#I've seen people hating on her

[dirtytransmasc]

no matter how hard they tried to pit you guys against each other, they could never make me hate any of you

just cause I like one, doesn't mean I have to hate the others. I love all 4 of my silly little babies.

#has anyone else noticed this? #I swear. sometimes it seems like this fandom insists that if you like one of these characters you have to hate at least on of the others #like people expect me (a spider lover) to hate Neytiri #like *no*. thats my girl. I want nothing but love and light for her. I want her to have peace so she can finaly heal and accept Spider. #or like. *those* 'tey and Lo'ak fans seem dead set on blaming every little thing on Spider. #they seem to think Spider fans can't also like 'tey or Lo'ak #like its not all fans. but its enough #leave my sillies alone. you can't make me hate any of them. #and like. don't kill me. but I've seen the occasional hostility between hardcore 'tey fans and Lo'ak fans... which.... ok then #avatar 2 #avatar the way of water #spider socorro #miles spider socorro #miles socorro #neytiri #neteyam #lo'ak #neteyam sully #lo'ak sully #neytiri sully

[beanghostprincess]

I think constantly about Pudding and Sanji being obviously parallels of each other and how fucked up it is that Pudding had to live the life Sanji managed to escape but she constantly gets hate online as if she hadn't been literally manipulated by her mother through the whole fucking arc. But okay. Yes. God forbid women have any sort of trauma response and if they do they're not allowed to have a redemption arc because of course they're extremely evil for making your silly baby boy cry and they don't have a heart even though it's explicitly shown in screen that they do and they regret their past actions.

#sorry every time i see people hating on pudding i have to defend her with my whole soul #it's a physical need it's a condition if i don't do it i collapse #sick and tired of people babying male villains but the second a woman does something wrong she's a monster #ofc what she did was wrong and it honestly fucked me up too but give the girl a chance she obviously regrets that and she's not like that #i mean she IS like that she's a little bitch and i love her BUT you know what i mean #also even if she were evil like that ??? i've seen so many people complain about her as if they didn't love worse villains lmfao #pudding is the representation of a teenage girl with mommy issues and a lot of drama going on in her life leave her alone #one piece #charlotte pudding #black leg sanji #whole cake island

[some-pers0n]

I need to like set aside a day to just study Sniper's character because the way he's treated in fandom VS how he's presented in canon material is so different and it's messing with my brain

#The first step is understanding that he probably wouldn't smell like piss #He always faintly smells like weed through I refuse to get rid of that #Scout would be the worst in terms of stench like that boy does NOT shower #The only time he wears anything is if Pauling is nearby and he wants to impress her #So he douses himself in seven coats of cologne he stole from Spy #I've been thinking a lot about how Snipes is portrayed in the comics and shorts as of late #With how he seems rather excited and amped in the Meet the Sniper video to explain his job a bit #VS how in fandom he's seen as a recluse who hates people #And ALSO how in the Meet the Director comic Sniper seems pissed off at the Director in question #Characterization is my passion <3

[lucienarcheron]

The idea that some people still think Nesta’s main traits are supposed to be bitchy, mean, and a hater…idk what to tell you but the whole point of her healing journey is to not be those things because all it did was hurt everyone around her and herself.

#nesta archeron #nessian #she herself thought it was wretched of her to behave this way because of her unhealed trauma #that she’s STILL working through #SHE didn't like being that way. #sometimes it's strange to see how people will glorify those traits of hers like it’s a good thing. #it’s not. that’s the whole point of acosf #why reduce her to some of her worst moments? #let her grow damn it #she can be a badass while not being an asshole #especially to the people who love her #and I’m not inviting hate or rude comments with this post. #if you’re not going to polite - save it. I’m not going to argue with you #and before any of you get offended thinking this is about you #it's not lol. #It's something I've seen more on instagram/tiktok than here but still see it and it's weird. #She can be firm and stand up for herself and a warrior and all those amazing things without reducing her to just being a bitch lol. #gp #random monday thoughts #I love my girl Nesta SO MUCH but she's so much more than her mean girl moments. #also knock it off with the weird cassian hate #he's the love of her life and her literal soulmate #'she's better off without him' #actually no she isn't lol. he's one of the MAIN reason she's able to get better and help herself #have some nuance and calm down lol

[add1ctedt0you]

