#and yes I’m still fucking mad about it

[waterberry-strawmelon]

just gonna go ahead and say this in advance—

if Riz does indeed come out in junior year, and he says, “I’m ace” or “I’m asexual” when referring specifically to his lack of romantic attraction, aromantic people are allowed to be upset about it.

#because yes of course some people irl say ace to mean both bc that’s how they personally identify #but in fictional media the distinction is necessary. especially with how few canonically aromantic characters even exist in ANY mainstream/ #popular media. #I assure you I’m not invalidating anyone who is ace and they mean that to include lack of romantic attraction. #But to look at this from a MEDIA PERSPECTIVE its irresponsible to do this w/out clarification that they also know the word aromantic exists #because otherwise that’s just a conflation of asexual and aromantic without any nuance #and an erasure of aromantic people who are not asexual. #Plus—name a single fucking time a character in mainstream/popular media has said the word aromantic. #Because I can name several instances where they say asexual. But I can’t think of ONE where they say aro or aromantic. #(Maybe that Isaac kid does in season 2 of Heartstopper? But I haven’t seen it so I’m not 100% sure.) #anyways. #the way this fucking fandom—and ANY fandom with a canon aro character—discusses the aromantic spectrum #is blatantly just to remove their own personal guilt for shipping that character with other characters and erasing their orientation. #because yes aromanticism IS a spectrum!! But when people talk about fabriz and say ‘he can still be ace!’ (Which is aro erasure) or #‘he can still be aro!’ They never SHOW riz still being aro or having any kind of complex relationship with romance. #I’m angry and I’m allowed to be. #I get that a ship you liked may be hard to let go of or something #But I’d be much less mad if all the fabriz fans said ‘yeah I know Riz is aro in canon and he and Fabian would never get together. #I just like to imagine it sometimes in fiction/fanon!’ Then that would be a WHOLE different conversation #Because then they’d at least be acknowledging that riz doesn’t feel romance in canon. That fabriz is something that actively #Goes against the canon characterization of one of those characters—and that’s fine. Just fucking ACKNOWLEDGE IT. #But most of these people either WANT fabriz to be canon/believe it WILL BE canon #OR I guess feel uncomfortable confronting the fact that they ARE erasing riz’s aromanticism so they don’t even acknowledge it at all. #fhjy #fantasy high #d20 #dimension 20 #riz gukgak #aromantic riz gukgak #fhsy

[mcrmaidlesbian]

Ima need yall to STOP comparing zuko to characters who don’t deserve to be compared to him. Y’all compare him to the most heartless characters or people whose empathy was nowhere near his, and I’m tired. Like I wish I wasn’t so offended but damn I really am.

And then y’all compare zutara with ships that are just so……….. why just why???? “Why??” doesn’t even cover it like i ask with all the love in my heart to please shut the fuck up

#i would be so much harsher bcus I’m still so fucking mad about one thing I saw like I really am how dare you #like what do you do do you go to the person and just express full anger or just keep it to yourself I honestly don’t know #it’s not like their opinion will be changed so it will be a waste so yes lemme be passive aggressive #atla zuko #zuko #atla katara #katara #avatar the last airbender #pro zutara #atla zutara #zutara

[unohanadaydreams]

Does Mayuri Kurotsuchi know that I would lovingly stare at him as he dissected me and be so brave about it and only try to grasp at him a couple times at most? I need him to know. He has to know I am insane for him.

#fuck off capitalism I’m about to be torn open by an egotistical brat dressed like a bug #the thing is Mayuri is fine with self-surgery as a means to say 'yes this is painful and yes you're still being a ridiculous baby about it' #if you start crying he's like 'look here. you see how well i'm handling this? you're squirming far too much during this procedure' #mad scientist version of a nurse pricking their finger too to show its not so bad #insane4insane dynamics only

[aegagrusscholarship]

i don’t have words about this other than “i figured out what savior does and it’s that he snatched a gravity generator from some iterator or another and refuses to give it back”

so basically he can float sometimes and also levitate other critters. aka most of the things he does in canon already. why does the generator look like that? idk bro i just wanted to keep the halo design

#rain world #madness combat #slugcat #hank j wimbleton #2bdamned #jebediah christoff #mc deimos #mc sanford #ok that’s enough scugposting for now i should draw something else lmao #also yes i very hate the saint #nice gameplay design and concept #HORRIBLE execution #i’m still mad about their storyline #sorry how did you fuck up the entire damn EVERYTHING #worldbuilding lore and general vibes #fucking homestuck^2 ass slugcat #saint’s campaign goes against every theme of the game and every preestablished piece of info we are given too!!! #don’t even get me started on the echo bullshit!!! #aaaaaaughhhhhhhh

[bbcphile]

Wow, the US medical system really doesn’t want me conscious or functional.

