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shiningmystic · 7 months
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Just a quick reminder:
Even if you work on your looks and feeling better on the outside; your insides and there feelings need work too. Don’t neglect your mental and emotional body because you think physical work is the only way to make yourself feel better. It will help in some ways, but it won’t change the trauma you have been through! You deserve unconditional love even if you don’t have the energy to look the way you want; you are always worthy and that needs to be understood inside and cultivated daily because of what others/yourself have made you believe.
If you don’t look the best today or you feel dysphoric or ugly in your skin; that does not take away from your worthiness of love and beauty you hold within yourself. You deserve unconditional love always! And from that you can spread unconditional love to others ❤️
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sherlockmeme · 1 year
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Decluttering
A slice of me does not concur with what the rest of the fraction conforms to. Hence, for the sake of intrapersonal growth, I allow that slice to finally be free from the enigma and contradictory disagreements within me. I apologize to those who will not be kept. Not only due to dislike that you’ll be out of the circle, but also one’s soul is not found to be mildly amusing. I need space. I adore…
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dazedoctober · 2 years
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the most intense lesson i’m in the midst of learning right now is that it is okay to experience disappointment in a safe relationship. it is not indicative that a person is going to leave, it is simply emblematic of the fact that humans are not perfect and will inevitably disappoint you. it doesn’t make them bad nor does it reflect poorly of their credibility in the relationship. when we experience immense trauma in our lives it takes a toll and can cause you to expect abandonment in the wake of disappointment. these emotions play off each other like a domino effect, it’s a learned pattern. and it’s destructive. once you become aware and start to rewrite the story that you are safe to experience disappointment in your relationship and that you are still deeply loved by your partner and still deeply love your partner in return, it will allow you to forge a new path in your neural network of learned behaviour, and allow you to start making healthier choices based on this new pathway
this morning my partner woke up for work and i was beat tired so i kept sleeping and before he left, he came and crouched over me and kissed every inch of my face over and over again. he told me how cute i am, how beautiful i am, and continued to kiss every part of me. i’m thankful for his patience and for his overflow of love. most of all i’m thankful for the dedication he has to himself to become the best person he can be, he inspires me to keep growing because he illustrates how evident growth impacts not just you but the people around you too
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sar-soor · 6 months
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Some things to note when you're discussing Palestine and Israeli apartheid in the coming days/weeks/months (not a complete list but will update as I have the emotional energy):
Do not refer to what is happening in Palestine as a "conflict" or "war." These words imply a balance of power that does not exist. Palestinians in the West Bank and Gaza have no military, no control of their borders, no control over their access to resources like electricity, water, and medical supplies, no freedom of movement, and, most importantly, they do not have the most powerful government in the world funding them.
Israel is an apartheid state. Refer to it as such. It is based in a settler colonialist system that actively recruits and funds people from the Jewish diaspora to move into homes on stolen Palestinian land. Since the formation of the state of Israel in 1948, 42% of the West Bank has been illegally settled while 86% of East Jerusalem has been stolen for settler use. Under international law, the expansion of these settlements is illegal. Israel has faced zero repercussions for their actions. Hold them accountable in your speech.
Do not refer to the Israeli army as the "IDF" (Israeli Defense Force). Palestinians refer to them as the "IOF" for a reason--Israel does not need to defend themselves from civilians who have no military. From 2008 to September 2023, over 3,800 Palestinian civilians were killed by the IOF. There is no need for oppressors to defend themselves--they are the ones on the offense at all times by the nature of their positions of power.
Remember that decolonization will not be a peaceful process. Do not condemn a group of people who have been brutally colonized, ethnically cleansed, and displaced from their homes for 75 years for fighting back against those oppressing them. This post concisely explains why the violence necessary for decolonization will never match that of the violence necessary for the sustained process of colonization. You cannot break free of a violent system with nonviolence. When Palestinians attempted peaceful protest in 2018 on the 70th anniversary of the Nakba, they along with clearly marked journalists, doctors, and medics were shot and killed for their actions. Oppressors will maintain their power status by any means necessary; the ongoing genocide of Palestinians is proof of that. Decolonization requires violence because colonization itself is an inherently violent system.
