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willowser · 4 months
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hi hi willow!!!!!!!!!!! (<- absolutely not in pain whatsoever)....... i am just wondering if..... uh.... u have imagined a reason for the breakup yet? i'd love to know why you think bakugo would ever break up with you. heh heh. hah. :D (i am crying)
here are the things you don't know—yet, at this point in time after the breakup.
two weeks before, dynamight gets into an ugly argument with a civilian. over something stupid, probably; she's drunk and not listening to a word the hero is telling her, stumbling around in public and taking her shoes off and shoving at him when he tries to corral her from getting into another fistfight in the street.
it's just—bad. looks bad. before anything productive can happen, a few of her friends are stumbling out and screaming at him, too, for being a cocky asshole and putting their phones in his face and recording him and maybe he says something he shouldn't—not something terrible, just something that sounds extra bad when a group of young women are screaming and angry at you—and it gets blasted all over the internet.
two weeks before, dynamight gets dragged in the paper. for being a jerk. for being such an asshole. remember when he nearly collapsed that building last month, during that fight? so careless. and he's never friendly when anyone comes up to him on the street, either in uniform or not. is more likely to brush someone away than stop and take a picture. in high school he was a little brat, too, with the way he spoke to his peers and didn't know respect if it slapped him in the face.
his poor partner. must be miserable to be with him all the time. they deserve better.
and if they know how he is? and how he acts to the people he's supposed to take care of? well, they must condone that kind of behavior, no? they're okay with him acting like that in public? what kind of morals do they have, anyway?
the other thing you don't know yet is that katsuki has been working every day. two shifts, sometimes, to the point that there's little more he does than eat and sleep and be dynamight. there's no free time. if any tries to make an appearance in his schedule—he's filling it with something, anything; going hiking, working out, cooking dinner for his shithead friends, not being at home.
whatever he's doing, he's not being at home.
yes, he got rid of everything he could that belonged to you. because he couldn't stand to look at it and know you weren't going to use it in his house again. can't stand it. refuses to, actually. is only putting one foot in front of the other, every day, and not really thinking about that weird, awful weight sitting in his gut, that feels dark and terrifying. he can't think about it. he's not bad at avoiding those kind of thoughts—he's done it before and he'll do it again.
and lastly—he's a fucking idiot.
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verm1c1de · 5 months
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I don't think I've ever seen any tallest x dib content before you, I'm curious about how you see them together and what made you ship them
theres like,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, maybe enough dib/tallestshipping art on deviantart to count on one hand purrobably. there was some ofur guy befur me doing it. and then theres like <10 on r34 paheal and xxx respectively and theyre all terrible
BUT
that is not what u asked abt
what MADE me ship them,,,,,,,,,, was an rp i have with my brother. we were just being sillay. fucking around. and then we found out and now its like really compelling to me actually and i started considering it in canon iz too and now im insane furefur. thanks id. couldnt have done it without u bro
how do i see them togefur,,,
to summarize: two fancy meangirls and their weird rabid feral dog they found on the side of the road that they found silly enough to keep around
ive made whole posts abt them befur but ill KEEP TALKING ANYWAYS bcs i love being enabled and they are unfurtunately my favorites </3 ((not the same thing as my otp or what i think the Best ship is,,,, thats obviously zadr but these three make me insane in a diffurent way))
to summarize again: they all SUCK
theyre terrible awful selfish people who wouldnt know what sympathy looked like if it slapped them in the face. at least two of those faces are purretty. dibs is not. uggo. sadly they bond ofur this which makes all of them worse. mostly dib. its not easy being worse when ur already a murderous space dictator
and then theres my insane hc about both of the tallest but especially red being defective,,, there is So Little basis fur it in the show but ive somehow extrapawlated "catholic guilt purreacher boy" out of red and i at least think it makes him a little more inch resting
dib being his manic demon nightmare boy, of course
and purple,,,,,, is just the hedonist. he doesnt care much fur anyone ofur than himself, but those two can stick around he Guesses,,,,, if they entertain him enough. and he even hasnt thought about the pawssibility of being without red
dib, meanwhile, is a stupid fucking idiot. this is a pawertrip fur him. his ego could not be bigger. which is saying a lot when he was already an egomaniac befurhand. but i mean. if I was tolerated by the most pawerful people in the mewniverse id be a little smug about it too. he keeps purrojecting his Thing with zim on them but to a lesser degree though, since theyre Evil Aliens and hes the Hero to Stop Them. except he goes on a Heroic Tirade™ detailing how hell defeat their evil plans while literally hanging out on the couch with them while purple flicks cheeseballs at his huge forehead ((hard to miss!))