Brought to you by my sleep doctor’s still not having sent in the prescription for my narcolepsy meds even though my appointment was 12 days ago, and I’ve now been unmedicated for over a month, and am back to spending most of my time asleep, or if I’m very lucky, and suffer for it the next day, I can write meta or outline fics that I someday hope to write, but not actually write the fics themselves because I am too exhausted.

Brought to you also by my health insurance and the coupon program that makes my migraine meds affordable, since they are trying to force me to stop using the only medication that works on me.

Being disabled is exhausting and infuriating and a thankless, mandatory full-time job, and I hate it.

*screams loudly into the void *

#about me #disability #medical stuff #narcolepsy #I am so mad #8 years ago I was giving a fucking keynote talk at an academic conference #and now it’s a good day if I can go to PT and empty the dishwasher #yes this is still better than things were nine months ago #thanks to my neurosurgery I can empty the dishwasher now #and outline fic which is more than I could do for much of the previous 3 years #but for the fucking love of God this is ridiculous #I’m already being let down by my body every single day #it would be really great if the entire medical system didn’t perpetually fail me too #I want to drop kick the universe into the sun

[avarii]

Tim Drake probably @ Dick and Damian stubbornly refusing to accept Bruce Wayne’s death in Dark Crisis:

#yes I’m still fucking mad about this #idc that it’s been over a decade #Tim Drake #Nightwing #batfam #dick grayson #Damian Wayne #dark crisis #dark crisis spoilers

[katierosefun]

[grits teeth] dreams have no bearing on your morality or your goodness or evilness as a person you’re fine you’re fine you’re fine

#caroline talks #do i know it’s probably just bc i have a cold and my dreams are going to be out of whack? #yes. #do i know it’s probably also bc i’m always stressed on sundays? also yes! #do i know it’s also bc i’m feeling anxious about school? absolutely. #and yet i still have unpleasant dreams #and my immediate waking thought is ‘God’s mad at me’ #and then i go ‘ohhhh for fuck’s sake calm DOWN’

[theshadowrealmitself]

Fun part about a character having almost no canon stuff, or canonically having different selves across the multiverse, or even both, is just,, getting to say whatever tf you want about them

Anyways, there’s definitely a Diane out there with religious trauma from being raised in a cult-like environment (not even a cool one, she bemoans, a weird fucking one where they were convinced all pharmacists were witches and painkillers were their way of allowing demons to enter our bodies 🙄) who has. no fucking idea how to respond when Rick starts calling himself “god” (no early dying for her, she lives long enough to see his science really take off)

Her Rick stops saying the god stuff around her pretty quickly out of respect for her, but she still has that nagging anxiety that her religious trauma influenced the type of guy she chose

#does this count as a Rick and Morty oc? #I wanted to wait to talk about this version of Diane till I at least *tried* to draw her #but. I have had no motivation to draw for awhile now. #so getting this out before I move on from Rick and Morty and probably back to like. ST or DP or something. #rick and morty #Diane Sanchez #once again mad that we don’t have a maiden name for her #Rick Sanchez #yes I used beliefs from the weird fucking church my family forced me to go to. #yes I’m still pissed about them holding a whole sermon on that and trying to force us to believe it before I had to go in for surgery #THAT THEY KNEW ABOUT #it was a small church #shaking with rage still #this Rick and Diane has a healthy relationship but the religious trauma does have its effect on their relationship

[deancoded-deangirl]

the one poll about which brother is the main character irritates me. you have samgirls being like “Dean is winning because you guys think Jensen is hot” and “the lack of critical thinking on the site is insane” and then you have them, in the same reply, going, “i voted for Sam because it was supposed to be Sam but the writers spent more time on Dean and his plot.” okayyyyy so… if it was SUPPOSED to be Sam… but isn’t… then Sam is not the main character… idk why the samgirls go after everyone as if it’s just attractiveness that makes Dean the main character like, dude, that’s just a perk. And what’s even worse is the replies will also be like, “the writers focused on Dean heavily from s2 on” as if that isn’t SO EARLY. That means they spend FOURTEEN seasons with heavy Dean material, but he’s winning the poll purely because he’s hot? And everyone else should “die mad” that Sam is “supposed to be” the lead?