Underappreciated how much worse is for jc that he couldn't kill wwx

#He couldn't kill him or save him. He can't hate him or forgive him #IT'S WORSE #'jiejie jiejie sorry. I couldn't kill your husband' s murder. a-ling sorry. I couldn't kill your father's murder' #THE REGRET #'if I took action before maybe jiejie and her husband would be still alive and jl would have an happy family...' #DO YOU UNDERSTAND IT??? #mar!nonsense #It's about what you think you should do/what others think you should do/what you want to do/not knowing what's right and what's wrong #Most black/white takes I see downplay mdzs's characters grief and tragedy imo #jiang cheng #mdzs #Also. I've seen people liking the takes that jc killed wwx because they want wwx bitter and resentful. Girl. HE'S bitter and resentful #He's just repressing everything. He's such an unreliable narrator #to each his own obv

[aleksanderscult]

So how do you feel about Alina's character?

My feelings for her are complicated at best, anon.

And only lately I realized that I'm more in love with the potential she had rather than her canon self.

In the beginning, I liked her because I found her a mood. Her humour and attitude were entertaining to me. But as the months passed I realized that her main personality traits do not fit in this fictional world.

She's irresponsible, immature (and nobody start the "she was a child/teenager" bullshit to me. She was a legal adult by the Grishaverse standards and you would expect someone that had a rough childhood mature faster), selfish and lacks common sense and empathy. If she were a side character these characteristics wouldn't bother me but alas she's the main character. The girl that both the Ravkans and the readers expected to bring positive change and balance with her efforts by the end of the trilogy.

And guess what? Nothing of that happened.

I have one question for Leigh Bardugo.

If you wanted to show how not all girls want crowns, then why did you pick the main character that everybody depends on to show it??

We have wars, a genocide, hate, corruption and imbalance plaguing the main kingdom of this story and for two books straight the author had the readers and the character herself believe that she'll change everything. But not only didn't any kind of change happened, but the main character herself didn't change LMAO.

Alina had no character development and when a main character doesn't have that, then the story itself can't develop. Leigh stripped her of her powers and made her go and marry Mal while the main problems still reigned.

So my feelings for the potential she had? A girl that turned her weaknesses into strength and decided to find courage inside herself instead of depending on her toxic "friend". A woman that embraces both her light and her darkness and decides to protect her people no matter what, even if she has to sacrifice her own happiness. Now that character I love and stan.

My feelings for her canon self? I feel sorry for her mostly. She deserved a better author that would allow her to develop and not take away a huge chunk of her soul. People say "Oh but she deserved happiness". Well, aside from the fact that her ending was NOT happy, when you create a world that is full of problems you can't expect to keep your MC happy AND the rest of the Ravkans happy.

Take Daenerys for example. Is she happy? No. Did she still sacrifice everything to fight slavery and keep her children safe and free? Yes. And that made her a very sympathetic character to the rest of us that has read her story.

Because it's not about "the main character deserves happiness" but "the main character needs to do the job she was assigned to do, no matter what". Main characters exist to get the job done (whether that is to free slaves, rule a country or kill the bad guy) and Alina did nothing.

#friendly reminder: there are people out there who are happy with Alina's fate 😀 #anyway it's not that much of the character that annoys me as much as the author #Leigh tried to “pass on her message” and instead created a disappointed end for all of us (the readers and the characters alike) #I've seen many people hate Alina and honestly I don't blame them anon #there are times myself when I have to lower the book and stare at the wall after she says or thinks something stupid #alina starkov #anti alina's wasted potential #leigh bardugo #grishaverse #shadow and bone #grishaverse trilogy

[millaysmaeve]

i'm trying to understand why there is this assumption that bertha will disapprove marian as her daughter in law. i know there's a lot of talk about larian being some kind of romeo and juliet, but even though bertha and agnes dispises each other, bertha never disliked marian actually it was quite the opposite. the only thing that could make bertha disaprove their union is that marian is peniless, but her position in society (coming from a old money family with a lot of conections) is more importan since larry is already rich (also marian is probably ada's heir now she isn't poor anymore). anyway to close this off carrie coon already said recently that bertha even admires marian sense of independency. so we don't know what will happen but until now there's no reason to think that bertha will be against their marrige

#the gilded age #bertha russell #marian brook #larry russell #i guess this is a larian post? #larian #sorry sometimes i got a little surprised with how little poeple think of bertha #she did nothing to marian to people expect that she will hate her #or that larry and marian will have to escape and marry somewhere else #c'mon i've seen someone saying that agnes will accept them before bertha did #leave my mother alone

[howtodrawyourdragon]

Wondering if Astrid's character is actually bad. Or if people see her, the female love interest, in a relationship with the main male character, see her girly and emotional side on top of the badass warrior side, see her get in trouble and be saved by her main male character boyfriend (completely disregard that he needs just as much saving and that she does a lot of that saving) and then call her character bad.

