#I have so many attractive friends

[comradekatara]

okay be honest. if someone as hot as sokka (is constantly established to be by other characters within the text) said these exact words to you, you would also fall in love with them on the spot and/or be overwhelmed with uncontrollable horniness. yue is valid

#id in alt text #sokka #yue #sokkaxyue #i am once again thinking about Them #they are sooo cute its unreal #and i will not apologize for that!!!! #also yes. i know im gay but i have many straight friends okay #or well. i have one straight friend but she's REALLY straight she is the heterosexualest woman in the world #so i know how their minds work #and besides. man or woman there is nothing hotter than an attractive person who is also an awkward dorkass nerd #it's like catnip to us (girls who probably have something wrong with them but are really good at masking it) #frankly it's the kind of thing everyone i've ever dated or ever considered dating has said to me #yes i would like to do an activity with you!! at a place!!! for some time!!!!! #anyway. my point is #people clown on sokka for this (namely; katara) #but it would work on most if not all of you #i guarantee it

[me-asterisk]

silly little doodle dump while i slowly slowly work on other things.

me: simon has resting neutral expression and rarely emotes also me: simon makes the stupidest expressions imaginable at all times

#fhr #my art #sidestep #my ocs #sidestep: simon #there are so many art ideas in my head... and so little time to do them.... #i need to figure out ranger designs #fhr infinity train redraw? #fhr jojo redraw? #oh and hollow ground #they have a design i jus haven't posted it #AND I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO DRAW OTHER PPL'S SIDESTEPS #SAY SOMETHIGN IN THE TAGS IF IT'S OK FOR ME TO DRAW YOUR SIDESTEP OK #everyone has been so nice.... i want to interact w people :3c #anyway victor and mortum are Just Friends. he's attracted to her but simon doesn't realize that's what it is. #i hope it's ace in the other body.... i'm not sure that it is but i want them to hang out. sibling ended with hollow ground. now ace is my

[kittanthaloselorashield]

Tanthamore Text Posts Jade’s my…

… We’re friends

#For real I have an essay about them being friends #And how Willow normalizes queer attraction #THEY ARE FRIENDS #It’s just not the right word anymore #To encompass their relationship #But it’s what they fall back on in discomfort #I just yeah #So many feels #willow 2022 #jade claymore #kit tanthalos #tanthamore #jade x kit #kit x jade #willow #save willow #willow series #savewillow #waiting on willow #willow textposts #willow text posts #Willow memes #unhinged princess x unhinged knight #disaster princess (gender neutral) #jade <3

[wlw-cryptid]

oh you want me to bring my friends now, hm? pretty girl bodies all soft and flushed with pleasure? pressed together? feeling each other? dripping with so, so much cum?

#i cant believe you came back but i am once again so thankful #ive been rereading the other ask a lot #she speaks #anon #asks #tentacles #i simply want to feel the strength and the tenderness of some big intelligent tentacle monster who soaks in my warmth #maneuvering me however it desires #i do love the idea of the tentacles pooling us all together. thats cute for some reason. piling us closer like kittens #even if it helps its grip or whatever practically #tangent tho. how many friends are yall having who you would casually fuck #bc for me personally theres always been a thick separation between people i am purely friends with #and the people i am or could be interested in romantically #not to say i dont adore my friends w real love or that me and my honey dont have a deep friendship alongside our attraction but #idk i just think about my Friend group n i cant picture having steamy gay sex #my mutuals on the other hand i am looking at you with HUNGER

[skunkes]

what they dont tell you about being incredibly introspective is that you'll think you're done making realizations and then you'll just make more realizations always all the time forever

#dude. guess who just found out the reason he's incapable of imagining himself in a good relationship #is bc he's never witnessed any growing up. #my parents dont have a relationship i would want #only one of my siblings is married and her husband sucks. other has never dated while ive been alive (im much younger) #+ my other sibling had. a strange relationship i wont mention details of but this was also like 5 yrs ago and he hasnt dated since #i have very few close friends and none of them dated as we grew up either #or even with some its like. i wldnt want your relationship lol... #the only Good relationships i see are online from ppl i follow. and then i cant trust em bc we only see the Good Parts #so like. do they even exist... i dont think so.... #if i wasnt starved for physical touch id consider throwing in the towel permanently #but idk maybe ill buy one of those pillows with the arms that wrap around you #and a few more **** and try and cope with it in kenland or al's farm forever #talkys #im still 100% serious about ppl who have good relationships being lucky bc i feel like #the chances of finding someone you mesh with and are attracted to and can communicate with. are so slim. #i can barely ever find someone meeting one of many requirements. i can barely make friends. etc

