#I’m sure there are valid reasons

[toxictranny]

hey sisters, i know u (my fans) were wondering what i’m gonna wear to my ex stepdad’s wedding because i’m best man and there’s gonna be 200 ppl there who haven’t seen me since i was single digits so it’s a rly big event BUT i’ve got no clue what the fit will be because the dress code he gave me: wear whatever you want. GDNKE.???ATFJJF...!!! ARE YOU OH-FUCKING-KAY???? WHATZVER I WANT ??????THEY WONT EVEN GIVE ME A COLOUR SCHEME WHAT THE FLCUKC ALso no i can’t wear a wedding dress it was the first thing i thought of but i asked my mom and she said that would b mean :/

#his estranged brother’s gonna be part of the wedding party so i’m ?! not sure how this will go. #they’re estranged because his brother has some sort of religious belief that lead to him hating me/my mom for having a kid with another guy. #stepdad met me when i was nearly 3 and his brother met me+my mom 4 years after that #the brother’s thing was that my mom/me are devilish or whatever #he also said shit about us stealinh my stepdad’s money but my mom was the breadwinner #tbh i don’t really understand this stance but it’s very common. he just Doesn’t Like Me. we’re not #biologically related and that’s literally the only reason #he thinks it’s disrespectful for a woman to divorce her husband first of all but second to let another man raise her kid #yawn. gross asf. BJT LIKE HOW DO THEY FEEL ABOUT ME BEING LIKE THIS?! #everyone knew i had a Condition ™️ but i didn’t uh #do anything? lol #i was seen and treated as A Little Weird. not like a third gender #we could all tell i was going with the sex and pronouns assigned to me simply because that’s what i had #so i THINK i’m gonna be valid but rly truly if someone tries to explain why there are only two genders to me i’m going toLOSE ITTTTTT #ooh i can wear a wedding dress to the rehearsal dinner lol #my stepmom got me a neon green suit jacket .? so #maybe that’ll come out #toxictranny

[juniperhillpatient]

on the one hand I want to respect all opinions but like what reason is there to hate travis unless it’s because of his gender or race? like how can you hate thee antler princess who ate his brother’s heart raw? how can you hate the doomed by the narrative sadboi who almost became a ritual sacrifice right after losing his virginity? I genuinely dgi like to me it has to be a race or gender thing I hate to be like that

#fandom bitching #this is literally petty #I know I’m wrong I’m sure there’s valid reasons I just don’t get because I have good taste #but sometimes… hm. anyway

[usereddie]

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#redownloaded bumble for reasons of boredom and trying to work out whether i’m actually ace or just out of practice #and lazy #but like. everyone tries to be cool. idk. that’s what my friends say. #they don’t reply right away and they swipe just for the validation of getting matched and that’s nice sure but like #idk how to not be talkative and. me. my bumble profile has a lot of answers abt fandom and shit cuz that’s what i like!!!!!! #i don’t wanna be fake but i also don’t wanna be a try hard? #my sister says it’s pretty privilege bc i’m funny and quirky and not weird and lame #idk if i’m pretty enough for that but i’ll take it lol

[obstinaterixatrix]

I HATE QUICK TRANSMIGRATION!!! I really do try to take the stance that broadly speaking within every genre there is likely to be even just one (1) compelling, masterful, worthwhile execution even if it’s not to my tastes, there are going to be explorations and subversions, there is value to be found etc etc etc but I just. HATE QT SO MUCH!!! I CAN’T STAND IT!!!!

#my ramblings #the only way qt would appeal to me is if it were a betrayal of the genre I’m sure #grits teeth. it’s just not for me. folks like it for their own reasons and that’s valid. #I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE IT!!!!!