Zionism does not equate to Judaism. Do not let Zionist propaganda fool you into believing that condemning the Israeli government is in any way antisemitic. The Israeli government does not represent the views of all Jews, even those who are Israeli citizens. Governments should always, always be criticized and held to account for their actions. Israel is no exception to this rule. Anti-Zionism is not antisemitism. Anyone who tells you otherwise is weaponizing true Jewish oppression and suffering as a means to gain support for a violent, racist, apartheid government.
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anoritheark · 2 months
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7.0 Me
I'm an. updated new me, a few apps added, files transferred, a virtual digital share.
I woke up to a new version of me. I had been updated, apps added, files transferred, a digital share, files lost, bytes deleted, self corrupted so much that I cannot recognize me from the start.
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heavyheartedhorror · 3 months
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You deserve to smile until your face is tight, laugh until everyone around you laughs without knowing why, and to enjoy yourself as if are on the vacation of your dreams....
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shanuraru · 2 months
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airplane is my favorite character in anything ever
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amygdalae · 1 year
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its interesting to me how self-deprecation neatly ties into making others feel bad. like. if you constantly assume that you’re stupid no matter how informed or skilled in a topic you might be, people who are a bit less learned or skilled than you might see how you, someone who is obviously skilled, talk down about yourself, and assume that if you think YOURE an idiot you must think theyre an even bigger idiot and lose confidence or find you intimidating as a result. its fucked up. and its part of why it can be so important to break out of cycles of self-hatred--not just for yourself, but for people around you
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pemprika · 1 month
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an untainted innocence
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thewaywardstoic · 1 year
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How do people get good at anything? What are the steps they take to hone their skills?
Hello, I’m The Wayward Stoic, and I will pen your question into journal tonight. Pride. It all starts here. I’m sure you’re probably thinking, “But to be prideful is a sin or immoral”. And sure, you may be right. Just as a broken clock tells time twice a day. Pride alone isn’t some sort of evil incarnate. It isn’t a “path to the dark side” or such hyperbole nonsense. Though, some of that…
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theoldkyokodied · 6 months
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If you follow my main you had to know this was coming… anyway. Enjoy these bloodweave doodles :)
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shiningmystic · 10 months
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I’ve realized I have a gaping hole of abandonment that’s finally being realized. My father was a single parent and lost him wife to early. With his big heart and devastating loss after devastating loss (my uncle died 4 years prior to my mom) he shut himself off.
This meant that me and my siblings were emotionally deprived and took whatever terrible scraps from our actual caregivers; our grandparents who were very clear they didn’t want to raise another set of children. We felt handed off to and ignored. Like we didn’t matter but then when we needed to keep up appearances that’s when we got attention.
Is it my fathers fault? Yes in some way because he had 3 kids and shutting down with that responsibility is neglectful but could you blame him? The way he was raised and the fact he has to be a single parent when he has a hole in his heart is unfair.
Was it my grandparent fault? Yes in some way because they could have stepped up and seen the situation for what it was: a tragedy. But there lives living through ww2 was already tragic why would they think this was any different? It was unfair for my grandparents having to take care of us when they just wanted to relax and not be parents.
But what about the kids? That’s what I thought in my teens as I had revelation after revelation. It was all about them because they suffered and neglected themselves. Why must the kids pick up the scraps to repair there hearts when it was so ready and willing to love before the neglect? The abuse? The abandonment?
Maybe that’s why I am so angry and judgmental of myself; do I abandon others unknowingly? Do I still blame myself for what was done to me? Do I deprive people of my love because I can’t bare to get hurt but I’m hurting others by doing that. Love isn’t a thing but a whom; people a person a choice.
People will love you even if you don’t, pushing them away only hurts you because it continues the narrative of being alone. It’s not that no one will hurt you, it’s knowing that there is someone out there worth loving and loving you back.
My heart is heavy I’ll go drink some tea.
-ShiningMystic
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conspicuous-clown-car · 8 months
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AAAAAAAAAUUUGGHHHHH
themb ;w;
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jabesa0 · 8 months
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💵 Money Shot 💵
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itzitxou · 3 months
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Smooches for shizun 💞
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