#fandom salt i guess #astrid's a perfectly well-rounded character #you know what she likes what she hates #you know her personality #what makes her happy what makes her angry #how she ticks #how she thinks #who does and doesn't respect #in which she's best and where her flaws lie #really the only reason i've seen people give is because this perfectly well-rounded character happens to be the male MC's love interest #httyd movies #httyd #how to train your dragon #rob #dob #rtte #httyd 2 #how to train your dragon 2 #astrid hofferson #fandom salt #httyd fandom salt

[bonebabbles]

What IS a redemption arc to these writers, exactly?

Because the ONLY thing that Clear Sky has changed about his behavior, by A Forest Divided, is that he's not actively murdering people. He's controlling. He's a bully. He's misconstruing the words of the StarClan cats to create a justification for why he should be in power.

He's even physically abusive again when he gets upset, later. And that's not even counting his sadistic, self-absorbed behavior in sequel books.

We keep getting passages like this;

Which keeps turning his murder and abuse into "Just A Little Mistake," explicitly PART OF LIVING.

Ghosts are tumbling out of the fucking heavens to powder his ass, forcing his mom to forgive him for absolutely nonsensical reasons, saying that killing Rainswept Flower was "predestined" and "just an accident" and he had no control over it, anyway(???). And now, here is the hollowed-out shell of Storm, who was driven out of the Clan while pregnant because Clear Sky's actions were getting innocent cats MAULED AND KILLED, insisting her abusive husband's behavior never drove anyone away and they just had their own paths to walk.

So what IS a redemption arc supposed to be to these writers?

If Clear Sky was NEVER actually that bad, in the 5 books we saw where he's a controlling, power-hungry monster who constantly resorts to physical violence, that what IS the change he needs to make? If it's both a mistake he's totally learned from, YET ALSO he's never done anything wrong??

Do you SEE how these are contradictory ideas? They can't exist together. It's like the writers are just grasping at whatever insane bullshit they can think up and throwing it on the page, because at the end of the day, what they do is write Fundamentally Good and Fundamentally Evil characters.

Because Clear Sky is one of their Fundamentally Good cats, he has nothing to confront. They try to say "the guilt is the worst punishment for him!" and also "He shouldn't feel guilty for anything he did!" and it leaves us with absolutely nothing.

#Im ngl. I think if youre a clear sky defender you can't think critically. #Or you haven't actually read this arc. #This is the most BULLSHIT thing I've ever seen written #I can't believe people actually accept this. I started off trying so hard to be charitable here #But I can't do it anymore I don't understand how people don't see this #they blamed his fucking mom for his cruelty #they blamed a WOMAN FOR HER ADULT SON'S ACTIONS #Im going to have a stroke #dotc hate #bones reads dotc

[nouverx]

Your art is soo incredibly pretty! Are we allowed to use it as profile pictures(obviously with proper credit)?

Oh didn't I answer this ask before? I'm pretty sure I did ahah, but as I said before, yes you are free to use my art as profile pictures! Credit is appreciated but not obligatory! I really don't mind

Oh and while I'm here, for everyone else, comic dubs are allowed too as long as it's credited! And I'd always love to see the result so don't be scared to send it to me! ❤

For reposts, I know I can't really stop anyone from reposting but just know that I don't really appreciate it. I post a lot here and a lot less on twitter for example, and most of the time it's because I'm not always comfortable sharing some of my posts on twitter because I'm not sure what reactions I could get,, same for ig, and I don't even have tiktok. I know some of you mean well and just want to share my posts on a wider audience on other socials (especially the funny comics and I understand why ahah) but please understand that I'm not always comfortable with my art circulating on other social medias, please try to respect that!