[souredvalentine]

i was gonna post this on twitter but i don’t want to be skinned alive so i’ll say it here

the insane lengths some of you guys will go to just to justify hating espresseleine is fucking wild

bro just say you don’t like the ship and move on 😭😭 you don’t need to justify it or make up some shit like “they literally despise each other lmao 😋” “umm…. it’s really really toxic they have no chemistry at all” it’s. it’s not that deep

#some of y’all are making up the wildest shit ever and tbh it’s annoying me juuuust a little bit just a tad #idc if you don’t like espresseleine!! that’s for you to decide i’m not gonna force you to ship them or anything #but literally making up shit to make shippers look bad is. mmm it’s a liiiitle bit low #sure there are probably valid reasons as to why it’s a bad ship but you don’t need to go and lie now cmon 😒 #that’s it that’s the controversial take of the month

[doyunhos]

i’m all for a season two as long as we get youngwoo and junho back together next episode and no more break ups

#i just want to see them happy 😭 #no more heartbreak pLS #and i'm excited to see more of the cast #the only thing is we have to wait so long bc mr kang taeoh has to go to war 😭 #entering my military wife era 🫡 #anyways i see a lot of people hating on the ending of this show (even though it literally hasn’t even ended yet) and saying it’s bad writing #…… how? like truly the only thing that sucks is suyeon suddenly liking minwoo and his shitty redemption #redemption arc* #like yes youngwoo and junho aren’t together but they had a heart to heart and youngwoo’s reasoning is valid and in character for her #aren’t back together* #+ i’m pretty sure eunbin said the ending is heartwarming so 😀 #+ they weren’t planning on a season two until recently so tomorrow we will get some sort of closure so #extraordinary attorney woo #dramas #cay.txt

[hgduo]

Fucking bizarre that when you get your sideblog gets blocked by an artist tumblr decides to move all the fanart i queued from them TO MY MAINBLOG QUEUE 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

#im not mad about getting blocked I’m sure their was valid reason 👍 #I’m just ??? at tumblr like- why would you do that??? #I’m glad I caught it before it posted but now I’m super paranoid about stuff getting posted to my main #and I’ve just never realized lol #esp. cuz I shuffle my queue a lot on my main

[katnissgirlsmakedo]

my unpopular opinion for this site is that i like the live action disney beauty and the beast but i like to think i’m redeemed because i don’t like any of the ones after that.

#even aladdin which i soooo desperately wanted to like because one thing about me is that i LOVE my boy aladdin #you’ll never guess who fucking directed that movie. my worst enemy i’ve complained about a lot lately it feels like. #like i pretended like i had so many valid reasons to hate guy ritchie but frankly most of my hatred comes from the fact he messed up aladdin #i also have valid reasons mamet that he sucks but mostly i’m mad that he messed up aladdin. to be super real with y’all #*namely. i’m not sure what that word is i typed instead. look some keys are just right next to each other #beth.txt

[lepertamar]

ime pro-endos often... also don't engage with those metaphysical questions? this could be rarer than I've personally experienced but I have seen, like, "oh don't worry alters die sometimes and yeah that is souls dying but also it doesn't matter", which... Cannot possibly soothe fears and concerns! part of this might also be because most people (in americentric circles at least?) often have a hard time admitting they Don't Know something... "yes this is my experience yes it does raise questions no I have Not worked out all the answers" is not something ive seen people say much about any topic really.

question: how on earth is ‘sometimes a member of a system dies and that is a soul dying’ any different than ‘sometimes a real life singlet person dies and that is a soul dying’?

#op you sound like…you’ve never seen syscourse. i promise you that it is completely dominated by anti-endo aggression and unsaying. #while inclusive systems have FASCINATING rich nuanced in depth studying and reflection of their experiences #syscourse tw #multiplicity #now i’m Quite Sure if you only ever saw those surface level Validation Positivity posts that doesn’t come across but the reason those exist #is becuz of the widespread bullying and misinfo and shit #coal sings

[mildew-dread-mold]

ok. genuine question. do east asians with lighter skin (chinese, japanese, korean, vietnamese, and more) count as people of colour?

