Listen: if you’re questioning your sexuality or gender and having a really difficult time figuring stuff out, you might wanna try reframing your thinking from “what am I?” to “what do I want?”
If you want to have sex with men, do it! If you want to go on hormones because the physical affects are desirable to you, do it! If you don’t want to have sex at all, (don’t) do it!
Labels can be a wonderful thing, don’t get me wrong, but they can also cause you to second-guess yourself into paralysis if you give them too much importance. You can always label your identity later on if you want to, but, in the meantime, don’t let stress over which label is “right” stop you from doing what makes you feel fulfilled in the here and now.
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Kaveh angst fic idea where you were classmates with him in the Akademiya where you both became close friends and had a secret crush on each other. But your project partner confessed to him before either of you were able to. Kaveh felt guilty about rejecting her because she was already miserable about failing a class or something like that, so he went out with her. And then you couldn't bring yourself to talk to him anymore after seeing him with someone else and then circumstances caused you to lose contact with each other.
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Changing my icon to sparkly 1977 Elrond for an unknown period of time in hopes his wise wizard vibes will give me the motivation to study in the following month and also because star crown Elrond is always a blessing to see
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I’m so incredibly amused by the fact that we’ve now got two reformed villains in our campaign who are awkwardly trying to figure out how to live a normal life because my ridiculous bard/warlock, Heidan, has an endless capacity to love and accept people.
I’m thoroughly enjoying playing a complex character who is both too damn cunning for his own good but also just so incredibly genuine that no one with any good in them can resist him.
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