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#YOU ARE VALID
traumasurvivors · 18 hours
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You're valid if you broke the cycle by learning to be a good parent to your kids.
You're valid if you broke the cycle by choosing not to become a parent.
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Hey to everyone who needs to hear this.
You are welcome here. You are doing amazing. Your identity is yours and no one else can tell you what you are. If you say you’re a boy you’re a boy. If you say you’re a girl you’re a girl. If you say you’re non binary you’re non binary.
Your sexuality is yours and can’t be defined by anyone but yourself. If you like men that’s great. If you like women that’s great. If you like both that’s great. If you don’t want a relationship either sexual or romantic that’s great. You like who you like don’t let anyone invalidate those feelings
You are awesome. You deserve all the love and support you get.
From one weirdo on the internet to another.
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noahsfault · 3 months
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I’m going to tell you something nobody told me:
It is O-fucking-Kay if you think you’re trans except for that one thing
If you think you might be a girl but you like having your hair short, or you don’t like wearing dresses, or you don’t want to wear makeup, that is totally okay
If you think you might be a guy but you like having long hair or you really love skirts or you wear lots of sparkly jewellery, that is totally okay
If you think you might be nonbinary but you really like presenting in a way that aligns with your agab, that is totally okay
If you think you might be trans but you aren’t sure if you want hormones, that is totally okay
If you think you’re trans “except for…” that is totally okay and get this: you don’t have to change that part of yourself to be trans
You can if you want to, but if you don’t, that is totally okay
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from-thoseghosts · 5 months
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that-bisexual · 3 months
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artsyaech · 2 months
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y'all, i just watched some right-wing youtuber's fucking rant about how queer people aren't valid and i have no fucking idea why i did that. now i feel like shit. but i'm here to prove a point to myself, nobody else, just myself.
like / reblog if you support all of the following:
non-binary people
non-binary gays and lesbians
people who go by they/them
people who go by neopronouns (xe/xyr, ae/aer, etc)
people who go by it/its pronouns
people who go by nounself pronouns (doll/dolls, koi/kois)
people who go by emojipronouns
people who have pronounhoards
people who go by any pronouns
masculine non-binary people
masculine non-binary people who were assigned male at birth
feminine non-binary people
feminine non-binary people who were assigned female at birth
non-binary / genderqueer men
non-binary / genderqueer women
non-binary / genderqueer people who "look" non-binary (dyed hair, piercings, alternative fashion, so on)
non-binary / genderqueer people who don't "look" non-binary
non-binary / genderqueer people that want / are going through / have gone through gender-affirming care
non-binary / genderqueer people who don't want gender-affirming care
that's about it for now
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aestheticemi01 · 1 year
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STOP SCROLLING!
You are doing such a good job handling all of the difficulties in your life! You are handling things way better than you think you are. You are here today. Give yourself credit for that.
That’s it. I just wanted to let you know that. You can continue your scrolling now🍀🕊
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wronggalaxy · 6 months
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I've seen people doing "shout out to disabled people with gross traits", so I thought I would do my own, but with traits I've never seen discussed in these posts(an asterisk (this thing: *) after it means it’s something I expirence)
So, shout out to disabled people who:
—Can't always wash their hands after using the toilet. *
—Who wet/mess themselves in bed(and can't clean it up) because "I can't leave bed" means I can't leave bed.
—Who get nosebleeds because they pick their nose so much. *
—Who can take a bath/shower, put on deodorant, and put on freshly washed clothes and still smell 'bad'. *
—Who can't help but get food/drink/blood/snot/etc. on their books/comics/magazines when they try to read. *
—Who eat everything with their hands. *(I've eaten cereal and soup with mine on multiple occasions)
—Who have/have had moldy dishes/pop bottles/wrappers/food/etc in their room for weeks or months or years or longer. *(I just recently had help from a sibling to replace my broken furniture, clean up my space, and throw out trash. Before that I had moldy stuff in my room for up to 4 or 5 years for some of it.)
