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mad-mantis · 6 months
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when you’re underage and try to talk to health professionals about the possibility of looking into ASPD it really sucks because it honestly feels like they just don’t believe you (and they likealy don’t)
“you don’t seem like you’d have antisocial personality disorder”
What does that even mean. Explain to me in fucking detail.
“you never got diagnosed with conduct disorder”
you don’t need to fit every single piece of the diagnosis criteria.
“I don’t think you’re very manipulative or controlling”
good, that means the masking is working
“you have strong morals for someone who-”
bold of you to assume that people with aspd can’t have a moral compass to follow. I’ve trained myself to have one.
“You seem like such an empathetic person though”
I can understand why someone is upset without feeling sad for them. I don’t owe every single person I meet empathy.
Just because I don’t show you my covert god complex doesn’t mean I don’t have one. Just because I masked my traits by observing other people’s behaviors over the years doesn’t mean im not masking
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bpdcodone · 5 months
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Having no empathy really just makes me feel like I can’t ever connect with anyone truly
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aspd-bpd-culture · 12 days
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ASPD culture is, having no Parental figures.
ASPD culture is
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npdvelvette · 21 days
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anyone else’s ASPD just get worse some days? nothing even happened but today i’m just so angry at everything people do & my ability to care about their feelings is at -100. i can’t even mask it im just so irritated. and when they don’t react or do as i want it makes me way more infuriated than usual
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deathdisc · 8 months
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greens-venting · 1 year
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i know we talk a lot about loving someone so strongly that they'll never be able to love you back that strongly
but where are my folks who will never be able to love someone back as strongly they love you?
the people who think the world of you but you can't feel the same way. no matter how good someone is no matter anything you just cannot feel anything for them
you won't ever cannot ever love them the same way
where are the people whose love is locked away from them?
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Quick reminder that ASPD diagnostic criteria is gross (as with most disorders)! Basically the criteria for cluster B personality disorders is as follows
ASPD: Big, bad, scary person criminal
NPD: Abusive and/or mean to me 🥺
HPD: Hysterical woman that I cheated on my wife with and now I need to blame her for it who is a slut
BPD: Clingy bitch who acts crazy when I cheat and has Daddy Issues(TM)
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mentally-ill-vent · 1 year
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people that invalidate you just because you don’t have a diagnosis are the worst. do you know how hard it is to be mentally ill and wanting support and not being able to get it? of course im self-diagnosed because that’s all i have.
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aspd-culture · 2 years
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Hi all, welcome to ASPD-Culture. You can find the DSM-V TR's diagnostic criteria for ASPD at the bottom of this post.
Here's how it works! You can use asks or submissions (on or off anon, asks allow for anon while submissions don't for those who don't know), to submit things you either are struggling with as someone with ASPD, or that you think others with ASPD would find relatable. These can be serious, meme-y, or somewhere in-between. It's ok if it applies to other disorders too, as long as it relates to antisocial personality disorder/the symptoms and associated traits of ASPD.
Send as many ask you like, I am not afraid of a full inbox. Do not feel like you're bugging me; I thrive on the attention and validation of the inbox full of asks. 😈
I welcome questions, vents, confessions, and personal submissions as well as more general ones! I cannot accept anything that would cause anyone legal trouble to say anonymously or otherwise, and please no names unless they are fictional/celebrities; you can use the first letter if you want tho!
Please note that fakeclaiming/ableism against "edgy teens" is not welcome here. This blog is pro well-researched self dx, and is not interested in guessing who may/may not be faking. Submissions will be taken in the good-faith assumption that you are being legitimate.
That said, ableist submissions will be removed and not posted. Waste your time if you want, *shrug*. Also, this blog is not the place for nt people or people with other disorders to complain about ASPD, though they *are* welcome to submit questions/asks in good faith as long as you aren't complaining about pwASPD or intentionally being ableist. If you aren't sure if something is ableist, you're welcome to ask my opinion on that, though I'm only one pwASPD so I'm not an authority. People with ASPD are welcome to vent frustrations about their own disorder, as well as how having ASPD may cause conflict with others with this/other disorders and/or frustrations about dealing with pwoASPD as someone who has it. We have to mask our frustrations with prosocials everywhere else in life - please feel free to be open about them here. Prosocials please try not to feel attacked by these, they're just vents likely being used to make sure we don't say anything hurtful irl.
Being that ASPD can have violent thoughts as a symptom, non-targetted posts about violent thoughts are ok, and will be posted with appropriate tws. If I miss any tw, please let me know and I will add it asap. Because of this, you don't need to add tws in the submissions unless you want to. That said, please be aware of the type of text-based content you may see on this blog. It's ok to block, unfollow, etc if you need to. Words like ps**hopath and soc**path may or may not be censored, but they will be tw tagged (tw psychopath and tw sociopath respectively, as well as tw aspd stigma), so if you reclaim those terms that's ok, but be aware I will tw them.
I think that about sums it up! Ask/submit away!
A quick shoutout - I was inspired by @cluster-b-culture-is because I love their content, but I found myself wishing there was one just for ASPD especially with the recent rise of acceptance for BPD but not the other cluster b's (to be clear tho, cluster-b-culture-is does not support stigma against any sort of elitism within the community, and is a great blog that you should follow if you like their content!).
Edit: Here is the diagnostic criteria for ASPD as of the most current DSM (DSM-V TR), quoted directly. Please note there are diagnostic features, development "criteria" (things that cause the disorder to develop), and presentation/associated features to think about as well. You cannot diagnose solely off of having 3/7 of the following criteria, but 3/7 is all you need in combination with meeting the other stuff to have ASPD. This should help steer away ableist additions that people constantly try to make to the criteria.
