#after abortion

[thepro-lifemovement]

Thank you for this I needed to know I wasn't the only one I feel guilty and I can never forget what I have done I pray to god and ask him to forgive me and guide me through this harsh time I am seeking others who are like minded because it makes me feel uneasy when others will tell me they feel nothing at all I don't think that should be the case the proof that I am sad is proof of love and care for others including a baby inside you I don't want other women to feel this way I want to help pro lifers this is important foe women we can no longer can be lied too

Hello again! I made a post back in May asking those who were once pro-choice why they became pro-life, and there are responses in the notes from other women who have had abortions. You're not alone! We support all women, including those who have had abortions. If you need post-abortion support, there are resources available:

I don't want you to have to feel alone in your experiences. Thank you for sharing with us. I hope you find healing, and thank you for being a voice.

-Sarah

#thanks for the ask #its brave to speak out like that #i cant imagine that pain #post abortion support #after abortion support #after abortion #ask #asks #abortion #prolife #pro-life #pro life

[wedielikemen]

Okay yes we know that Andrew sprinted, dashed, HURTLED even, when he saw Neil on his knees even after blocking 150 + attempts on his goal because he loves that man. But also-

It had been Andrew’s idea to put Neil against Riko in the first place.

For Andrew it was reach Riko or die. (Die knowing that his contributing to exy ended Neil’s life.)

#How long do you think it took for his hands to stop shaking after #how many aborted sentences and possible plays die on his tongue after that #aftg #andrew minyard #kevin day #neil josten #kandreil #the sunshine court #tsc #jeremy knox #jean moreau #jerejean #don’t look at me #DON’T

[yesloulou]

Drive To Survive Season 5 Episode 7

In addition :)

#iii haven't moved on sooo 🫶 #lestappen #charles leclerc #max verstappen #f1 #monaco gp 2022 #dts #* #** #this was right after max having had to abort his (potential) pole lap bc of checo’s crash and qualified only p4 #he was so so pissed and then he saw this guy who was only 6 points behind him in wdc who had just put it on pole IN MONACO #and he went but BUT i need to squeeze his neck pat his back give him a big big smile before i go back to sulk in my own garage #he was literally insane for this

[aurpiment]

I had a dream that I was watching The Terror again and it was… a bit different.

There was a plot where Francis Crozier was pregnant. Not by Fitzjames, no; they weren’t close like that. I think by someone who was 1) a casual hookup and 2) dead. He was confiding in Fitzjames about it, though, and complaining of breast soreness. Fitzjames asked him if he was sure he was pregnant and he said yes, that he recognized the symptoms from when he was younger, and then told a story about how his mother had helped him get an abortion when he was a teenager so he could pursue his then-incipient naval career.

Unfortunately, in the dream, I was watching this version of The Terror with my father and brother and they were confused. “But he’s a man! How is such a thing possible?”

“Transgender,” I explained impatiently, because it was obvious this was the direction the show had gone with the character, even though the actor playing him was still cisgender actor Jared Harris.

“But still, no way this would happen,” I added. “I mean, look at him. He’s GOT to be post-menopausal.”

#mt #this was like #well after the men had started dying #there’d been some disaster and the party had split and regathered #they’d gotten back onto the boat? #the ice had melted enough to sail a little? #mr hickey was there and kept trying to joint the conversation and Crozier kept telling him exasperatedly to drive the boat #all the while Crozier had a hand up his own shirt trying to relieve his #breast pain #anyway before you ask he DID have pale pink white person nipples. I seen them. #I think in the dream it was mastitis but that’s so rare antepartum #just one of the many ways the writing was unrealistic smdh! #but shout out to the imaginary Irish Catholic woman helping her kid get an abortion in like 1812. I DO want to believe. queen shit fr! #the terror #god Fitjames was such an idiot about it #it was like month four or five and he was like ‘do you think it could be a tumor’ #TUMORS DONT KICK HE JUST TOLD YOU IT WAS KICKING #DUMB ASS #but he was genuinely concerned as a friend so some crimes can be forgiven #francis crozier’s geriatric pregnancy hour #edit: the croziers were from ulster and Presbyterian. my bad! #sorry for calling his ma a Catholic do you forgive me

