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#anyone who actually does pay attention to celebrity gossip should know how harry has been hinting at being not straight for YEEAARS now
holyshit · 3 years
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#'what worries me' anon from a bit earlier:#answering in the tags because it seems the discourse has moved on since i got your message and went on my work break#and don't want to drop random discourse on people freaking out about the louis songs lol hope you understand ily!!!#but i think in this case it is not as big of a deal bc people like lil nas x are nominated as well#so he isn't being prioritized instead of poc artists doing similar things#and they seem to be deliberately nominating both out artists and allies/people who have been more vague and haven't done an official#coming out like matty healy and lizzo#so i don't think he is particularly being spotlighted moreso than everyone else if you know what i mean#and despite the stunts#anyone who actually does pay attention to celebrity gossip should know how harry has been hinting at being not straight for YEEAARS now#since 2014 when his 'not that important' quote got tons of headlines#and then again with Medicine#and some of his comments about his sexuality in interviews (even if they were vague) still reads as something someone who isn't straight#would say#and these are all things that a lot of people should have seen if they pay attention to celebrity gossip even if they are not fans#so i think it's fair for him to be treated as someone who is likely not straight but just hasn't officially come out yet#and for MP#remember that emma ended up coming out recently so there is an out woman in the film now!#which is great#as for david#he could easily not be straight as well and just not out of the closet bc he hasn't had any public relationships as of yet#so i don't think we should treat him as straight when there is no indication of his sexuality one way or another#and i think actors in the closet should still be allowed to take on roles they can relate to and that are important to the#*them#and they shouldn't be forced to come out in order to take these kinds of roles#it's a nuanced topic so there are levels to it#but i don't think anyone should be forced to put their personal and professional lives on the line by coming out to be 'allowed' to#play gay roles#discourse /#hs
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mr-mr-ontheradio · 4 years
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The fact that you think it is a good thing that LARRIES has been badgering harry, who was barely 16 about his sexuality for years is a good thing, step back and reevaluate everything. Respecting people and letting them come to terms with how they identify is the RIGHT thing, not harassing them to come out for a fucking 9 years. That is WRONG. Also, please stop with the biphobia. Harry said he has dated woman, that does not mean he is not queer. I hope you educate yourself & do better. cheers
being gay =/= larry being real. Also, you gotta let people self identify. It doesnt matter if you think Louis is gay gay gay , he says he is straight, then he is straight. If in the future he says he is gay, then he is gay. It is as simple as this. As we speak, Harry doesnt put a lable so he doesnt put a label. that is what it means respecting a person sexuality. You got to respect people to self discover and self identify and you should not step and cross the line and pretend to know more
I'm going to need you to take several seats. I have never once, nor will I ever "badger" Harry about his sexuality or anything about Larry. I would also never label Harry. I believe he was/is in a homosexual relationship but I have no idea how he identifies and I don't care. I don't care if he's been with women or is attracted to women or whatever. Do I believe he's been with any of the women he's publicly linked to? No. But not because I wouldn't like it it's because I can spot a publicity stunt from a mile away and knowing Harry I highly doubt he would allow his actual relationships to be used as gossip fodder for the masses to sell his album. All celebrities use PR stunts, most public relationships are fake as hell. That is something that I have mountains of evidence for completely outside of Larry.
Talking about Harry/Larry on social media is not the same as "badgering" him. No one is forcing anyone to come out. If Harry does see anything I say to him on social media, he'll see a long list of i love yous and compliments. If he looks at my acc he'll mostly see me tweeting cute pics and gifs and venting about being annoyed with his ugly merch, which would probably be more offensive to him than me talking about Larry bc believing two men love eachother isn't wrong or gross or offensive. In any case he has not expressed complaints about shipping culture and I believe he stays out of discussions about him on social media altogether. It's not meant for him and as a fan I'm perfectly within my rights to ship Harry with whoever I want and interpret his songs however I want. He has actively encouraged the ship over the years many times so at the very least he gets a kick out of it.
