#and it’s so frustrating

[dragons-hoarde]

If anyone tells you “oh be thankful you don’t get periods as a trans woman” I can come cause damage should you want!!!

#swear to god it’s the fucking worst #I wish I had one for the sake of fucking reassurance it’s such a constant reminder of this thing that I can’t be. #And it’s so frustrating

[methinmycoffee]

I will only accept one change to the Status-Quo right now, and it’s if the Marsh’s divorce. Here’s why:

If the Marsh’s divorce, Randy can keep Tegridy. The show can stay in the middle ground, with a half return to form by having Sharon and the kids move back in to their old house, but Randy keeps the farm and Stan and Shelly visit sometimes/half the time. This way you can still use both settings, but Stan isn’t stuck out on a farm all the time and away from everyone else (except To(l)k(i)en). Also it gives Sharon a chance to do something again. She has some potential, I think, but she’s just been reduced to the hysterical wife of Randy.

Let’s see how Shelly takes it. She hasn’t done shit in forever. What if Sharon starts dating again? Like in Clubhouses but way less stupid. Fine, we can watch Randy sort of loose his mind without Sharon around, if you insist.

~Oops I got a little sidetracked here~

Or, and hear me out, we do all this and then LET THE MARSH’S FADE TO THE BACKGROUND FOR A BIT. God they have had so much screen time lately. Bring back the main four, with no weird dynamic shifts or fighting. Let Stan’s family be the same as everyone else’s, not that important most of the time. Let the side characters do something, and not just To(l)k(i)en! Clyde, Craig and Tweek deserve more!

Also, stop bringing in new characters. As much as Betty Boogie is an icon, she doesn’t need a new character every other episode. And if you must bring in new characters, don’t design them weird so they look out of place. Use Heather Williams instead of Betsy if you must have a Betty Boogie character. Betsy looks really weird and out of place, and my heart only has room for one Betsy (Rest In Peace Betsy Donovan).

I think this post has gone off the rails, oops. I think my point is that if we must use the Marsh family as often as we have been, it would be a good idea to separate Randy from the rest of his family so that he doesn’t drag them down with him. Or they could stop obsessively using the Marsh family as often, and just let other characters have their moment for a minute.

#south park #Stan Marsh #Sharon Marsh #Randy Marsh #Shelly Marsh #woah wow wee woo wowie woo woo this post derailed #also that’s four character tags! that’s crazy #(It’s because I wanted to tag Randy and Stan but then Sharon made sense too and I couldn’t leave out Shelly) #but also I’m right and you know it #even if you like Stan you have to admit that he and his family are ruining everything #and it’s ruining Stan too #I know Matt and Trey are only making the show for themselves at this point but :( #still makes me sad to watch this show finally crumble like every other long running show #and it’s so frustrating #because I think South Park had a reputation for managing to stay cool for 20 years #if it wasn’t the reputation for being anti-semetic #let’s just try a true return to form for a season #see what happens #I bet it would be cool

[singmysoultosleep]

that sundown town video has been pissing me off so bad bc it’s just so evident she was lying for traction and now the fallout of it are just racist brits saying they don’t know what they are either in her defence and waging war with americans trying to explain… like first of all okay whatever we don’t really have them here i get why you wouldn’t have heard of it (i still think you should’ve tbh 🤷🏻‍♀️ i learnt ab them in history and i’m from wales/went to a cymraeg centric school so?? and you are not immune to education you missed bc of curriculums it’s such a lazy excuse get a new one!!) that aside, even if you have heard of them… the only context it’s being put in is for what it is… like nobody is talking casually about sundown towns in a way that you can misinterpret what they are. and even if you were unsure why would you not google i’m so confused she’s actually such a liar lmao and she’s not even good at hiding it

#it’s so futile getting worked up over tiktok’s of all things but she’s literally just ignorant for giggles #and it’s so frustrating #just awarding a vessel for british people to attack aa’s under the pretence of hatred for americans in general #and it’s not slick like it’s so annoying i can’t #tiktok 🔫

[queerbuckleys]

i love not knowing what’s happening

#like there isn’t actually anything i do need to know i don’t think but also i feel like i have no idea what’s going on #like. my brother said he was going to text me and he hasn’t #and it like makes sense that maybe he hasn’t but also what if he forgot #i’m just ugh #i just like need to be more in the loop than he ever loops me in #and it’s so frustrating

[ivyloveheart]

Clenching my fists growling and snarling. I hate writing commission TOS

#I’m trying to make sure I have everything covered so that I don’t run into any stupid problems just because I missed something in my TOS #and it’s so frustrating #I just wanna open comms already #how do you people Do This

[neimansautism]

Yeah, I like Damien Chazelle’s Whiplash, but be damned if there isn’t something uncomfortable with him making, not one, but TWO movies about jazz (La La Land) and both of them only have all white leading casts?