[trlvsn]

what really kills me about ace attorney is the time. the length. the lasting effects of it all. seven years of disbarment. fifteen years of believing you killed your father. how long was simon imprisoned? how long did lana skye have to live in fear and obedience? how long was diego armando in a coma? we remember the numbers, but are we as aware as they are of how much that time has blended into their identities, how it's now at their cores, the most horrible parts of their lives being so big and important, not just something that can be let go of and erased. they all fucking came back wrong and they will never be the same but the game goes on and they live to the best extent of what they can be now. ace attorney reminds me to say "it is what it is" more and i think that's beautiful

#fucking imagine being in a situation like that #not just a singular traumatic event #it's there for you every day not just in memory but in fact of your existence #like?? ik damn well i will never be un-fucked up after the whole. war refugee thing #and it has only been a year #ok now i'm imagining the scenario where it lasts seven years for me too and i do not like this abort ABORT #anyways! #ace attorney #aa4 spoilers #aa1 spoilers #aa3 spoilers #aa5 spoilers #raystextpost

[mariacallous]

Move over, “gay propaganda”: Russian lawmakers are drafting legislation that would ban the propagation of “child-free” lifestyles in the mass media. Russian officials have warned that “child-free” threatens Russia with “demographic decline” and “the disappearance of the whole nation.”

#they've been saying this for a while #and it is being paired with the ramping-up of abortion restriction *and* going after LGBTQ rights #once again illustrating how interconnected these things are

[odinsblog]

God, I hate Republicans.

If you are at all able to, please stock up and take any & all necessary precautions to protect your own bodily autonomy or that of loved ones, before the John Roberts Court rubber stamps another Christofascist anti-abortion law into effect.

Terfs DNI

#politics #scotus #reproductive rights #abortion #republicans #planned parenthood #mifepristone #war on women #reproductive justice #womens rights #religious reich #terfs dni #medication abortion #contraception #plan b #morning after pill #emergency contraception #pp

[squeakadeeks]

i got to experience the thrill of a last possible second emergency plane landing abort today and this is a photo i took after

#also after the emergency abort they just flew us to a different city to hang out #just hanging out with the besties after almost crashing in a different city and state then where we were supposed to go #almost crashing is dramatic #but it twas a SPICY go around

[phoenixyfriend]

God I know Zoro is commonly understood as gay, but there is such a strong energy in me for Zoro/fem!Sanji with nigh-identical dynamics to canon, equally as bitchy and rivals and all that, just with an added risk of having to go to Chopper with a bun in the wrong kind of oven.

(Though tbf, manga Zoro is just really demi/gray-ace and could be bi, and also it's a possibility for trans man Sanji, so it doesn't even need to be a genderbend, fem!Sanji just the conversation that the groupchat was having when I started Thinknig…)

Sorry I am weirdly obsessed with pregnancy AUs

I do not have the energy to jump fandoms again, but I need to read some "Sanji and Zoro have to go to Chopper for an Incident" one-shots.

#could be 'we need a morning-after pill' could be 'we need an abortion' could be 'we're keeping it and need prenatal care' #but they do need to go to Chopper a little ashamed about fucking up the protection #I did go look on AO3 but most of it appears to be mpreg instead of trans or gb. which is fine? but not what I'm looking for #one piece #zosan #sanji #roronoa zoro #vinsmoke sanji #phoenix talks #unplanned pregnancy au #accidental pregnancy au #pregnancy au #gender bending #genderbend au #fem sanji #fem!sanji

[sweetandslumber]

pro choicers will be like "this woman got arrested for having a miscarrige look what pro lifers have caused" When in reality said woman is actually being arrested for abuse of a corpse because funnily enough the law actually sees the unborn as people so if you have a miscarrige and decide to bury that child in your garden or flush them down the toilet without telling the authorities you will obviously get in trouble

#Like what do you expect to happen😭😭😭😭 #Pro life #I have Mey MULTIPLE women in abortion restricted area who were not arrested after having a miscarrige #Like if you miscarry your 22 week baby and try to FLUSH them down the toilet of course you're gonna get in trouble #I do think women in these situations do need to be handled with care because these actions could be a response to trauma

[betweenthings2]

You know what's absolutely fucking wild to me? The fact that Alex Turner/Arctic Monkeys/The Last Shadow Puppets are allegedly banned from Coachella because of the time Alex kissed Miles on stage, but The 1975 isn't. Matty Healy/The 1975 are banned from two whole countries and facing legal charges in one for being pro-LGBT+, but not from one homophobic American festival, and Alex Turner, who I've never seen say two fucking words about politics is.

