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avoiding ocd unsafe posts on tumblr
so i've been experimenting a while with filtering phrases, and here is a list i've come up with that i use to get posts that trigger my ocd / have compulsive language off my dash! this ends up taking out about 95% of these posts. i'm sharing it here so anyone who also wants to blacklist this stuff can as well.
it is helpful to me as someone with ocd to blacklist these phrases and makes tumblr much more accessible, so i hope it can also help others with ocd and similar mental illnesses (or people who just find this stuff aggravating)
phrases to blacklist that are usually used in compulsive statements related to tumblr actions:
asking for reblog
follows>likes
follows > likes
hit that reblog
ignore for
i know you see this
keep reblogging
must reblog
obligated to reblog
obligated to vote
people can reblog
people reblog
please rb
please reblog
please share
rb after voting
rb for
rb if u vote
rb if you vote
rbs > likes
rbs>likes
rb this
reblog after voting
reblog bait (people use this one as a trigger tag, so this one is better under filtered tags instead of filtered post content)
reblog for (this one tends to catch a lot of non-compulsive posts, but leaving it out allows a lot of compulsive posts onto the dash, so it's a tossup if you want to include it)
reblog for exposure
reblog if u vote
reblog if you vote
reblog it every time
reblogs > likes
reblogs>likes
reblog this
remember to reblog
required by law to
sample size
you will reblog
just filtering the word "reblog" will also work as a catchall for most of these, but will also catch a lot of non-compulsive posts, so this list is meant to minimize that effect.
how to blacklist post content
on desktop/web: settings > account > filtered post content (should be right under filtered tags), at this url
on mobile/app: settings > account settings > content you see > filtered post content (again will be right under filtered tags)
how you can make tumblr more accessible for people with ocd and similar mental illnesses
tag posts with compulsive statements as "#reblog bait"
avoid using compulsive statements in posts - according to polls, this makes people less likely to reblog anyway! (poll 1) (poll 2)
if you are able to, avoiding sharing posts with aggressively compulsive statements would help. for example, those "reblog for good luck ignore and you'll never have good luck again" type posts, or things with "rules". i saw a lighthearted tournament with "From now on, if you see a matchup post - even accidentally - you are immediately morally obligated to vote one way or the other. Refusing to vote is strictly forbidden" in the pinned post. this is an example of an ocd unsafe statement. (op of that poll is not malicious though and removed that when told it was inaccessible).
avoid implying that reblogging, following, voting, etc or not doing so carries a moral value.
while reblogging a post may be very small stakes in itself, things like this can trigger compulsions that spiral into more than just reblogging a post. this is why this stuff is important even if it's small-stakes by itself.
you are under no obligation to share this.
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selectivechaos · 11 months
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🌹ok actually making pinned post now:
first thing: situational mutism =/= ‘going nonverbal’. ‘going nonverbal’ is not a thing. being nonverbal is permanent state that affects person All The Time. sm =/= nonverbal. see this post in particular.
post about semiverbality
no, anxiety in itself is not cr**pling. that is a slur related to physical disability.
🌹DNI:
DNI if you're a terf/radfem/'gender critical' and whatever else bigots (racists, nazis etc) call themselves these days. you will be blocked AND reported. also do not reblog if your blog is centred/themed around ed/sh, you may be blocked.
DNI people who support jkr in any which way.
🌹 blog stuff:
you're welcome here
Chaos, adult, he
struggle with interacting. do read though, and people on here very nice, hi
reblogs fine unless otherwise stated
can’t with ‘i’ a lot of time. grammar/language may be unusual. tired anxious dissociated. many reasons.
will not post any autoplay videos (makes me anxious when scrolling through a blog)
🌹posts have roses because roses are good and u deserve good things. also remind me of a line of poetry “i’d like to paint you in roses” or something like that🌹
blog used to be more informative. now is more personal with more topics than sm. this is why in process of making tag system. but it’s taking time and busy.
if anyone wants to send ask to talk about sm experience, would love that. great to have many many experiences shown. also can send asks if bored or sad or scared, anything <3
personal sideblog is sinisterchaos
i can delete rbs if requested
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[ID: pale pink userbox with a heart icon. text reads: “This user’s blog is their voice.” /End ID] box is by me. don’t fully understand user boxes so i did diy. free to use if u want.no permission or credit needed.
post links: a cool flag, double life of sm, different ways ppl describe sm, what is sm, about parents hiding diagnosis of sm, fuck the school system, traumatic vs situational, history of sm.
tag system far from done on all posts. too sleepy
#sm tag - my posts on sm. more about experiences. haven't fully tagged this. so #situational mutism is more consistent.
