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icannotgetoverbirds · 2 years
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hello
more exmo stuff you know the deal
I think we need to talk more about the sheer grief that comes with leaving a cult, especially when all your friends are members (as is often the case with mormonism and almost always the case with jehova's witnesses).
I lost an entire community when I left, and I have to shoulder the burden of being the one to blame. I still miss my friends that I had, but I intentionally don't talk to them anymore because they're programmed to try and bring me back.
I know how it'll go. They'll find out I no longer believe, that I'm a trans man. They'll have to choose between accepting my identity and their doctrine. Some of them will do mental gymnastics that would make an Olympic athlete quiver in fear and manage to choose both.
Then, if they can stomach the cognitive dissonance of gendering me properly, they'll put on a brave face and keep trying to be my friend, all the while trying to shoehorn in just enough talk about church to bring me back without making it blatant that they're in missionary mode.
It'll twist their personalities beyond recognition as they try to reverse my deconversion, all the while missing who I was forced to be and maybe even who I truly was. They'll put real friendship on hold for a false promise of repentance. I have nothing to repent of.
And when they fail, they will blame themselves, and mourn me, too. I may as well save both of us the heartache and just leave them wondering what happened to me.
No matter what I do, though, how the hell am I supposed to cope with that?
And I wonder if it makes me selfish, to leave them clueless, when I could be trying to help them out.
I wonder if the young woman who was once my best friend, who is now in a lavender marriage, would be willing to listen, to reach for the love she deserves instead of settling for the arrangement the cult has relegated her to.
I wonder if the confused gay young man who was once an acquaintance would lend an ear, would rejoice if I told him that it does not have to be this way.
I wonder if the people I love and care about as if they were my own family would let their brother tell them the truth.
I wonder if it's not too late for my little brother, across a state border, being raised as though this is his only choice.
I have to mourn the people I love as they live, only hoping against all odds that they make it out.
Hoping against all odds that someday, someone will open their eyes to the cult behind the curtains.
Hoping against all odds that anyone I love will hear what I say.
Hoping against all odds that the confirmation bias will, for once, fizzle out in a puff of smoke.
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almostasenior · 1 year
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Book A Room With A Dinosaur View
Book A Room With A Dinosaur View
JW Marriott-Plant Riverside Savannah Georgia Chrome plated dinosaurs under the glass ceiling. Byrd Cookie Company Holiday window at Plant Riverside Plant Riverside is located along the Savannah Riverwalk. It offers entertainment for everyone. I hope you are enjoying the sites of Coastal Georgia and South Carolina. Thank you for stopping by 🙂 Alice Monday Window
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leslieslane · 2 years
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There is just so much to offer at JW Marriott Savannah Plant Riverside District! You have to visit Byrd Cookie Company! (I sold these cookies as a little girl when our schools had fundraisers. But I digress...) There are great restaurants, art galleries, dancing waters, and more! It's a concert venue too! Excited about featuring this beautiful Savannah Riverfront property in an upcoming article! Please follow me over the next several days as I post to social media! As customary, you don’t have to wait for the article! Please click on this link to make reservations at this amazing property! https://www.marriott.com/en-us/hotels/savjw-jw-marriott-savannah-plant-riverside-district/overview/ #LesliesLane #PlantRiversideDistrict #KesslerCollection #JWSavannah #luxuryhotel #hotel #travel #luxury #luxurytravel #luxurylifestyle #hotels #hotellife #luxuryhotels #travelgram #boutiquehotel #vacation #holiday #interiordesign #resort #instatravel #beautifulhotels #luxurylife #hoteldesign #beautifuldestinations #travelphotography #tourism #travelwriter #FodorsOnTheGo #Fodors #VisitSavannah @LesliesLane @PlantRiversideDistrict @JWMarriottSavannah @PlantRiversideDistrict @VisitSavannah @ExploreGeorgia (at JW Marriott Savannah Plant Riverside District) https://www.instagram.com/p/CffTyhRLhbX/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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fyefits · 5 years
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converse x jw anderson 🍬
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putthison · 7 years
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The Lightest, Easiest Bag Possible: A Folio
I love a good bag, but as my work has become more and more digital over the years, I find myself reaching for a folio more than anything else. Something just big enough to hold a laptop and its accompanying charger. Or maybe an iPad and a small book. In today’s world, where everything is electronic, I rarely find myself carrying much else. 
There are lots of advantages to folios. For one, they’re easier to manage than a traditional briefcase. If you’re running through the city, climbing in and out of cabs, it’s easier to reach your belongings when you don’t have to fumble through a bunch of clasps or buckles. Plus, unlike a backpack, a folio doesn’t have any straps that could ruin the shoulder line of a tailored jacket. 