mew enabled me so this is what mew get
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imightgetbetter · 10 months
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any tips for unrequited love and pining and constantly thinking about the other person when u know they dont give a fuck about you 🙃
you literally just described my entire last relationship .. it is tough let me tell you. i'll tell you a little summarized story and then i'll tell you how i moved on.
so basically i met my ex during my freshman year of college and i was his emotional support girlfriend for about four years (he had a girlfriend for like three of these years) before i told him i couldn't talk to him anymore and cut it off for about a year before i went back and started talking to him again because it was during the height of the pandemic and i was lonely and missed him and his consistent inconsistency and in this year that we were talking i basically begged him to tell me he liked me (because i knew he did but he would never ever give me any sign of interest once he caught wind that i could maybe know), he ghosted me when my grandfather died, and then proceeded for about a year to tell me all about the girl he was fucking around with. we talked from September 2020 to March 2023 when i finally met my now boyfriend (my ex is j to refer to) because i was open with my boyfriend about the fact that when we started talking i was still on and off talking to j, he was like, not very comfortable with that obviously and i totally understood that and respected that so the day we went on our first date i got a text from j randomly (we hadn't spoken in a month before this) and i asked him what he wanted me to do because at that point i just really wanted a reason to tell him off and not feel bad about it and he was like tell the guy to fuck off and i was like yep okay and basically said we're not friends we shouldn't talk anymore if i want to talk to you i'll reach out otherwise don't talk to me and that was the last time we spoke
and truthfully, it took me finding my boyfriend and seeing the way you can be treated when someone is in love with you to fully be like okay this was bad and i don't deserve to be in this fight to pine and feel unreciprocated love forever. i used to think i would have to settle for j when i was like thirty five and alone cause i could never find someone that i clicked with and he just so happened to click with me and be around the few times i needed a "friend" (he was a very terrible friend) and i clung to that so hard even though he was literally so awful. my boyfriend is so in love with me and would do anything for me (i mean anything) and when you finally have love reciprocated it's such a crazy experience because you're suddenly like, woah, in this huge world shift where you realize you don't have to settle for anything and you don't have to sacrifice things for this person who doesn't give a shit about whether you live or die. last night my boyfriend was talking about getting a house with me next year and today we were talking about what would happen if he switched careers and if i would follow him where he had to live like, when someone truly loves you and wants you, you will never question it.
it's so brutal to move on from unrequited love because you always feel like one day they will change, but i promise you that they don't. they don't change. they manipulate you and make you think that what you want is so out of this world, but i promise there's someone out there that won't even meet you halfway, they'll go all the way and you won't know what to do with the love they're giving you. i genuinely think my best advice is to cut communication completely and put yourself out there and just remind yourself that time isn't running out and you can meet people and fall in love and experience real love that doesn't take so much effort on your end.
love is hard work but it's not a job.
