#and a horrible mother. i know

[batcavescolony]

Shut up she's doing her best and sometimes your best hurts.

#she was NINETEEN when she had Percy. she did it on her own! her parents are dead. and she has ro prepare percy for a world she cant tell him #about. cus the second he know ittle get worse. `shes horrible in the show. shes not kind' bffr why? BECAUSE THE BOOKS ARE FROM PERCY POV #she perfect cus thats how percy sees her. but now the show isnt from percy pov and we see sally as she is. a stresses out SINGLE mother of #neurodivergent demigod who has no support system. shes human! she's gonna make mistakes. shes gonna be stressed. but she loves her son so #much and percy loves her. its adding layers to her character. shes never been weak shes never been meak shes never been a push over #but i swear that what some of you want! she can be motherly and stubborn WHERE DO YOU THINK PERCY GOT IT FROM!! she can be kind and need to #teach hard lessons. she can be more then one thing. #sally jackson #percy jackson #batcavescoloy watches the PJO tv show #batcavescolony watches #pjo #pjo tv series #pjo series #pjo show #pjo tv #pho tv show #percy jackon and the olympians #percy jackson and the olympians #percy jackson tv show #percy jackson tv series

[harrowedsoup]

Speaking of that modern AU where Gideon is raised by Wake:

I think it would be hilarious if Gideon keeps getting annoyed because not only do random people keep saying Wake is hot but she keeps finding out that she slept with all kinds of people. Mostly I think it would be an on going joke in her friend group.

Gideon eventually complains to Harrow about it and goes ‘at least you don’t think my mom is hot’

Only for Harrow to stand there like, ‘griddle you are the spitting image of your mother. Of course I think she’s hot.’

#the locked tomb #gideon nav #harrow nonagesimus #griddlehark #Harrow: I mean I’m not attracted to her. She is terrifying. #Harrow: but she looks like you and I like you. #Gideon:…. at least I know I’ll be hot in 20 years I guess #Gideon: …. you aren’t like. going to Jenny’s mom me are you ? #Harrow: what ? no. again your mother is terrifying even if I was attracted to her. which I’m not. #harrow: for some reason I’m attracted to your horrible personality and caring nature #Gideon: and my handsome looks and buff body? #harrow:……… not necessarily for me to love you but very appealing

[yearningsaphic]

I think it would really advance society if we admitted that mothers can be just as toxic and abusive if not more than dads and stopped dismissing it as “they gave birth to you”

#like that’s manipulation sorry #just because they gave birth to you doesn’t mean they just get a free pass #mommy issues #the mother wound #mother issues #miscellaneous #misc. #misc.txt #willow talks #this is inspired by some replies to a comment where I jokingly said I would disown her on a post where a girl posted screenshots of texts #from her mom and with a picture of lana but she spelled it alana del rey #it wasn’t even my mom and it was just a hypothetical situation for me that I’m not even involved in #and people are just freaking out in the comments #it’s kinda funny #but also like sad honestly #also like stop assuming stuff about people’s families #like my mom walked out on me when I was three and had made no effort to contact me #but they don’t know that they just know respect your mom regardless #like the fact that they gave birth to you and are doing these horrible things to you only makes it worse #willow.txt

[junibugs]

guys. i'm thinking to much about eren jaeger and its making me so mentally ill

#he was so full of love #so so so full of love #like imagine being so full of love that you would destroy everything #that you would kill the world for those you love #just to make the world love them for killing you #imagine destroying the world to make the world love the ones you love for saving them #just so they can love them as much as you do #i could fucking throw up #imagine your fate being destruction and continuing on with it so the ones you love can be loved the way you love them #imagine knowing you will be the most hated person in the universe #and being okay with that just so the world will forgive the ones you love most #holy fucking christ #imagine watching your loved ones die #knowing that they will #imagine having to sit through that #imagine having to let your mother die so you'll have enough passion to save everything else that's meant anything to you #imagine having to kill your mother to motivate your younger self to save everyone else #imagine hating yourself so much that you let the person who loves you and that you love most... kill you #imagine being so horrible that your most beloved has do slaughter you #imagine being so horrible that your best friend has to claim blame for your death so your lover doesn't get betrayed for it for the rest of #her life #imagine loving people so much that you would be the worst person on earth for them #i want to love someone that much.