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Hi all, welcome to ASPD-Culture. You can find the DSM-V TR's diagnostic criteria for ASPD at the bottom of this post.
Here's how it works! You can use asks or submissions (on or off anon, asks allow for anon while submissions don't for those who don't know), to submit things you either are struggling with as someone with ASPD, or that you think others with ASPD would find relatable. These can be serious, meme-y, or somewhere in-between. It's ok if it applies to other disorders too, as long as it relates to antisocial personality disorder/the symptoms and associated traits of ASPD.
Send as many ask you like, I am not afraid of a full inbox. Do not feel like you're bugging me; I thrive on the attention and validation of the inbox full of asks. [Smiling devil face emoji]
I welcome questions, vents, confessions, and personal submissions as well as more general ones! I cannot accept anything that would cause anyone legal trouble to say anonymously or otherwise, and please no names unless they are fictional/celebrities; you can use the first letter if you want tho!
Please note that fakeclaiming/ableism against "edgy teens" is not welcome here. This blog is pro well-researched self dx, and is not interested in guessing who may/may not be faking. Submissions will be taken in the good-faith assumption that you are being legitimate.
That said, ableist submissions will be removed and not posted. Waste your time if you want, *shrug*. Also, this blog is not the place for nt people or people with other disorders to complain about ASPD, though they *are* welcome to submit questions/asks in good faith as long as you aren't complaining about pwASPD or intentionally being ableist. If you aren't sure if something is ableist, you're welcome to ask my opinion on that, though I'm only one pwASPD so I'm not an authority. People with ASPD are welcome to vent frustrations about their own disorder, as well as how having ASPD may cause conflict with others with this/other disorders and/or frustrations about dealing with pwoASPD as someone who has it. We have to mask our frustrations with prosocials everywhere else in life - please feel free to be open about them here. Prosocials please try not to feel attacked by these, they're just vents likely being used to make sure we don't say anything hurtful irl.
Being that ASPD can have violent thoughts as a symptom, non-targetted posts about violent thoughts are ok, and will be posted with appropriate tws. If I miss any tw, please let me know and I will add it asap. Because of this, you don't need to add tws in the submissions unless you want to. That said, please be aware of the type of text-based content you may see on this blog. It's ok to block, unfollow, etc if you need to. Words like ps**hopath and soc**path may or may not be censored, but they will be tw tagged (tw psychopath and tw sociopath respectively, as well as tw aspd stigma), so if you reclaim those terms that's ok, but be aware I will tw them.
I think that about sums it up! Ask/submit away!
A quick shoutout - I was inspired by cluster-b-culture-is because I love their content, but I found myself wishing there was one just for ASPD especially with the recent rise of acceptance for BPD but not the other cluster b's (to be clear tho, cluster-b-culture-is does not support stigma against any sort of elitism within the community, and is a great blog that you should follow if you like their content!).
Edit: Here is the diagnostic criteria for ASPD as of the most current DSM (DSM-V TR), quoted directly. Please note there are diagnostic features, development "criteria" (things that cause the disorder to develop), and presentation/associated features to think about as well. You cannot diagnose solely off of having 3/7 of the following criteria, but 3/7 is all you need in combination with meeting the other stuff to have ASPD. This should help steer away ableist additions that people constantly try to make to the criteria.
[Transcription of the image included] A screenshot of the Diagnostic Criteria for Antisocial Personality Disorder (code F60.2) quoted directly out of the DSM-V TR.
Criterion A.) A pervasive pattern of disregard for and violation of the rights of others, occuring since age 15 years as indicated by 3 (or more) of the following.
Subcriterion 1.) Failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors, as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest.
Subcriterion 2.) Deceitulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure.
Subcriterion 3.) Impulsivity or failure to plan ahead.
Subcriterion 4.) Irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights and assaults.
Subcriterion 5.) Reckless disregard for safety of self or others.
Subcriterion 6.) Consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations.
Subcriterion 7.) Lack of remors, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.
Criterion B.) The individual is at least age 18 years.
Criterion C.) There is evidence of conduct disorder with onset before age 15 years.
Criterion D.) The occurrence of antisocial behavior is not exclusively during the course of schizophrenia or bipolar disorder. [End transcription of image]
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heartxdecay · 1 year
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then someone will say "what is lost can never be saved"
Still Just a Rat in a Cage - Blue Light Special
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wtfuglydemon · 9 months
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sometimes i really wish to get a therapist to see if i truly have ASPD and BPD, but honestly i didn't like how i was treated when i was told I had ASPD behavior as a teen.
i usually just like to read a lot about it and people experiences with it to judge things by myself but i kinda want the official stuff.
this is a bother.
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What people think ASPD is: ah im a megabrain manipulator who has no emotions and so much self control that I venomously and chronically am working on selfish plans to exploit the emotions of those around me
What ASPD is: you should commit crimes and ruin your life because it would be FUNNY and ICONIC and people would get MAD and itd itch your sadism and give you an adrenaline rush I promise do stupid things that will have long lasting consequences for the LELS
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bpdcodone · 5 months
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My ASPD has been so bad lately makes me feel not human I feel like I can’t connect with anyone on a deep caring level like I can when my BPD is going crazy I hate how once my BPD become more manageable my ASPD went up and I can’t even be close to anyone anymore
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boygirlcunt · 11 months
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aspd is aspding so hard rn what if i die
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mossiestpiglet · 1 year
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Nothing can save my mood like getting a good cathartic rage going
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