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#Tw body talk
feral-ballad · 2 years
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Blythe Baird, from If My Body Could Speak; “Eat”
[Text ID: “I am trying to stop doing / things that don’t make any sense. Body, / forgive me. I am trying. I am trying. I am still trying.]
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punk-dad-sharkz · 4 months
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i hate talking about dysphoria with cis ppl because they immediately clock it as body dysmorphia, and only as body dysmorphia. (i say only bc some trans ppl can and do experience both)
i can't talk about how i hate how my thighs make me feel/look feminine because they always say "but you look fine!" or "i think you look amazing!" or "but you should love them!"
and it's so hard to describe dysphoria, especially to ppl who don't experience it, or who don't want to understand it isn't dysmorphia
and no matter how hard you try to explain they always try to make you love this body you have because "you should love yourself as you are!"
but i do love myself. but not quite exactly how i am. i love what i know I can be. i love knowing that one day i'll have top surgery scars i can trace with my fingers and a scratchy beard from T. i love knowing that I can eventually do my silly little effeminate gestures without hating how it makes me look. i love knowing that eventually i can look in a mirror and grin at the man i've become.
but that's not right now. i may cry a little when a shirt doesn't fit the way it should, but i don't hate the body that makes it that way. I may feel a pit in my stomach when I realize the way that i'm standing makes me look girly, but i don't hate that i'm standing that way.
i don't hate that i used to be a girl but i hate when people still think i am.
i don't hate my body, i just hate how it isn't what it's supposed to be quite yet. could that make any sense to the cis folks reading this?
I am trans and I love my body, just sometimes it doesn't love me back. and one day it will.
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yearningsaphic · 6 months
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Does anyone else look in the mirror long enough and examine your features to the point where you start to get physically nauseous? Just me? Ok
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selfshipseaside · 6 days
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☆ Reminder to any self-shippers with a big bust/chest, your f/os love you!
No matter your gender or how you present, they love you and your chest the way it is, and they also support anything you want to do with it! They understand the plights of it. Whether it's having a hard time feeling like shirts fit nicely on you, or if it even makes you feel dysphoric, no matter what problems you might have with them, they'll be there to listen and help as much as they can. They don't think your bust is too big or that you look bad because of it!
If you ever wanted a reduction, they'd be your biggest supporter!
Top surgery? They'd cheer you on the entire way through and help you through recovery!
And if you wanted to bind your chest for any reason at all, they'd assist you no problem!
Just wanted to find some properly sized clothes and help with the intense back pain? They got your back, literally!
If anyone is ever making you feel objectified because of your bust, your f/o would make sure to help you sort through those feelings and to try to put a stop to the source. You deserve to exist with your body and not feel objectified by just being there!
So, no matter what you might think or want to do with your bust, your f/o loves you for it and supports you all the same!
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yesloulou · 1 year
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Horner on Daniel being back at Red Bull:
"He had picked up some habits that we didn‘t recognise as the Daniel that left us. [...] We've had to feed him up—I don't know what (McLaren) did to him but he came back looking a bit skinny."
‘10 minutes away’: Red Bull’s big Ricciardo praise as team bosses back Aussie’s 2024 F1 return | Michael Lamonato Fox Sports Mar 31, 2023
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sillywabbits · 9 months
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~Belated Elations 💞💫
A little something I've been working on off/on that took me an embarrassingly long amount of time to finish fjfjfj It encompasses elements that personally resonate with me like RSD, self worth, and body positivity that I want to explore in the self-hug fanfic that hasn't quite left my head yet. But I'll get there~❤️
-Reblogs genuinely appreciated, but no pressure!! ❤️ Thanks for looking! 💘💫
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levmada · 1 year
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Levi loves your body, right... well I think Levi would in particular appreciate bigger bodies after all the starvation he saw when he was younger. it means you're well-fed and taken care of. he has more of you to hold, and your round thighs, your hips and belly are so soft, yk?
plush against his lips and his own toughened fingers, content to caress and squeeze while he holds you in place or lifts you up and down yk...
