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xoxo-ren-xoxo · 1 month
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really weird thing ive noticed lately re: hermits getting critiqued for stuff theyve said or done is that as soon as someone holds a shit opinion (even if it's just them being stupid, or a centrist, or saying a bad word without knowing what it means, or whatever) people immediately seem to flock to the 'this guy should die' 'kys' 'why are we giving this person a platform' rhetoric and like. that's not how meaningful change is made?
like, yeah, if one of my beloved CCs posted a tweet or video tomorrow about how much they hate gay people, or believe in conservative ideals, or they just said a bunch of slurs or whatever (these are hyperbolic examples obviously) then yeah, fuck them, they should go rot. but like, having some dumb takes, or saying bad things in the past, doesn't = evil terrible person...
idk, i feel like we can critique content creators without getting so insane about it. like, shit, there are things some of my favourites do that i don't like, but theyre not even really worth bringing up tbh. unless its something actually important, i feel like it just creates more drama out of nothing and all these assholes come crawling out of the woodwork to tell everyone how much they hate that creator. or find their content boring anyway so clearly they have no real merit to anyone.
more of an explanation of what i mean in the tags but yeah.
#this is kind of about ppl finding out x is a centrist and... apparently that means telling him 'kys' is ok#i dont even like centrism but like... wasnt he super right wing at one point? is this not at least a mild improvement? he's just some guy#i like his content. dont care enough to get into drama about him being a 'we should all just talk it out!' kinda guy. who give a shit.#this is also kinda about doc's little rant on twt about plestine/isral (spelling to not clog tags) which was basically just -#- 'stop asking me to speak on these things 1. i could get into legal trouble 2. i stopped talking about politics years ago for good reasons#which like. isnt my favourite response to things? but i also Get It yknow?#it wasnt as big of a deal as ppl seemed to think it was#(especially since he very clearly retweeted donation post and said hes against innocent ppl dying. which is pretty clear to me.)#anyway the milder things im talking about here is like. harry potter references or mild orientalism re: 'asian-style' builds#like. i could go mad about that but i really dont give a shit#i dont#and like im a hard leftist. but i just do not care. so long as they arent a massive right winger or a creep im fine#*i say massive right winger but tbh i kind of mean right winger at all. i just dont give a shit about ccs wanting to remain more centrist#especially online.#anyway#hermitblr#hermitcraft#mcyt#discourse#ben chats shit on the internet#to clarify im not tryna say that its cool to play both sides politically but also i dont think bringing up a 4 year old post -#- to stir up drama is very genuine. looking at the notes i just see a lot of 'wow fuck this guy i hate his content anyway' and its like. ok
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13eyond13 · 11 months
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sallowslytherin · 5 months
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i am constantly reminded of why i wanna nuke this blog so so badly
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gauntcest? are yall so fr?
yall need fucking help man
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neonacidtrip · 4 months
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we haven't spoken in a very long time, but i dreamt of you last night, so I couldn't help but think of you. I'm not sure you remember me, but i hope life is treating you well these days. take care.
I'm not sure what to say, but I can promise you I have not forgotten you. My time on Tumblr has been a mess full of hiatuses, I admit, but it will always be a place where I met some very wonderful friends, including you. With 100% honesty, I can say the friends I made here are some of the best friends I have ever had, even though most of us don't talk anymore.
It doesn't matter how often I speak with people, or if we never speak again. I'll always remember you, and I'll always think fondly of you and hope that life is treating you gently and kindly.
I hope you had a nice (or at the very least an okay) dream, and I'm glad to know you still remember me, too, regardless of all else.
Take care, love <3
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scover-va · 5 months
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Wait ok one last post for now. Every time i see a version of william where he hates his wife (or god forbid is abusive) or a version of mrs afton thats subservient to her husband or anything like that i amplify just how fucking whipped my au version of will is for janet/my au’s mrs afton
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red-elric · 1 year
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so the epilogues are bad. obviously. immutable.
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but.
hear me out.
what if I were to tell you.
homestuck^2 is kinda good lowkey
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catmanbowser · 2 years
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teehee :3c
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songtwo · 2 years
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I'm not even that different or weird or whatever i genuinely do think everyone else here is just too normal and/or average
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blueslight · 1 year
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I swear people.on tumblr will say the Most fucked up shit in the replies of like, anon asks that are even just slightly harmlessly weird or tactless its INSANE
#like an anon will say something just like vaguely annoying or something and ppl in the replies SO NOT EVEN THE OMES WHO GOT SENT TGW ASK#will be like anon you need to fucking kill yourself youre so fuckd up and abnormal#with like specifically super evil phrasing ?? not just like thats a bit rude or something but literally shit like anon you need to fucking#ki yourself youre insane. which ive probably seen people say word for word#and like well 1 i think its fucking cringe and especially double and triple cringe if the op who got the ask wasnt evn that upset like I#dont got a nice way to saay this but it always makes me think the commenter wants to suck ops dick so hard like. metaphorically. that its#embarassing to witness cuz of how obvious it is like when someone makes a joke and another person laughs way too hard just bc they want the#joke maker to likw them but like the evil version of that#and also 2. its fucking mean like idc if they think theyre doing.it to defend someone or like it doesnt clixk that that anon is a person w#feelings too but like .??? why would you fucking treat Strangers like this. WHICH IS AN ARGUMENT THE COMMENTERS THEMSEKVES SAY. like if#someone asks something slightly personal (again not even actually harmful) ppl will immediately be like anon why would you ask a complete#stranger this you fucking weirdo. BUT LIKE WHY ARE *YOU* CALLING A COMPLETE STRANGER A FUCKING WEIRDO AND INSINITUATING THEYRE A CREEP FOR#LIKE STUFF THATS NOT EVEJ NEVESSARILY BAD YK??#like why is a mildly big tumblr blog a poor complete stranger whos boundaries are being crossed but like some random anonymous asker is an#absolute insane freak who its ok to like call the most heinous names ever abt like. a fucking tumblr ask#IDK MAN A LOT OF PEOPLE ON TUMBKR ANNOY ME. ESPECIALLY LIKE PEOPLE WHO PORTRAY THEMSKEBES AS LIKE SOFT OR SOME SHIT AND THEN TELL OTHWRS TO#KILL THEMSELVES NONSTOP. i dont even thinm its that bad of an insult but anytime i see someone go kys i cringe into oblivion cuz its such#14 year old.kinmie bulllshit.#BUT ANYWAYS MY.ORKGINAL POINT WAS WHY DO PPL ON HERE HAVE SO MUCB FUCKING HATE IN THEIR HEARTS. I SWEAR SO MANY PPL R LOOKING FOR ANY#OPPORTUNITY TO BE CRUEL TO SOMEONE AS IF LIKE CALLING SOMEONE A FUCKED UP FREAK FOR ASKING A STUPID QUESTION OR LIKE ACCIDENEALLY SAYING#SOMETHING A BIG WEIRD IS NOT JUST. middle school Bully level shit. and i feel like majorly everyone on tumblr identifies as like not normal#in some way like everyokes gay or autistic or mentally ill or something so like why are YOU behaving like the fucking enemy. Get a grip !!!