#i googled it because i wasnt completely sure #(as a chinese canadian) #and i’m honestly horrified at people saying we don’t count specifically because we don’t get harassed or killed #we do! it’s terrifying! #and i get it if maybe we don’t count as poc but that’s not a valid fucking reason and my questions are left unanswered!!! #as an east asian who's identified with the poc community for a while (maybe incorrectly?? but that's why i'm asking) #now i just feel alienated by a community i think we should be in allyship with??? #colourism and racism fucking suck and i don't want to detract from people being harassed and murdered #but frankly the way i've seen some of them talk about light skinned non-whites and especially east asians is fucking disgusting #might make another post in a sec elaborating on those last two points #but i do genuinely want to know

[ocheeva]

how do people walk their dogs without watching their little creatures the whole time… it is the greatest pleasure of my life to look at stella on a walk

#like yes ofc i’m taking care to be aware of the world around us #but i’m autistic so i simply don’t filter anything out #still!! i see people walking dogs and just not looking down at their pers and i’m??? #are you not struck with awe and wonder at the things they do #i just watched stella look at someone getting out of their car like it was an Event and my heart melted. she is so precious. #her curiosity is a miracle & she’s always happy and being around her makes the world more beautiful #i LOVE my dog holy shit #celeste.txt #stella #i’m sure there are reasons why people don’t walk with their eyes glued to their dogs!! valid ones! it just couldn’t be me

[tuulikannel]

New Assclass fic! I got to say I like this one. ^^ And here's the thing: I wrote the whole freaking thing (over 20k words) in five days. After the writer's block I've been struggling with, that sure felt nice. ^^

Summary: Akabane Karma was 10 years old when his parents bought a house in Tokyo. At first everything seemed quite perfect. The house was spooky and exciting, its neglected garden like made for jungle adventures. If only his parents had stayed there with him and not just left him with a nanny… but at least there was this other kid living in the house too. Shuu was pretty weird, sure – he studied too much and never wanted to go anywhere – but despite everything, Karma was just happy for the company.

#I would really want to tag this as karushuu #for reasons XD #but that’s a bit misleading I'm afraid #(still valid!) #you could make a stronger case for #karmagisa #but as they’re about 10-11 y.o. this isn’t really a shipping fic #I’m not sure if I should add this tag… #but I guess it’s kinda obvious so: #Ghost!Gakushuu #assassination classroom #akabane karma #asano gakushuu #shiota nagisa #my fics #karma akabane #gakushuu asano

[heartbreakfeelsogood]

insulting cities and calling them a bad place to live because the people who live there tend to be lower-middle class is fucked up, just in case anyone didn’t know that already.

#i’m so pissed off over this stupid fucking video i just saw literally dragging the city i grew up in #and none of the reasons were valid. idk how people find that funny. #like one of their reasons was what peoples houses looked like i literally wanna fuck someone up rn #it’s just like any city there’s good and bad parts but that doesn’t make anyone who lives there less deserving of respect #literally every single critique they had is just what living in a city is like. could say the same things for boston i’m sure. #op

[thatsamoodrightthere]

Here’s a snippet from chapter 13 of Only Love Can Hurt Like This - just because everyone has been so lovely and supportive. I’m also terrible at remembering to drop extracts from upcoming chapters 😂

“Who do I lodge a complaint with? Because I do not have a bullet proof vest Kinn and I’m pretty sure Big doesn’t have one either, which is just stupid.” There’s an answering agreeable yell in the background that Kinn is certain is Big.

His face hurts. It’s at that moment that Kinn realizes that he’s smiling and from the pull and ache of his facial muscles, he has been for a while.

Trust Porsche to turn him from near hyperventilating to smiling like he doesn’t have a care in the world.