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champagnepodiums · 1 year
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this is a completely different topic from what you've been discussing here...
but, um, the way fans nowadays babify drivers is so weird... not only that but also some of the tweets that cross limits while jokingly 'shipping' drivers. maybe that's just how most of the new fans tweet / talk abt drivers but psychoanalysing every little thing abt them and the extent to which some of them are babified is genuinely kinda insane to me lol..
i believe that also plays a big role in how the casual fans/on insta/even media to some extent behave towards certain drivers, especially the ones who are believed to have only female fans, which is so not true. it also doesn't help in reducing the amt of misogynistic comments made by men bcuz it makes them believe more in what they say abt watching the sport only for looks etc etc. but this just leads them to not take such fans seriously at all and yeah i mean ppl will probably say enjoy the sport like u want to and all but it would be easier for other fans as well if such ppl were a little more normal in the way they talk abt drivers i guess.
i know there's nothing anyone can do abt it and it's probably just the way the new generation of fans behave and act but i just wanted to get this out of my head..
okay so like no offense to you, everything I'm going to say right now is not directed at you, personally anon because i do think you mean well and i don't think you had any idea that you have touched on things that i feel strongly about but also things that are kind of sore spots for me atm but there are a few things i want to go over:
do we all know what psychoanalysis actually is? its not just this anon but i see this word tossed out so casually and like it's this terrible, awful thing and i do not think as a whole, this fanbase actually has a good grasp on what psychoanalysis actually is. it's become this word with a negative connotation and I just think we should generally have a conversation about that. Now, I am not any of your guy's mothers nor do I have the time to handhold everybody through this explanation for you today so I invite you to read this. I would like to tldr it to make a point and it's this quote from the article: "Psychoanalysis, in providing multi-layered and multi-dimensional explanations,  seeks to understand complexity." When people are psychoanalyzing drivers (and it's something that I've been accused of more than once), usually what is happening is a person or a group of people are trying to use the information that we know about a driver through interviews to understand this driver. And sure, sometimes lines are crossed but I do not think psychoanalysis is some terrible thing that is ruining this sport.
Men are going to devalue women in motorsport spaces no matter what- I would suggest you reflect on the idea of women not participating in babifying drivers (which I think you're talking about fangirls essentially which i have thoughts on fangirls in general but im staying on topic kind of) will somehow make men respect women in motorsport spaces. i do not want to assume anything about you, anon but i have a sneaking suspicion that you might be younger (and that's okay!!) and i just -- it really doesn't matter how "good" of a fan you are, men will find a reason to discredit you. i spent a LONG time trying to be a perfect motorsport fan and you know how much respect it has earned me among men? absolutely none. men are either going to respect you as a motorsport fan or they're not, it doesn't really matter what sort of fangirl type behaviors you partake in (or not). I'm not saying that women who aren't interested in the fangirl behaviors are wrong or anything but trying to refrain from them in hopes of avoiding misogyny is honestly a waste of time (I've been in sports fandoms for a decade so while this probably sounds harsh and pessimistic, I've been around the block a few times and if i could give any advice to 16 year old me, it would be to not give a flying fuck about what men in sports fandoms think of me).
I think i had a third thing but it's gone now lol. I think motorsport fangirls are amazing and kickass and honestly so incredibly knowledgeable about motorsports and i will always defend and advocate for their right to exist in motorsports. anon, if you're still reading this i really hope you know i'm not yelling at you or anything, like i'm not mad or anything. if you wanna keep talking about it, feel free, you can even dm me!!
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littleragondin · 10 months
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For the ask game!
To Sir with Love, cause I know you love talking about that show >:)
Aaahaha thank you for asking! I do love talking about it a perfectly reasonable amount (˘︶˘).。.:*♡
Favourite character: look it's Tian. He's sweet and kind and he loves his family, he cries easily (always earns points w/ me), I just adore him. I also love the others very much, but he's just. Yeah.
Funniest character: hmm... I think I'll have to pick Lady Pin, because she was so witty, and her "I'll find another boyfriend" made me laugh out loud.
Best-looking character: oh that's a hard one... I uh, I'm going to cheat because I'm bi and I can't choose to save my life. I think Tian is the best looking man, and Madame Li is the most gorgeous woman.