As far as Louis goes, there is really an astounding amount of evidence, some coming from his own mouth, that he did not have control over his social media. There's also so much precedence for boyband closeting that it's actually ridiculous some of yall are sooo ready to write it off because it's been denied. Of course they denied it. They were selling a marketed version of One Direction, not the actual boys themselves. That's not even touching on the fact that since hiatus,Zayn Liam and Louis have all talked about how tightly controlled they were in the band. Zayn said there was always someone off camera telling them what to say. we see evidence of this in videos. And if you can't recognize the enormous shift from Harry in 1D to Solo Harry, you aren't paying attention because if you had showed me a picture of him now in 2013 I would have said you had lost your mind.
So no, I could never believe that Louis identified himself as straight while lashing out at a reporter on twitter for writing an article about how he made a gesture of support for a gay man who just came out. Louis has never once in real life expressed any kind of discomfort with homosexuality or queerness in general and has even shown a great amount of acceptance and encouragement towards LGBT fans and has always encouraged harry to be himself long before we knew who Harry really was.
That being said, I am not a Larrie bc of the ship, or because I wish Harry or Louis were gay or whatever else antis tell themselves to sleep at night. I'm a Larrie bc a few years ago I decided to really look at it and separate facts from fiction, trying to debunk it once and for all, but the only thing that fell apart under scrutiny was the public narrative. On top of that, Harry and Louis have complementary tattoos, they both write songs about a love that started when they lived with someone at a young age, and the only person Harry has ever lived with is Louis. Louis' relationship with his girlfriend has fallen apart under the shittiest of microscopes since day one and is clearly a joke even to him.
This rumor has been 9 years running even after all the times it's been denied. For every one argument against it there's about 100 for it. At the end of the day if a rumor doesn't go away, it's not a rumor. And it's a massive stretch to think that the gay rumors that plagued ultra hetero womanizing Harry Styles during One Direction we're never true despite the fact that we're learning he's not ultra hetero after all and in fact very much attracted to men. Larries called it from day one when "gay" was an insult and they were bullied relentlessly for merely suggesting harry might not be straight. they called it simply because they could see he was in love with a boy. and now that he's confirming he isn't straight, and now that the 1D boys are confirming that they were heavily controlled during 1D, yall have got some nerve claiming Larries are still full of shit when they've been right all along about this.
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lalka-laski · 3 years
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How is your health? It's stable. It could be better with a few adjustments but I don't have any major, catastrophe ailments... that I know of...
Do you know anyone who has beaten cancer? Not to sound like a hypersensitive little flower but I hate that phrasing. Anyway, I know plenty of people who've survived- and died from- cancer.
When was the last time you had a doctor’s appointment? I canceled one a few months ago, if that counts?
How often do you exercise? Nowhere near as often as I should. I really need to get more movement in my life. For my mental health more than anything!
Do you take physical education in school? It was mandatory. Did I participate much? Well that's a different story.
Are you on any medications? Yep, some OTC and one prescription. Do you have any mental disorders? Take your pick! I have a great selection! Have you ever ‘walked’ for a foundation (e.g., Breast Cancer, Heart Stroke, etc.)? Mhm
BOOKS
Are there many shelves in your house dedicated to books? Shelves among various other surfaces. We actually are in the process of buying a new bookshelf because all of our coffee tables and end tables have been buried in books! What page are you on in the book you’re reading? I left it at home but I'm somewhere in the 150 range. Do you have an opinion on the Harry Potter/Twilight debate, or is it all stupid and pointless? Are we pitting the books against one another or debating the literary merit of the YA fantasy genre as a whole? Either way, it's not something I concern myself with. I believe in consuming whatever art speaks to you and brings you joy. Something doesn't have to be high-brow or serve a ~higher purpose~ for you to enjoy it. Read what you want to read and to hell with the critics! Is there a section of the library you always gravitate towards? Well I haven't been to the library in ages but I like the contemporary fiction of the bookstore best. And I love the poetry section, specifically in used bookstores. Do you read more books or magazines? These days its books, but there was a time in my life where I was an insatiable magazine addict! Its really sad to watch the decline of the magazine industry. It used to be the center of my dreams. What was the last book you read aloud? A Peppa Pig story collection to the girls I nanny. Well, only one girl was actively listening. The other was whipping herself around in circles chanting "PEPPA PIG! PEPPA PIG!" Two types of people in this world :P Is being published one of your biggest aspirations? Always was and still is Do you keep your books in good shape, or are they pretty thrashed? I take good care of all my books. Any one that's in less than pristine condition is one that came that way from a thrift/used book store.
