#I feel like I’m being insensitive

[pipskippy]

reading dungeon meshi for the first time wheeeeeeee!!!!

#pip speaks #dungeon meshi spoilers #very abridged first thoughts #: #(i’m on chapter 12) #i like the main characters all well enough laios is very autism and he and falin remind me of beat and rhyme (blonde siblings where the olde #r brother is a little insensitive and the younger sister is very kindhearted and also (!!!!!!!!TWEWY SPOILERS) gets eaten by a thing. #TWEWY SPOILERS OVER anyways lots of respect for senshi and my intuition is great bc i assumed chi #chilchuck was not in fact a child and just a type of creature that looks young #although i guess maybe he’s a teenager but i feel like everyone is at least 20s by human standards? #marcille very failgirl energy. i like her hair and outfit. i like everyone’s outfits…i love the unabashed love of fantasy tropes… #but also the rly clever creative creatures like the shellfish armor??? that’s so awesome i’ve never seen anything like that. well i hvent re #read or seen that much fantasy….lol #i like how kui introduces the characters by showing their strengths/specialties and weaknesses and how they learn to work together. its cute #and effective and fun :) joys of writing #oh also this is just me being extremely biased about alphonse but laios always reminds me of him just because blond guy + armor + autistic + #carries a little book of stuff to eat in his armor + looks forward to eating etc. lol #speaking of fma i wonder if the leather shoe on the plate is a fma reference about ed and ling eating ed’s boot. or if #i just think about that any time someone mentions that you can eat leather

[wantbytaemin]

my god i just woke up from THE most detailed gentle and heartbreaking dream about jinki im in my bed like 😮 what was THAT

#so it was way too detailed for me to get into everything but it started with him being sad and like not wanting to speak to anyone #and i was sitting on the floor doing some writing & was like hi come here so he sat down like in between my legs and rested against me #i asked if he wanted to talk but he didn’t so i let it be and kept writing but couldn’t really focus #and then minho got there and was like ‘oh good he’s here’ and i was like what happened #and minho explained that like they were planning to do a world tour and album as shinee but jinki didn’t want to participate bc of the way #it was being handled #like there was a promo poster that was super insensitive towards jonghyun too #and a bunch of other things and then it flashed back to jinki filming a teaser for the tour and it was super intricate and too much for me #to type up right now but he looked so happy & smiley #like to make a point that he had wanted to be there until all the shit went down #and then it flashed back to me holding him and i stopped writing (or pretending to anyway) and just held him #there was no minho at that point and it felt like it was hours #and now i’m up and Shaken a little. not to be off the rails you’ll understand as I’m still affected by the dream but like it was so nice to #see him smile im still feeling the feeling like. relief and joy whew whatever he’s doing rn i hope he takes all the time in the world if he #needs/wants to & im grateful to have seen him smile even as a dream

[electricea]

Ryuji almost immediately wanting to apologize for scaring the girls is just 🥺.

#people sometimes like to act like he’s totally insensitive and never says sorry #but I think he feels bad about it almost immediately #he’s just dealing with so much stress and anger and helplessness #and he’s being forced to keep it up all pent up and under wraps #it’s not an excuse for outbursts or for scaring people #but I’m proud of him for recognizing he may have scared the girls and wanting to make amends. #headcanons

[mymitochondriaforpresident]

Residency…

Even my eyebag’s eyebags have eyebags at this point.

#oh the drama #residency #medicine #surgery #eyebags #please #and i’m doing double work right now since my co-res decided to milk the parental leave system #love that (/s) #and right when the new interns started #so they’re going to be on easy street when they come back since the interns will be prepped and ready to go when they come back #i mean eight weeks off… #and they aren’t even the ones who gave birth #and i’m on call as much as the interns are at this point #i didn’t even get a chance to breathe between PGY-1 and PGY-2 i feel like an extended intern right now tbh #and that isn’t right #sorry but all the extra work getting dumped on me isn’t fair #when they come back they better be ready to WORK #sorry if that’s bitchy and insensitive but what about MY well-being? #i needed to rant this out my therapist wasn’t enough i needed tumblr lol #and i did all this while recovering from a leg injury #if this dude gets the chief position over me i am going to lose it #personal #update: thanks for the hugs and hearts guys 💜💜💜💜

[moesartblog]