[revvethasmythh]

anyway here’s a tiktok taken of our cat back in december just because it’s great and it should be shared (sound on for maximum effect)

#it should also be noted that my friends and I have routinely said that #‘’he’s a cat who looks like he should be named Ludinus’’ #and like. he DOES #anyway this is my fave video of him. ludinus looking reindeer cat #(his name was Otis. but I did jokingly call him ludinus many many times) #(and pls don’t ask why he’s an outdoor cat we attract many feral cats in this area and can’t bring them in b/c allergies. so)

[notmoreflippingelves]

Thinking about how aggravating it is that fandom boils down a lot of really fascinating Ace Attorney ships to "oh, so we're copying narumitsu's homework again, are we?" --as though the only reason that someone might find plausibly these ships (romantic and/or platonic) interesting is surface-level similarities to the fandom juggernaut pairing and not like the compelling characters and their established bonds in and of themselves.

#aa salt #ace attorney #imagine acting like your ship 'invented' devotion to an old and once-dear friend and wanting to save them from the world and themselves #and being completely unironic about it #and assuming that other ships that involve this very very common and established trope are just 'copying' your fave #n@rumitsus do this all the time and have the audacity to act all *shocked pikachu face* #if someone dares to suggest shipping cykesquill or nahyupollo romantically #asoryuu gets a pass but then some people turn around and dunk on baroryuu and asobaro on their behalf #which also sucks b/c honestly i prefer both of those ships #but i like asoryuu well enough and they deserve better than being reduced to 'what if narumitsu in period drama setting?' #sorry not sorry but #cykesquill; nahyupollo; asoryuu are all arguably more interesting takes on the dynamic than the basic blueprint set by n@rumitsu #krisnix and langworth also fall into this albeit not in a paralleling n@rumitsu's arc way #but specifically kris and lang being reduced to being phoenix's and miles's 'type' and/or temporary displacement by the nm shippers #kris may be rich; smart; quiet; and glasses but he is so much more than 'miles but evil' #meanwhile literally all that phoenix and lang have in common are spiky hair; heroic; and sassy #and yet it's just assumed by much of the fandom that this is the case and its just phoenix or miles only being attracted to kris and lang #b/c of surface level similarities to their true beloved #i just...i'm tired #why do so many of y'all have to filter everything about every aspect of this fandom through a n@rumitsu lens #do not even get me started on 'that man' nonsense #fandom makes aai 1 entirely about one (1) line and totally ignores all of the more interesting dynamics for miles w/ gumshoe; lang; + kay #phoenix isn't even in the damn game and yet people are fixated on a single vague allusion to him instead of all the other great stuff #happening w/ miles' character in the game that have little to nothing to do with phoenix #not tagging n@rumitsu b/c omg can you even imagine? #but i guess i can tag the others #cykesquill #nahyupollo #asoryuu

[wakeupthemembersofbylernation]

It’s wild how so many people are fundamentally incapable of recognizing queer characters unless they explicitly say the words, “I’m gay” on screen

#like season 1 and 2? sure maybe you can overlook Will’s queercoding and believe it’s just a result of the bully’s homophobia #season 3 is a huge stretch but it’s hypothetically possible to believe will is just a late-bloomer or asexual #but how on earth do you watch season 4 and still genuinely have no idea will is gay? #and this is not a rare occurrence #it’s astonishing how many people you have to literally explain the van scene to cause Will’s sexuality never crossed their mind #you didn’t see him staring longingly at his best friend the entire season? #some people’s minds are so aggressively heteronormative that they assumed will had a crush on el #and even after noah has explained that will is gay 50 million times #people still are confused and think it came out of nowhere or they quickly forget #somewhere there’s a fan who doesn’t keep up with stranger things news and doesn’t really use social media #a fan who is the exact opposite of chronically online #who hasn’t heard about NOAH coming out let alone Will’s sexuality #who will walk into season 5 and be utterly flabbergasted when Will comes out as gay (let alone when Byler happens) #and they’ll say that Will being gay is a huge plot twist they never saw coming #and they’ll be 100% sincere #and that’s truly baffling to me #do people think shows just randomly include melodramatic rain fights where ‘it’s not my fault you don’t like girls’ is said for no reason? #do people think the show went out of its way to show wills rejecting the attractive girl in his class cause they were in a silly goofy mood? #I genuinely wanna know what goes on through people’s heads when they have no gaydar or media literacy #even today there are people who still think romantic stobin should happen and think that Robin isn’t really a lesbian #will byers #byler

