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aceteabag · 1 year
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An asexual conversation ✨be like✨
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movie night
cuddle
pillow fight & jumping around on the bed
read to each other
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shadilady · 8 months
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I honestly don't know if this is due to my ASD, or the fact I was exploited, molested, assaulted (all sexually) and raped, but I feel I've been asexual all my life. I wasn't aware what I felt had a word. So here I am. Admiting to being asexual. And I've heard all these statements in some form all throughout my life. I think I experienced more sexual interest when I was younger than when I got older. Maybe all the abuse were building blocks to becoming asexual. Maybe that's not the correct term. What about developing asexuality? I don't want to offend someone due to my uneducated ass, but I try to learn enough to NOT be a dumbass. (Ler me guess, "too late?") LOL!
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dieuwt · 6 months
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concept! me n you getting kissy kissy in a very asexual way
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lore-gore · 1 year
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There should be a dating app specifically for asexuals. That way finding a non sexual relationship would be easy.
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midnight-love-song · 2 years
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I’m very asexual but I LOVE romcoms and dating shows and enemies to lovers and tasteful steamy scenes and love poems, but in the same way I LOVE black hair and green eyes and pretty dresses and cute glasses and gold jewellery, they’re beautiful, I just don’t want them for myself.
Normalise aspec people loving traditionally allo culture, just in a different way <3
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heartsandaces · 11 months
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Yesterday i asked one of my (i think) allo friends what this means to him, how does he interpret this art. 
He said that the “croissant” doesn’t love “coffee” enough or in the way that coffee wants to be loved. And i think that broke me. Because in a way it confirmed my fear that my love will never be the right answer to the question. My aching, world-moving love that I have for my favourite people will never be enough (for some people). Just because it’s different. 
I am lucky enough to have and to be a favourite person to some people in my life.
(He doesn’t know I’m ace (or maybe suspects it now) so I know he would never say anything to offend me or hurt me on purpose. Just sucks to feel this way sometimes)
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cmon-man · 1 year
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It’s so funny when people ask me what an ace person is doing on a dating app like?? You think all there is to a relationship is fucking?? Huh big boy?? That’s all you think a relationship is??? My sincerest condolences to your future partner
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autisticlee · 8 months
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everyone keeps swearing to me i'll find The One, a partner, someone to date, my True Love, etc. I get told to keep waiting and don't give up! despite me not caring for my 30 years of life. even while not caring and refusing to look, I still get told constantly by many people that i'll *still find someone* but i've never met a single person interested in me in my whole life. so I dont have a clue what to look for or what to do.
ok, so now that I actually need someone (in canada specifically, so i can move there and be with my friends who make up my found family and want me in their lives, which has been one of my main life goals for my entire life??? visiting them last month solitified it) where are they? where's The One everyone promised me my whole life? where and how do I find them? how do I become likable and interesting so they show themself? (also how do I stop being so insanely picky with high expectations that every person I meet makes me uncomfortable?)
no one tells you any of that. it's like it's part of that NT Book of How To Be "Normal" that us autistic people don't get. no one will tell me how you're suppsed to meet Someone and make them like you enough to be a partner. they just give empty promises that the person exists and say to keep waiting for them lmao
I can't wait forever. my friends need me. i need to move to canada to help them out. I need to escape my own situation that's not that great. I need a cute little reliable and comfortable found family. i'm getting older fast and can't "wait" forever. i'll waste my life and mever escape this hole i'm stuck in. waiting sucks and isn't practical. but all I can think to do is post dumb posts like this on random social media, then get ignored or be unseen by everyone 😅
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spinn-dashh · 8 months
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Guys please do not fall in love with me
I never felt love, love like "oh I'm so much in love" nah bro....never
I'm neutral with people, with guys I'm more disgusted bc they're so weird, (I'm too). And girls...nah they're friends..I don't feel love for neither, girls or boys.....I DON'T FEEL THAT FUXKING CRUSH HOW TF CAN PEOPLE LOVE AND FALL IN LOVE WTF, so. I draw a lot girls so I thought I maybe could be lesbian but no I'm not they're just friends 🥲, I don't feel love guys, I am very cuddly and love affection BUT I NEVER FELT IN LOVE
I remember when a boy tried to flirt with me, he tried to kiss me, and I slapped him, I didn't let him touch or kiss me, I just screamed and kicked him lmfao, I don't know how to kiss or to be ✨romantic✨, I'm just very clumsy at all, maybe I'm worried to be a bad "kisser" beacause I don't know how to do it, after all I don't want to someone to put their lips on mine I am good enough alone👌
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asexual-dating · 1 year
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That feeling when you know a person is only talking to you because they see you as a potential mate but you want to keep talking to them so you don't shut them down instantly even though it makes you feel bad.
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Things I want in a partner that I know I won’t get:
Someone who will do playful banter with me
Someone who will welcome my quirks
Someone who will trace constellations on my skin
Someone who loves that my gums show and my eyes squint when I smile
Someone who will gently caress my face or head
Someone who will take care of me the way I take care of everyone else
Someone who will sing with me
Someone who chose me because I was their first choice for once
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aceteabag · 7 months
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Can I (as an asexual person) be picky about looks. I mean aesthetic attraction is a thing, isn't it? Asking for a friend.
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aceheartsoul · 7 months
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Tired of having dates tell me they don’t feel a spark/connection when they really mean I wasn’t reciprocating their hookup vibes
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dieuwt · 1 year
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man i just wanna date an adhd girl with the same chaotic gremlin energy i constantly have in the morning
So we can do absolutely nothing after 3pm because then it's waiting for dinner and waiting for bedtime. and you can't work while you wait!
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boingo-bongos · 2 years
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so my boyfriend talks in his sleep and one night he hugged me and whispered “you have no idea how precious you are to me” and when i tried to say it back he started sleep-rambling about how much he loved pretzel-dogs. no idea if he was talking about me or the pretzel dogs but i have never loved him more.
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stickythings · 2 years
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So I started dating another Ace. I found them on one of those Asexual dating websites ✌️
Thing is, we're only 4 months in, and I've discovered I love hand holding, love a very thorough cuddle in bed, and even like the feeling in the middle of the night of his hard dick pulsing lol, even gave explicit invitation for some boob touching.
But kissing, now! Wow do I get fucking shy. And so I've discovered my level of intimacy has Kissing at the top (so far) I think it may be my 'sex'. I can't get passed a quick peck on the lips. I just can't cause gawd I might combust. I've said he'll need to initiate if he wants to be more intimate because I'm so shy. And he's the experienced one. And he's been perfectly patent and slow, but still.
I'm discovering how I view intimacy and what my own levels are. Thought I'd share.
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