—Who have never had bed wetting problems, but do struggle to stay dry during the day. *(Bed wetting is valid too, of course, and so is doing both, I've just seen people talk about bed wetting, but not day wetting.)
—Who eat things(specifically non-food things)you know you shouldn't. *(I'll eat just about anything(just not most foods), but I'm big on styrofoam and old chipped paint from my walls)
—Who don't know/can't use "basic manners" *
—And a bunch of other stuff I can't think of right now(feel free to add more in comments/reblogs)
There is no shame here.
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emmmsie · 7 months
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To everyone seeing this on their dash :)
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traumasurvivors · 1 day
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You’re valid if you hate your abuser.
You’re valid if you love your abuser.
You’re valid if you miss your abuser.
You’re valid if you’re a mixture of some or all of the above.
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shrimps-ageredips · 9 months
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Shout out to hypersexual age regressors. You're not any less of an age regressor if you struggle with sexual intrusive/impulsive thoughts or have trouble regressing because of it.
NS/FW OR KINK (even if "sfw") DNI
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auntie-cistamine · 4 months
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Just a reminder that if you are a transhet person and in a happy relationship with a cis person you are still extremely valid, your partner is not inherently a chaser if they are proud to be with you, if you want bottom surgery you are still valid and if you don't fit in with a lot of other trans people because of this you aren't an assimilationist, you are valid and you get hugs! Be trans exactly like you want to be, I love you and support you!
💙💗🤍💗💙
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befemininenow · 10 months
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Extra caption no. 65 of 69: Your friendly neighborhood Spider... Gwen!?
Note to the transphobes of any kind watching this caption: If you feel offended by the trans girl Gwen headcanon and cannot control your words without spewing hate towards trans girls or other identities, leave! Hateful language against transgender people and other members of the LGBTQ+ group is NOT welcome here! Now get off my page!
So the biggest news in the Spidey universe as of today is that many speculate that Gwen Stacy is a transgender girl based on the theme colors of her suit and energy, as well as her support for protecting trans kids. While I haven’t watched the movie yet, I’m a fan of the Spider-Man movies dating as far as the first one with Tobey Maguire. I have been dying to see this new movie, but time constraints haven’t allowed me. But now that I heard about this, I really can’t wait to see it on my own eyes! So far, it can be seen as a cute headcanon. But hey, if a small pig can be Spider-Ham, then surely a trans girl can be a Spidey heroine. (Cosplay pic belongs to dio_sixx, the original owner.)
For those who saw the caption, the Gwen Stacy cosplay pic was also used in a reblogged caption last month! I knew the girl looked so hot in that cute schoolgirl outfit. Yet, I forgot she was cosplaying Gwen Stacy in her uniform! It definitely gives me trans girl vibes in a way I can’t explain it! Now if you excuse me, leave me and my cute trans girl Gwen headcanon alone!
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our-aro-experience · 14 days
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dear arospec people of color, you are valid
dear arospec allosexuals, you are valid
dear arospec minors, you are valid
dear arospec folk who use microlabels, you are valid
dear arospec folk in romantic relationships, you are valid
dear arospec folk who don’t use (for whatever reason) specific labels, you are valid
dear arospec folk who want a family and/or children, you are valid
dear arospec and aplspecs, you are valid
dear arospec and acespecs, you are valid
dear arospecs who are also gender non-conforming, you are valid
dear arospec disabled folk, you are valid
dear all arospec folk, you are valid and appreciated and important.
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kdd-works · 8 months
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Trans/genderqueer people who have no dysphoria about their appearance but dysphoria in other aspects are valid
Trans/genderqueer people who don't have dysphoria about their appearance but still don't necessarily like/aren't happy about their appearance are valid
Trans/genderqueer people who inconsistently experience gender dysphoria/euphoria are valid
You're all so valid and I love you〜❤
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aestheticemi01 · 1 year
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It is okay to try again tomorrow. 💙
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