[anglerflsh]

i feel bad for your mom...

She had me exorcised before, like, twice, so I don't particularly feel bad for her, but I suppose someone has to

#anonymous #[.asks] #I guess people wouldnt know this from being on my blog for less than like a month but. still #Dare I say you could have surmised from me not taking her calls that we dont have the best relationship! #She's not a horrible person - horrors aside - but it is almost like this is none of your business random anon online #i am making for of you I am not mad at you. it's almost funny #you have to admit a stranger's relationship with their mother isn't exactly field for you -a random anon- to give your opinion #I'd guess you wouldn't really feel so bad for her then if you had any context at all about this woman

[llovelymoonn]

my father loves my mother. it infuriates me.

howard nemerov the collected poems of howard nemerov: “the vacuum” \\ rosa linn snap \\ @sunmotifs​ \\ lindsay bird

kofi

#on fathers #on mothers #this is a very niche one #oversharing way too much and wondering how long i will keep this up #like i know it's good that he loves her but when he expresses it it just angers me so much and i don't know why #to the point where if he's hugging her or something i have to look away #i feel like a horrible person when i feel like that #maybe this is something i should be talking to a therapist about rather than tumblr #on father #on dad #on dads #on mother #on mom #on families #mine #my webweaving #webweaving #web weaving #webweave #web weave #ww #web #webs #parallel #parallels #parallelism #compilation #compilations #intertextuality #on self

[rustedleopard]

So you guys remember how after Hinawa was announced as dead, Flint was immediately tossed into jail after he (very understandably) lashes out in his grief. And then by the time he breaks out of jail (not released by a fellow Tazmillian, breaks out with a nail file), the service is already over and she's buried six feet under the dirt with no proper goodbye from her husband or even a glimpse at her or anything???

That was fucked up

#mother 3 #sorry but the Tazmillians there did a massive massive blunder. like seriously wtf??? #flint didn't even get to see her. the last memory he has of her is from however many days before when she went to visit her father #they should've let him see her one last time! that was stupidly unfair. no matter what your opinion on flint is you should at least be #able to acknowledge that that was completely messed up #even if they were worried about him lashing out again they had the whole village there in case something happened. he should've been #allowed to see her. even if she was so horribly mangled from the drago that people felt it would be best to spare him the sight #that's not their decision to make. that's his WIFE. canonically acknowledged as the love of his life. he should've been allowed to see her #and make the decision to look for himself. #i know i know these people aren't used to dealing with grief etc etc but ignorance is an explanation not an excuse #playing that part in the beginning of the game the first time immediately made me go 'oh. i don't like these people' #(yes i know retrospect changes your interpretation of this section but still)

[crimeronan]

i think worst timeline AU luz's most common recurring nightmare while she thinks hunter is dead is that she opens the door to find him on the doorstep healthy and whole, but then -- sometimes with a slow horror creep, sometimes all at once -- it becomes apparent that this is not the hunter she grew up with, nor is he the confused terrified grimwalker she helped kill. this is a copy of hunter that doesn't remember being hunter but still apparently remembers loving her. in the worst dreams he apologizes for not being the right hunter and he so so so earnestly loves her and he's still Not Right and nothing at all has ever been his fault.

#just thinking about how fears and past experiences can manifest in nightmares. as per usual #luz waking up from these dreams to a world where her hunter is dead and the facsimile doesnt exist #and not knowing whether she wishes her dream hunter was real or if that really is the worst thing that could ever happen to her #you know when her actual hunter shows up alive he's gonna have to deal with the Mother of all interrogations #toh #princess luz au #princess luz au worst timeline #horrible mindscape trauma pals #on this note. now i try to eep myself

[bonefall]

Does pelt length contribute to the beauty factor at all? Does it vary based on clan? I‘ve always imagined Riverclan as finding medium-long fur attractive with Windclan as finding short fur attractive but I’m not sure on the rest 🤔

In general I think it's a balance. It can make a cat look bigger and more threatening, but also hide scars.