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13eyond13 · 1 year
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#i feel as though I should start a tag like deep thoughts with the bloz or some shit for my new kick of live journaling about my angst#but anyway hot tip for all the people pleasers out there#surround yourself with mostly supportive people who dont take advantage of others unfairly and who are thoughtful about other people#100% of the time it works every time to make your life so much more enjoyable and easier#and it isn't mean to expect at least the bare minimum of social competence and normal behaviour from others before you agree to socialize#and associate with them (which is sort of what i was guilted into believing growing up)#because guess what that's how you avoid harmful creeps!#your feelings and boundaries exist for a reason and it does suck that sometimes people are just really bad at social skills#but it's not your responsibility to be their therapist or the one exception who will be there for them or whatever else either if they're#truly making you feel weird or unsafe#you as a people pleaser are probably HYPER concerned with being pleasant and polite and accommodating and all these other things that#you worked very hard to become and you will burn yourself out and/or get hurt and/or resentful if you feel exhausted or used#or unappreciated for it and half the time you are actually doing it more for yourself than for others anyways#because it makes you feel valued and like a good person#this is also all related to having issues with codependency too btw which i do because my whole family does#def recommend reading up on both things if you relate it will improve your mental health very much#love you wishing you the best things in 2023 we all got this we are going to do great 😘🧡 muah#p
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skull-mulch · 2 years
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reminder my blog is tv-ma please respect that if ur not able to purchase a movie ticket urself of that rating to see urself out
with peace & love
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everyfandomever · 4 months
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I am blessed and cursed with sickness
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arolesbianism · 6 months
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My birthday is in under a week 👍
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pirateboy · 7 months
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thank you for the mick and ronnie support joelle xx
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oshaviolater · 1 year
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i feel like i need to set boundaries. for my own sake.
#ive been dealing with some reaaallyyyy cruel thoughts towards this specific person im close to lately ;-;#i mean obviously ive tried my best not to translate those thoughts into action so its mostly fine so far#we are also miles apart rn so i cant do physical harm to our relationship by any action yet#but like damn. my brain u r a ppl killer#its just that some1 im close to is like. idk i always feel like they steal people from me.#it's extremely annoying nd kinda hurts bc like i like to keep people at bay. too close makes me itchy#but then my friend comes and completely pushes themselves into my relationship nd sort of....steals that person to themselves#and its so annoying. nd makes me have such cruel thoughts against them like um ew#nd then there are some specific people ive pushed away and those people are. so close to them rn#just bc whomever i push away they keep contact with them#and its just. sort of. really. weird. and annoying.#and the weirdest of it all probably is the fact that i kinda disclosed to my friend that im infatuated with this one person. but like#very mild infatuation and its like normal we never broached the subject again#and its just. so weird bc like#not to sound like a creep but i......went thu their convos on insta (which um. i asked for the credentials okay#i had consent whatever they dont mind if they did they wouldnt give me the credentials. i asked them in the moment ok)#but yeah anyway my friend is just. using words like. literally like. jaani. baby. heart symbols blah blah#and omg. its sort of cringe i dont rly mind bc its funny they kinda have the habit of affectionately saying that stuff so its fine but like#it's also sort of weird bc i did admit mild infatuation to my friend#also the fact that my friend mentioned how some of my friends cares for me differently (im guessing my friend meant 'care more' idk)#but like. it's sus. bc its the first time my friend ventured this time into my relationship with other people#enough to comment on the nature of depth of care? nd like. idk it makes me feel really weird#my friend is an extremely people person#i dont care abt people enough to venture words their relationship with their friends so i just chill back nd relax#but they have this. extreme need to venture into every relationship ive with people i know#and it just. gets on my nerves so bad now#ik blah blah blah that im pretty sure its all my insecurities bc this is the first time im dealing with the concept of friends#blah blah blah#but like nonetheless i dislike this feeling i wanna revert back to when i did not have people in my life#that was like. the most free moment ever. nd nowww all this shit is just ehhh ugh annoying.
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hauntedeyes · 2 years
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god im doing really well if i keep moving and doing things but when i just sit with myself and my thoughts and my body i feel myself fall apart a little
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