#and I look super androgynous

[tricoufamily]

when taking care of yourself and caring about your clothes starts making you feel better and not the other way around

#NOOO I DONT WANNA #i’m kidding i’ve bought some new clothes they’re really cute very dysphoria easing #i’ve worn the same like 5 pairs of basketball shorts and 4 t shirts since like march #‘since march’ ok maybe it has been like three years. but #the dressing rooms WERE hell but i finally found the right size that doesn’t make me want to die #and they’re all men’s pants! men’s pants fitting well felt super super good! #i need a belt but they’re not tight on my hips #my hip and thigh ratio to waist ratio is Pain Agony Death (Pixar Mom) so pants are very very difficult for me #i actually think i pass kinda well from the waist up. kinda. on a good day #i’ve got my little pinterest board of baggy panted androgynous emo cis guys. i can do this #i’m excited to wear them like they look good they make my legs look straight up and down #i might just get rid of all my dysphoria inducing clothes and completely start over #i also have a slowdive shirt coming in the mail 🤸‍♂️

[lyxchen]

Look I know my gender is a bit weird and I'm not fully sure what to identify as but I am pretty comfortable in being afab and percieved as a girl. I like my name and I like my she/her pronouns, I tried other pronouns too but they didn't feel right and so I'd say mostly I'm comfortable with my gender. But. Why the fuck do I always get such massive gender envy for male characters??? And male characters only!! I don't get it

#it's cool and all #but also kinda not cause whenever i realize that it's gender envy i really don't know what to do about that #cause i really do not look like these characters and can't easily change my look to appear more like them #but i wanna #i really wanna look like them!!! #how do i do that?? #why does this keep happening #i know that i'd like to seem a bit more androgynous but that's about it #hhhhhh #anyways #this post was brought to you by: the gender envy i have for campbell bain #this boy has so much gender and i Wamt it!!!!! #(the same goes for steve harrington and grizz visser btw) #but honestly it's so hard to figure out for me that what i'm feeling is gender envy #cause it's always like #i love this character So Much but not quite the same i love other characters but i also know it's not a crush because i'm gay and me being #with them romantically feels super weird #and then i realize it's that thing of 'i don't want to be with them i want to Be them' but you know i just wanna have their gender #and it's weird #welp #i'm gonna go look for fabric to sew campbells cute colorblock sweater now because that's the only think i feel like i can do about this rn #sooo yeah #man (gn) i really thought i didn't have gender confusion and then this keeps happening #that's it for now #i'll update when i find the next guy to feel gender envy for #so far i have my three boys :3 #lea's random thoughts #(campbell give me your gender i am begging you!!!!! i love you!!!)

[papaemeritusthefifth]

Took my first t shot last night!!!!

#im a little nervous #ive never really seen myself in a masculine light #like i am on t to look more androgynous #but my family raised me super feminine #so im super excited to have my voice change and get the facial hair growth #but theres part of me that like #still equates my personal beauty with being hyper feminine #so im excited to discover this part of me and find my own beauty in it

[iknowwhereyousleepatnight]

went to go clothes shopping today and i got the cuntiest misa-esque dress for like $8 at the thrift store <3

#it’s covered in hearts and it’s strapless w a low lace-up back and the skirt is short and poofy but it’s sewn at the edges so that the #skirt is like a sphere-ish shape that holds fairly well and i should prob just draw it so what i’m saying makes sense but it is super cute #and i also got some jeans which is new for me i’ve not worn jeans since. um. i think the last time i wore jeans i was. idk. before #i started dressing myself? so under 5 maybe? idk pants feel really restricting to me and jeans esp that’s why i’m always wearing skirts #but i feel up to it rn bc i’ve always thought they were cute and also i think i’m comfortable enough in my skin to do so which i think it’s #usually the opposite for ppl they like pants and are afraid of dresses bc they’re uncomfortable/self conscious/whatever but for me #skirts have always been a safety blanket and they are so comfortable but sometimes skirts are just not practical so i need to like #get comfortable wearing pants and i tried doing it a couple years back but i was like in the midst of an eating disorder so that didn’t go #down well but i’m cool now i’m chill abt things and wearing skirts all the time makes ppl peg me as fem and i’m like ahhhhh stop she/her-in #me when i’m obvi in femboy mode or like when i’m being androgynous but i happen to be wearing a skirt w my outfit it’s annoying #anyway it took me two fucking hours to figure out what size i was bc skirts u don’t really have a size bc u just need it to fit ur waist #and ur golden but pants are so complicated and i have wide hips and thick thighs and it took me foreverrrr to find the right size #but i did and now i will never have to do all of that ever again <3 bc it was stressful every second that i wasn’t looking in the mirror #and making bedroom eyes at myself <3

