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#and its panicking me bc we dont have any proper education about this
ladychlo · 3 years
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#Im panicking#my 13yo neighbor come to me and asked me about pride flags and she was a confusing the Lesbian one with trans one#I told her ofc that a trans women can use both flags if she is Lesbian too#but the thing is she told me I dont like boys and that she hate it when her friends try to meddle her up with boys#and its panicking me bc we dont have any proper education about this#like queerness is not even considered or acknowledged in our society unless its gonna be whispered as a deviance#and as something you deserve death and hell for so im scared for her#because she is in the BTS fanthom so she is picking on words like lesbian and gay and using vocaly and without understanding how dangerous#it is#and idk how to do it because im scared for her and sad and I dont wanna confuse her#this is like the third time she used queer lexicon with me#and idk what to do genuinely#at my age I'm still waaaay too careful but at her age she doesn't fathom the complexity of it#its jail if she is not careful#its making me sad for her i dont wanna scare her i want her to explore her gender and sexuality#but i cant word it right for her#we grow up internalizing so much self hatred I went to hell to deal with that and I still do#i dont want her to deal with that too#idk of she is straight or not or cis or not#when she told me that she was sending the lesbian flag to her friend I had to explain to her that its not about female friendship#its more than that she told she knows but her brother snitched her phone and called her out for that#sorry im ranting here im trying to think out loud here
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