#ask #answered #I know it was just about pfp but I took the oppurtinity to adress everything else ahah #I'll eventually write it on my pin post soon so you dont have to ask the same questions again! but thank you for asking of course ahah ❤ #I've seen my friends get reposted on ig and get a lot of hate comment under their art where they didnt have any on twitter because #because it basically left her target audience and went to the reposter's audience instead and it was really hurtful for her #I don't really want that to happen to me #that's why I dont want my art reposted on a place I'm not ready for people's potential reactions

[arggghhhsstuff]

on another not i've just learned that the ship name for miles x hobie from ATSP is punkflower and as someone from the marauders fandom, i must say that i am proud of us.

#punkflower #miles morales #hobie brown #afrh #across the spiderverse #marauders era #marauders fandom #i feel like these two fandoms have a lot of people in common somehow?? #but you can't tell me that you didn't think of james when pavitr came to the screen #while we're at it #pavitr prabhakar #james potter #remus lupin #gwen stacy #gwen my love<3 if you hate her leave #peter pettigrew #regulus black #miguel o'hara #the amount of smut xreader fics i've seen about him is INSANE #the worst part? i wasn't looking for them.

[baneonn]

Blake: grew up fighting for her rights at a young age, had to hide who she was so she wouldn’t be discriminated against going to beacon, was emotionally and physically abused by a man growing up and was left by her parents in an organization they knew wasn’t going in the right direction 

Some people in the fandom: Blake grew up privileged and had no struggles because her parents now have a big home

For the love of god people Blake never grew up in the big house her parents have now. They didn’t get their big home until Blake was in her teenage years and even then she still didn’t live in it. Not to mention her parents worked to get their home now, nothing was handed down to them. And having a big home doesn’t automatically mean you grew up privileged, especially when your apart of a group whose rights have been taken away and are actively being discriminated against 

#the amount of times I've seen people call a person who is actively discriminated against privileged will be the death of me #nothing was easy for her growing up with racism and discrimination against the faunus #her father being chieftain doesn't absolve all of the hate and discrimination she faces as a faunus or how they're treated #her parents now having a big home doesn't mean life was easy for her growing up when she had to protest for her rights as early as a kid #rwby #blake belladonna

[septembersghost]

I get to stand on this stage every single night of this tour and watch the most beautiful things happen. I watch you guys make friends with each other, I watch you bond, I watch you give each other friendship bracelets...I see so many beautiful interactions happen, and I hear so many stories about friends that were made at these shows, and I watch it happen every night. It's the most unbelievable thing to watch. And so I was hoping to ask you that, as we lead up to [Speak Now TV] coming out, I would love for that kindness and that gentleness to extend onto our internet activities, right? So, what I'm trying to say is, I am putting this album out, because I want to own my music, and I believe that any artist who has the desire to own their music should be able to. That's why I'm putting out this album. I'm 33 years old. I don't care about anything that happened to me when I was 19, except the songs I wrote and the memories we made together. So, what I'm trying to tell you is, I am not putting this album out so that you can go out, and should feel the need to defend me, on the internet, against someone you think I might have written a song about 14 billion years ago. I do not care. We have all grown up. We're good.

-Taylor before playing Dear John

#i'm sure fifty people have posted this but i've only seen it somewhat taken out of context #and i feel like the full context matters #particularly the part about WHY she's doing this #“because i want to own my music” #red tv press and chatter really did a number on her #and i think we could stand to be more mindful and kinder #taylor swift #eras tour #thrown out speeches #hate the way the text was huge in the quote format and had to come back and change it 😭 #q

[moonchild-in-blue]

Can someone please either validate me or send me to the Corner of Shame? This is very silly but I'm wondering.

So. I was talking to my sister the other day about movies and such, and she told me of one she recently watched with this one actor. And I casually mentioned how much I hated him. Not in a "he's a bad actor" or "he's a bad person" way. Nothing to do with whether I find him attractive or not. Just in a "he looks the most punchable guy on earth and I have this irrational rage against him" way, to the point that I just can't watch movies with him without being annoyed.

My sister looked at me like I was crazy because, "what do you mean you hate the guy". And I told her yeah? That's normal? Don't you have at least one person you can't stand for no reason?

Sister was like 😬😬😬 No??? Which is wild to me, because I could easily name 50 (which I did - not 50 but we were getting close to 20 before i got too annoyed lmao).

Now she thinks I'm slightly insane (/j) (I made myself angry and may have referred to a few individuals as "stupid" and "obnoxious"), and I kinda don't believe I am the only person alive who feels this way. But also she's an incredibly empathetic extrovert, while I'm a very low empath socially anxious creechur so. There's that?? I guess ?? Idk.