[chiomaus]

woke up with the thought in my head that it would be fun to dress as a boy sometimes

#i think generally i'm very happy as a woman #i like wearing skirts and dresses and such #but i have quite an androgynous look so i'm super curious #anyway i'm not going to interrogate this thought too much

[mistninja]

Happy friday! New pronouns just dropped -> she/they

#gotta update the pinned post #wheres teos post about transitioning during pride month #i have been thinking about it for a long time but i want to start using they/them and see if it feels right #not super sold on the spanish/portuguese neutral pronouns (not in a 'they are made up and dumb' way it just doesnt work for me) #so u can use él/ele for me as well #im just Some Guy but more leaning towards femininity? idk i dont think of myself as a woman tbh but im not a man #ever since i started working and buying my own clothes i have been trying to look more androgynous #idk im just testing the waters #personal

[goldiipond]

unmmmnm my phone doesnt have the flame emoji for some reason but. Give me yuor Emma takes <3

YAAAAY EEMA MY FRIEND lets see um. well honestly i dont think nearly enough people making postcanon designs acknowledge that emma is absolutely gnc in some form.

yes she really doesn't dress super masc and i know how annoying the trend of 'oh shes so butch <3<3<3' n its literally just Girl With Pants can be but i think in the context of tpn specifically its like. different. i simply think that demizu taking a character who was required to wear skirts 'because shes a girl' for the first 11 years of her life and making the conscious decision to literally never draw her in a skirt outside gracefield probably has some significance to it yknow.

and like all the girls are shown wearing both skirts and pants at some point once they are given the freedom to choose, but emma is the only girl besides violet and paula who makes the conscious decision to never wear skirts. basicaly agender masc lesbian emma is the realest ever to me <3

#skye's ramblings #HII RUBY HII ive actually been wanting to talk abt this for a bit gnc eema is so so important. to me <3 ignore how late i am to this ask <3 #i just. i hate when postcanon emma is depicted as like super feminine like its just. incorrect. #emma might enjoy small fem stuff like the ribbon in her bunker outfit but. she very clearly leans more toward being androgynous #people who give emma longer hair are soo annoying too. feels like 'she naturally embraced femininity as she matured <3' like um. die foreve #also no one can draw it right it always feels like. different hair type taped onto the og style? like theres a clear. detachment i suppose #if emma did decide on longer hair itd look like whatevers going on w nao y/ttd's hair. ithink #also id like to mention that from the first images of her i saw. i thought emma was a boy before seeing her in a skirt #and i literally lost count of the amount of people i've seen say the same. emma has the most awesome gender <3 #sepiamestus #shrimps squad

[mainfaggot]

good morning i woke up at 6:30 am and I had a headache in class and I tried to make it stop with natural methods and shit but in the end I cracked and took an ibuprofen like mid lecture and if anyone saw that they'd think I was being dramatic but actually no one gives a fuck and to think anyone would judge me for taking an Advil in the middle of class is a sign of main character syndrome à la anxiety in public like get a grip. anyway

#in a coffee shop rn 2 white men gave me weird looks. i look super androgynous tdy its the beanie glasses headphones totally baggy clothing #that probably provoked such reactions #LOL #idgaf i look so cutiepie ok bye my head hurts still a bit and i have to study #z.post

