#SORRY i ramble sm shdshjds

[lovingloudly-archived]

You have the cutest face and curls in the whole world! :) and what’s even sweeter is how fond you are of yourself in the tags. That’s really good energy that I think we should all try to feel sometimes

AAACKK !!!!!! ur so sweet oh my goodnesss :(( ! tbh my hair was looking super dishevelled and ratty earlier i just watched it sjdfhhdfj so the fact u still think my curls were cute means a ton 🥺🥺 

but ahh yess- im not used to like. trying to compliment myself at ALL without it feeling fake in a way? so putting tags like that is kind of a big deal !! i worry about if its like the first time someone sees a post from me itll be one where im feeling okay about how i look and theyll automatically assume (or moreso their brain that has been conditioned by society to view that self acceptance is the same as being full of urself will assume) that “oh god she is VERY SELF CENTERED !!” which really couldnt be further from the truth - 

but this year i really really am trying allowing myself to like… receive compliments ?? bc i know how awful it feels when u compliment someone and they wont take it at all. and i know ive been that person who rejects it all for a lot of my online life so ?? im trying really hard to change that because literally what is the harm in accepting it, it rewires ur brain to actually believe it after a while and u make the friend giving u the compliment feel all nice!!! 💌

#SORRY i ramble sm shdshjds #anon #answered