The downside, of course, is that they don’t carry very much (by design). But who carries more than a couple of electronics nowadays? Lunch gets eaten on the go and I’m not health-conscious enough to carry around a water bottle. Plus, traditional bags can be heavy, which means I only break them out when I have to. Take it from the Japanese, who are often pictured with folios under their arms. If you’re walking around town all day, you’d be happy to not have to carry five or more pounds of luggage. 
Some options:
For a relatively affordable folio, browse Etsy. I had this seller make me a zip case last year out of kilim fabric (a traditional and colorful Turkish textile). She can make cases to any size, and lightly pad the interior for some cushioning, although her zippers are a bit basic. Still, you can hardly complain for $20 (seriously, they’re that cheap). I also like Byrd & Belle and HarLex, if you’re looking for something made out of felt or leather. 
For something a little nicer, but still equally casual, check La Portegna and Berg & Berg. Both offer simple cases made out of buttery veg-tanned leathers. Anyone who’s handled such leathers know, they scratch easily, but the scratches can also be easily rubbed out. Over time, you’ll find the light marks result in a handsome, well-earned patina. There’s also Postalco and Carga, although I find La Portegna and Berg & Berg’s magnetic closures easier to use. 
For something a little dressier, I like Frank Clegg Leatherworks. Theirs are as close as you can get to a briefcase -- good enough for corporate meetings, while still being lightweight and easy to manage. Tärnsjö Garveri also makes really nice tri-fold cases out of sturdy bridle leathers. The leather covered buckles give them a contemporary look. Similarly, Sterling & Burke, Swaine Adeney Brigg, Ben Silver, and Simpson have bridle leather cases that feel more traditional. 
The cream of the crop for me is Ortus and Chester Mox. Both offer completely hand stitched leather cases, made using a technique known as saddle stitching (the same technique Hermes uses to make their leather goods). The constructions are as nice as I’ve seen anywhere, and both producers can make bespoke cases, giving you the option of almost any material and/ or color you could want. Ortus does have a year-long waitlist, although The Armoury carries one navy case ready-made. Chester Mox is more readily available (and considerably more affordable). You can see the folio Chester Mox made for me here. 
There are dozens, if not hundreds, of other options -- see RRL, JW Hulme, and McRostie (which, incidentally, would be my battle MC name if I had one). Mr. Porter, SSENSE, Need Supply, and The Loit are also worth a look if you want some designer pieces. One of my favorite folios is from Margiela (now unfortunately sold out). 
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rpmtrish · 4 years
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FEATURES - MOPAR REDEMPTION - David Soloman - 71 Dodge Demon
FEATURES – MOPAR REDEMPTION – David Soloman – 71 Dodge Demon
Nothing is forever in the world of drag racing—records are broken, cars become outdated, and money becomes scarce. Spencer, Tenn. resident David Solomon has worked his way up the ladder, like many other drag racers, but that feeling of accomplishment and success was crushed in the fall of 2012, when his entire racing operation was stolen out of a hotel parking lot in Valdosta, Georgia. He had…
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7lettersormore · 6 years
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I got 2 sold pieces up in the building 🔴🔴 I believe I have one more available with other dope artist. Be there!!! Repost from @futuredeadartists - HUNDO & ARTlanta Fair Art Exhibition Closing Reception l Saturday , April 28 l 6-11pm YOUR LAST CHANCE TO PURCHASE ORIGINAL ART FOR ONLY $100! Miya Bailey EuGene V Byrd III Kevin A. Williams Charly Palmer Leroy Campbell Fabian Williams Nicola Badila The Makeda 70 Dot Keef Cross Lennox ave Rob Regis Dubelyoo Prima Colour Ceaux Kemet Alston C Brooks JW Paclipan Jim Alexander Lord Yatta Kaya Faery Kirk Henriques C Flux Sing Tuki Carter Maurice Evans Phyliss Iller D Hodges Ren Jamaal Barber KAA Omega Ruth nJr Kat Goduco Eric Nine Ruby Chavez Goldi Gold Quake Solo Yuzly Truth the Creative Darrien West Jeff Riggan Mirage V Torry Holmes Chase King Prima Colour Mowse Wellsty TK Malika DeShon FUTURE GALLERY & Gallery Life Studios 1690 Thorne Ave SW, Atlanta Fort McPherson-Show ID at Gate #HUNDO #ARTlantafair #futuredeadartists #artlantagallery #supportlivingartists #artshow #atlanta #futuregallery (at Fort McPherson)
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photosofusly · 7 years
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Video: The Making Of Lil Uzi Vert’s “XO TOUR Llif3” With TM88
Lil Uzi Vert’s “XO TOUR Llif3” is one of the biggest songs of the year. Over production from JW Lucas and TM88, Uzi Vert rages about relationship troubles with his ex-girlfriend, Brittany Byrd, among other things. He premiered the track […] The post Video: The Making Of Lil Uzi Vert’s “XO TOUR Llif3” With TM88 appeared first on Traps N Trunks // Hood Certified Gangsta Music Added Daily!.
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