#Obedience to Parents

[furiousgoldfish]

There is something universally intolerable and excruciating about having to follow orders and show displays of obedience to people who insult, humiliate, threaten, degrade, dehumanize, violate and sometimes even beat you into submission. That is not acceptable for any human being to go thru, and yet we expect and demand it out of children, as if it's normal and common practice.

And then we're surprised when children grow up with anger issues, defiance against authority, traumatic disorders or self-harm practices - these are the direct results of it. You either go mad with the injustice and turn against the world, or you're helpless to the point where the only person you can turn against is yourself. Stop demanding obedience from children you abuse. They do not owe anything to you.

#abusive parents #child abuse #dehumanizing practices #forcing children into obedience with violence and force #expecting children to live slavery-like lives #when you'd be imprisoned for doing that to an adult #gross behaviour #toxic parents #violent parents #domestic violence #never ending injustice #traumatic childhood

[crabs-brencil]

oop i was supposed to work today but it turned out to be projecting onto gurathin hours instead ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

i had a lot of fun drawing this weird ass bathroom (og image below)

#yes this is emo teenager gurathin lmaooo and honestly here seems like a perfect time to infodump about my hcs for him soooo #basically i think that he comes from rich parents #which is how he comes to be augmented #but his parents are like the i-expect-perfection-of-you-and-if-you-dont-ace-everything-i-make-you-do-then-youre-nothing-to-me parents #so yeah he def has a delinquency phase #and his parents make him get augmented because they want him to go back to being like their perfect and obedient son #so yeah lol #the murderbot diaries #tmbd fanart #tmbd art #tmbd gurathin #dr. gurathin #tmbd #krita

[diabolicflame93]

Set Up for Failure / Authoritarian Parenting

Lately I’ve been mulling over the thought or concept of how fundie families set their children up for failure. I can’t speak to a wider or societal understanding of the concept, but I can speak to my own experiences. Much of my criticism comes from how children in fundamentalism are instructed to deal with authority figures. More specifically, how children are taught blind obedience to authority…

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#authoritarian parenting #authority #Belief #Ezzo #Faith #Gary Ezzo #Growing Kids God&039;s Way #Obedience #obedience to authority #Parent child relationships #parental authority #Parenting #Parenting Styles #Quiet Time #Scripture #Word of Life

[otiksimr]

Do you all have anything for legends in the series. Now I don't mean Legends as in Darkstalker Legends I mean in book legends. Like stories dragons tell each other that have persisted throughout the years.

Little fairy tales parents tell their kids, bed time stories things like that.

#I am in desperate need for wof worldbuilding and Tui for sure isn't going to give us any #I must steal my followers headcanons #I can just imagine parents telling their kids cautionary tales to scare their kids into being obediant #like “ohhh if you misbehave [insert dragon equivalent of the babadook] is going to get you” #Like these big epic legends about these great heros #Mythos and such #heh #Dragons that have their own mythological beasts even though they themselves are myths to us #they have their own legends and beliefs #These stories of fantastical beasts that are told from tribe to tribe #historian dragons that dig up and translate these lost tales about heros from the olden days #what we could've had #Kos speaks #wof #wings of fire

[merakiui]

Hear me out…Omega! Azul with an Alpha darling.

It seems darling doesn't share his feelings, so what better way to return the favor than to lock her up where no one else can access!

Somewhere dark and isolated, with restraints to keep her in check, chains or collars, maybe a muzzle over her mouth just to keep her from biting, and possibly get either twins to check up on her once in a while (to 'discipline' her, Jade has many methods perfect for that).

But when Azul nears his heat, he'll have the preparations prepared. Maybe drug darling once, twice, just to keep her dumb when he fucks her whenever, he prepared the best aphrodisiacs for both of their sanities. The twins are welcomed to join, rather, they always insist on joining…

Yes yes!!! Azul's insatiable during his heats, even more so when he catches addictive whiffs of your scent, and he just can’t help fucking you until you’re dumb, overstimulated, and stuffed with cum. It’s in his nature to please his alpha, so there’s no need to struggle to avoid the hand that feeds you a concoction of aphrodisiacs and drugs. You’ll be fine. He’ll take good care of you, and when the both of you are passed out the twins can help. Though both of them are alphas and witnessing another alpha reduced to such a state, nearly as needy as Azul, is quite the enjoyable sight. They’ll want a chance to indulge in you as well, even if you’re too exhausted to properly keep the both of them from bottoming out inside all at once.