[enden-k]

im sorry to hear people are stomping all over your boundaries, big props to you for sticking up for yourself and putting your foot down. I hope you're doing ok (/gen)

on another, hopefully happier note, i noticed your info post mentions that you self ship! I'd love to hear about your favourite self ships if you're comfortable talking about them some time?

i actually never did or had interest in this but then haitham waltzed in so hes the first and only one (this whole thing flusters me so its smth i indulge in for myself in private by reading or daydreaming or sometimes i babble and ramble about him very in depth)

(most hkvthm things i draw is just me going 'wish that was me' and drawing it LMFAO)

ohh also same w kaveh but in a slightly different way than haitham (theyre both the only ones) i want them to hold hands. i want them to hold my hands. there

#i dont feel attraction to ppl irl mostly bc im just not comfortable around ppl #and the ones i am are my friends and theres obv no romantic attraction #so when i saw haitham and learned more and mroe of him and how he and i share so many traits and ideas and things it was #instant comfort and the feeling of being understood #that its like #if he was real i would seek out his warmth and presence instead of getting away frm it like with my ex partners when it was too much for me #knowing that he would understand me therefore knowing how to handle me without making me uncomfortable or upset #uhh so basically. he made me realize all i want is just someone who perfetly understands me and knows how to treat me #when to come close and when to give me space #perfectly knowing me and reading me #i cant speak and in the rare moments i am able to im often struggling to form my thoughts into sentences that make sense #so he would still understand and put together that garbled mess and know exactly what i mean #not misunderstanding and acusing me of things or tones i never said or used #ppl and things messed me up quite a bit in the past that im having trouble w lots of things unless im alone #only when im alone i feel truly comfortable and safe bc nothing can hurt or upset me but even then you kinda realize in some moments that #you actually want someone with you but it has to be smn you trust and who knows you inside out and all that #i dont have anyone like that and idk if i ever will but rn this character is jsut rotating in my head giving me these things i crave and #thats enough #sorry that was a lot of gay rambling there but yea idk if it sounds stupid or nah but my #mental health issues got way better and balanced ever since haitham so he really #grounds me and gives me strength and comfort to deal with things i would have be unable to do in the past year #bc even if i dont have smn who truly knows and understands me #inside me there is someone #reply #tags tbd #in case i get embarrassed LMFAO

[skateisawesome]

i really dont want this to come across as homophobic but i have lifelong issues with tone so if it does can someone tell me and ill fix it!

so i have spent the last 4 years of my life coming out as a straight person. sounds stupid.

but basically i have had so many dating rumours surrounding me and my friends that i used to get asked at least once a week if i was gay. i dont know what im doing thats making everyone think im dating my friends but apparently i do it to everyone. i have been the queer awakening for several of my close friends who fell in love with me and through that discovered that they liked girls.

all of that is fine and i can deal with it. im happy to keep correcting people and i've been working on being less flirty with my friends and putting effort into it. what's been pissing me off for the last year or so is the ongoing assumption that i am gay and i just dont know it yet.

i have been outright told by people "one day im going to kiss you and youll discover you like girls"

it made me feel uncomfortable and weird and im gonna be so honest here. i just dont think i like girls that way. i really thought about it and i dont. but i would (and still am) getting told by my close friends that one day when i 'eventually come out' they are all gonna sit around and say i told you so.

but i also wanna say that if i ever was to discover that i was not straight, it would be pretty hard to come out to any of those people, to any of my friends. theyd be so aggressive and constantly tell me that they knew or that it was old news. and so it kinda feels like even if im questioning things, ive been forced to reiterate that im straight so many times that being queer doesnt feel like an option anymore. its like i was forced to decided gay or straight when i was twelve and then people have harassed me ever since and now im not allowed to change what i chose even if i was to be seriously considering not being straight.