#chaos-exhausted - more informational posts on sm
#trauma tag (never any detail, always tw beforehand in my posts; reblogs may only have a tw in the tags of the reblog)
#social anxiety tag - my posts
#not sm/sad - my posts on other mental shit: general words about ‘mental illness’, dissociation etc
all other stuff is reblogs
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astronomeys · 3 years
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(heals thru the realization that people care about and love me even if they don’t tell me frequently)
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violencebian · 2 years
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ocd can often involve "moral" related compulsions that are heavily affected by things that tell them they have to reblog/do something or else theyre "bad". obviously i agree that its important to reblog posts like urs, but including the obligation addition triggers really stressful compulsive habits that can very genuinely lead to anxiety attacks over moral-related compulsions. it might feel like "well idk how reblogging this good post is a bad thing even with those compulsions :/" but its more that the trigger of the compulsion itself is really upsetting and stressful bc it can also trigger other compulsive thoughts about themself related to those morals ^_^ posts w things like "everyone must reblog this" or "if u dont reblog this u suck" etc are also huge triggers. it can also lead to triggering compulsive thoughts about bad things happening if they dont do it, like someone getting hurt as a result or smth bad happening to them if they dont. its not necessarily "rational" but thats why its so stressful. i hope this helps clarify a little better! :D in the future if u want to be able to tag that sort of thing, ppl w ocd utilize the "reblog bait" tag to blacklist that sort of thing :)
ohhhh thank u for the explanation i get it now. i'll edit the post to change the wording so if anyone rbs it from me it at least wont read like that n ill keep in mind not to use that phrasing in the future
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cotccotc · 3 years
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🖇 INTERVIEW TAG !
tagged by the marvelous @spookybias & @orphic-chan ( and a couple others i think !! i forget sorry jsjd )
taggin’ anyone who wants to do it !! <3
why did you choose your url ?
my main is @/childofthecycle and the acronym for that is cotc !! but @/cotc was taken so i doubled it haha
any side blogs? if you have any, name them, and why do you have them ?
for starters, this is a side blog !!
then i have @zachsang for western artists, @klausgreeves for tv ( which is my newest one ), @dis-mukes for saturday night live, @lq-hhj for hyunjin pics, @cotc-recs for fic recs, @cotc-games for ask games, @ctrlhyun for aesthetics, and then some nets and url saves !!
having so many blogs just makes it easier for me to organize my thoughts, save things in a neat and useful way, and give me graphic design practice !!! pls don’t joke about / make fun of how many blogs i own. thank u !! <3
how long have you been on tumblr ?
i’ve been on tumblr for a year now !!! in fact, the one year anniversary of this blog was yesterday :DDD
do you have a queue tag ?
yep !! it’s #q be or not q be. it’s a reference to one of hyunjin’s lines in “question” ( which is a reference to hamlet itself )
why did you start your blog in the first place ?
i just wanted a blog where i could rb and post about my interests aside from the aesthetic i post about on my main, and those interests quickly became more kpop related !! i also wanted to post edits, and eventually started writing fics a few months later.
why did you choose your icon ?
i change my icon somewhat frequently just based on other icons i’ve seen and liked. recently i’ve been loving the look of simple line art as an icon, and i love how cute yet edgy this image is !! just like me hehe
why did you choose your header ?
i’ve been playing around with photoshop a lot lately and i wanted to make a header with a cool shape !!! the coloring and design kinda came naturally from there. and i thought adding the lovestay and loverboy doodles would be a cool personal touch :)
how many mutuals do you have ?
i have no clue but i have a lot !! i love all my besties :DD and i’m always down to make new friends !!!
how many followers do you have ?
currently i’m at 1,187 ... which is LITERALLY INSANE thank u thank uuuu <333
how many people do you follow ?
681 !! i follow a lot of skz blogs, but also other kpop blogs, aesthetic blogs, etc. i should probably go through and weed out the inactive ones haha
have you ever made a shitpost ?
ALLLL the time !! lol
how often do you use tumblr every day ?
usually when i’m not busy i’ll be on it pretty much all day !! except recently i’ve been pretty busy with school and some other stuff, so i’m not as active as i used to be.
did you have a fight/argument with another blog once ?
... next question pls
how do you feel about ‘you need to share this post’ ?
it depends, i guess. if the subject of the post pertains to a lesser known topic or has any valuable resources, i’ll be more likely to reblog it. but i HATE posts that guilt trip people into sharing them without providing resources on how to help the situation.
also, i think it’s safe for people to assume my blog is safe for/open to people from all walks of life, so i don’t really feel the need to reblog any “rb if your blog is safe for [blank]” posts. y’all know me. i’ll be ur bestie no matter who u are. <3
do you like tag games ?
short answer: yes !!
long answer: they can be a little stressful sometimes, and i’ve had to try and train my brain to not feel bad if i don’t participate in them, but i do like doing them every once in a while. it also kinda depends on the game. OH and my memory is Shit so tagging people is always tough lmao
do you like ask games ?
yes !!! i like them a lot :) i miss them lmao i should do one soon
do you have a crush on a mutual ?
*cough* @junicai *cough*
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