The twins love to bully you, teasing you for looking and sounding like an omega with how you’re incoherently babbling and wrapping your legs around them and grabbing at their shoulders. What happened to the big, strong alpha who so confidently turned Azul down? Maybe you’re more of an omega than an alpha. If you can fall apart this easily, surely you’re not as strong-willed as you seem. Even your insistence that you’ve always been an alpha is cute and oh-so-submissive. 

#twisted chit chat #yandere twst #n/sfw #tw: abo #tw: omegaverse #tw: drugging #also consider alpha idia with an alpha darling #who he changes into an omega because his parents expect him to marry a cute obedient omega #but with your being an alpha... that causes some issues #he'll fix it and make things right <3 #i just want to write a horror where idia operates on you and conditions you into being oh so good for him #but mainly i also want to portray the clinical side of idia in a styx uniform hehe

[meownotgood]

do you think Aki has any secret kinks?... i dont picture him to be like... super freaky but i think he's Hiding something. something he's a little shy about perhaps

aki truly comes off as the most vanilla man out there — and really, he'd be perfectly fine with things always being vanilla between you — but yes, he's very shy, he's very unassuming, and he definitely has a few things he's into, he's just never has the guts to admit to them.

the number one thing that gets him going more than anything else is praise. tell him you love him, tell him he's good, tell him every little detail of how pretty he is and how much he means to you and he'll hold onto every word until he's falling apart. he melts at the sound of your voice way too easily, he needs you to tell him that he's doing well.

and y'know... after getting used to the feeling of always having a cigarette in between his lips, he gets real addicted to the feeling of your fingers in his mouth, pressing them against his tongue until he chokes when he's getting loud or toying with his lips and asking him to suck on them while you're riding him.

#he has the biggest need to be praised and I will stand by that #all you have to do is praise him once and he instantly turns obedient #something something... aki didn't get enough praise when he was younger... something something... #his parents always ignored him in favor of his brother... and then when they died he stopped hearing any words of affirmation or love #so he really takes them to heart and when he hears you say them they mean everything to him #think he'd also find it kind of hot to do it with you in a semi public space but he's mister responsible so it's difficult to convince him #ask mags #aki <3

[chaos-in-one]

People who comment "gentle parenting at it's finest" on posts of kids having a meltdown in public and their parents not doing anything about it do not understand what gentle parenting means at all and it makes me want to put my head through a wall

#'gentle parenting is for gentle children' how do you know if your child is capable of being like that or not #if your first reaction to them doing normal child things like getting upset is to hit them? #also gentle parenting isnt doing nothing when your kid is having a public meltdown #that is neglectful #and pretty much the entire premise of gentle parenting is NOT abusing your kids and treating them like actual human beings #also I guarantee you no matter how much your kid sucks hitting them isn't making them better #it is teaching them to fear you #and it teaches them that violence is the way to get obedience #which will not be good for them down the line #the ONLY reason you should EVER put your hands on your kids is if it is the only way to get them out of immediate danger #such as if your kid is about to walk into traffic and you grab them so they dont get hit by a fucking car #other than that? you are not in the right for hitting your child #ESPECIALLY if you are doing it as punishment #gentle parenting #tag rant #abuse #abusive parents #abusive parenting #anti abuse #child abuse #child abuse awareness

[aalghul]

By the way, since everyone and their mother seems to have collectively hallucinated this conflict ever existing in Jason’s original Robin run: Jason is not the Robin that struggled with Batman and Robin not being equals. All of them did, but Jason significantly less than others, to the point where you actually have to look for it because it’s not written plainly, unlike with every other Robin. I don’t understand where this obsession with “Jason needs to bring up that Bruce didn’t trust him because they’re not equals” came from, but it’s largely an overstatement. It’s not that big of a deal to Jason because he got to know Bruce as a father before anything else, even if he did meet Batman first.

