#NOT

[ohnoidontexist]

#pain #is #not #always #in #tears #sometimes #it #also #present #smile

[scrapyardrat]

i am a buff astarion x submissive femme woman hater ill just put it out there now to avoid any future misconception

#i hate it i hate the visual it produces and the aesthetic #BEGONE FROM MY RECCS! #not

[xtianel]

Are we being sold?: Facebook and Instagram Outage Raises Concerns

As someone knowledgeable about data privacy and computer literacy, we often say that data is more valuable than personal possessions. But what if your data has already been sold without your knowledge?

In a recent phenomenon, Facebook and Instagram were down for hours, leaving many unable to access any Meta services, including the crucial Messenger app for communication. Many of us feared our accounts had been hacked, but thankfully, it was just a service outage.

However, for some, doubts lingered. Could our data have been leaked and sold without our awareness?

This recent incident serves as a reminder for caution. Meta holds sensitive data, and with such disruptions, we're reminded of the uncertainty surrounding our digital privacy.

#not #for #sale

[teen--marvel]

EVERMORE THOUGHTS;

WHAT TF IS HAPPINESS?!

THAT CHORUS?!

catch me trying to put all these lyrics together four years after this album came out 😂

#taylor swift #evermore #not #the tortured poets department #related

[sunfishpie]

#angel #not

[thought-not-proccessed]

「Hello,world!」- Attraction

Hello vast void,

I remembered about this. I love writing here cuz I can just let my thoughts roam free. Today’s topic is attraction. I really just choose the first thing I think of. Attraction is such an odd and important thing. In the same way that everyone is different and no two people are the same, the way people are attracted to other is different. Yeah we all have similarities but everyone has a different checklist. I find it fascinating that someone can make you feel some type of way. My attractions have always been more about personality. And I know that everyone says that but I truly believe that all I need to be attractive to a person is a face I find attractive and a great personality. Those who believe that looks don’t matter are mislead.

If you meet someone and you fall for them and say that you don’t care for their looks, you might be subconsciously trying to tell yourself that. I don’t think it’s possible to be with someone you aren’t attracted to physically. I don’t know about asexuals and those kind of attractions so I can’t speak on those instances but I think Looks have a varying degree of importance depending on the person. That’s what I mean when I say that everyone is different. Those who have a huge amount of care for looks are valid, although I don’t understand how it could be the most important thing.

I move never felt particularly attractive. Not in the sense that I’m calling myself ugly, but more that for the most part, especially recently, I’ve been feeling like I’m nobody’s type. And I know this is a me problem and I am working on it. If you’re feeling the same way, know it’s a mental block. You trying to make yourself feel less than. If you believe it and encourage that kind of self talk it will only get worse. Let’s all work together to become the best person we can be and treat ourselves we would like to be treated by others.

Thank you- JC

#thoughts #not #processed #mind #mindset #psychology #self #self work #self worth #attracted #attractive #looks #people #attraction

[bornnraisedinsilenthill]

As someone who read the book and despises the newer IT movies, it makes me so mad, when people talk about IT with male pronouns.

„HE” this and „HE” that, because it’s Pennywise the Clown, right?

NO, she’s female and she’s pregnant and that’s a huge part of the problem in the book. Fck off with that, „Oh no, if we don’t defeat IT will die horrible deaths,” because that’s the worst reason I’ve ever heard, because if you do fight IT and fail, IT HAS YOUR SOUL. She’s pregnant and prepared to make many more ITs who’ll feast in the world and you have to stop it. That’s a far more convincing argument. Far more than, ouch pain. And every time one of them awakens, a massacre will take place, followed by them stealing the souls of kids.

So no, IT’s not just a funny and terrifying clown, IT’s an entity beyond human comprehension, that can drive people insane, simply if they see ITs’ true form.

Am I mad solely for the misgendering? No. I’m made at the mad disrespect they made, towards one of the best and intricate horror entities out there. This isn’t simple a male clown. It’s a lovecraftian entity, that one can only describe as IT or as, „Oh my God, IT’s female,” before breaking mentally.

#IT #Not #pennywise #pennywise the dancing clown #In other words #I dont like the movies #I’m just a regular „OH MY GOD ITS FEMALE enjoyer

[floating-in-the-blue]

Not me rereading the cryogenically frozen white whale wip and going "damn, this is really good, wish the author would update" while also consciously being aware that the author's brain, ie my brain, is currently in no shape or form to tackle this beast again. Nevermind that there's actual current wips to work on in my current fandom!

#yeo writes #not #not right now #maybe one day again #what have you done to me jonaira?!?!