to me that feels really fucking toxic and its just upset me for the longest time.

and at this point i dont know what to do. like i cant really retaliate or say anything without people thinking im homophobic (which i swear to you i am not and my intention is not ever to harm that wonderful community in which so many people i love exist). i never want to hurt anyone but like what the fuck do i do!

im so sick of this. its also so weird and i kinda doubt that anyone else has really had this problem lmao.

i would love some opinions. look idk why im posting this. i dont care. i want people to tell me im justified but i also want people to tell me why they think im not. i want someone else to tell me what to do because i dont know.

#im just sick of repeating myself #and i feel like #tumblr is the wrong place to complain about this #but its not like i can do it to these people #i have had nearly all my friends assume im gay #i have had family members assume that i am gay #i have been asked out by random girls on the street #i have been asked out by girls on the internet #what the fuck #what the fuck am i doing #what is causing this #why do i attract women #?? #SO MANY QUESTIONS #anyway #sorry for the rant guys #skate rants! #i will probably delete this later

[luvsavos]

random vent(?) in the tags, feel free to ignore i just have a lot of pent up emotions to get out today apparently

#mar.txt #it's weird being aro(?) and yet also longing for a relationship. maybe its just bc almost all of my friends are in one #maybe it's bc of how easily jealous i get #maybe its the fact that i'm constantly being reminded that i am nobody's most important person. there's always someone more important. #maybe it's just the all-consuming，gaping hole of loneliness within me #idk. #i don't even know if i AM actually aro or if i'm just so demi that i may as well be aro or if ive just had so many bad experiences that it #feels impossible for me to feel romantic attraction #a few of my ocs (shara and the alatreon) are how i think i'd describe myself; aro，but willing to be in a relationship provided the other #person isn't bothered by them being aro，bc they have their own equivalent to romantic feelings #i know i'll never have one though. for all my confidence and whatnot i still very much am insecure about my own loveability. because the #only thing life has shown me is that i very much am not loveable. all the way back in first grade ppl were already using me instead of #actually caring #'dating' me to make someone else jealous. so they could have a drug buddie. a fuck buddie. so they could try to manipulate me into things #because i was a young teenager desperate for validation and to feel like i mattered and belonged and they were nearly adults who knew they #could exploit that. i'm surprised i never had anything happen to me beyond being pressured into trying chew tobacco (awful and disgusting) #and doing it every time i was around my 'boyfriend' and his friends #the only two genuine relationships i had didn't last either; one lost feelings after three years and the other just sorta stopped talking to #me and iirc eventually picked up a boyfriend that was actually local instead of long distance #i am not worthy of love. i will never be loved in the way that my friends are. hell i won't ever even find a qpp(?). and that makes me sad. #to know i will always be alone. that i'm destined to die alone. but it is what it is i guess. i just wish it didn't bother me so much. #i wish i could be content in my loneliness and not be jealous of everyone around me. i wish i could accept that i will never be anybody's #most important person. that the only person i can or will ever be the most important to is myself. self love，yeah? ha. #maybe 2024 will have something in store for me. god i hope it does. but i doubt it will. more of my friends will get into relationships， #those already in them will stay in them and/or take a step forward in their relationship. and i will remain alone. just as i always have. #anyways. sorry vent over i'm just. ugh. upset today. emotions are stupid and i want a refund on them. i did not ask to be saddled with the #burden of feeling such intense，suffocating displacement and loneliness. i did not ask to feel these negative emotions so strongly. #i just want to be someone's most important person. i just want to matter.

[t4tails]

every time you call anthony perkins a bisexual icon i kill another hostage

#og post #tldr if u dont know anything about him: he was in exclusively gay relationships until he got married to a woman due to him willingly sendin #himself to conversion therapy after becoming convinced that his homosexuality was adversely affecting his happiness #in general as a bi man i think its incredibly disrespectful to him and the community to insist that he was bi #whether he was actually attracted to women or not toting him as a bicon is erasing his struggles #and anywag many close friends have stated he was gay. not bi. so if you HAD to shove him in a box it probably would not be that one! #*anyway

[cowsaresushi-coral]

i think characters look better when they have their clothes on ^doesn't like looking at men without shirts on

#coral yaps #2023 #most likely my most controversial opinion lol #it's different if it's a crop top or some chr that normally doesn't wear anything #if you have the ability to wear a shirt and you do not but you DO wear PANTS your aesthetic attractiveness drops and i do not care anymore #i think abs look like someone pressed a grill on your tummy i don't care for them. i'm here for snatched waists #why is your waist so small so other men can hold i- #how many posts like this can i make before i make people doubt that i'm ace lol #my friend might see this someday and she's going to laugh at me and then give me a Look.