GUYS
Are you a guy? I am not
Are males your preferred gender? In terms of romantic and sexual partners, yes. In terms of friends and just general human beings, uh no.
What is your father’s name? Richard
Do you have a best guy friend? Two actually
Are guys more confusing than girls? I hate any sweeping generalizations like this. Humans are confusing, emotions are confusing, relationships are confusing! If you’re not a guy, what would you do if you could be a guy for a day? Provided I become a guy with a penis I'd definitely find out what it's like to pee standing up, jerk myself off, stuff like that. Otherwise, not much else interests me.
How many uncles do you have? Only three actual uncles. Although one of them is estranged so I have no relationship with him whatsoever, and the other is so close to my age that calling him "uncle" feels uncomfortable.
Are the majority of the people in your household male? We're 50/50
FACEBOOK
How many times a day do you log on? I check my app way more often than necessary. And that number is tripled on work days because I just get so bored and have nothing else to do.
Do you like to ‘poke’ people a lot, or is that just annoying? That's not a thing anymore. And the only people who ever did it were creepy guys who were too inept to start an actual conversation with me.
Who do you talk to the most on there? Glenn
Do you join many groups? I did when I was in high school, which leads me to find so many questionable things on my newsfeed to this day.
How many friends do you have? 1,000 and something
COOKING
Would you say you’re a good cook? I do. And I'd say I'm a very passionate, eager cook which accounts for a lot as well.
Was macaroni and cheese the first thing you remember making on the stove? I think grilled cheese was
Have you ever cooked an entire meal for someone/a group of people? It's one of my favorite expressions of love!
Who cooks more, your mom or your dad? My mom, absolutely. But my dad is a grill master and a breakfast connoisseur so those are his domains.
Do you have any recipes that have been in your family for a while? A few. But a lot of my favorite dishes growing up originated with my mom, so I'm only the second generation to cook them.
When was the last time you cooked at someone else’s house? I made toast for the girls I nanny yesterday
Have you ever cooked something on the barbecue? Nope, I'm too chicken!
Are you a better cook or baker? A cook, by far. Baking is too exact and scientific for me. Creativity is my favorite element of cooking. Not to say there's no room for it in baking, there certainly is!, it just comes with a greater risk.
THE 1990S
Were you born in the 90s? Which year? 92 baby
Do you remember getting your/your parents getting their first cell phone in the early 90s? I remember my parents (and aunts and uncles) all getting theirs around the same time in the late 90s/early 2000s. I didn't get mine till years later in around 2007ish.
Can you name the main characters from Saved By The Bell? Of course! Zach Morris was my first celeb crush.
Were you obsessed with any boy band? Backstreet's Back, ALRIGHT! (Although I gotta admit I had a shirtless poster of JC Chasez in my bedroom too. I'm a traitor!)
What is one fashion trend from this decade that you hope never comes back? Low-rise jeans and visible thongs
Did you get into the Japanese pop culture like most did? (e.g., Sailor Moon, Pokemon, etc.) Nope
If you could sum the 90s up in one word, what would it be? That's impossible to do. But MY experience of the 90s was, I'll say, playful.
How old were you when we entered a new millennium? 8
CELEBRITIES
Do you read gossip magazines? If so, who do you pay attention to the most? Well gossip mags aren't much of a thing anymore but social media is still a gossip playground. I'll admit I indulge in it once in awhile. What do you think about people still going on about the whole Brad Pitt/Jennifer Aniston/Angelina Jolie “triangle”? Well considering it's 2021 that I'm taking this survey, I'd say anyone still on about those relationships needs to get a life What celebrity does not deserve to be famous? Majority of them
Do you think celebrities have a right to complain about the paparazzi? I certainly do. An invasion of privacy is an invasion of privacy. Would you ever want to be a celebrity? I couldn't handle it. No way.
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