[ohnoidontexist]

#you #are #not #going #to #heal #if #keep #pretending #that #hurt

[cjrights]

I NEVER MEANT TO START A WARR😭😭😭

BLOOOOOOCCCKKKKEEEDDD 🗣️🗣️🗣️

#luce my twin #NOT #im being edged by anon

[abouttofillhisshoes]

do you ever think and then have to physically get up and get the old bible sitting on top of your dresser crack it open and read a few passages just to cleanse your soul

#this new fic idea is like #not #id be burned at the stake if we werent in the SeCulAr AgE #matty u plague my mind #shut up lena

[snailso0]

*flirting with a mathematics major* :

Me: “Ay girl nice uh . perimeter *finger guns*

Her: *Stabs my eyes with her protractor*

#im #not #high #YOUR #highh

[thought-not-proccessed]

「Hello,world!」 POTY- Pt. 2

Wassup people,

So I forgot about this darn thing again. I was expecting to. My mind is usually racing with a bunch of different, random, complicated thoughts. So I knew we weren’t going to be consistent. Anyways I wanted to make sure I do my POTY 2. Another person who stood out to me and make me realize a lot about myself. A woman I worked with at work which we’ll call C.

C was a very complicated relationship I had. By relationship I mean platonic but it brought things out of me. 1st, I knew of her already when she first began to work with me. She was a friend of my brothers so that became the quick, easy common thing we had. Which is great for me because I’m not the type to rush over to new people. I wait for a genuine interaction to arise as we’re mostly busy. So our friendship happened naturally. I knew I would like her because my brother did and I take my brother’s stamp of approval. The problem is that I began to feel things towards her. Now I’m a very introspective person so when I started feeling these things I wanted to make sure I didn’t have bad intentions. I had to be careful because she was friends with my brother and I didn’t want to set a bad vibe. But everything was very playful and chill for the most part. I ultimately decided that even if I did like her it probably wouldn’t be a great idea because of the dynamic.

Do we continued talking at work. We hung out once with another work friend who I was mildly attracted to, which ended with me in the hospital. But that’s a story for another time. I enjoyed talking and hanging out with C. A while after the hang out we started to stay behind after work and talk in our cars for hours (We would alternate cars). It was honestly one of the best times I’ve had with a friend. Our first time hang out just us two was due to a workplace drama that she was involved in. We ate and talked about it. The first time we hung out in the cars was way after that.

We had nice conversations. She would lead most because I’m more of a listener and enjoyed hearing about her life which, compared to me, was more interesting. She told me of how something’s she’s been through have affected her thoughts of relationships and people, to which I agreed with some and combated others. It was during these times my feeling began to rise. I felt she deserved to go through good memories and be treated right, and that maybe I could be that for her. But the thoughts of ruining a friendship, and whether or not she even like me stopped me from advancing. Our talks had me confused of if she was ready to be with someone or if she even found me attractive. I had given her hints on how I viewed her but feel I was too soft with it. Maybe if I had been more aggressive in my words. I always aim to not offend women so I stick to words like cute/pretty/beautiful, rather than hot/sexy/etc.

I always feel cautious with people I work with too because I know they will spread info to other and don’t want it to be talked about. I prefer to keep that stuff private between the two parties, but the world doesn’t agree with me at times. Anyways I’ve gotten distracted. My feeling and my thoughts had me confused. Then a moment happened that changed it. C was talking about altering her body and when she did she showed me.

I was thrown off guard on a random ass day. I was pleased, of course but confused. She had spoken of lot being ready. I complimented her and let it pass on. After that day I thought about it a lot but the more I thought about it the more my brain was fogged. So much evidence on both side. Then there’s the work aspect. I also didn’t know what her intentions were. I wished for an easier tell.

I never got it. Had a few more car meetings. Hanging out, getting ice cream, telling each other really personal things. I felt we were very close. I had these feelings and thought in my brain every time we met up but didn’t act because I didn’t want to assume anything. Soon she would change her schedule and be unable to hand after work. She is a very hardworking person, which I admired. This made her very stressed, which I tried to combat. Now she’s seeing someone. I never got confirmation. If she was trying to tell me something or if her showing me what she did was just a normal thing she was showing a good friend.

Im not writing this angry or in a sad manner. These times, when we talked in our cars, were some of my favorite nights. Away from my home, my problems. I felt calm. Being with someone I cared about. I hope she continues to go at her dreams. I hope she’s found that person she was looking for, though a small part wishes she’d be with me first. Although I didnt “get” any, I leaned much about myself.

I learned how to categorize my feelings. How I really feel about people. I learned that I have a lot of self control, introspection, compassion, and empathy. However I also learned not to be ashamed of my thoughts or feelings and that it was natural. I learned that I’m not a bad person for how I feel, and i shouldn’t hide my feelings. Whether a good or bad outcome, I should have given myself the clear answer I wanted/needed. As I move forward I will try my best to be clear about all my feelings and intentions with people. As I think everyone else should be too.

Thank you for reading

JC

#psychology #thoughts #not #processed #mindset #mind #relationships #mental #mental health #ships #dating #wants #self work #self worth #self #self care #self love #self improvement #person #of #the #year #person of the year