I think ThunderClan LOVES a fluffy mane though, hence why it gets selected for in that Clan.

ShadowClan probably selects for short fur because of the marsh. Long hair means holding down heavy, sopping mud.

#Clan culture beauty standards #I think I will cover Frostfur in scars btw #She deserves it #Big battle battered girl #I find the idea soft of her curling up to Brightpaw and comforting her baby through the pain #Promising she'll be okay and this will make a beautiful scar #She's probably disgusted that Bluestar would give her such a horrible name as Swifthound #Her own mentor #MAN the more I think about Frosty the more I'm realizing I should SUUUPER expand her role in BB! #Fellow disciple of Bluestar with Firestar #Maybe knowing her true parentage was Featherwhisker (unsure but Maybe) #Mother of the Frostfour and battletorn senior warrior of the Clan #Her and Whitestorm could end up as very vocal and respected supporters of Fireheart

[themoonking]

finally finished the priory of the orange tree after putting it off for like a year, and putting aside the fact that it's insanely boring, way too long, and the romance is lackluster, it certainly was a choice to, in a book at least in part about finding common ground and coming together, basically go "religion a is correct and good and its believers can continue on their merry lives, but religion b is a 100% incorrect wrong bad lie founded by a wrong bad misogynistic lying liar, and everyone who believes in it should convert and in fact we're going to end the book by heavily implying that the recently-converted queen is going to slowly but surely pressure the entire country to convert because their faith is wrong and bad". like that was certainly a decision that samantha shannon made.

#idk i don't love an entire religion being painted as objectively inherently bad and wrong #especially since none of the six virtue's actual teachings are that bad like #and also esp since the only other thing we learn about galian berethnet is that he was fucking r/ped by his own mother #and was so distraught upon learning this that he killed himself #the fact that aside from that its just like 'he was a lying liar who lies and hated women' just didn't sit right with me... #the priory of the orange tree #priory of the orange tree #the roots of chaos #anti booktok #samantha shannon #like the entire time before this was revealed i was like #'ah its so obvious - both faiths are going to end up being a little bit wrong and a little bit right' #'of course it will be revealed that cleolind and galian actually worked together to defeat the nameless one' #'and learning this will really press into the characters that they themselves need to work together to defeat him again' #but instead like???? #and like even with the kalyba stuff it would have been so easy you can say like: #cleolind and galian worked together but kalyba (canonically posessive and jealous and willing to do horrible things to keep galian w/ her) #uses her magic to make cleolind believe that galian betrayed her which she then goes and tells her priory #+ in an effort to keep as low a profile as possible for herself while disguised as cleolind she makes galian believe that he did everything #and when her disguise falls he's so distraught that he kills himself and so the only one who knows the truth is kalyba #who certainly has no motivation to reveal the truth

[horrorlesbians]

I think working ten hour shifts is slowly eating me alive. it’s nice having three days off (since we work 10 hours we still get our 40 hours a week so we get another day off) but half the time on those days off unless I have plans I end up just laying in bed all day because I’m exhausted

#🦌 #I’m gaining weight because I don’t have mental energy to make something healthy so I’m getting fast food a lot and I don’t have energy to #work out or anything. it’s not worth getting a gym membership at the moment bc I know how little I’ll use it. I just lay in bed and for half #the time which is so horrible because the last thing I want to be is my mother

[shatouto]

ok that art kinda blowin up in the astarion circles. uhhh friendly reminder that im also rly into cazador as a character so if u don’t like that… u can ignore me now

#tbh if you know me on twitter you will have already seen my unhinged mommy caz twwets #but anyway #i think he’s horrible but i also think he’s as much a victim as he is an abuser #doesn’t excuse what he did but he’s not your saturday morning cartoon unsympathetic villain either #as much as he reminds me of my mother (whom i loathe) i also still like him (like i still love my mother) #complicated….. #anyway i don’t have to justify my villain love i just. want yall to know #i like cazador. he’s very compelling. and just as emblematic of the cycle of abuse as astarion is