#what the fuck #arctic monkeys #alex turner #miles kane #the last shadow puppets #the 1975 #matty healy #I know it's just a rumor #I absolutely know it's just a rumor and TLSP played the second weekend of Coachella after that #I just think they're hilarious rumors and if anyone is going to have rumors about being banned from Coachella of all festivals #why is it Alex and not the guy who is banned from two countries and was escorted by law enforcement from a show in Alabama because he talke #about abortion rights on stage and people were worried he might get shot #because Alabama is an open carry state #I just think about this sometimes

[incorrect-hs-quotes]

DAVE: rose today i met a girl named after ronald reagan

ROSE: What.

DAVE: i was like so your name is reagan are you named after the president

DAVE: and she replied yeah my mom was a big fan

#submission #homestuck #incorrect homestuck quotes #dave strider #rose lalonde #mod terezi #what a terrible thing to name a child #nobody deserves to be named after ronald reagan #i would perform a post-delivery abortion on myself if my parents did that to me

[darth-sonny]

What did everyone think when Leo wanted to keep Kirby? Cuz I doubt it's one that everyone else made instead. And did Kirby's birth stagnate his emotional recovery, or had it not been long enough for the healing to truly even begin yet?

well, it was... a surprising decision, to say the least

like, all of them legit thought Leo was going to go the Plan B route. they were all ready to support him if he did, were all waiting for that pin to drop. they know it's a very emotionally stressful and traumatizing decision, and they were all ready to help him work through it

but then Leo said, "I'm keeping it," and now they're trying to work around this unexpected and surprising hurdle

Kirby's birth was both a hindrance and a somewhat big help for Leo's recovery: it was easy to ignore everything when he had a newborn to take care of, he could keep his mind off of everything and just focus on this. but after a couple of weeks, maybe months, it just clicked for Leo what happened. that his hallucinations were real and that everything that he went through actually happened and, and-!....

yeah, he shut himself off after that. cue in Splinter

#leo DOES get a professional therapist don't worry #but it takes a while for him to accept that he is really fucked up #even AFTER he starts becoming a more active parent #but he will get one!!! #sonny answers #prime leo au #kirby tag #cw abortion #tw abortion

[the-badger-mole]

How Things Fall Apart

Zuko liked to believe that Mai had loved him once. At least, she had once loved a version of him. When he failed to live up to that image she'd built up in his head, all pretext of affection faded in short order.

It wasn't all Mai's fault, Zuko conceded. He had learned to ask her what exactly she wanted as gifts, but he still managed to disappoint. One year, he hadn't been able to afford to replace the diamond bracelet she'd lost during a vacation to Ember Island, so he'd gotten her what he thought was a lovely bracelet with a cheaper alternative stone (the Fire Nation was weathering an inflation crisis, and Zuko thought it would be gauche to spend so much money on the high quality gems imported from the Earth Kingdom instead of increasing the palace staff's salary). Another year, when the country was in a better place financially, Zuko splurged on a new set of throwing knives crafted by the finest blacksmiths under Master Piando's direction. Mai hadn't wanted more steel blades. She wanted the black blades crafted from the meteorite the Southern Tribe's prince had gifted Piando (Zuko's correction about Sokka not being a prince went unheard). It didn't matter that Piando had already made plans on how to use that stone, Zuko was the Fire Lord, and that should mean something. Zuko could do nothing right by Mai. She had still not forgiven him for getting rid of the stately palanquins.

After the birth of their first, and as it would turn out, only child, Mai became more distant. It was an improvement, Zuko told himself philosophically, over shouting matches and heavy objects being thrown at him (Mai never threw a blade at him, and she always made sure whatever she threw hit the wall and not Zuko. He was, after all, the Fire Lord). As long as Mai had access to the royal coffers, relative peace was kept. Zuko was certain that she had at least one lover, but he was content to ignore it, as long as Mai kept up a reasonable amount of discretion. Instability in the Fire Nation's royal family could have far reaching consequences, after all.

