“to be loved is to be changed” but it’s adam parrish being loved unconditionally for the first time by gansey and then by ronan lynch and then by blue sargent and learning that love is supposed to be easy. like breathing. and finally accepting the love he has always deserved.
the more time I spend on tiktok the more I think that maybe Ronan Lynch had the right idea when he said phone's would be the downfall of humanity back in like 2012
something about gansey laughing because the new ronan is laughing the way the old ronan always did. something about gansey remembering when ronan smelled like his childhood home. something about gansey being ronan’s brother through it all. something about gansey loving ronan in the past, present, & future; in every timeline; in every universe.
actually im kind of glad the trc show fell through if only for the fact that the discourse would be ABSURD. once a week someone would cancel gansey for being classist. there would be thinkpieces on maura’s lack of morality bc she gets with mr grey. adansey/ronsey/roah/chensey would all be called some variation of queerbaiting or fetishizing. blue sargent would be criticized for being a bad feminist. kavinsky would cause a twitter war just by existing & declan enthusiasts would be mocked relentlessly. what i mean is it would be hilarious but also i’d want to kill myself once a week
i really do wish that people wouldn’t try to read every single adam/gansey scene through the haha funny lense when so many of their especially earlier interactions/fights r inseparable from the context that one of them grew up sheltered and rich and the other one as a victim of lifelong abuse. like. i don’t know .some of these scenes are just not made for haha funny tumblr posts