3 favourite ships: I’m going to be very classic here, unsurprisingly, but of course > Tian/Jiu, they quite simply invented romance, 10/10 no notes, could watch them fall in love for ever. > Yang/Pin, they are super adorable, they are fun and funny, sweetest little things really. > And then... frankly, any combination of Madame Li with the other women of the house. For someone so hell bent on making her son straight, she had chemistry with all those women like wow.
Least favourite character: it’s Mr. Song I’m afraid. Look, is he the one who did the worst things in there? Nah, of course not. But between his disregard for what happens in his family, his treatment of said family from Chan and Yang (unforgivable) to Zhang and Tian (the slap in ep.15??? anyWAY), and the lack of accountability? Really makes me go =/ Ultimately, he's the source of all the shit that goes down (even if it doesn't erase personal responsibility for others, hi Madame Li), and the fact he gets to end the series with a family whole and loving and as close to what he wanted as possible?? HMMMMMM don't like that so much.
Least favourite ship: You know what? Mr. Song/Chan. The only good thing is that it produced Best Brother Yang, but otherwise it's just a terrible, terrible marriage. The resentment and the toxicity is SO unhealthy, there is no respect there, and while it makes for a compelling story it's truly an awful relationship.
Reason why I watch it: it just hits all of my buttons. Absolutely lovely queer romance with a HEA? Check. Period drama which means nice costumes? Check. Family drama and central sibling relationship? Check. Soap opera levels of drama and lies and m u r d e r s? CHECK CHECK CHECK. It has glitter fights people, what more can you ask??
Why I started watching it: I finally caved in to the promise of wonderful siblings (as usual, my ultimate goddamn weakness). That’s the first thing that made me tick when it aired and I started seeing it on my dash, and
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scarletvisionss · 2 years
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I have so much respect that you wrote Wanda to have post partum depression, and I wanted o ask two things: (only answer this ask it is okay)
1. How did Wanda really feel when Auggie was such a tiny baby? Like is she super protective? My mom had post partum and till this day she’s always tell me she loved me but it was a real battle
2. Does Wanda ever feel like she is owing Auggie something? And u like to think Auggie reels her she loves her all the time, like how was the first time Auggie told her she loved her for wanda?
I think Wanda's post-partum depression mostly centered around her fear that she would disappoint Auggie, and be a bad mother, to the point where she started thinking she *was* a bad mother, especially when she was so exhausted from not sleeping and a little bit cranky. She thought that Auggie deserved perfection and that since she was far from perfect that she was a terrible mother and a terrible person and it all kind of spiralled into this awful grief-stricken place for her, compounded by the untreated depression she'd had for years beforehand since her parents died, and her hormones were just all out of wack. I wanted, in part, to be faithful to parts of Wanda's comic canon, and in some of her most recent comics, she's sober because she's on antidepressants, and a vegetarian. In my fic, she's been sober since she got pregnant, and her diet skews more towards vegetarianism, though she does still eat meat sometimes, and a lot of that is because Auggie hates meat, haha. I also wanted, in part, to write a character who... is a little like me in that way. I've been on antidepressants for most of my life now, and while I've never had any kids or anything and never been through Wanda's situation, I do know what it's like to live with a bad brain that makes you sad. So it's kind of therapeutic, in a way, to write Wanda. (And Vis, but more on that later.)
2. Babies learn to say "I love you" very young, at least in my experience with my nieces and nephew, because babies learn how to talk through repeting the people around them. So one of Auggie's first sentences was probably something like "Love you," since Wanda says it too her all the time. I don't know that Wanda feels like she owes Auggie more than the typical "I'm her parent so I owe it to her to give her the best life I can," but she definitely feels a bit more pressure to make Auggie happy as a single parent. Sometimes Wanda really worries that she's not enough for Auggie - I'd consider it her biggest irrational fear - but that's definitely not true. To Auggie, Wanda's the entire universe. All Auggie has ever known is Wanda's unconditional love and sacrifice to make her happy. Auggie loves Wanda probably exactly as much as Wanda loves Auggie, which is with her whole heart. I sort of projected onto this fic in reverse, in a way, as I was raised by a single mother since age ten and know how much my mom has struggled and sacrificed for me, and the older I get the more I love and respect her for it. My mom's pretty much my whole world, and I imagine Auggie feels the same way. And when she's older - even though, quite obviously, her family situation will be much different with Vis and her siblings in the picture - I like to think that she'll look back at those first five years and feel the same about Wanda.
