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thebestcomicbookpanels · 3 months

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Love Problems and Advice Illustrated #16

#the best comic book panels #love problems #love flirt #flirt #love problems and advice

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sotwk · 6 months

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Thank you my darling Jordie! I'm sorry about your recent love life problems. As someone who had to endure a LOT of that before I landed "The One" (when I was almost twice your current age!), I can tell you that:

The pain really, really sucks.

But that's normal.

It will feel like it will never go away.

But it does. I PROMISE. It might take a while, but it will be a distant memory soon enough.

You will feel the joy of being in love again. I PROMISE.

You are BEAUTIFUL and WONDERFUL, no matter what.

If he didn't see that enough to cherish you as you deserve, then it's better that he's gone.

There WILL be someone who treats you well enough to deserve you.

And finally (not to sound Boomer-ish)... you are still SO YOUNG. So, so, so very young. There is plenty of time to grow and explore and meet more people and learn about relationships. <3

In the meantime, plenty of ice cream and comfort films and all the crying you want! Wallowing is part of the healing.

#sotwk tries to mother everyone again #sotwk answers #unsolicited love advice #relationship #love problems #breakups #heartache #spread love #naneth stuff #nana being nana

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sweetfreedom2107 · 17 days

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Maybe I wasn't in love after all. Maybe I just needed a muse.

A distraction.

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fireyourdesire · 1 month

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guys let go of a good one just for a hoe.

#i said what i said #boy problems #you let go of the good ones #to be hoes #good ones #love problems #heartache #breakup #heartbreak #he a hoe

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snowbodyatall · 4 months

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My boyfriend is getting out of jail on Tuesday, and I'm not excited which says a lot about our relationship I think. it's not that I don't love him because I do, it's just that he's done some pretty s***** things to me in the past like spitting in my face while we walk down the street three times, and just other generally abusive things. I try to keep in mind that that was while we were in our addiction, but he has a baby mom that he did pretty much the same kind of things too over the course of their 11-year relationship. That's not something that I'm interested in, but I didn't mean to fall in love with him. He didn't mean to fall in love with me either. It just sort of happened. I kind of feel like I owe him a chance to see what he's like while he's sober but he's already flipped out on me one time accusing me of cheating on him while I'm in all female halfway house, and I have no way of leaving this place, and knowing full well that I don't talk to anybody because I'm completely anti people. Like I truly do not like to talk to people at all and rarely ever give anybody the time of day. I have to really feel something special and somebody to talk to them. It's been really hard for me to even get close to any of the girls here and I've only gotten close to one or two of them my entire 4 months stay here. I also don't want to have to answer someone constantly about where I'm at what I'm doing and that kind of thing; I've gotten used to my Independence and I like my solitude- I'm in a period of healing and I'm THRIVING. A relationship is likely to take me out and by that I mean to make me relapse, and I do not want to ever stick a needle in my arm again over a boy. I don't want to do that for anything. I do not want to ever be that person again. I'm not willing to give up my recovery for anything or anyone. I have told him that in order for this relationship to work that he needs to put himself into intensive therapy to fix the things that are wrong with him because I'm not putting up with it and that I will have a healthy relationship if it's the last thing I do because I'm not going to have a relationship like him and his baby moms cuz that's not cute and I don't want it, and if that's what he thinks love is then he can really shove it, and he doesn't love me. I'm not excited at all for my boyfriend to come home.

#snowbodyatall #this is me #sobriety #clean and sober #mental health #boyfriend #self love #relatable #relationship #relationship problems #boyfriends coming home from jail #not excited #what im not #fuck what you heard #love poem #love problems #a manifesto of sorts #recovery

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writing-n-poetry-drabbles · 4 months

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“ I just want someone who cares.

Someone who knows me without asking.

Someone who understands me without me saying anything.

Someone who can recite what’s in my head word for word.

Someone who understands what I need and when I need it.

I want someone who cares.

Even if it’s not romantic.

I want someone. ”

#notes app #vent post #love problems #sad thoughts

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silver----swan · 1 year

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hi, I'm currently in 11th and i have some problem with my love life.

before the lockdown happened, when i was in grade seven, one of my good friends(male) had a crush on me. we were in the same cab and we had fun. as a person he's (was) really nice but he doesn't look too "handsome".

of course all that was three years ago and during the lockdown he had a girlfriend that looked pretty similar to me. like we might be confused to be sisters kind of similar. they were on and off again and again for a year. i lost all contact with everyone who was in my cab the day the lockdown began.

when the new school year began, us all being in tenth grade with the boards, i met him and something didn't feel right. i thought it was because of the time that had passed. but it was different. he started getting close to this other girl that was our age and had been in our cab longer than me. they hadn't been close at all until 10th grade when she (let's call her K) lost weight and got a curvy body. i on the other hand gained weight and lost my curves.

a few months go by and he doesn't talk to me and ignores me that K tells me that the boy used to like me in seventh grade. i felt weird. happy. but i kept saying i boy used to like you so I'm not sure if i would've felt the same if it was someone else. and i told K that i thought that he liked her and she says that he probably does.