#if you want to explore the whole ‘partners not Batman and sidekick’ thing go look at any other angle #it’s kind of a big thing for dick and tim and steph and damian and obviously duke #it’s just another attempt at pushing all the things that might make a Robin seem rebellious onto jason and jason alone so that everyone else #looks obedient in comparison when it’s the opposite and I’m gonna lose my mind over it #jason did not care! he cared about bruce’s trust and you can talk about whether he felt like he had it (towards the end) #but it was not in relation to feeling like an equal. because they had a parent and child relationship before all else

[tankgotstuckinthecircusgate]

"eleanor rigby" is certifed m2 song to me & i don't want to hear anything

#me abt m2 characters: “look at all the lonely people” 🤓 #tw death #“All the lonely people; Where do they all belong?” <- at the cemetery👍 #no fr post ending francesca in the cemetery at her parents' grave and there are fresh graves with names #that may not be known to francesca but are well-known to the player. was all this even worth it? #no sorry in this regard i'm a moralist and human life/connections r the greatest values in this world it's a tuning fork #m2 is such a lonely desperate game. honestly #(n at this point francesca is a character i don't want to see any violence in bc there has to be at least one!!! adequate person) #“we've been doing this play for over 5 years and in those 5 years only one person in the audience yelled 'mercy him!' ” #“there can't be a “greater loss/less loss” option. you're thinking like a politician. these are human lives not abstract losses” #“i said ”kill him“ bc i was just echoing the play” “but you've got a head on your shoulders and you have a choice” #no sorry i shouldn't be allowed to talk bout such things i always get off track #in my perfect world milgram's “obedience to authority” is being studied in school #i think i take this game way too seriously & personal but i can't take it otherwise

[worstloki]

at 2pm every Saturday Odin hosts an hour-long podcast on effective parenting where he gives out tips and anecdotes to assist the parents on Asgard in raising their young as well-established proper individuals and immediately after at 3pm every Saturday Loki’s podcast on dealing with trauma starts

#Asgard only has one radio channel #Thor hosts a thing at 5 where he retells valiant battle tales of victories for children #4-5 is bard hour #Odin speaks to the parents and Loki speaks to their kids #anonymous caller number 3 very clearly describing the same scenario Odin’s caller 6 did #everyone reasonable in the community is livid and that the kids are being treated badly #everyone else is trying to raise their children to be obedient little worker bees #if the community starts to shun parents and take in kids from each other don’t look at Loki all his callers are anonymous and confidential #Odin does not catch on to any patterns btw he’s too busy telling people to discipline their kids well with the harsh hand of books and belt

[cisgenderedcentaur]

the way we treat children is so fucked

I have learned infinitely more in the last 18 months about being a functional person than I did under my parents. When I was trapped in that situation, every mistake or error in judgement was taken as Sign of Something Wrong with me. now if the kitchen is dirty, I have to wash the dishes because I ran out of cups and want something to drink out of. not because my parents were holding sentimental items over my head to threaten me. I'm not being criticized for lacking the executive functioning to fold & put away my laundry- now I can just buy more laundry baskets and have clean clothing at all times. These tasks and many others are no longer a source of pain when they were before.

And I think about that a lot. How many people (children & adults) suddenly find they have the ability and drive to learn to better their own environments out of natural consequences, not because they're afraid of what someone else will do to them? How many people will get out of toxic harmful situations that didn't need to exist?

#as an adult i am treated like a person. as a child i was given the expectations of an obedient dog #and thats not unique to me #talk tag tbd #adultism #parenting ig #do i neeed to tag abuse in this? maybe

[lokilysolbitch]

i mean well while im here i have some Oblivious Traumatized Victim things to say such as. if you related heavily to the prisoners in the stanford prison experiment movie in near every way because it was like a slightly less unhinged version of your entire childhood up to age 18, would it be a good idea to consider that you might have been subjected to tbmc/torture. be honest--

#when i say my childhood was if that movie was made as an indie horror film #i mean it wholeheartedly #i'm trying to research it more but i am confused bc idk what parenting is supposed to be #if not prioritizing obedience over all else and using basic needs to get it #which is probably not a good sign #what do you mean some parents are like that unintentionally and without planning #did #osdd #pdid #tw tbmc #tbmc #stanford prison experiment #handmadeorganicpost

[jegulily-stuff]

Started out with good principles but sacrificed doing the right thing for self preservation: Peter Pettigrew 🤝 Quirinus Quirrell

Morally conscious, always trying to do the right thing but have a bad grasp of what that is because of their communities until they sort themselves out: Regulus Black 🤝 Percy Weasley

I see people putting Reg in the first group like he came out of the womb knowing right and wrong and then gave it up. Why? No part of canon or the way human beings work suggests that.