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satanfemme · 3 years
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oh... active workplace ableism.... obv I already knew us "crazies" are nothing but a joke to the rest of you guys but it still sucks to be reminded of that :|
and I know everyone reading this, who isn't personally affected, is just gonna think to themselves "oh well I'm not ableist" and move on anyway, but: I don't care what kind of episode someone is having, a person's real lived distress isn't fcking funny <- internalize that
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anti-ks · 7 years
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hi i'm the type to avoid discourse so..i'm wondering whether it's the actual manhwa or the fanbase you're deeply upset about? of course like it's a nasty story yes..but some ppl don't like happy daisy stories all the time in the world of fiction. all readers are aware it is problematic (or u must be stupid) & you can very much read it w/out shipping the 2 and still appreciate the horror/thriller aspect. as for ones who fetishize the relationship they're the ones who need help. have a nice day
Hello! Thank you for the nice and respectful ask, I really appreciate it. As for what I’m worried about, it’s honestly a bit of both.
The manhwa concerns me mostly because it is a yaoi rape/abuse porn written by a straight woman for the pleasure of straight women. And because of that her comic is homophobic, because she is objectifying gay men as things she can get off to while ignoring the fact that actual gay men are extremely uncomfortable with the way she “represents” gay men in her comic. Long story short, it was written for fujoshi who think gay men getting abused is sexy, meanwhile gay men don’t like to be the sex fantasy of straight girls. In addition, it is a revolting example of how relevant ableism is in today’s media. If you have read it, you may recall that the story mentions yoon//bum has bpd, or bipolar disorder. Not only is this terrible representation (because Koo//gi has fallen back to the awful trope that mental illness causes people to stalk, murder etc.), but she never actually did any research on bpd. AT ALL. She said in an interview that she never did any research on mental illness, and that she just wanted her character to be “not normal” to make his character interesting. How gross is that?
As for the fans, they concern me a bit, too. Of course, there are a few types of fans, but I think they all are at fault at least a bit. I’ll explain why.
A) the fujoshi fan. You’ve covered this in your ask, but I’ll say it again to be safe. These are the girls who fetishize and get off to the abuse of yoo//nbum, and probably go up to gay men on the train and say “oh my god real life yaoi!!! So cute XD” They are, in short, kinda gross in the way they totally ignore the wishes of real life gay men. If a fujoshi ever claims to be a gay ally because she “must protect her yaoi babies” I may scream. Or cry. Or both.
B) the “i don’t ship san//gbum / I read it for the horror / i ship sangw//oo with jail” fan. This is the other big group of fans out there, and although they are far less problematic than the fujoshi, they still are at fault. You see, even if they don’t support the “yaoi” aspect of the manhwa, by supporting the comic and giving Koo//gi money, they still are supporting it. This is because, like I said, Koo//gi’s purpose for writing it was for the pleasure of fujoshis. So, regardless of whether or not you ship sangb//um, you are still supporting the fetishization of gay men and the gross misinterpretation of mental illness. Even if you pirate it online and refuse to give her money, if you stay involved in the fandom you are still supporting Koo//gi and the homophobia/ableism in her comic REGARDLESS of whether you support it or not.Besides, it’s not even good horror tbh. If you’re looking for something good in the horror genre, I’d suggest looking into some indie rpg maker horror games, like OFF, ib, Mad Father, etc! They have that creepy atmosphere you may be looking for, plus they’re free, and you can play them rather than just read! It’s a win-win! The fanbase for these games need to be bigger, tbh.
I don’t want anyone reblogging this post and starting discourse. If you have an issue with my reasoning, you can send me an ask or make your own post. Preferably an ask.
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