[regenderate]

also people saying thirteen's costume is completely gender neutral have never met a butch send post

#lifeblogs #doctor who #like i'm being a bit facetious but like. if we accept that clothes have gender to begin with #she is wearing women's clothing. #it's like. not aggressively gendered. it's not intensely gendered. but it *is* gendered #and it's very... calculated i think. to be juuuuust gendered enough to be marketable #i don't know. i get frustrated when people start talking about gender and clothes because like. #some people just don't know what taking a risk looks like i guess #but also i don't really think it's possible for clothes to be completely gender neutral #and/or i think clothes generally are like. gendered according to who's wearing them and how #BUT LIKE THIRTEEN IS VERY DELIBERATELY NOT ACTUALLY ANDROGYNOUS I THINK #this is not a statement on like. whether or not the clothes should've changed either #like. with the regeneration #i think it's fair to ask why a woman can show up in men's clothes but a man can't show up in women's clothes #but i also think it's fair to say 'hey this could come off super weird let's not do that' #(and i also think there'll be a plot explanation) #so i don't. have a super strong opinion on that. but

[darlingfella]

Grad school is kicking ass, but so am I!!!

(He/They)

#i haven’t posted in a while #hope you guys like the look #feeling like a magical secretary #also feeling super duper cute #I go swimming every Tuesday and the life guard flirts with me #I need to do freckles more often just as a treat #I feel completely adorable #delectable #he they #androgynous #androgynous model #trans #trans selfie #selfie #nonbinary #trans masc #queer #feel free to reblog #tell me i’m pretty #validate me

[kittyburgerface]

PLEASE NAME ME PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!!!!

whoever gives me a name i think is good enough to use for the rest of my life i'll druaw your sona or oc (humanoid or furry IDGAF HELP ME OUT PAL !)

#i pousted this to twitter too jsyk... #looking for something normal enough to have in public BUT ALSO REALLY CHILL AND UNIQUE ENOUGH #preferably not too white boy core #no offense white boys im in lkove with you #text #rebloug me i need names PLEASE PLEASE #masc/androgynous names pref #but if the fem name is super cool idm #THIS WILL AFFECT MY LIFE #in a funny way so its ok

[rodeoromeo]

pride for not wearing a bra is great but what about the people dealing with physical pain due to their chest size that have to wear it as a supportive garment, not a political statement? how about we stop judging people based on the ways they have to dress or support their body types. that poll is pissing me off

#im sorry I’ve been getting so intensely genderpissed about all the recent posts about women’s chests and bras and everything . #we are we judging ultra fem bodies so fucking deeply these days . I get it we’re out of style #I get it it’s cool to be androgynous and yeah it is a blessing every genderqueer person born in a body that supports that picture #stop looking at our fuckin bodies as an image of how we personally perceive and treat our gender #me wearing a bra has nothing to do with that . #op #I know I’m not gendering perfectly with this words whateber I’m a trans as fuck afab person with a super female body who #is in major pain from the shape of that body physically and not to mention the mental pain

[x-ladydisdain-x]

I like to think I’m a little androgynous right

#if I’m not wearing any makeup and have a loose shirt on #like my hair’s fairly androgynous especially if it’s kinda messy #idk #are my features super feminine? idk. #i don’t know I enjoy being feminine most of the time but then sometimes I’m #like hey I look kinda devoid of gender :) #party poison was literally my hair inspiration let me have this.

