#aro spec stuff

[exlibrisfangirl]

Being single and childless - even if it is by choice - while most/all of your friends are happily partnered and busy raising kids is its own particular brand of lonely. I feel like I can't relate to anyone anymore... like everyone I know is part of some special club, and I'm always on the outside looking in.

#aro spec stuff #ace spec stuff #aro ace #asexual #aromantic #your friendly local hopeless romantic aromantic #the more time passes the harder/worse it gets

[bizarreaizen]

someone: hey can you give me some relationship advice?

me who's aroace: communicate.

someone: I tried but it didn't-

me: break up.

#aro pride #arospec #aroace #aromanticism #aromantic pride #aromantic stuff #aromantic spectrum #aromantic #aromantic asexual #demiromantic #aro positivity #aro #asexuality #asexual spectrum #asexual #acespec #ace spec #ace pride #ace positivity #ace spectrum #acearo #ace #pride #queer #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #lgbtq+ community #lgbt community #lgbt pride #lgbt representation

[glitchedcosmos]

* Danny phantom theme playing* he’s an ally~

#the flag is literally his colours of course he loves the aro community #💚🖤🤍💚🖤🤍💚🖤 #he’s not only trans but loves all the lgbtqa wooo #danny phantom art #danny phantom #trans danny phantom #danny fenton #dp fanart #danny phantom fanart #aromantic awareness week #aromantic #aro spec #aro art #aro stuff #aromantic spectrum #aromanticism #digital artist #digital art #my art shit #aro #aro pride #arospec #art #my art #dp art

[gummy-axolotl]

#gummy says stuff #discord #screenshot #lgbtq #aroace #aro #ace #asexual spectrum #ace spec

[lemonycranberries]

HEY IT'S THE 14TH. YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS. IT MEANS IT'S TIME TO GET ARO-ER. TIME FOR ALL ARO TAGS TO GO TRENDING.

AGAIN.

#aromantic #aro #aromanticism #just aro stuff #aro posts #aroposting #aro culture #love loses #aro spec #aro spectrum #aromantic spectrum #aroace #aroallo #aro pride #aromantic pride #actually aromantic #just doing my part here #my posts

[chrishangry]

Let me just say as someone who hides a lot of myself in public how nice it is to see aroace and gender flux folks like me being unapologetically proud of expressing their nonbinary attraction and identity. I’m proud of you and I want to be like you when I grow up….even though I’m 35

#my aroace thought of the week #aro positivity #pan aroace #aroace #aro stuff #ace aro #ace #ace pride #arospec #aro spec #aro pride #aromantic spectrum #aromantic #aro #aromantism #aromantic asexual #aromanticism #genderflux #genderfluid #third gender #gender identity #gender stuff #genderqueer #asexual positivity #asexual spectrum #asexuality #asexual #asexual pride #acespec

[thefrogginbullfish]

#ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #ace memes #aro memes #aroace #aroace memes #aspec #ace spec #aro spec #lgbt #queer #lgbtqia #lgbt meme #lgbt memes #lgbt community #aspec memes #aspec stuff

[sandpaperoctopi]

aro ace cuties

#most of my characters are ace-spec and/or aro-spec #usually it doesn't come up much in my novels if at all #but in the case of Oriole and Kite #they do explicitly talk about attraction or rather #lack of #which is neat #they would have made a good pair if they'd met in different circumstances... #and I am drawing pride stuff early because I often forget #was going to wait to post but... nah #art #illustration #ocs #novel stuff #oriole #kite #aromantic #asexual #trans #transgender #nonbinary #Oriole is a transmasc enby (he/they) #lgbt #queer #going to do another with Oriole and Fern later #that's a lot of tags aaa sorry

[aroace-cat-lady]

me: *uses a green sock*

me: aro awareness

my mom: *gives me a green spoon*

me: Aro Awareness

my salad: *green*

me: Aro Awareness

bus driver: *hands me out a green ticket*

me: ARO AWARENESS

#a summary of my week #green #aromantic pride #aromance #aromanticism #actually aromantic #aromantic #aro memes #aromanitc #aromantic awareness week #aromantic memes #arospec #actually aro #aro awareness week #aro positivity #aro pride #aro spec #aro spectrum #aro stuff #aro things #aromantic positivity #aro

[breaking-news-the-aroace-has]

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aspec #aromaticism #breaking news the aroace has #aro #breaking news #brought to you by ^him #oriented aroace #acearo #aro ace #aro spec #aro pride #ace #ace stuff #ace pride #asexual aromantic #asexuality #asexual news

[opossums-in-a-trenchcoat]

Shout out to aros who

want romantic/queer-platonic relationships

don’t want romantic/queer-platonic relationships

experience some romance attraction

are no romo

are also ace

are not ace

want to live alone

want a companion of some sort

and every kind of aro!

