is definitely not the first Novice or Accepted to go to Alanna for love and sex advice and Alanna is just like "this is my job, I will counsel these girls on sex" and assumes that's what they're there for when they come ask to talk to her privately
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Sorry, but now I have a physical need to know why you think Marc needs to be in a 24/7 D/s relationship
look it's simply about a man who will not take care of himself and will not in any way prioritize his own body/health/wellbeing in any way or for any purpose that is not about winning motorcycle races. @moonshynecybin just made an amazing post about this here. as @baking-soda and other geniuses have put it, 'self preservation is new to the marc marquez system.' (edit literally marc himself said it lmao). he's doing pushups the day after arm surgery so that he can get back on a bike and then he's breaking his arm in half again, etc. he's trying to race while essentially blind until his brother begs him not to, which in his documentary basically got described as giving marc the excuse he needed not to race because he could NOT GIVE HIMSELF THAT PERMISSION! it had to be for alex.
so that's part of it. then of course the other part is that it's not just any 24/7 d/s relationship it's specifically with vale. and therefore it becomes about healing on multiple levels: yes part of it is about literal physical healing for marc, because now vale is allowed to tell him go to sleep early tonight/you can only work out for one hour today/come here and eat your dinner (/suck my dick/be loved/feel pleasure...). or whatever. (actually it's almost a different topic but i am SO torn on whether or not vale's control would extend to anything directly racing-related. i think neither of them would want it to tbh... marc makes his own decisions on track and about his career... and yet. does vale ever say do not race this weekend marc. hm!).
anyway so healing physically and then emotionally for both of them--vale who has this part of his history that is about hurting/destroying people that he has loved, or his influence ultimately being destructive, and the academy is one way that he's righting that but everything that happened with marc was a different kind of destruction and failure and so the opposite of that is this intensive caretaking that is premised on this huge gift of trust. that vale didn't earn! he did, frankly, the opposite of earn it. and yet marc gives it to him anyway... that is so intense and scary. it's just as scary for vale to have that trust as it is for marc to let someone else make decisions about the body that is his livelihood and his self and that he has been so unkind and unforgiving to for so long...
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A fic that looks like it’s about to be a Wangxian kid fic because WWX is seriously considering adopting A-Yuan because all of A-Yuan’s living relatives are too old or too sick to take care of him except for Wen Qing, who is an ER doctor and just simply does not have the time to do that and be a single parent of a little kid, so maybe, because A-Yuan loves you so much, Wei Ying, you could adopt him, and then what’s left of his birth family could still stay in his life…
But HERE COMES JIANG WANYIN WITH A STEEL CHAIR and a “We could get fake married and I could help you take care of A-Yuan, it’s not fair that you should have to give up your nephew just because this country has so few accommodations for single parents, I’m really good with kids (probably) I’ve always wanted to be a parent (kinda) and it’ll be a totally 100% platonic marriage because I’m DEFINITELY not secretly in love with you” and then the rest of the fic is chengqing fake relationship AU
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people comparing alicent to the high sparrow when all she did was not be cool with bestiality imagery plastered across her walls
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