[rucow]

(WIP incoming! beware of very sketchy sketch!!)

i love that my poto brainrot is so severe that i gave one of my ocs a whole new design inspired by the phantom,,, except its light & sun themed instead of Dark and Emo like our favourite sewer skrunkle,,,

#talking about the design for caoimhe's new operatic voicebank 👉👈 the vb is done i just need to finish the art for it ! #its super exciting cuz this is THE most androgynous voicebank i have recorded for her thus far 🤯 #its only 4 pitches but her two low pitches are So masculine and her two high pitches are so much more feminine im obsessed #(the pitches are E3 D4 G4 and Db5) #she could use an A3 pitch as well but im happy with her for now!!! #her high range is definitely operatic in tone but her low range is more just. solid #i may have stolen the phantom's dress shirt and put it on my own lesbian oc cuz i Love that shirt it scratches my eyes so good #caoimhe is a butch lesbian in general but im SOOO obsessed with her new design she looks so good in her silly gold mask and big boots #i gave her a cape thingy also bc of course i did #her hair is slightly longer than usual here :D shes taller too cuz she has Big Boots on #i sketched this on my phone with my finger pls dont mind the Messiness #myart #caoimhe utau #the pose is very dramatic fjsjdjdd im a dramatic person

[mejomonster]

I dress masculine but my face so baby doll -o-;

#rant #this is a mini rant about just like. sometimes i just wished i looked masc or butch but i really just. dont to strangers ever #i wear all mens clothes from the mens section but still look 'cutesy' because my face is my face #if i wear makeup i like eyeliner so i never look super femme since #i cant do contouring and lipstick normally so i dont unless lurposely going hyper femme like with a lolita fashion coord #or a barbie malibu photoshoot or something. even when i dress in pastels most of my pastel rainbow stuff is #from the mens section. but my face is just. baby. i have a flat chest but it doesnt make difference #iwear baggy clothes to hide my hourglass curve but even thay doesnt seem to matter #ive cut my hair 1 inch long and that never mattered. i like my hair short so its like chin length now but lol #while i love guys with my length hair i just. do not read as guy to ppl. and i dont want to masculine contour my face #cause 1. i fail quite bad at xontours 2. i hate coverup and most makeup im just not the kinda perskn that wears much makeup if any #wearing more makeup makes me feel more femme especially coverup and contour #idk just. i been thinking how i dress in 95% masc clothes (unless im wearing a purposeful dress up lolita coord or goth dress i like) #and to my family and strangers i just read Usual Babydoll Face girly mejo??? #i... i have no solution to it not that i necessarily like need one. then also like sometimes u wanna look androgynous #but i already xombine masc and feminine presentation choices with makeup and masc clothes #or masc clothes with some bright colors like pink since i love pastels #jt just. doesnt end up working much. i mean it makes me happy but to a stranger i just dont read as androynous

[caffeled]

shaking like a rabid chihuahua in anticipation for the new sao movie bc it's takin things from the top but from the reboot/rewrite of the first novel where side characters get more development & kirito n asuna actually get more time together to get to know each other. for all the eugh that's in the original & that got added in the anime, there is So much good & So much potential in there & i was, alas, hooked on this shit from the 2nd episode of s1 so. im making it everyone else's problem.

#💖 #BARKING N HOWLING BC IT'LL BE SHOWIN IN (at least one) LOCAL THEATERS & IM CHEWING ON MY ARM #cant wait to get stabbed thru the heart all over again #siiiigh off i go to find all the novels again i guess #around the time i got into sao i was on mega minecraft brainrot & was writing things for an oc In the minecraft universe #so i was super into anything that looked at ways to overlay the mechanics of a videogame with Reality(tm) #& vrmmo things fell Perfectly into the inspo that i was looking for #dude when i got to the alicisation arc i literally started yelling at my screen bc that's lichrally just how i imagined my oc's life #integration of game-mechanics as ''spells'' & everything #sao was made For Me actually #i also do like a thing that was mentioned in i believe the gun gale novel about how the vr helmets scan the player's brain for avatar ref #so if a player lets the game autogenerate an avatar the helmet's ai will take the player's self-perception of their gender into account #so afab players can get male avatars & vice versa #jury's out on how that'd look with nonbinary players but thatd potentially just be a presentational thing (femme/masc/androgynous) #i rattle the sao universe i care you so much sorry youve got extremely questionable choices sprinkled in there #sao