#bad break up

[down-the-pithole]

Gavotte

So I just learned to gavotte is the “lively peasants kissing dance” so like Aziraphale went to a “discreet gentleman’s club” to learn this while Crowley sleep like the dead

(or just me when I’m depressed)

So they really represent the two paths of a breakup

Depressed sleeping

Getting down at a club

#crowley #good omens #aziraphale #crowley and aziraphale #anthony janthony crowley #I May be dumb just learned this #Bad break up #ineffable husbands #On off relationship #Me with my therapist

[geareduptom]

How Alex somehow ended up dating Natassia Slinky at one point.

It legit was a dare. Alex had never felt feelings for other people. So he didn’t realize how badly he’d hurt her feelings. Cause he didn’t know those feelings. 

He dated her for 2 months. Making her feel somewhat special before breaking up with her cause the dare was over. And he legit just told her that all of it had been a dare and that hurt her. 

And her and Felix were friends at the time. So she began to question if Felix was faking his friendship as well and began to distance herself. Felix was a bit confused and hurt, but he hadn’t realized what happened either. So he leaned on Sheba who comforted him.

Fast forward to high school. Natassia apologized to Felix and she confessed to him that she still has feelings for Alex. But it’s at this point Alex starts going through a rough patch in his life and pushes everyone away a lot more.

So those feelings went unresolved and after a few horrible and good boyfriends she realizes Alex really sold her short and tried to talk to him. But he said a lot of horrible things about her and how she’d never become the star she dreamed to be. 

Thus she begins to loath him. Since he never apologized or explained to anyone about what was going on. He just lashed out and pushed Natassia to prove him wrong.

#g.u.t. #art #mine #alex the cat #randomguy #Felix The Cat #natassia slinky #childhood #highschool #old girldfriend #bad break up #geareduptom

[amethystheart2421]

Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling Rating: Teen And Up Audiences Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Sirius Black/Remus Lupin Characters: Sirius Black, Remus Lupin Additional Tags: Drinking, Infidelity, Break Up, Angst, First Wizarding War with Voldemort (Harry Potter), Wolfstar Server's Wolfstar Bingo 2022, Undercover Missions Summary:

Takes place during the first Voldemort war.

Remus returns from a mission expecting a happy reunion with Sirius. He didn't expect this.

#wolfstarbingo2022 #bad break up #remus lupin #sirius black #first war with voldemort #angst #i'm so sorry #infedelity #wolfstar #remus/sirius

[noellellelle]

you dont see brave writing like this in tv shows anymore

#breaking bad #marie schrader #i'll heat up some lasagna

[kylejsugarman]

only thing i know for certain is that if "breaking bad" took place during modern times, jesse would've used his cash to buy a drone and there would've been a sick ass sequence filmed from drone perspective and one episode cold open would've been all scary and sinister and it would end with an ominous shot of the drone laying all crushed and fucked up on the floor to imply harm done to jesse. and it would be really sad

#syd squeaks #he'd still have a roomba i think bc thats just a good investment. its good technology. it vacuums for u #but i can so easily picture sad drone all fucked up #breaking bad #jesse pinkman

[andthebeanstalk]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need. #the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist. #the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28! #a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents. #they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong. #and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives. #you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead? #or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of. #no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow. #i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong. #just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

[mevil]

#jovan #breaking bad #video #original is by placeboing #when I saved the unedited video from twitter it had the watermark already removed #i only sped the video up

[cosmererambles]

Modern AU coming along.

I know I’ve been fairly insane about my pirate AU, but my modern AU is coming along as well! I fleshed out the first chapter of the Kelsier side of things, Kaladin’s chapter is uh...getting drafted, as it’s all over the place and he’s being a little shit to write. I’ve always had this issue with him; I started with Stormlight, and whenever I tried to do something Kaladin he was as stubborn as a mule, absolutely refusing to let me write him. Kelsier in contrast just...flows. He’s excited. He loves the attention. 

These fics are two seperate fics that will be published seperately, as opposed to two different chapters. The characters will meet, but not interact much. It’s just for fun, like seeing a Stormlight easter egg in a Mistborn novel, or vice versa.

Kelsier is of course, the best part. He’s a crime boss; owning several downtown businesses in the MSP area, including a strip club which he has no hands in running; he just owns the thing. It’s entirely woman ran.

He’s got intricate tattoos that run up his arms, dubbing him the name “Lord of Scars” though that may be edited to fit the period, because it sounds a bit...archaic if you put it in the mouth of city dwelling Minnesotans. He’s originally from Chicago.

Kaladin in his fic is an ex marine trauma medic turned trauma surgeon at a Minneapolis Hospital, I’ll probably make it a North Memorial, idc really the exact placements of these settings. They are just in the city. Eventually, he’ll meet up with Adolin and Shallan, and even Tarah, who finds this introverted doctor incredibly sexy from her cloistered area in the registration booth. 

I know next to nothing about actual ER procedures so if there are any nurses who read my stuff, please don’t kill me; theres only so much I’m willing to research for a fic, it’s just for fun!