Iroh, ever the optimistic presence in Zuko's life, told his nephew about an art practiced in certain parts of the Fire Nation called kintsugi. Instead of throwing away broken things, the artists would carefully gather the broken parts and using a mixture of gold dust and lacquer, piece the broken things back together. The finished products often looked more beautiful than the original. Zuko thought he understood. Finally, fifteen years after he ascended the throne, eleven years after becoming a husband, and seven years after becoming a father, Zuko and the Fire Nation found a sense of equilibrium. The Fire Nation's economy had begun to right itself; a new curriculum designed to fight the decades of propaganda had been approved and implemented; feasible reparation agreements had been reached with the countries most damaged by the war and colonialism. Zuko and Mai only spoke when necessary for public appearances and state functions, and Izumi was growing into a precocious, inquisitive and imaginative child, to say nothing of her firebending prowess. If Zuko's daughter felt the absence of her mother, she hid it very well. Then one day, the peaceful existence Zuko had carved for himself and his child was shattered.

Mai's death was sudden and jarring. Zuko hadn't known anything was wrong until late that night, when a servant, disheveled and out of breath from sprinting to Zuko's chambers from hers, told him that a physician had been called for the Fire Lady, but the outlook was grim.

Officially, Mai had died after suffering from a hemorrhage caused by the miscarriage of her second child. While a few errant rumors floated around for a few months afterwards, the truth (that the child Mai was carrying wasn't Zuko's, and the miscarriage was intentional) was known to only a handful of Zuko's most trusted friends and family. Zuko grieved, though perhaps not as might be expected of a widower suddenly left alone to raise a child. He mourned what might have been if they hadn't married; mourned the family life he would never be able to give his daughter; mourned the lack of a partner who would stand at his side and help him move the country towards a more progressive, inclusive future. Most of all, he mourned the death of his hope of having anything better for himself.

Zuko didn't wallow, though. As little hope as he had left for his own prospects, he wanted Izumi to retain her own bright outlook for the future. He would have some help there with the expected arrival of Katara and her two children. It would be good, Zuko thought, for his daughter to have friends her age. As it would turn out, it was good for Zuko to have a friend around, too. When she stepped off the boat, clothed in a gauzy gold fabric gifted to her by the queen of Omashu, Zuko felt the weight in his heart lighten for the first time in years.

Follow up to Severing the Tie

Next, How Do You Mend?

#atla #anti mai #anti maiko #zutara #a sort of sequel to #severing the tie #in case anyone's interested #i know i wanted to know what happened to mai after that first story #poor zuko can't catch a break #but mai said "maybe he can catch this random object from my dresser #cw abortion #cw death #tw abortion #tw death #cw miscarriage #tw miscarriage #abortion #death #miscarriage #THE YEAR OF CONTENT!!!!

[silverware-is-interesting]

have this kinda questionable drawing i spent wayyyyyyyy too long on to not post

#silverware's art #undertale yellow #uty #undertale yellow guardener #uty guardener #i know i haven't posted about her in 2-3 posts. but i re-thought of that geno thing i made up #yeah. i was on some type of like. violence arc or something. damn- #she got shot a bunch then impaled. you can keep shoting her after. #i also thought “yeah. you can abort the vengeance route and leave her impaled” because??? ???? #the background is kinda bad. i never have the will to actually make them look good #can you tell i don't really know about how robots work? #oh. yeah i could tag this with a few flowey tags. couldn't i?-

[normcore-tertiary-character]

Why do people in this show seem to not consider abortions for unwanted pregnancies? They live in Colorado

#Colorado had no laws on abortions until the Roe v Wade ruling was leaked #and after that the government quickly codified the de facto law that abortions are legal up to birth #so while most small mountain towns are generally conservative and I would expect people there to not really see abortion as an option #this is a pretty liberal small town & it seems weird that both Asta and Kate seem to have just no thought to terminate unwanted pregnancies #resident alien