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sleeby-anon · 8 months

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Guide To Sleeby:

I can write sometimes and do silly doodles. (This will be updated occasionally so be sure to double check)

Masterlist

This is an 18+ blog. Minors I do not want you following me or interacting with my nsft posts thanks.

I now block ageless blogs. Please check you have an age indicator in your bio before following me.

Also please for the love of all that is unholy if you follow me, please change your profile picture and backdrop. Give me something to show you aren't a spam bot, you are an actual person with likes and interests because I block bots on site.

I’m fine with writing nsfw—following boundaries are below.

Please don’t ask about piss, shit, or vomit kinks in my ask box.

Religion is a touchy subject for me so I will be avoiding writing about most religious matters.

Now I’m personally Aroace—so I find much of my own writing to be understood as hypothetical. I do understand not everyone will read it that way and that’s perfectly okay. If I see anyone commenting amatonormative things on explicitly stated aromantic characters, I will not be pleased. Go read any of my other fics.

If you are considering sending me hate specifically over my writing: please go outside, it's not that serious. If I bother you that much just block me. You are accountable for your own internet exposure. If you do send me hate, I will just troll you back and then block you. So the only person getting any satisfaction is me.

I really appreciate comments in my askbox, it’s a huge plus to my day. (I'm a sucker for validation so even an illegible keysmash is appreciated)

I’m less appreciative about comments asking me to update or when the next part is coming out. I’m an adhd full-time college student with three part-time jobs. I find these requests in poor taste.

If I accidentally misspeak or say something in poor taste, please for the love of god call me out on it. Hold me accountable. I'm still learning and unlearning. The last thing I want is to make an escape designed to forget about reality an unsafe space.

#sleeby anon

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urpurplehairedsage · 2 years

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Can I vent a little?

I’m aroallo and a minor. I am also above the age of consent for my country. I feel so weird about expressing my aroallo pride online because so much discussion involving sex and sexual experiences is 18+ only.

I have so many mixed feelings regarding discussing my sexual attraction here. My sexual attraction is so important to me! I also feel like I’ve finally found a place for myself in the aroallo community!

But I feel like I’ve internalised the rule of ‘minors should never ever talk about sex’ despite the fact that I can legally have sex in my country (and have done). I feel awkward mentioning that I experience sexual attraction at all.

I don’t even want to talk about sex that I have had/want to have, I just want to be comfortable talking about the fact that I experience sexual attraction and that I’m aroallo.

I don’t know where I was going with this. Thank you for reading :)

Hi anon, thanks for confiding in me! ✨️

Isn't it crazy how allosexuality (esp. in the context of aromanticism) and asexuality are both respectively dubbed as "adult identities"?

If you say you're asexual being a minor, most people would say shit like, "you're too young to know that", "you're probably just a late bloomer", "give it a year or three" and the like.

In the same token, if you say you're alloaro, all of a sudden it's deemed inappropriate. Again, most people, would say that you're simply too young.

I remember back in 9th grade, most people my age were talking about sex and stuff, so then my question to alloallos becomes... are minors allowed to acknowledge their (lack of) sexual attraction to others, or are only the cishet ones allowed to do that?

Being alloaro is not exclusive to adults; it's by no means an adult identity. We're arospec, and we only experience sexual attraction, but that's it. People really need to stop sexualizing queer identities.

Alloaro minors should be allowed to talk about the fact that they experience sexual attraction in a safe manner.

Do I think alloaro minors should interact with alloaros that post 18+ NSFT content/media? Absolutely not.

Do I think they should be able to enter alloaro subspaces that are specifically meant for adults to discuss 18+ topics? Hell no.

Otherwise, they are, and should be 100% welcome. Navigating the alloaro tags? Public <18 alloaro subreddits and such? 100% okay! ☘️

You know how parents educate their children about sex without going into a horrific amount of explicit detail? as an alloaro adult running an alloaro blog that doesn't post 18+ content, I like to put in place the same kind of boundaries. You guys are allowed to vent, ask for advice and talk about your alloaro pride safely and comfortably! ✨️

The alloaro community is not an 18+ space. Being alloaro is not exclusive to those above the age of 18.

I kind of went on a tangent myself, but hopefully I got my message across. You're welcome here, anon <3

-Y.