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#I just saw a post that pissed me off #it is so frustrating seeing posts complaining about lesbians being ‘forced’ to have sex with men #like I’m so sorry but uh lesbians lesbians and men have been sucking and fucking men particularly queer men since time in memoriam #and that doesn’t make them not lesbians and doesn’t mean they were necessarily forced to do it eaither #and this is not talking about the cases where that does happen #queer people of all sorts fuck and date and it will not fit into a neat box that makes you feel good every time #I hate the rising of Porto terf/radfem/transphobia rhetoric and the gender essentialism shit #sorry I’m rambling this is frustrating #also how fuckibg insensitive to bring of conversion therapy in relation to lesbians and gay men fucking each other consentually holy fuck #obviously if someone is being a fucking pushy ass and saying all lesbians should fuck men that’s awful and that person should be shunned #but I see these reactions to people just gleefully talking about the messy queer relationships they have or want to have or see #and people who do the whole nmlnm bullshit getting their emotions in a bungle #if you don’t like these opinions of mine please feel free to leave and block me #this may have not been coherent at points and is definitely vague posting about a specific post but it bothered me so much #forgot to mention the biphobia in it too #also I wanted to make it clear the cases where lesbians are pressured into sex with people they don’t wanna have sex with is Bad like it is #never EVER acceptable and the people who promote that need to be strung up #but this is not about those situations

[areyouwho-ithinkyouare]

me internally when i’m trying to respect and recognise that my dad has unaddressed autism that impacts the way he handles social interractions while also trying to not just excuse the shitty insensitive behaviour that has absolutely contributed to my mental health issues

#it’s like. haha yeah he handled that situation terribly but remember it wasn’t intentional and he doesn’t understand how that came across!! #i can’t be mad at him i can’t take it personally and get upset haha. hahaha. #and also it’s like. being autistic isn’t an excuse to be a dick. being autistic doesn’t mean you have to like. emotionally damage ur kid ✌🏻 #which i AM. growing up with him has fucked me up!!! and i’m allowed to be mad at that i’m allowed to be upset!!!!!!!! #but also oh god is that shitty of ME??? is that insensitive???? do i need to just be more empathetic and understanding #but ALSO also. when ur a kid that shit doesn’t matter. when ur a kid and ur dad is making you cry that doesn’t matter. #and those years of damage stick with you even when ur older and trying to be mature and understanding #literally this evening started with me trying to do something nice for him. trying to give him a gift. actually literally giving him a gift. #and it has ended with me feeling fucking….. shit. #and disrespected. and useless. #i try so fucking hard with this man and with our relationship and every fucking time i try to connect with him he throws it back in my face #like. hey! you’ve been saying how much you want to play gran turismo 7!!! i will loan you my PS5 for a while bcus i’m not playing anything #and i will BUY YOU the fucking car game for you to play it while me and my mum are away on our girlie beach holiday #like i will happily and enthusiastically do those things for you because you have been so vocal about wanting to play this game!!! #so it will make you happy right? it will be something positive for you to enjoy!!! right?!!!???? #i will bring my console down to the family tv room for you and i will send you the money so you can buy the game!!!! #oh. oh you’ve clicked around the main playstation menu for 2mins and then turned it off to watch the news. and then just open ur laptop. #not even gonna buy the game huh. just gonna open ur laptop and zone out and act line i’m not even in the room. oh ok. ok ok. #not even a fucking thank you. not even a HINT of recognition. ok ok. ok. ok. now you’re literally ignoring me when i talk to you. ok. ok. #and like!!!! i know this seems so dumb and minor and insignificant but you have to understand. it has been 25 years of this shit. #25 years of me trying to make this man happy and 25 years of him rejecting all of those attempts. #and 25 years of……. a lot of other shit also.

[thepascalofus]

definitely severely fucked up with talking to a guy I like

rant in tags and it’s long sorry

#thepascalofus #personal #ranting in tags wooo #told a joke basically #or explained a funny situation that happened #he left me on read and hasn’t responded for hours #thought about the joke and realized #it was completely insensitive towards him #I like more ‘dark humor’ #I’m queer and I don’t feel welcome in place sometimes #and I made a joke about queer people not being welcome in a space #like laughing at my own problems #and satire towards how ridiculous people are for segregating against queer people #realized he’s also queer #but #the joke probably wasn’t a joke to him #I feel like a dumbass #but also I don’t think anything would have happened between us #even tho I did want something #admittedly #long ass tags #idk what to do hahahaha #help #message me so I’m not lonely?

[munamania]

my friends r like weird about homeless people i feel like i have to keep saying like bro they’re not gonna fucking do anything to you. like. they are people having a rough fucking stroke of luck struggling and not receiving any help. being looked down on so much. just treat them with a litte humanity wtf

#like when ppl talk abt homeless people they really forget they’re talking about. people. #i understand being worried about anybody when you’re in a new place etc but i really do feel like it’s the White Woman conditioning #i’m just anxious around everybody and barely talk to strangers in public lol but. idk. i feel like it’s super degrading and insensitive the #way everyone’s talking abt them #abby talks #esp considering how many might be having mental health crises with no support or even just basic needs to fall back on. that fucking sucks #the one i’ll give a little grace to cause she had a bad experience in a subway but like still the others. y’all are being weird

[lieutenant-amuel]

I’m editing the old chapters of WBTL again. The fourth chapter, and oh my goodness Ángel is so insensitive, it’s insane.