K has also had a boyfriend for about two months which she didn't tell me his identity cuz he's not in her school but the boy knew. the boy probably have her advice on how to "advance" her realtionsbip and told K to join his tuition classes which K had not even thought about until November. K is really smart tho

I'm sorry for making it so long but i really need advice on how to proceed.

#love problems #fuck my liiiiife #fuck my life #hate him #hate myself #love #love is gone #ignored #why am i still alive #why am i like this #please #please help #this is a cry for help #need help

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longlostlisbon114 · 2 years

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I fucking fell in love with a guy who I talked to three times

#female hysteria #girlblogger #lana del rey #manic pixie dream girl #bpd problems #coquette #girlblogging #girlboss #lizzie grant #lily rose depp #love problems #falling in love

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bookquotesposts · 10 months

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Just like no means no, it’s always the man’s fault. Always. Now, you remember that.

- Mariana Adair, Faux Beau

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leesuhyo · 2 years

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Sighs

One of my friends (A) got into a relationship and we're meeting up on Friday with two other friends who are semi in a relationship

Vs me, the forever alone </3

I'll save the rant and venting for my own diary but I guess I'm just super depressed right now? There was a cute boy who came over for dinner last Saturday and I was talking to two of them about him (excluding one because she's a lesbian) and A was like oh bestie if you add him on ig now it'll look super sus

I'm usually not someone who would be affected if I'm determined but I guess it's because I don't have experience in this area so I'm just wavering

I keep trying to push away feelings of wanting a relationship by blaming a grocery list of insecurities and past trauma (see: commitment issues, abandonment issues and ✨more✨) but honestly at this point everything just feels like a lie to me. But I also know (mostly a premonition but it has truth in it) that if I chose the wrong person for my first relationship it'll end up terrible for me, and I have a bad feeling that my first relationship will end up very bad

Anyways. My rational brain tells me that I shouldn't get into a relationship for the sake of it - which is true and wise - and to only find someone I click with instead of chasing after some random person. But my dumb monkey brain propelled by hormones and affected by my friends are telling me to do the same thing because while watching people be dumb in love is fun, the same punchline gets boring after time. And also I guess the peer pressure from people are just growing stronger and stronger 🐸 can all my gay friends also stop fucking asking me whether I'm in a relationship or not

(perhaps I should feel pleasantly surprised that my friend seem surprised that I've never been in a relationship before, but then again he doesn't really know me)

Anyways I guess the conclusion is if someone could take a look at my 11H Chiron, 8H Scorpio Venus, 8H Libra Mars and natal Venus retrograde I'll love you to bits <3

#Love problems #Commitment issues #Self esteem issues #Anxiety #Unhappiness #Love is a ball and God is making me go fetch except the ball can fly #11H Chiron #Scorpio Venus #8H Venus #8H scorpio Venus #8H Mars #Libra Mars #8H Libra Mars #natal venus retrograde #venus retrograde #Who's blaming astrology for their love problems? Yes hi it's me

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doyoulikemynickname20 · 11 months

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The worst part of a breakup is that you can't read fanfic normally.

I want to cry because to idiots realized that they're in love, not because somethings make me remember my toxic ex .

#relashionship #broke up #love problems #fanfic #fanfiction #fangirl #toxicity #toxic boyfriend

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ceruab13 · 1 year

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Well, I was having a love question. Imagine you've fallen in love with your best friend, but she likes another person. Now, you don't want to date anyone because you can't fall in love with anyone else.

Then, a person likes you, it's everything you've ever wanted and your type, but even if you try again, and again, and again, you simply can't fall in love with that person and you still love your best friend.

That person, who's interested on you, doesn't stop showing interest, but you simply can't. You like that person, as a friend. You're still in love with your best friend, no matter how you try get rid of that feeling, and you can't never tell her.

What would you do? Please help

#love #i love her #what do i do #please help #love problems

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freelyranting · 2 years

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Got over him

I finally stopped worrying about this guy's feelings or replies, It feels indescribable good, I don't remember feeling so good in over 5 months, I let go SO much weight, I feel at peace! I hope everybody is able to reach this stage even if it's for some days, there really is a place of calmness in you.

