no, you don’t need to wear your mask/tail to school.
i wish young nonhumans didn’t feel compelled to be ‘out’ at school, especially when it’s a dangerous environment. i keep seeing posts along the lines of “wore my tail/mask to school! people berated/teased/put their hands on me, but it’s ok”.
no, it’s not.
like.. i understand a mask or a tail can be a very validating thing for some people. and i’m not saying NO ONE should wear them at schools. but i just keep watching this mounting trend of young therians insinuating you need some physical accessory or to do quads to be a ‘real’ nonhuman. and then it leads to things like this and it makes me incredibly sad.
i’d known i was alterhuman since late elementary school, actually. it’s a huge part of my life even now, years after graduation. there wasn’t a reason for it to be brought up, so i never did. it was a closely guarded secret to me, but it didn’t feel like a weight i was carrying. i always thought “no one needs to know i’m an animal if it jeopardizes my safety. so, oh well”.
“but, how will people know that i’m an animal?”
they probably will. they probably already do.
i was the designated ‘animal’ person my entire school career despite not ever handling animals in front of anyone. if there were pets, lost wild animals (baby rabbits, birds, lizards), or sometimes even loose livestock that got onto campus, it was always me who had to go tend to them.
everyone wanted me in their group in environmental science. if a project called for animal illustrations, the same thing would happen. it was certainly weird because i was also a ‘weird kid’ and not especially desired to be around outside of that, lol. but i was never harassed for it. it made me feel very validated, actually.
i had fun during gym running and fiercely destroying the opposing team in field hockey. i taught everyone which plants were okay to forage (and we snacked on them when we had to sit on the lower field for practice). every day i was hyperaware of the limbs i had that weren’t quite there. friends noticed my ears twitch and my nose wiggle at certain stimuli. i felt nice walking on two legs. i felt nice because i felt animal and i didn’t have to prove it to anyone.
really like… just do what makes you happy. i admire the bravery it takes to so earnestly wear your identity on your sleeve like that. that’s very impressive. however, there is NO obligation to do anything like that if you understand that there will be a reaction that poses a threat to you.
i want our kids to be safe, too. you don’t have to feel dysphoria over being discreet. sometimes it’s the safest option. and sometimes, that can be really fun, too.
study everything you can about your ‘type. wikipedia and animalia are good resources. ramble about them to anyone who will listen. jokingly refer to yourself as one in friend spaces. wear discreet clothes that remind you of your ‘type. find a nice private place outside where you can run and explore and look at plants and smell the air and feel like yourself. but by no means do you have to prove yourself. you know you.
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Uhm, for my 100th post.. I wanted to do that one trend with the likes. I only have, like, 35 followers so I doubt this'll gain traction, butttt, worth a shot. 'X)
15 interactions I'll make a YouTube video tonight
25 interactions I'll work more on my mask
40 interactions I'll start eating healthier
80 interactions I'll clean my room (which is a depression nest rn)
100 interactions I'll wear a tail to school
150 interactions I'll do public quads and post it on my YouTube
200 interactions and I'll start working out every night
250 interactions and I'll get my chronic pain checked by a doctor for athritis
300 interactions and I'll start an Etsy for gear
400 interactions and I'll tell my friends about my therianthropy and explain to them that I'm physically a wolf
500 interactions and I'll start seeking out therian friends and start guitar lessons
I'm only gonna go until five hundred because I doubt this will get past 40- but hopefully I'll get there someday ^^'
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anyone else get REALLY aggressive when someone (literally anyone, family, friends or not) tries to take a snack or a portion of food from you as a joke or because they assumed you're sharing and didnt ask?
Earlier I was getting a jelly as a snack and my dad walked up to me, said 'thanks' and tried to take it from me as a (terribly unfunny) joke and I jumped away from him and just barely managed not to growl at him.
And one time I had some Pocky sticks in the flavour my best friend and I love the most, and she took one too many and I almost bit her hand-
Three of my four theriotypes are territorial and two are animals that live in groups with hierarchies/pecking order so this makes a lot of sense to me, but im curious if any therians who don't identify as territorial/pack animals relate to this?
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It is...
Wet beast Wednesday!!!
Todays wet beast is.. a black wolf!!
Lookat this fella, all wet
Taken from Pinterest and photographed by Jan Hanlon
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I growl uncontrollably when I get extremely frustrated at something which is nice and all but when I do it in public it's a completely different story
Like boy wtf are u doing the old woman across the aisle thinks u're crazy 😭😭😭
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