#and when i use ''elle'' ppl tend to forget im nb and they misgender me entirely. and it sucks.

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i don't have my pronouns figured out in french and it makes daily life an agony

#ray says #i use the default afab ones but i dun like it #i dont feel like ''il'' fits bc i present so femininely. and ik i can do wtv i want but it feels unearned? to me? #and ''iel''...just sounds wrong. off. #so guess i'm stuck with ''elle'' for now. i wish we didnt conjugate everything according to pronouns tho. rly annoying. #and when i use ''elle'' ppl tend to forget im nb and they misgender me entirely. and it sucks.