So he's been messaging me being really cold these days or not even answering all messages, now I woke up with 5 deleted texts he sent me early in the morning; I can tell he's struggling but I can't just wait for him to decide to talk to me and face what he's feeling, I'd be crying all over the place when I have a life and little things to do too.

When he's ready I'll be here, but for now, I have nobody's feet to be at.

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littlegaywolf · 1 year

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sometimes you look at the person your ex chose over you and you realise you're just so much better than them. but it's not about how much better you are, it's just about... who your ex likes, you know? and that has nothing to do with you or your worth or even about her.

love is a crazy thing. matters of the heart aren't so rational. if love had been rational, people wouldn't be writing poems about it. what I'm trying to say is- it's okay that he chose her. maybe you are better, maybe you're not, but that doesn't matter. he's moved on, and it's time you do too.

xx

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iloveubee · 1 year

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Ok so one day i was walking to go at my bus station and i see by herself my gf, (and out situation Is complicated for psicological reasons we are on a break to get Better with ourselfes and my parents and her parents are controlling us)

And i say hi like usual, and started walking and i then i really wanted to go to her and Say that i love her or maybe kiss her but i was scared how She would react, that her father was close to where we where, i was really tempted but paranoia got the best of me.

Maybe when i see her again i Will try, but do to the circumstances i dought It.

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victorianwestpiano · 2 years

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I have a love dilemma...

So long story short, I’ve fallen in love with one of my classmates from the theatre institute where I’m studying since last year.

And I don’t mean like a “highschool crush”, what I’m feeling is real love. And I guess is the first time I’ve ever felt romantic love. Or at least, that deep. This guy (I’ll name him Dylan to protect his identidy) I known him since last year and I had started to develop feelings for him at the beggining of March when we started classes this year.

Is funny, ‘cause in 2021, when we started in the institute in Zoom, Dylan appeared as a very closed up or closed off person. He had trouble to open up to us the entire year. And when we came back into presential classes, at the end of the first semester, there was still something about him that it was a bit off. It also seemed he didn’t put enough effort to the works we were doing.

Maybe it was because he was very shy. I’m a very shy person too but I had a more easy time to open up with the rest of the class than him with time. But again, that’s not at all his fault, not everyone opens up at the same speed as others.

What’s more, there were false rumors about him bothering my other female classmates, classmates who subsequently left the institute, but for other personal reasons. Then I figured out that there were just misunderstandings and nothing bad happened.

Other moment when I realized I was developing feelings for Dylan is when we made our dancing class final exam alone together last November when we both danced an Evita the musical song. And it whent great! But also I felt a different connection with him, a sweet closeness.

Anyway, I realized how sweet, fun, funny and handsome Dylan is with the time, specially when I saw him acting. I still remember how he portrayed Proctor when we did The Crucible last year. I melted a little there not gonna lie. And when he temporarly played Creon in Brecht’s Antigone for a small group project, I was thinkig to myself when I saw him: “Oh, que hombre...” lol.

But two days ago, when we did our final project for the semester for physic theatre subject, I saw him givin a kiss in the lips to another classmate, Rebecca. I don’t know if they’re officially a couple or they were just playing around, but the image alone broke my heart. Internally I felt like I deserved it ‘cause I didn’t gave him the benefit of the doubt last year and I know he knows that there was tension around him around that time, but fotunately everything was cleared up.

Still, I feel he felt distance coming from me or that perhaps he felt I ignored him in some moments and maybe he is holding a grudge with me. I don’t know, that’s what I’m thinking. Maybe I’m exaggerating.

But honestly, now I feel depressed with this, I still don’t know if he and Rebecca have a relationship, I’ll comfirm it tomorrow. I feel guilty because I’m in love with somone who’s supposedly taken and I cannot even enjoy what I’m feeling for him because of it. I genuinely feel sad and I don’t know what to do. Should I pretend that I’ve never fell in love with him and just get over it? Being like rock that doesn’t feel anything so I won’t feel pain?

He doesn’t know at all what I feel for him and I don’t know if I ever get the courage to tell him in the future...

I guess, just to add some levity to the matter, I feel like Colette in my headcanon would’ve felt when she fell in love whith Holt. She first looked down on him, believing he’s not a big deal, not that interesting. Just a regular peasant. But in the end she saw what a wonderful man Holt is, and both fell for the other.

#love #love problems #unrequited love #stress #dumbo headcanon #holt farrier #colette marchant #Colt #colin farrell #eva green #i feel very sad with all this #being in love is not ALWAYS pretty #or easy #or simple #now i'm listening sad love songs #Im so cliche and stupid #i feel stupid

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