#whiplash #la la land #damien chazelle #jazz music #sebastian being a jazz purist Does Not Make Me Fell Good #in addition #la la land has a race issue #and it’s so frustrating

[ipwarn]

Nearly finished.

#my art #WIP #something doesn’t look right about it #and it’s so frustrating #because I want to be happy with it #and I know if I was a better artist I would be able to spot the issue instantly #but I just can’t figure it out #I mean it’s my hand - I should be able to work this out

[sophisticatedswifts]

I saw a critic say Louis Tomlinson’s fan base is all 14-18 year olds. Which makes total sense, I’m sure all Louis Tomlinson fans were between the ages of 2 and 6 when One Direction was formed. Those toddlers were really carrying the fandom. I’m sure they all voted for them on the X-Factor.

#it’s the same generalization we get as fans of Taylor #and it’s so frustrating #also having teenage girls as a fan base doesn’t make anything less valuable #I don’t know how some people don’t see that

[butchfalin]

the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again

#yeehaw #1k #5k #10k #posts that got cursed. blasted. im making these tag updates after... 19 hours? #also i have been told it should say speech loss bc nonverbal specifically refers to the permanent state. did not know that! #unfortunately i fear it is so far past containment that even if i edited it now it would do very little. but noted for future reference #edit 2: nvm enough ppl have come to rb it from me directly that i changed the wording a bit. hopefully this makes sense #also. in case anyone is curious. though i doubt anyone who is commenting these things will check the original tags #1) my friend did not do this on purpose in any way. it was not intended to distract me or to hit on me. im a lesbian hes a gay man. cmon now #he felt very bad about it afterwards. i thought it was hilarious but it was very embarrassed and apologetic #2) “why didn't he use 🫵🏼?” didn't exist yet. “why didn't he use 🆗?” dunno! we'd been using a lot of hand emojis. 👌🏼 is an ok sign #like it makes sense. it was just a silly mixup. also No i did not invent 👉🏼👌🏼 as a gesture meaning sex. do you live under a rock #3) nonspeaking episodes are a recurring thing in my life and have been since i was born. this is not a quirky one-time thing #it is a pervasive issue that is very frustrating to both myself and the people i am trying to communicate with. in which trying to speak is #extremely distressing and causes very genuine anguish. this post is not me making light of it it's just a funny thing that happened once #it's no different than if i post about a funny thing that happened in conjunction w a physical disability. it's just me talking abt my life #i don't mind character tags tho. those can be entertaining. i don't know what any of you are talking about #Except the ppl who have said this is pego/ryu or wang/xian. those people i understand and respect #if you use it as a writing prompt that's fine but send it to me. i want to see it #aaaand i think that's it. everyday im tempted to turn off rbs on it. it hasn't even been a week

[aropride]

it's so fucking frustrating to be in college and know everyone uses chatgpt and to be tempted by it constantly while also knowing intellectually that it doesn't work and it's a bad idea. like, i hang out in the library a lot, and i see people using chatgpt on assignments almost every day. and i know it isn't a good way to learn, because it's not really "artificial intelligence" so much as it is an auto text generator. and it gives you wrong information or badly worded sentences all the time. but every week i stare down assignments i don't want to do and i think man. if only i could type this prompt into a text generator and have it done in 10 minutes flat. and i know it wouldn't work. it wouldn't synthesize information from the text the way professors want, it wouldn't know how to answer questions, it just spits out vaguely related words for a couple paragraphs. but knowing my classmates get their work done in 10 minutes flat with it while i fight every ounce of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder in my body is infuriating.

#text #like i KNOW it doesnt work but i still want to use it which is SO FRUSTRATING #bc i DONT want to use it. but its TEMPTING.

[borrelia]

if you donate one single us dollar to the unrwa, you will have donated more money than you would have by clicking that stupid arab.orb link every day for four and a half years. yes, they do actually donate money to the unrwa, but even with tens of thousands of clicks, most of that money is the baseline $90 they send every quarter. from 2023 quarter 4, half a million clicks turned into $380.57. maths out to six hundreths of one cent per click. just donate to unrwa.

#myaa #everyones pushing so hard for the clicks and like #its nice you think you can make a difference by clicking #but you should understand how minimal the impact of that site is #i can understand if you literally cannot donate #but its frustrating to see ppl reposting the click link so many times without the link to ACTUALLY donate...

