#No Empathy

[deceiver-of-god]

Honestly, I think apologizing is just a form of manipulation. It bothers you that the other person doesn't have a good attitude towards you, so you explain the situation, make any excuse, try to make them understand your perspective, and in the end you manage to soften them and change their attitude.

I don't think I've ever honestly apologized. When someone is upset with me, all I want is for them to stop being upset, because their attitude is inconvenient, and the only thing on my mind is "how can I talk my way out of this situation?".

#actually npd #actually narcissistic #cluster b #narcissistic personality disorder #npd safe #actually cluster b #npd culture is #narcissistic #npd #npd positivity #narc posting #npder #npd traits #cluster b safe #cluster b pds #no empathy #low empathy

[frogsforthefrogwar]

We love people with low and no empathy here!

#low empathy #no empathy #autism #actually psychotic #actually autistic #psycotic #autistic #npd positivity #npd #bpd #hpd #aspd #cluster b #schizophrenia

[worms-in-my-brain]

Just a reminder that ableism against personality disorders, especially cluster b personality disorder, is alive and well.

Not having empathy doesn’t make someone evil. It doesn’t make them an abuser. In fact, people without empathy are better in certain vital positions. We’re better at being first responders, 911 operators, and other tasks that would overwhelm empaths. We work better in critical situations than empaths do.

Thinking that any disorder makes someone evil is ableist. And when you take into account the sexist bias in diagnosing women with BPD and the racist and classist bias in diagnosing POC and prison inmates with ASPD and NPD? It’s not only ableist, it’s all kinds of -ists. Plus, it’s really rich for someone who claims that empathy is what makes someone good to have so little empathy for people with disorders that are literally trauma-based.

So yeah if you see someone being a dick to people with PDs? Say something. Because they’re definitely not going to listen to us.

#neurodivergent #cluster b #cluster b safe #personality disorders #personally disorder #ableism #ASPD #actually aspd #actually antisocial #npd #bpd #low empathy #no empathy

[infiniteorangethethird]

I don't know where this "if you don't feel love/empathy you're evil" idea comes from like if you can only be decent towards people if you love them/feel empathy towards them then I'm pretty sure I'm not the one mistreating more people of the two of us

#decency lies in actions not emotions #it matters little what you actually feel we can only see what you do #you can be all “i love you” but if you're acting shitty ur still a shitty person #whereas you can be the kindest guy out there who helps ppl bc it's fun #without an ounce of love or empathy towards them #aromantic #aro #loveless #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #low empathy #no empathy #queer stuff

[solreefs]

“the way autistic people express empathy can seem strange to others, and they might be incorrectly seen as unempathetic when in reality, the problem is miscommunication” AND “many autistic people have low or no empathy, and talking about this does not promote stereotypes or make us bad people” can and should coexist.

#solreefspeak #autism stuff #actually autistic #low empathy #no empathy

[notabled-noodle]

“empathy” is not a synonym for “good person”. some of the kindest and most respectful people I know are low empathy. and lord knows there are high empathy dicks out there.

being a good person is a choice. the amount of empathy you have is not.

#empathy #low empathy #no empathy #autism #personality disorder #yah

[siren--squid]

Anyways, support people with low/no empathy, sympathy, and/or compassion.

Those things are not required to be a good person, and nobody should feel like those things are a requirement in life.

#low empathy #no empathy #low sympathy #no sympathy #low compassion #no compassion #neurodivergent #personality disorders #cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #autism #autistic #actually npd #actually autistic

[marshmallow-biscuit-blog]

Can we please normalize some people not having empathy, or having low empathy.

Sorry that the low to no empathy neurodivergent person doesn't understand why they should apologize for your dog dying. Sorry that they don't see how it's their fault. Maybe you should've asked to vent too, because I know your ass didn't.

#neurodivergent #no empathy #low empathy #narcissism #narcissistic personality disorder #npd #bipolar I disorder #bipolar II disorder #bipolar disorder #borderline personality disorder #bpd #antisocial personality disorder #autism #autistic

[it-is-only-a-novel]

If you ever want to say "everyone wants-" (sex, romance, friendship, something else), or (love, empathy, something else) "-is what makes us human", stop!