#like I was SUPPOSED to be normal #but I’m not #so if I made a post about if I was normal and everyone said ‘you’re supposed to be!’ #and voted for ‘yes’ #that’s not the right answer. #also they’re really fucking rude in the replies too #like telling people they’re stupid and it’s all fanservice #it’s a poll on tumblr. calm down. #also the only valid reply is the one who said Castiel #also way to say that Sam isn’t attractive??? I mean he had questionable hair but he was still cute #and I love die mad as a phrase but holy fuck they’re taking it so so so so seriously. #personal #samgirls can die mad that Dean stays winning those polls then ig

[theobot]

Listen I don’t know how you could read the last line before the *** and the line after the *** and not conclude they made out. I’m just being reasonable here

#gideon the 9th #gtn #first time reading #pool scene #they fucked in that pool! except they probably just made out because neither of them got a yeast infection #that being said I’m about to start ch 35 and since the 4th died I’m convinced it’s dulcinea #I’m also convinced dulcinea is already a lyctor and the original dulcinea is dead #and died in the space ship with pro and that’s how they got held up at the beginning #and she’s probably permadying as a lyctor but unable to die for real for real which is why she’s mad and doing murder #gideon the ninth spoilers #don’t tell me I’m wrong I enjoy my theory too much #me with a bulletin board full of red thread and racks foaming at the mouth ITS THE DYING GIRL #listen LISTEN it’s the fucking foreshadowing ok she’s the ONLY one that makes sense #it literally couldn’t be anyone else. and yes ianthe ate babs and the 8th when they weren’t dead were dicks but STILL #IT HAS TO BE THAT GEMINI DYING BITCH I DONT TRUST HER

[kittykatconundrum]

they really had to pull out the old theme I’m so mad

#dndad spoilers #I’m not even done with the episode #I Knew what it was going to be about from the fucking title and I’m Still Upset #also mad at my sister for being behind bc I can’t yell at her abt it #also hermie??? we knew but fuck! #as soon as the cold open was abt dads all my gears were concerned #should I have waited until I was done with todays hw to start? yes! did I? no! #fears not gears #dndads spoilers

[scholarhect]

i will never outgrow responding to people in confusing ways but it will be ok because people are patient :)

#post tag #wish people online were more patient. constantly you see somebody fucking up an interaction in a way that would be forgiven irl #but is punished harshly here #and then everyone laughs and reblogs it #like. idk. please consider that we are all people on here and these are all interactions #when you make a joke at somebody’s expense there is a person on the other side of the screen being made fun of! #it doesn’t happen to me but i don’t really interact with strangers online much #i dont want to get too preachy here sorry. this was supposed to be a post about how i confuse people at the start of interactions constantly #but i stumble my way to the middle of the conversation and then it’s mostly ok. frequently #however i have been thinking about how mean people can be on here recently… idk #i slept 3 hours last night and i blame the fact that i saw a tweet that pissed me off and got mad for like an hour and a half #and eventually calmed down but still couldn’t fall asleep. for some reason #anyway i wanted to say that i’m not sure if the way people react to social missteps on here is the way people want to react to me when i do #it irl. or not #i don’t . like the idea that people might want to punish me for it but feel unable to due to pressure to be polite. pressure that then doesn #t exist online #i ​hope not. lol #however i do ask you (yes you. the girl reading this. or whatever) to step back & think ‘would i say this to somebody’s face’ next time you #want to reblog with an epic comeback #oh god my sentences are getting so long. girl who simply cannot stop talking #girl who is blogginggggg <3 #ANYWAY. enough. let’s return to my original point which was that i like it when people are nice to me

[magical-xirl-4]

Sexualisation of minors in anime is weird and unnecessary and takes away from the show.

#YES I am talking about Railgun because I’m still mad #YOU DONT NEED TO PUT THAT SHIT IN THERE ISTG #ITS LIKE THEY HAD NO FAITH IN THE PRODUCT THEY WERE MAKING WHICH IS WHY THEY PUT SO MUCH FANSERVICE #THANK FUCK IN THE LATER SEASONS IT LESSENS BC THE SHOW KNOWS ITS BETTER THAN INDEX #BUT G O D IT DIDNT NEED TO BE THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE #IT WAS A SHOW PRIMARLY ABOUT GIRLS BUT THEY WERE LIKE ‘hm how do we make this marketable to our male audience?’ #BY PUTTING THE GIRLS IN COMPROMISING SITUATIONS APPARENTLY #UGH #I HATE CISHET MEN

[fractallogic]

Also people (other postdoc) are really frustrating today because they’re being VERY indirect with their questions. Like WHY do you want to know whether anyone else was asked to review a paper out of this special issue. Were you feeling combative and thinking you might have been asked to take on additional ~labor~? WHY do you ask me if it’s a good idea to get our class students to attend the events we’re putting on for the ling dept? Is it because you want to inform me that we SHOULD (since you’re citing our PI saying it’s a good idea)? Or are you actually asking me if this thing that would improve our attendance numbers and therefore look better is a thing that we should do… to improve our attendance numbers… and look better..?