I dont mean this as apologia. I think apologia is what people are doing when they make him have secretly good principles but bad actions anyway. (I dont agree that thats more moral but still). Like he's more sympathetic if he knows right and wrong but choses to protect himself instead. (The boy who literally tortured himself to death to do the right thing). Why doesn't Peter get more love and leeway then, because thats his situation.

I get that its hard to imagine someone joining the Death Eaters out of the desire to do the right thing, because from our perspective its obviously wrong, and that its harder to sympathise with that person. But thats the way its presented, that Regulus wanted to set the world back in order for his community. He actively wanted that, and was willing to risk his life in war for it. Isnt the point of the tragedy that he thought he was helping by making those personal sacrifices, but it wasnt actually making anything better?

Isnt his self-realised deradicalisation more interesting and genuine than 'secretly was enlightened with the morality I the reader hold but was a coward anyway'? He was a teenager, thats when most people start figuring out their own philosophies and morals, and which things they were taught were wrong and who was actively lying to you for their own benefit.

I get that theres a lot more nuance even than that, and theres a lot more I could say. I also get that people dont want to get into moral philosophy too much in their little fics so they compromise on where he should be in his morals arc, so he has the beliefs of the end of his arc but still has to have the actions of the earlier part. I just get a little annoyed by the coward fandom meta i guess.

#hes a rule follower who thought the rules (his parents rules) were morally correct and it took him a while to separate those things #ig i see his deradicalisation as a struggle of his obedience to rules+ proper order vs his compassion for even 'inferior“ people (+elves) #him worrying that compassion was a personal weakness that was immoral and against the greater good for his community #wanting to do the right thing but doing it wrong is a big thing he has in common with james in my eyes #obviously he's far more wrong than james is since james is only just wrong (save the james meta for another time) #theyre both very committed to principles that are generally selfless but both have one selfcentred element #james initially sees himself as a hero who cant do wrong. regs understanding of the world puts him + his community at the top of the order #anyway i was going to stop talking #regulus black #james potter #peter pettigrew #txt post #meta

[pawsitivevibe]

Man some of these "sport dog" breeders will have a whole alphabet soup of titles on their dogs but when you look at them they're like all novice/beginner titles. Or things like CGN. Easy stuff. I want to see Excellent and Masters titles, even if that means your dog has fewer letters after their name.

#though even among novice titles some do mean a little more than others #like a novice sprinter or dock diving or trick dog or a CGN compared to a novice agility or obedience title is very different #you are putting a lot more work into some #But still if you're trying to prove to me that you're producing amazing sport dogs then maybe some of your dogs should have big titles ... #The excuse is often 'I don't have time to compete.' But like ... if you are trying to produce sport dogs you better be finding the #time to sport them y'know? #If I want a puppy to take to the high levels of sport why on earth would I get one from parents who have only ever done the baby levels? #Your dog can have all the 'potential' you want but like ... prove it #I find this is very common with Border Collie breeders ...

[talboyslime]

Has anyone done a Steddie Ella enchanted thing with the obedience curse because I desperately need it and cannot write to save my life

#steddie #stranger things #steve harrington #eddie munson #ella enchanted #like his parents abusing his obedience and then just fucking off either not realizing or not caring that they've trapped in their orders #robin finding creative ways to avoid triggering it and helping him hide it from the kids

[whiskeysorrows]

“He means well, he shouts because he loves you! He just doesn’t know how to express his feelings!” & what am I, his therapist?

#like no mother I don’t care if he’s my father #he’s a guy who thinks he’s owned automatic obedience just because he said fancy words at a party and had sex with you #he did no actual parenting ergo he’s not owned my respect or life #mortem sibi consciscere #father. won’t you love me this once? #vent #tw child abuse #childhood trauma