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cluster-b-culture-is · 9 months
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ASPD & BPD culture is being 24/7 feeling destructive, enraged, hostile and aggressive.
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abomnibus · 11 months
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Personally, living with ASPD is like trying to defuse a bomb, if you're successful you accomplish 1 [one] positive or at least neutral interaction with another person or creature.
If you do not succeed at defusing the bomb, results may vary.
Regardless the explosive devices never cease to respawn at any time and sometimes that's all a bit too much to handle.
If you or someone you know has ASPD, please be aware that it can sometimes take a great deal of effort for us to perform or even comprehend what most would call "common decency" because we were never taught or shown how to respectfully interact with others as a result of childhood abuse, neglect, and/or trauma.
It does not excuse any damage done, however it is important to understand this if you are an ally.
We are learning.
Healing from trauma takes time.
Please do be patient.
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worms-in-my-brain · 2 years
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So so so so so so so SO frustrating when other ND people are ableist to you for having a more stigmatised mental disorder and/or set of symptoms. Esp when it’s someone close to you!
I’m relatively sensitive to people around me seeing me as a monster. When I was younger and wasn’t as good at dealing with (and also masking) having low/no empathy, it used to happen a lot. Especially because I’m autistic and often wouldn’t know what was acceptable to do or say. So now when it happens it really affects me.
And the other day I made a teasing joke, and my sibling (ADHD) looked at me and said something along the lines of, “yeah, you’d get it if you actually had any empathy.” And, like, that might be true on a technical level, but… idk.
If you actually looked at the way I act day-to-day, 99% of the time, I’m leagues less hurtful than empaths are. Because other things impact your ability to do harm. And even if I was a person who couldn’t stop hurting everyone around me, that wouldn’t make my life worth any less. It would just mean that I would need more support.
Stigmatising ‘scary’ symptoms isn’t helpful. It’s just ableism. Hypoempathic people need just as much help dealing with their symptoms as people with sensory sensitivities. People with delusions need just as much help dealing with their symptoms as people with anxiety issues.
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brownshouto · 3 years
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I see this a lot in leftist circles but mental illness, trauma and abuse will exist with or without capitalism, your “mental illness is a social phenomenon” might be true for your depression and your anxiety but I beg all of you to think about psychotic people, systems and people with personality disorders when you make posts like that. It might be true that we wouldn’t be labeled as mentally ill but we would still need resources to help us cope, there’s still something we would need help coping with and you should focus on making that help available and accessible and free of bigotry for all of us instead of living in a “no mentally ill people” pseudo progressive eugenicist dream.
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pathologising · 2 years
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(AND THAT'S OKAY!) 2.20.22
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happywastedyears · 3 years
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hi just so you know if you have a personality disorder I love you personally
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hauntedselves · 2 years
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My personality disorder info site is live!
It's still a WIP, but pretty much everything is up that I plan on putting up.
If you have any suggestions, let me know!
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angstydeity · 3 years
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traumatrash · 3 years
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Me, holding my cluster b rage spikes on a leash: I'm calm and I don't actually think I'm all that angry a person
Someone disagreeing with me when they're wrong:
Me, holding the leash tighter: Ah,
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anyways if your reaction to a post talking about how stigmatized certain disorders are and demonizing them is wrong, is to say 'well I knew people with that diagnosis and they were awful', congrats, die
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Having a cluster b personality disorder is constantly being caught between aiming for the best life you can achieve and wanting to throw everything back in life’s face and spit it it’s eyes
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abomnibus · 11 months
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If you have ASPD, there is not a single thing that I don't love about you.
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worms-in-my-brain · 2 years
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Anyone else have issues making friends that extend to online friendships? I have trouble ‘connecting’ to people, and I feel like online it’s almost worse because spaces are so big and, at any time, we might never get to speak to each other again. Online I don’t have to worry about a lot of my social issues, but I still can’t manage to make lasting friendships.
And I don’t know if it’s more an autism thing or an ASPD thing…. but yeah, if anyone else is/was like this and had any tips I’d appreciate them :)
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aspdrat · 3 years
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hey im L and i run this new blog. im the host of a did system as well but i wanted this blog to focus more on aspd. asks are on for questions, haters will be blocked on sight
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pathologising · 2 years
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I KNOW THAT MUCH IS TRUE // 1.5.22
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geometricmentality · 4 years
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Bed tents!!
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(Image id: an Amazon page with a white background. A picture of a bed tent in the middle. The bed tent had a white blanket, gray pillow, and the tent itself is black. At the bottom there is a button where the "twin" size is selected. End of image id)
I got an ad for these things called bed tents and i seriously want one so bad. Just imagine. In your bed tent with a weighted blanket and not having to worry about stuffed animals falling off! Theres a mesh window towards the foot so you can still watch tv! I want one so bad! They come in twin, full, and queen. The actual website also has king but I can't find the link for it. Just look up "bed tent" on amazon and it should come up. I feel like this would be great for autistic people. Especially children!
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