[running-in-the-dark]

had one very short interaction with my mother-in-law and once again I think I won't get through living here until the end of March :)

#she drives me insane #she asked something. I answered. she goes 'okAaaAayyyy?' in the most irritating tone ever. #like what is wrong with you. what. #she's so fucking irritating. truly the most joyless serious bitter person I have ever met (and I have met my mother so...... that's saying #something) #it's just. man social interaction is already so difficult but she just. makes EVERYTHING weird. #literally dude all I said was that yes everything's great with me and the cats 👍 how ELSE was I supposed to respond to that?? #I know I'm overthinking it and being a horrible ungrateful little bitch but god I just can't stand her #I don't CARE what they do for us I still just don't like them 😭 yes I know I'm the worst 😭 #my husband had to promise me that I won't have to see them more than twice a year once we move. I just. they drain every last bit of life #and joy and happiness out of everything #drives me insane #anyway I'm done being an asshole for now #been trying to take a tumblr break but where else would I complain about this. #personal

[bloodofgrapes]

I can't believe I've been playing whack-a-mole with ui changes on this website since 2011

#people who use tumblr for this long probably have some degree of cockroach dna #though this change drives me closer to quitting the site altogether #I cannot stand algorithms and stuff #it's why I don't use any other social media #ughhhh this trend is horrible #the tiktokification of the internet is a nightmare #and I still know people that will defend tiktok like I've insulted their damn mother #your website is bad and now it's making every other website bad too

[anankos]

Def still thinking abt the notes i found on an old discord convo heavily featuring anselma con fire emblem bc i want to pick her brains so badly. there’s a lot of em in these games but damn what a woman to haunt the narrative

#fe16 #i heart morally ambiguous milfs who would do Anything good or bad for their close family #(of all the characters i think rhea could be a genuinely fascinating foil for anselma but i haven’t explored that enough yet #to have a definitive answer since it wasn’t in the notes) #i ALSO heart not fridging fire emblem moms. seriously video game what the FUCK happened to her after tragedy of duscur #also there was an au bullet point of ‘anselma/lambert oopsie baby and the consequences thereof’ #esp for the tragedy of edelgard partially- though still Very personally- movitaved by the horrible deaths of every single one of her sibling #and she wouldn’t even know about the sibling ‘left’. nor does she know about her mothers fate serIOUSLY KT WHAT HAPPENED TO ANSELMA-

[pocketramblr]

Really dark topic, but what do you think would it take for Enji (pre-AM retirement, obviously) to threaten to, or legit kill Rei, mindcontrolling quirks aside?

mind-controlling quirks aside... i don't think he would threaten to kill her. he'd basically never have something to gain from killing her that he couldn't get some other far easier and less risky way. If she was able to prevent him from abusing Shoto, or threatened to take him/all the kids away, Enji could very much threaten divorce, institutionalization, maybe even arrest, but he can stop her from doing that without threatening to kill her.

If Enji were to kill her, which could happen, i don't think it'd be premeditated. But he has hit her before, and Rei isn't exactly going to do great with heat or flame, so if she intervened at the wrong time in the dojo... it's plausible enough i'd accept it as a fic premise.

#thatd have HUGE ramifications tho #not even touching if there's legal reprecussions or not #but Fuyumi? if he *killed* her mother? Shoto? Natsuo? absolutely no forgiveness #and even Enji i think at his worst would be horrified afterwards. even if part of him blames Rei he'd still carry some of it. try to surpas #All Might when he knows he killed his wife? yeah ha no. plus wherever we are with the Touya mess. #(i could even see Touya being like 'hm would i perhaps regain father's favor if i took the blame?' which is another horrible thing #on top of his other kids hating him forever) #like those kids would probably end up with.... the himuras... so thats not great for them either.... #anon #pocket talks to people #be a uh /fascinating/ way to try to do a faster 'be a better person arc' tho #good news: you will end up taking accountability for what youve done and internalize how horrible it was to do. ten years earlier! #bad news: only after i make you do something even worse tho and kill your children's mother and your wife