#chapter 13 snippet #does this hint at my saltiness #at Big’s unnecessary death? #why yes it does #sorry not sorry #also thought it was stupid no one was given bullet proof vests #in the final episode #but I’m sure there was a reason #a stupid reason probably #but no less valid for it #kinnporsche #big who deserved better

[thenobleclearlightbulb]

Can I just say that I hope to god the actual abusers and people like Kyle Rittenhouse try to sue for defamation after the Depp v Heard case. You have to prove that what was said was wrong and that it was said with malicious intent. Do they really think no one’s going to find out more about who they really are when lawyers start looking into their past? Do they think their victims are going to be lying about their ptsd and ones like Megan Thee Stallion are going to have doctors say it was self inflicted? It takes a special type of selfcenteredness/narcissism (one that imo Amber Heard suffers from) to ignore those whose lives have be destroyed by their lust for power. I feel bad for the victims who will have to readdress their trauma to satisfy these people’s stupid wish, but they should know that they’re not Amber Heard and many of the people cheering ‘justice for johnny’ want to believe victims when they come forward and only switched after her story made no sense with all the evidence. Having one picture of a split lip or one doctor finding scarring is worth more than 100 videos of a possibly puffy face or a red face that has been altered or your abuser with drugs. And that is true to all the alleged victims who the media has said dropped cases against their alleged abusers. You are not Amber Heard. You are not going in to tell an unbelievable story of how you covered up and broken nose and split lip with make up. You did not buy the person you thought would kill you a deadly weapon (or at least you didn’t after realizing they might try to kill you). You did not send a video to the paparazzi and then claim you didn’t. But if you are in the 0.00001% like her and are trying to play the victim as a form of revenge or to get money its a good thing you dropped your case. She’s already fueled enough people who think victims are all liars and we don’t need to give them anything more.

And to anyone who hasn’t watched the trial I invite you to clear your head and take a couple of weeks to listen before making a decision on the matter. If you think Depp is perfect or Heard wasn’t at least majorly exaggerating then you haven’t watched it. The courthouse website should have all of the evidence in an unbiased format as well

#heard v depp #depp vs heard #depp v heard trial #defamation #seriously why does rittenhouse think he can sue the media for calling him a murderer #he is a murderer since self defense is a murder defense #I’m sure the dude has more guns now despite carrying guns leading to him killing people #super disappointed in all the dv organizations taking heard’s side when her accusations don’t come anywhere close to what happened #she would have won if she said he’d only ever caused bruises and he never hit her face #since those rings would have destroyed her bone structure and she still looks beautiful #I’ve seen victim after victim who’s watched the trial say they see more of their abuser in heard than depp #there’s no reason for these companies to be siding with her aside from the fear of feeding the misogyny machine #which is a valid fear that I have to but supporting liars just fuels the machine further #the only fix is to be truthful #teenage boys that see feminists supporting a bad liar will decide that feminism is the problem and not that one individual #women like heard might feel empowered knowing the movement will never desert them no matter what they say #heard is a poison in the movement to end abuse #she shouldn’t be replaced by depp but the movement should be throwing her as far away from them as possible #the movement needs to support actual victims #not wannabes #ok I’m done now

[boydykedevo]

Salt warning for the tags

#disclaimer all headcanons are valid I’m just being an ass about one I personally dislike if you do like it good for u I sincerely mean that #anyway I get why ppl like to see Am.ber as De.vo’s mother figure #like I’m well aware shipping them puts me in the minority I’m chill with that #but honestly i just can’t see him wanting a mother figure. his last one sucked and I don’t think he would take kindly to a new one #he has issues with authority. ESPECIALLY mother figures. he doesn’t want another one. #he wants to be seen as an adult. he wants to be an equal to Am.ber. #that’s half the reason he’s pissed at her. cuz he feels like she doesn’t see him as an equal. #and I don’t think she WANTS to be a mother figure. i don’t think she would be good at it. she’s clearly NOT good at it. #she doesn’t want to mother him. she gets annoyed whenever she feels like she has to. #i love their relationship. like it’s really interesting. obv I like the idea of it being romantic but even in canon it’s great #but she’s NOT his mother figure. that’s a read that goes against so much of the text. #i think people just see a group that could be a found family (not YET they aren’t that for sure) #and try and fit them into nuclear family dynamics. #which is BULLSHIT. the reason found family is great is cuz it gets AWAY from strict definitions of family. FUCK! #also something to be said about an older female character being immediately assigned the role of mother but that’s for another time #anyway salt over. #isfs