There is someone out there that doesn't want something most others do, or doesn't experience something that others do. Saying something like that is hurtful, and alienating. So don't.

#aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #apl #aplatonic #low empathy #no empathy #M's post

[jewishranpo]

can a character lack empathy without people being like “actually, they have TOO MUCH empathy”. like can we just have characters that don’t have empathy? is that really too much to ask for?

#npd #npd safe #aspd #aspd safe #low empathy #no empathy

[bathroomflooder]

"ugh people with no/low empathy are heartless and evil" don't care + didn't ask + I'm having fun frolicking + you should start to see the inherent beauty in others, rather than your own warped perception of them + change your ways + why are you hating someone for having a literal mental illness that they can't control + you have the option to be a decent human and you choose to say shit like this??

#ily (/p) ppl with low/no empathy <3 #no empathy #low empathy #actually npd #npd safe #npd #actually narcissistic #safe space #mental health

[cherryblossomcrime]

#cherry blossom crime #collage #mental health #low empathy #no empathy #actually npd #npd safe #npd positivity #npd culture is #cluster b safe #npd #cluster b #actually cluster b #aspd safe #aspd #antisocial personality disorder #antisocial pd #narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic

[frogsforthefrogwar]

i just think they’re nice

#low empathy #no empathy #npd safe #autism #aspd #bpd #cluster b #userboxes

[moriphile]

People really need to learn that feeling empathy doesn't make you an inherently "good" person. It's just like any other cognitive process. Feeling happy doesn't make you an inherently "good" person. Feeling sad doesn't make you an inherently "good" person. Feeling angry doesn't make you an inherently "good" person. Hell, having too much empathy can be harmful for people. I know hyperempaths that hate it.

A feeling isn't good or bad. It's a feeling. It's the most morally neutral thing that can possibly exist.

Empathy is morally neutral. It is not good. It is not bad. Stop using it as such.

- Sincerely, the low empathy sociopathic narc that's probably a better person than the last "empath" that read this.

#low empathy #no empathy #antisocial personality disorder #actually antisocial #aspd #actually aspd #npd #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #npd safe #aspd safe #cluster b safe #m.beingpissyagain

[neuroticboyfriend]

This post is for the mentally ill and ND people who do harmful things. Those who struggle with anger, aggression, and violence. Those who are manipulative, who do and say things that hurt people. Those who do all these things and more - who don't get why it's harmful due to havig no empathy, sympathy, compassion, remorse, etc.

Doing things that are wrong doesn't make you any less deserving of a good, safe, and fulfilling life. It doesn't make you a monster. It doesn't mean you deserve pain or discrimination. It doesn't mean you deserve to be alone, ostracized, and discarded. It doesn't make your existence wrong.

You're still here with the rest of us. You still have needs, wants, and rights. Some of the things you do may not be good or excusable, but you are a whole person. You are a whole person, and you deserve better. And I hope you get that someday, whatever it means to you.

#softspoonie #disabled #disability #madpunk #mad punk #neurodivergency #actually neurodivergent #neurodivergent #low empathy #no empathy #aempathy #aempathetic #anger issues #bpd #hpd #aspd #npd #cluster b #cluster b pd #mental illness #mentally ill #mental health #disabled rights #disability rights #autistic #autistic spectrum #adhd #autism spectrum #schizospec #schizophrenia

[yggdrasil-00]

A really dumb vent but tbh you don't have to feel empathy, guilt, sympathy, compassion, remorse, etc. to be a good person. You can feel none of these and still decide to do the right thing. In fact people who DO feel those things and STILL continue to do horrible things are worse imo.

#low empathy #no empathy #actually aspd #aspd thoughts #neurodivergent #actually autistic #inclusiveness #no compassion #low compassion #no remorse #low remorse #no sympathy #low sympathy #apathy #antisocial #light vent #hazardqueer #coralqueer