#🧙🏾‍♀️'s answers #aromantic #aro #arospec #aromanticism #alloaro #aroallo #aromantic allosexual #queer #lgbtqia+#🍍🍍🍍

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mywitchcultblr · 2 years

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Why i don't have minor DNI.

So here's the thing fellas from what I gathered, DNI most of the damn time ain't working because when i put a big banner about bigots DNI, they still interact anyway, so it's feels silly to keep DNI on my acc. You can do whatever tho, it's just don't work for me...

( since when this DNI thing even trendy? )

It's like putting a yellow police tape for a rhinoceros speeding at 300 mph, it just can't do anything. So I just gave up on it, also i don't think i have to scream MINOR DNI DNI at every damn moment because first of all I'm not their parent, this is a public space and it is just a damn basic homosapiens common sense that minor shouldn't interact with NSFW stuff

( Well lots still gonna do anyway since they are curious. I did that when I was young and admit it all of you are doing it as well. Lurking around place you shouldn't be when you are younger )

The best thing adult can do is put a sign "hey this adult only thing" and not talking nsfw with minors also be mindful around them. That's it.

Which I said on pinned post that if you aren't an adult don't interact with post tagged nsft ( when I didn't tag that's because i forgot )

Even though sometimes I post some whatever kinky fandom stuff, those things are not main focus of this blog. This is not an nsfw blog nor super clean family friendly wholesome blog.

Just super random account

I throw a lot of things into this blog, especially leftist politics and analysis. I think it'll be terribly unfair if i say "i don't want any teens or anyone under 20 to interact ever! Even with my positivity post or informative post."

Ye I said DNI most of the time doesn't work and people gonna do whatever

Still... There's lingering sentiment... Like if I make a trans positivity post particularly about trans youth and I have minor DNI tag because I'm stressed over what kind of whatever minor might see. That's sounds unfair, no?

No one can micromanaging all minors, I get it that it's good people are more mindful and care about minor safety that's good.

But adults can't keep stressing about what minors might see 24/ we already do what we can with disclaimer and warnings etc etc. The internet itself is a public digital space that was not made for children. Like... it's random.

Also, I get it. Because many influencers or whatever exposed as dog shit pedo that's makes people stressed and worried about any minor interacting with adults even if just commenting in public space.

I get the public sentiment... Still many many adults are decent people who understands what one should and shouldn't do, and teenagers although naturally when you are young you'll do a lot of stupid shit... You'll say a lot of stupid shit... I know, I was a teen too once

But they are not braindead, they are not a jellyfish, I trust they knows about boundaries and stuff, also I already put a warning.

Adults already did their part...

Also I cannot verify the validity of every blog age okay? Especially if they have no age stated on their damn blog.

Unless it's blatantly obvious that they are minor. I'm gonna assume they are adults

#dni #important #read if you want #boundaries #internet

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ourbloodypetals · 2 months

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Unsure of what to post as an intro, so let’s just do this for now:

Hello, I’m an introject in a DID system of Towa from Slow Damage. I’m bodily 18, and will probably post a ton of degenerate and NSFT shit here. I’m a bottom and also a switch.

Minors and blogs without an age in their bio please do not interact with me or my posts in any capacity.

More specific info about me UTC ⬇️

About me:

- You can use any name for me that you like

- Bodily 5’4

- Still a virgin, just insane about fantasizing

Kinks, etc.

- Blood / knife play

- Degradation

- Exhibitionism

- Intoxication

- Sadism / masochism

- etc

Important notes/boundaries:

- I will not give out my system’s Discord, main blog, Twitter, or any social media due to the rest of the system I am a part of not wanting to be involved with this blog’s activity.

- In posts I like/reblog, I will sometimes talk as if I have a dick and sometimes as if I don’t.

- I will never, in any capacity, post photos of my body on here or agree to VCs, meetups, etc. This is for my own safety.

- The kinks I may post about are far fetched fantasies of mine, and may not be safe to practice or generally applicable to reality.

- Despite being an introject from Slow Damage I have no affiliation to Slow Damage, Nitro Chiral, etc.

- Similarly, please remember that despite being an introject I am still my own person. Do not speak to me as if you know me because you’ve played my source, assume that just because I’ve done something/had something done to me in source that I condone it, or anything else of that nature.

But that’s enough rambling. I’ll post NSFT imagines. Probably reblog some, too. And my ask box is always open 🖤

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