#armchairpsychology

[matthewjadams]

The only way out of the labrynth of suffering is to forgive.

#armchairpsychology #suffering #forgiveness

[krakengoddess]

Is Jay right, or is this just a serial killer trying to argue that he’s not as extreme as everyone seems to think he is? Not Your Mary Sue comes out June 7 from @aestheticpressbooks. Preorder links in bio! #notyourmarysue #freshcoastkiller #serialkiller #serialkillernovel #thriller #thrillerbook #thrillerbooks #lakesuperior #upperpeninsula #upperpeninsulamichigan #author #authors #authorsofinstagram #authorsofmichigan #writer #writers #writersofinstagram #writersofmichigan #writteninthemitten #armchairpsychology #armchairpsychologist https://www.instagram.com/p/CcDPNVtLFPG/?utm_medium=tumblr

#notyourmarysue #freshcoastkiller #serialkiller #serialkillernovel #thriller #thrillerbook #thrillerbooks #lakesuperior #upperpeninsula #upperpeninsulamichigan #author #authors #authorsofinstagram #authorsofmichigan #writer #writers #writersofinstagram #writersofmichigan #writteninthemitten #armchairpsychology #armchairpsychologist

[collectivethoughtsandrubbish]

🌼Do you know your MBTI? I'm an INFJ, & I have been reading & studying a lot about INFJ traits lately. Why? Well apparently, it's just something INFJs like to do. We're always a work in progress & to understand the world, we have to first understand ourselves. #armchairpsychology . . 🌼One thing I've learned about recently is the "#INFJDoorSlam". INFJs are typically very compassionate & see the potential in everyone. We love an underdog & will do everything in our power to build them up & encourage them. Until... . . 🌼The "Door Slam" is when an INFJ forgives someone's bad behavior, over & over again, until one day, we've reached our limit. When that limit has hit, we'll internalize if we did something or if there's something we could have done differently. If there isn't, that person just gets cut from our lives. I call it "cutting off the bad spot to save the potato". If there's a negative force infiltrating in my life, I cut it out completely, mourn my loss, & embrace an attitude of gratitude that I hopefully learned something from the experience & moved on. I don't check in with mutual friends. I don't look them up on Facebook & try to make amends. When the bad spot is cut from the potato, it goes into compost never to be thought of again. It's like they never existed & are erased from my memory. . . 🌼I haven't "door slammed" anyone in years, but reading about it, I instantly recognized those times in life where I was guilty! The part that was news to me was that the other person may never see it coming, that to them the "slammer" acts out of nowhere, whereas for the INFJ, it has been building & building over time until it's no longer bearable. Now I wonder about those people, if they felt the tension or if they were clueless & wondered what happened. . . 🌼Over the years, I have become better at dealing with issues as they come up & don't let them build until a breaking point, but I could still stand to improve! . . 🌼How do you handle your issues with other people? Do you address them immediately, or do you let them fester? (Would love to know your #MBTI also so I can look for patterns in this. Because you know...nerdiness & the quest for knowledge!) https://www.instagram.com/p/ByDnirhApda/?igshid=1qxcneygxljp

#armchairpsychology #infjdoorslam #mbti

[dharmadischarge]

I can't sleep so I decided to ramble about my mental illness and wandering if I milk it so people will feel sorry for me? #shizophrenia #mentalillness #outsiderart #shamelessselfpromotion #feelsorryforme #armchairpsychology

#mentalillness #outsiderart #armchairpsychology #feelsorryforme #shizophrenia #shamelessselfpromotion