Also undergrad, buddy, you KNOW where “the lab” is, which is why I didn’t elaborate further when I said that’s where we should meet today, because you were THERE when PI had us go on a lab tour for one of our lab meetings and when she explained that this space is shared by all of the psycholinguists and their students/lab members, and that’s why when you go to “the lab” for the OTHER PI you work with, you frequently see me working there even though I am not formally a member of other PI’s lab

I have a meeting with this undergrad and a grad student in an hour and I really need to shake off this incredible amount of irritation I’m feeling but oh my god WHY ARE PEOPLE LIKE THIS

#also yes I did watch a half-hour YouTube video where a lawyer analyzed the roe overturnment and the dissenting opinion #and my god are the majority opinionaters just. fucking stupid and appalling #I mean we knew this already. #but god. please make your war on uterus-havers less obvious #I do actually rely on abortion; namely that if all of my birth controls fail that I can terminate this thing that I have NEVER wanted #that I don’t have to do the thing I have nightmares about #and that my partner also doesn’t want!! #like yes he’s said multiple times that he’s very excited to get a vasectomy when he gets to the US as another layer of precaution #but EVERYTHING can fail and sorry I just like to have sex with a partner who can impregnate me #you motherfuckers also RELY ON abortions as a way to keep your affairs quiet and also to not have more children #since all of you opinionaters can still get people pregnant despite being ancient fucking ballsacks of human beings #BULLSHIT no one RELIES ON abortions #fucking. I. fuck #so anyway I have to talk to these kids about goal-setting for writing #hoo boy what a change in mindset I’m going to have to do #also I need to pack a lunch because although I’m not hungry now I will be very mad at the defense if I don’t eat #nnnnngggghhhhhhh everything is bad!!!

[begaycommittreason]

out of context things heard in wayne manor:

bruce: i understand, but pretending you cooked jerry the turkey is not a proportionate response to damian calling you a peasant again

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jason: look there’s a right way and a wrong way to make food. there’s also the bruce way, which is the wrong way except faster and worse

duke: *frantically scribbling notes*

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tim: do you think our relationship was kinda like incest now?

steph, horrified: never open your mouth in my presence again timothy

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dick: so then he’s like—guys. guys are you seriously signing about me in front of my face. i learned it too—hey i do NOT have a butt chin take that back—

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damian: i don’t understand, why does he wear such a ridiculous hat? is it like that margaret poppins woman grayson showed me?

tim, who watched the live action cat in the hat too much as a kid and is about to violently infodump: well you see-

dick: oh god it’s too late

jason: yeah the brats on his own for this one i’m not fucking dealing with that again

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bruce: are you lying?

tim: always. anyway, like i was saying—

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steph: hey what’s up with you and all the redheads

dick: …i’m not discussing this with you

steph, starting to chase him: gingervitus is a serious affliction! you cant run from this

dick, sprinting away: yes the fuck i can

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duke: so is anyone gonna talk about the elephant in the room…

dick:

dick: look i was feeling sentimental and zitka jr. really isn’t any trouble

damian: she is magnificent

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tim: so i dropped out and

duke: wait we can drop out of high school??!!?

bruce: NO.

duke: please bruce ap biology is beating my ass right now

jason: nah tim just got to drop cause bruce was dead and he’s a loser. the real problem is what you’re reading in ap lit right now, because i have thoughts on that curriculum—

duke: i’m not even gonna use half that material in the real world

tim: actually most of our villains have PhDs so their plans are based on pretty real science

duke: not helping timothy

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cass, signing: why are brothers on the ceiling?

jason: tims in timeout from working on his caseload

cass, still confused: yes but why taped to the ceiling

duke: listen if you know a better way of restraining his psycho ass then i’m all ears

cass: and damian?

jason: oh he saw this as free range target practice so he had to go up there too

cass: they are plotting revenge up there

duke: think of it as brotherly bonding

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damian: it’s not my fault he got in the way

bruce: you threw an eclair at lex luthor

damian: i was aiming for drake

tim: bruce we can’t take him anywhere

dick, holding back laughter: timmy you paid four separate people to come to the gala solely to ask lex if they could use his head to see if they had something in their teeth

tim: you have no proof that was me

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duke: look steph, it’s not that we don’t want to help with this

jason: i don’t want to help

duke: it’s more that i don’t think we can physically fit that many people in a shopping cart, and your whole plan kind of hinges on that

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alfred: i’m not mad, just disappointed in you.

every batkid, near tears: sorry alfred

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jason: HE HAD DIPLOMATIC IMMUNITY AS THE FUCKING WHAT—

bruce: listen—

tim, mouth full and brain empty: the ambassador to iran. crazy right?

dick: tim please

#batfam #dc #bruce wayne #dick grayson #jason todd #tim drake #duke thomas #cassandra cain #stephanie brown #damian wayne #batfamily #batman