[aro-culture-is]

Aro culture is wanting to complain about not getting to see much of a favourite celebrity in a TV series after a certain point until the new season next year, but not wanting people to think that means you have a crush on them. Alternatively, aro culture is wanting to gush about celebrities you like without people automatically assuming it's a crush.

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #the only way i'd assume it's attraction is like. if it's pretty hard to see it as anything else #ie an old 'straight' friend who was known to go on half-hour long rants about how much he liked chris... uh. the thor one. his abs. #at which point we were like uh. hey kyle. you... got something you wanna talk to us about? #unfortunately he was v much convinced he was straight and homophobic despite this being one of like. so many examples of us being like... #bro you're the only straight cis one in your main friend group and you're a band kid with drama kid gfs #this does not give us the impression of a straight man kyle. #he was a weird type of homophobic tho #he was like? perfectly fine with people around him being gay and trans and was pretty chill about respecting identities #like shockingly good about respecting pronouns including situational stuff for safety #for someone who on more than one occasion talked about how he thought gay couples shouldn't be able to adopt and shit like that #from what i last heard though i think he got engaged to the last gf of his i knew from high school #and i knew her well enough that i assume he had to have improved as a person if she's willing to have married him #... i cannot stay on topic lol

[br1ghtestlight]

realizing that you cant save everyone or be EVERYTHING for everyone in your life is torture. like no i should definitely be able to

#me and (redacted) in 2018 trying to be everybody's best friend or romantic partner despite having no attraction to them #bcuz we're both good at BEING THINGS for people. being what they need us to be. if somebody needs a best friend well then i can do that #i want to be that for them #regardless of my own personal feelings..... but there are so many people in the world and its exhausting #txt

[munamania]

right can i just. okay. lesbian is not a genre so im not looking to lump all these shows together. got that out of the way. im also not looking to pit queer people against each other so ok checking that off the list. i am however going to go ahead and throw the misogyny card out here because it’s fucking annoying how shows that center women, especially when theyre woc and/or queer, still just don’t take off even in progressive online spaces the way any shows with our darling young gay male couples will. i’m not saying that’s, like, the Cause of them being cancelled either because we’ve been shown numbers don’t matter. and many of the “”lesbian”” shows that have been cancelled were popular otherwise. just complaining xo!

#because well maybe many of these lesbian shows are not that good. and it's hard for people to care #but also sometimes they like are. or they're not 'good' but they're still fun and if the dynamics in play were primarily #attractive young guys i personally think they'd take off. but there's no way to like prove that so im just talking out of my ass #and ALSO. regardless of the lesbian aspect of it. many of you will watch such ass shows that have like no women or one woman in it #and hype it up to all hell cause that's your babygirl #I SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO HAVE A GOOFY STUPID ASS DYKE TRAPPED IN A SHOW THAT ISNT THAT GOOD AND HAVE FUN!!! #i deserve pathetic women!!!!! #and also. largely upset with the most recent cancellations because of the butches/masc lesbians involved #because that you know has a special place in my heart. okay whatever #anyway. let me also add that plenty of the people who hype up mediocre gay shows are some of the most annoying people on the planet #so yk maybe it's a gift in a way to just have the illusion that the relationship begins and ends with me and my tv and one friend #but. like. the thing is is some of the tropes/dynamics/etc i see on these shows would make people go ferallllll if u know...... #circumstances were different. but they just dont care. and also like. i think it's fair to be sad that ur just not getting more time #with characters u enjoy #that none of the money these streaming services get goes to even shitty quality stuff #honestly it's so smart of them to be like Ooo look gay people i have smth for u! and then get everyone online going #omg stream it so it doesnt get cancelled!!!!!! to maximize off it anyway. and then cancel before it can threaten their image or anything #and get too big. or be smth they invest in