You are all valid and cool as heck!

#aromantic spectrum awareness week #aro #arospec #aro spec #aro spectrum #aromantic #aromantic stuff #aro spec awareness week #queer #lgbtq #aroace #aroallo #lgbtqia #queer pride

[noose-lion]

I think my perception of soukoku is partially off putting to others because I perceive them both as somewhere on the aromantic spectrum.

(Dazai being aroace-spec and Chuuya being an aro-spec bisexual)

#its a mixture of vibes and projection #but thats okay #bsd character are the littlest pet shops in my play pretend drama #so they gonna be aromantic #sigma too btw #bsd headcanon #bsd headcanons #my stuff #bsd #screaming into the void #and the void screams back #bungou stray dogs #soukoku #bungou gay dogs #bsd dazai #dazai osamu #bsd chuuya #nakahara chuuya #aro bi chuuya agenda #aroace spec dazai agenda #chuuya x dazai #jester thinks #bisexual arospec chuuya agenda #aroace me living an aroace life

[bizarreaizen]

aromantic and asexual cis men seriously need more recognition, they've been told that being a virgin above the age of 18 is weird and that they get no bitches and they've seen that romance and sex is very important to a man and you need to have it or your "lame" and "boring"

#cis men #aromantic stuff #aromanticism #aromantic spectrum #aromantic pride #aromantic asexual #aromantic #aro pride #arospec #aroace #aro ace #aro spec #aroace pride #aroacespec #aroallo #aro #asexual pride #asexuality #asexual spectrum #asexual representation #asexual #acespec #ace spec #ace pride #ace spectrum #ace stuff #acearo #ace #queer #tw cursing

[thy-spicy-orange]

Those OnlyFans link accounts really missed their target audience with me.

#asexual #asexuality #aromantic #aromantism #aroace #aspec stuff #aro spec

[cornflowerblue10]

I don't want a girlfriend I just want someone that I can infodump with. Sex and dates are cool but how about hyperanalyzing Mean Girls?

#i love being aroace #arospec #aro pride #aroace #aromantic #aromantism #asexual #acespec #ace spec #ace stuff #lgbt pride #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbtqia

[cherrytea556]

Tropes i like or would like to see as an Aro

One sided crush with a twist - Its when someone has a crush on another to which that crush knows and doesn't express the same feelings as a form of love ironically since the person would stop loving them if the love is received.

Non crush attraction - Its where someone likes another but not in a crush way, moreso of a 'huh, their pretty' way (whether temporary or not)

Undefined relationships - These relationships arent a friendship but also not a romantic one either. They come in a variety of whatever you imagine their dynamic to have with each other. I call them undefined since i myself cant define them but it just makes sense.

Yin yang/opposite type friendships - I love these so much, its basically two people that are opposite of each other as friends. Its so great especially when you find these little similarities that connect them to each other. 10/10 trope, would love to see more of.

Those quiet moments where the being in mind is going through a hard time and the other are giving them support while trying to respect their boundaries - slowly putting their hand in theirs to see if the person is comfortable, giving a little nod for reassurance, offering a comfort object of the person etc....Quiet moments like those are so good, 100/10

Affectionate/No physical contact friendships - Friendships where its either very affectionate to each other or no physical affection are both great and should co exist within each other

Person being proud/comfortable that they're lonely and single - A twist of the 'tragic single lonely person' trope. They actually prefer to be single and 'lonely' because they like them alone in their own time, relationships are just not for them and their respected for that.

Person being proud/comfortable that their unattractive - With media treating being unattractive as this big bad thing, it would be nice to see people not caring or even preferring to be unattractive. Whether its because they like that no one wants them or just generally not care about looks, their unattractiveness isnt important, moreso the content of their character.

Found friendships - Its like found family but replace family bond with friendship bond, even better when its either unexpected or when they only have each other.

Thats all, let me know what kind of tropes you like or would want to see more often

#aro #aromantic #aro positivity #aro spec #aromantic spectrum #aromantic stuff #yes this post is very geared to aros like me! #aro visibility day #tropes #platonic tropes #platonic relationships #queer platonic relationship #queer platonic love #undefined relationships #friendships #friendship tropes #aesthetic attraction #arospec #aromantism