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ifeelsick7 · 11 months
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My thighs are so big I want to cry.
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bluemusickid · 9 months
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TW: body talk, Lizzo
I hate the Lizzo story. I'm someone who encourages to see both sides to see the full story but honestly, i'm not sure what could be the full story here. I used to admire how she advocated for self love and body positivity, especially in a landscape such as Hollywood, where being "skinny" is still very much the norm (or at the very least, more desired).
To see someone be an advocate for a cause and then act in a contrary manner is so fucking disgusting.
To all my peeps who have been hurt by this,
a) don't fret. She's just another celebrity after all.
B) never ever ever everrrr stop loving yourself, in whatever form. You can only begin working on yourself if you love and respect yourself and your body.
Celebrities may come and go, but a healthy sense of self love and self respect lives on.
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feral-ballad · 2 years
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Franny Choi, from Soft Science; “On the night of the election,”
[Text ID: “I didn’t even get close. / I called and called / and nothing came. / I had a body, and / it refused to rise for work.”]
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i hate jeans!!!! like why does a size 28 in one brand fit me perfectly and then a size 32 not even make it up my ass in other brand like why can’t we evolve passed this archaic sizing system !!!!
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tiredofpity · 1 year
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Hey, I just remembered that I started wearing crop tops this year because of Our Flag Means Death. I had seen men in crop tops before, but they were only presented as being attractive when they were skinny or super chiseled. Seeing a body that looked more like mine in a crop top, just causally, helped me feel a lot better when wearing one, to the point that I really like my body in crop tops now. So, thanks ofmd.
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Pros to having gained some weight:
boobs
soft tummy
Cons to having gained some weight:
mom nagging
no sexy abs
Solution: become a shapeshifter
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yesloulou · 7 months
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re: shirtless daniel, sometimes i wonder if he's more self conscious about his body than we think, see all the jokes about being good looking
honestly? i don't think so! i feel like there is genuinely no evidence that suggests that he might be self conscious about his looks/body image whatsoever **. i think his jokes either come from him being cheeky (bc he knows he's good looking) or it being his way of taking compliments (you can tell he gets shy sometimes). like i can't imagine someone who's very self conscious can go on live national television and make statements about how f1 is popular in american bc of his good looks. in that joking but sort of not joking way.
on a more serious note, obviously towards the end of his time in that hell hole (mclaren) he did have trouble with eating (poor appetite, noticeable weight loss etc). but even then i get a feeling that he was pretty comfortable with the body image stuff. for example this was his post race interview after ad 22, with at least 3 cameras pointing and like half the paddock's attention on him.
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**update: saw @toastandvegemite's tags on this post and they kinda got me thinking!! they reminded me of an interview where daniel was asked what position he saw himself play in american football (where players are like six foot two 200 pounds on average). he stumbled a lil and said linebacker, whose players often have the leanest build. i think daniel is aware of the fact that he's not big and broad in any way. he’s certainly self-aware. but on the other hand I don’t he think he’s too self-aware. ie i don't think it's a source of self consciousness for him. like he would explain to show hosts how his sport is a "lean sport" and he would say "im pretty tiny" on dax's (i think) podcast in a non joking way. obviously these are all just observations and guesses but to me personally it doesn't feel like there is a concerning amount of self consciousness in there. ('concerning amount' bc yk having self-conscious emotions in moderate amounts is healthy) again this is just what I think <3
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goreang3l · 3 months
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i always thought my brother called me an0r3x!c as a joke but when we were talking the other day,, he blatantly blurted out that i’m so skinny that no guy will ever want me,, it hurt hearing that from someone who i care about,, even more so when he continued to invalidate me the whole rest of the drive lol
sorry for the rant,, i just had to get it off my chest
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dapperenby13 · 5 months
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Hey btw, stretch marks look so cool. They’re badass and gorgeous and I will not shut up about it.
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