[that-one-enby-possum]

Gods my cognitive function is not functioning rn

Vent in tags

#my brain just #isn’t working #which is not ideal #as a college student #it’s starting to become noticeable to the ppl around me #and it’s so frustrating #because it’s literally just me being stupid #and making dumb decisions #for seemingly no reason #and it’s probably bc I haven’t been sleeping #but I just look #dumb #and they have no reason to think teasing me abt it is suddenly bad #bc I don’t wanna say that it hurts #bc they don’t need that rn #esp my irl friends (who don’t follow me here) #but FUCK it’s so frustrating! #I feel so fucking stupid #and it’s because I am being stupid! #FUCK #I need more sleep #I’m averaging 5 hrs a night #according to my doctor I specifically require DOUBLE THAT #I REQUIRE 9-10 HOURS OF SLEEP #IM GETTING 5 #no wonder I can’t think #or problem solve or type or make sense #vent tw #the bird speaks #the bird fucking loses it

[frostedpuffs]

does anyone else hate that work takes up like 90% of your life and you literally are always working and have to form plans and important things and even seeing friends or eating meals around work. it's always just work. im spending my life just being At Work. i don't have time for hobbies or for seeing friends bc it’s always Work. like two days off a week isn't even enough because my days off aren't consecutive so i just spend those days exhausted or doing errands or house chores. there is not enough Time. all the time goes to Work. WHY IS LIFE THIS WAY. humans were not meant for this

#literally so frustrating how im always at this damn job LMAO #working full time is a joke. you spend most of your life at work just to not even be able to make enough money to live #bullshiiiiiityee #text post

[kabutone]

tiktok making me mad again

a lot of people have been saying “is xyz what it takes for you to care?? look at the suffering happening how could you not care!!” but like girl . that really is what it takes. palestine has been occupied for like 75 years but it took a genocide to really kickstart the free palestine movement (even though it did exist before oct 7).

BLM has been around for way longer before 2020 but it took multiple murders of black ppl by police for people to actually start to care. yes there are people that have been listening since before then, people that have been around since before these movements became so big, but it really does take generations of suffering and then it has to culminate in one big bloody, gory catastrophe to get people to care.

and i am watching yall ignore the millions of covid deaths! i’m asking YOU how you can turn a blind eye to SO MUCH SUFFERING. apparently it’s really easy. how much longer do we have to suffer until you care? how many more people must die before you do something? we reached the “tipping point” long ago and you’re going to your protests without masks.

i’m not asking everyone to dedicate their lives to doing everything for every cause. i’m only asking you to do what you can. cause when everyone does a little bit, it makes a big impact. everyone showing support for palestine is putting pressure on the government to call for a ceasefire (not a permanent one yet 🙄 but it’s something). this way, it’s not just the palestinians all by themselves, they have the support of millions. i’m still pissed that everyone seemed to give up on BLM before much effective change was made though. but yall refuse to mask!!! if everyone wore masks out, the BARE MINIMUM, imagine how many lives we could save.

the truth is covid is getting worse. the gov is trying to hide the deaths and long term damage the pandemic is doing, but you don’t see it even when it’s right in front of your face. we’ve been constantly suffering in silence for years and our pleas for help are consistently falling on deaf ears. it’s especially maddening when it’s people who claim to want to help, who want to do the right thing, and then refuse effective options for more performative and showy ones.

but i guess wearing a mask actually requires you to DO something. it’s easier to just make posts. you get to post a video of yourself doing poses, AND you get give yourself a pat on the back for making minuscule effort. that’s the extent that your care goes though. but to actually INCONVENIENCE yourself for a cause? ew!! yeah people are dying but… we can’t expect you to go out of your way in the slightest, it’s too much. so, you settle for telling people they’re horrible for not using a tiktok sound, because it’s so easy. it’s really a bad look when the most effort you’ll go to is less than the bare minimum and then you have the nerve to act like it’s the height of activism. it’s so frustrating for there to be better, more effective solutions and people go ‘umm… no…. i COULD help, and i know i said i wanted to, but actually i just wanna make posts and that’s it.’

and for the people that HAVE been doing actual work, like going to protests, donating e sims, contacting their reps, these are the people that are ACTUALLY living their politics and not just trying to look good online. and it’s working!! but i implore you to please please please consider the impact your actions. if you’re putting in effort, you’re someone that truly cares about helping people. just wearing a mask is not only an easy solution, but it’s highly effective. a lot of us feel hopeless bc individually, how do we help people suffering across the world? we can’t personally go help, so we can just do our best to get the government to listen and fucking stop killing people. it’s kinda hard to make a direct impact, but that’s why it’s so important that we have a LOT of people trying. it’s the same with every movement ever. but with masking you are directly helping the people around you, immediately. it’s low effort, but very very high impact. if you want real change to happen, invest in things that will make the biggest impact!!

anyway, kill the eugenicist in your head that tells you certain lives are disposable!!!!

#people say this is going to change them forever. but will it? #or will you care while it’s trendy and go ‘back to normal’ when you’re bored? #anyway . mad . mad #i think a lot of people just do not fucking mean what they say #or don’t believe what they say they do #and it’s so frustrating

[followthebluebell]

i think furniture legs should be carved into little animal feet again.  i think that would solve a lot of problems. 

#i'm trying to buy a new bedframe and it's very frustrating because they're all so ugly

[evilovesyou]

Please for the love of god just let me click on the user that something was rb from and see the damn post on that blog

#i am so frustrated #tumblr #mine