#ramblings #tags are for losers #MyWriting #Modern AU #Kelsier is so sexy I cannot wait till the sex scene with Mare #Mauve is an ex of his #bad break up #=/

[thebrainrotsreal]

Random musings about an episode where Spectra disguised herself as a student, rather than a counselor to sow misery within the high school! Spreading gossip, being outright malicious, shattering friendships, and all that jazz! Plus, using that fact she looks like a teen against Danny, since unless cornering her, he couldn't fight her without looking like he's attacking a random student.

#she probably also tries to ruin both his reputations as ghost AND as a student #and fits in with the A-listers easily while breaking up their friendships by spreading rumors and gossip #a fun idea! haha i love drawing her so much #something about all the girl designs in this show make me wanna draw them SO bad #the brainrotsreal's art tag ✧˖°:*♡ #digital art #danny phantom #danny phantom fanart #phanart #penelope spectra #dp spectra #dp fanart #i love being PEAK at mental/emotional combat and vlad being peak in physical combat as danny's enemies

[theriverbeyond]

Gideon Nav terrible fashion sense is so important to me babygirl has never been free to dress herself in her LIFE and i firmly believe that if she did have that freedom she would wear just. the most dogshit outfits. socks with slides. neon colors. shirts that say TITS with an arrow pointing down. outfits so bad every woman she meets is begging to take her on a department store makeover episode. outfits so bad you wonder if she got dressed in the dark upside down picking her clothing items by chaos potential. outfits so bad they wrap around to being sick as hell before winding back and punching you straight in the face

#gideon nav #the locked tomb #thinking about how her whole life she's just been. stuck in roles dictated to her. and trying to break free so bad #but babygirl is in QUICKSAND the more she reaches for freedom the more violently it is ripped away from her. #anyway. gideon goofy oitfit truthers rise up #like if she had the freedom to dress herself eventually i think she would grow to have a really nice sense of style #but she needs that freedom first. to be goofy. #to ME #trb.txt #tlt thoughts

[timetodiverge]

You kids BETTER BEHAVE or Ma will wave The Screwdriver at you again!!

#MUM IS BACK YAYYYYYY #crosshair taunting hunter ahhhhh I DIED #words cannot describe how happy I am to have Echo back #he instantly has to step in and start breaking up fights again ahahahaha #tbb spoilers #the bad batch spoilers #tbb #the bad batch #the bad batch season 3 #tbb echo #tbb hunter #tbb crosshair

[obsob]

happy and proud!!

✷(print shop)✷

#mine #original #sm how managed 2 miss pride month....but its pride month every month in this house hold #ive read two bad YA books so far this month as a break from th 2nd farseer book but now.....i am back.........i am reading th 3rd one #its gna make my brain explode i can feel it #n then idk what i will read. maybe th hands of th emperor #could i read smth other than 800 page epic fantasy pls #the YA books werent too bad for YA but they hve that YA cringe 2 it. idk how u people read it constantly #if i hve 2 read th word 'heck' one more time #also theres always like. disney channel vibes. like i read gay YA romance n its so sanitised n vanilla. its so superficial #like i get this is for 16 year olds but were is the longing. the yearing. these guys are fanfic tropes stuck 2gether 2 glue. #also. what is with nearly every mlm romance / fantasy being YA not adult fiction. whats up w that #anyway hve a good evenin im gna do knitting!!!!!!!!!!!!

[cyber-corp]

A diagram like this appeared in a dream I had nearly 2 years ago now and I've yet to figure out what it means

#quirked up white boys???? i guess??? #tf2 scout #tf2 #jesse pinkman #breaking bad #jerma #from streaming #venn diagram #the numbers mason! #gecko boy

[huyandere]

nobody: jesse every season:

#breaking bad #brba #jesse pinkman #walter white #he gets. beatn up :( #i keep moefying him

[kylejsugarman]

"walt wasn't evil from the beginning!!" walt literally drank jesse's beer and smoked jesse's weed without asking in the second episode

#syd squeaks #jesse's loose giant pile of weed on the kitchen counter but still. it was NOT up for grabs #breaking bad #jesse pinkman #walter white

[chitinleg]

got him off-balance!

#my art #ds9 #star trek deep space nine #julian bashir #elim garak #garashir #watercolor #image desc in alt text #i normally post on mondays but. today im breaking my pattern! getting a little silly. getting a little wild. garashir jumpscare #“tumblr user chitinleg garak would neot easily let himself be swooped off his feet into a hug like that” yes i know BUT! #look at his expression. look at how his arms r pinned. he didnt let this happen LMAO julian just surprised him. grabby huggy human behavior #if you look really closely you can see the tiniest frown in the world on Garak's face. because he's like “EEP !” #cant see bashirs face at all in this only his body but i think we can all imagine that whatevers going thru his head. he needs this hug bad #ALSO. for anyone wondering what the fucked up shadow is that starts at the juncture of the teal sleeve-cap where its set into the armhole #the jumpsuits have a bit of a fold of extra fabric (called an Action Pleat) there which allows for a little more maneuverability of the bod #AND creates a really sleek and flat back panel #because you can see the fabric twists along the side arent grabbing the flat back fabric theyre grabbing the fabric folded beneath it #often times i think about drawing out a dissection of kiras first uniform and this voy era one for other artists to use. bc god knows #i struggled at first to find full body references #they like to shoot ds9 very close to peoples heads. and the camera is so blurry. they smeared butter on that thing. god bless