Can anyone relate to this? Or am I the weird one?

Also wait. Little disclaimer: I am not generally a violent person AT ALL. Do i get annoyed and angry easily? Yeah. Do I feel like bitch slapping someone right across their stupid face? Yeah, sometimes, sure. Do I do something about it? Not really.

I can be real bitchy and extra sarcastic and petty SURE, but that's the most I'll do if I am legitimately angry. Mostly I just go to my room and cry 🥺 (crying when angry yes it me). So yeah. Before yall think I have unsolved anger issues.

#if you're curious. the guy in question is Thimothée Chalamet #look. from what i've seen he's good at his job and he seems a genuinely nice guy #nothing against him at all like. you go timmy 🙂👍 #i do however have an illogical boiling rage against him #i don't know what it is but i genuinely feel like punching his face everytime he pops up #maybe in another universe we were arch enemies. maybe i was his school bully. maybe HE was my school bully idk #obviously i would never do anything like that but if there's one person that looks like it could use a wedgie is him #and don't get me wrong. i DO feel about about it cus it's not like i'm choosing to be irrationally angry #and this goes for a bunch of other people #i just!!! 😡😡😡 #seeing him (as in his vibe and general presence. nothing to do with physical appearance) #is the equivalent of trying to use cling film while it keeps sticking to itself #you know that one family guy scene with Peter and the cling wrap?? YEAH. THAT. genuinely so annoyed #i've always assumed this was a common thing. as in. there's always at least one person that gets on your nerves for absolutely no reason #but i guess maybe not???? *am* i a hater??? #and btw this ONLY happens with either celebrities (in various degrees) #or people irl i've had some close proximity to <- and in this case it's always justified. i don't generally hate irl people out of nowhere #(okay there is ONE person in specific BUT i do feel slightly justified IMO. and in any case i always make sure to be as nice as possible) #(because poor girl didn't really do nothing wrong. i just have never vibed with her. i tried!! but yeah) #idk where i'm going with this lmao i might just ending up deleting it #whatever. don't worry guys you're all safe i love you very much and wouldn't slap any of you (unless asked you little freaks 👀) #darya talks to herself

[corfisers]

considering that i don't even go out of my way to read what people think it's baffling how many absolutely vile takes i've seen about hod. angela and binah get a lot of shit, gebura often gets reduced to dommy mommy killing machine with zero depth, tiph is a 2 for 1 deal because she happens to be a kid on top of being a female character, but with all of them i can at least tell why people hate and misunderstand them (different flavors of misogyny coupled with the lack of reading comprehension, the usual). hod tho? she's like a magnet for the worst misogynistic pieces of shit you'll accidentally see in a comments section while looking up something. it gets so bad that it circles back to being confusing. avid hod haters are a special type of guy to me, and i despise each and every one of them

#malkuth isn't mentioned because i don't think i've ever seen any bad takes about her lmao. same with carmen kinda? #also to be clear i have a bone to pick with anyone who passionately hates any of those women. duh. #with hod it's just so so bad and over what?????? hate you people #the opposite of this is waifu-fication but it's a whole other can of worms that i'm not opening today. possibly ever. #projmoon tag

[posi-pan]

Every song of mine is a queer song because I’m a queer artist. Does that mean that every song is “I am G-A-Y”? No. I think there’s gonna be a lot of room in my artistry to talk about things other than that I love women. And “I eat boys like you for breakfast” does not translate into “I hate men and I only date women.” It means this one guy is a d— and I can take him in a fight. I’m a pansexual artist, so I’m attracted to and in love with who I’m attracted to and in love with.

dove cameron is pansexual heyyyy 💖💛💙🥳

#dove cameron #pansexual #pansexuality #pan positivity #pan pride #text #mine #i just got into that 'boyfriend' song and watched some interviews and was like idk her sexuality but i'm getting ✨pan vibes✨ #and what do ya know!!!! also don't ask me what ✨pan vibes✨ are because idk. it's not like xyz traits. it's just a feeling #and i saw this interview on twitter and some people are like ''um didn't she already come out as bi???'' and like friends....... #people can change labels and people can use multiple labels #and don't get me started on the reaction i've seen from some people to her saying she's attracted to who she's attracted to #because i will fucking fight y'all if y'all keep purposely misunderstanding and just fucking hating on those types of explanations