#Personal #Was Born To Lead #He’s not letting me cheat 👍🏻 #We have enough time to make cribs 👍🏻 #I offended you but you know you offended me too 👍🏻 #He’s (Señor Bravo) so awful 👍🏻 #And if we’re being honest Ángel is still insensitive :’D #And I sure thing already edited the first three chapters too and once again Roberto is the worst <3 #Ajhdnfj I feel like I used to be better at writing ‘bad’ characters #Now they all are too wise and thoughtful ajjdkf #I can’t believe I legit named Ángel Ángel because of that angelic personality pun and now I realize it’s actually extremely bad #and just makes zero sense #Anyway I’m editing again because first I have no energy to write the new chapter #second I need to edit punctuation marks because I formatted dialogues wrong all that time #so yeah I’m just peacefully changing points to commas and vice versa #and third I certainly need to make some stylistic changes because those horrible he feels upset fill my heart with sorrow #And random but Señor Bravo calling his students Señor/Señorita also makes zero sense? #I just really don’t know whether it’s appropriate to do it in Hispanic countries? #I mean I’m sure I heard it in some American movies that the teachers call their students Mister and Missis #but Señor Núñez and Señorita Aakster when referred to little kids sounds odd to me #Although Señor Bravo basically was the only one who referred to them like that so maybe it could be explained by his age #but I already changed it to their names it sounds more natural to me so I won’t think about it anymore #Hm but you know in my uni my teachers call us ‘colleagues’ #which also sounds odd aihdkf #What is the name of our new history teacher? #Valerio Álvarez #<3

[polyamorouspunk]

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#I want to make a post joking like oh I should be euthanized I need to be put out of my misery but there’s like a 50/50 shot #that someone’s going to come into my inbox and call me homophobic or something because gay people are murdered #like ‘you can’t joke about wanting to be euthanized when other people are murdered against their will it’s insensitive’ #because that’s just the kind of shit I get in my ask box sometimes #this is NOT related to anything about me being like oh I’m afab and I don’t have these problems and people being like but some afab peopledo #like no that’s a totally fair criticism of what I said I could have worded that differently but at the same time it is kind of draining #to talk about my own experiences and have people be like well you need to reword that because it doesn’t apply to ALL afab people #like I wasn’t trying to say it does I’m saying it doesn’t apply to ME because IM afab not afab people overall #but like I’m not going to be mad about that I’m just tired and it’s draining #like I genuinely sometimes feel like I cannot say the most basic things on here NOT because of stuff like that as I said and I mean that #but because of people who really just are super out of touch with how the internet works

[glindyupland]

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#AH HAHA WHY AM I SO PARANOID AND RUDE AND STUPID #my roommate has covid and is coughing everywhere in our shared kitchen #which means I’m the one who has to quarantine #and I feel like such a crazy person for that?? #like I feel like I’m being gaslit? #like why is her having covid my fault and my problem #I’m sick of having to adopt the guilt for it and the panic at not being able to contain it or to keep myself safe #Glindy’s Posts #I’m paranoid and rude and insensitive and stupid and dumb and lazy

[lewishcmilton]

rich people who think they’re “charitable” are one of the worst people on earth

#giving money to homeless people but then making fun of them on the dining table like wow assholes #they’re just so self centred and contradictory and the irony just hits you in the face #they don’t even realise they’re being insensitive bhai #i’m saying they but talking about my mom like wow she’s full bitch mode today #it’s like a checklist. humiliate your daughter in front of extended family. check. make everyone feel bad for you. check. #ok sorry the worst diwali of my life #my social battery is so drained and i just feel like climbing off the balcony and running away i can’t deal with this anymore

[wheretheeternalare]

in more dismal news in my capacity as department hr rep I was asked to weigh in on a conflict between a student with a Palestinian flag on their desk and a student with Israeli family who asked them to remove it and was offended when they said it was an expression of solidarity with people not hate speech. my boss obviously has more sympathy for the anti-Palestine student and only barely acknowledges that Palestine =/= Hamas and to take down the flag may well be a violation of the first student’s freedom of speech

#tried my best to stick up for them without being insensitive to my boss who just drove her Israeli collaborator to the airport to fly home #I guess I also don’t want to be insensitive to the student worried about their family #but it sounds like they don’t think Palestine has a right to exist so I’m not feeling very sympathetic

[maplewozapi]

I should have known if I brought up wc I’d have to talk about. But it includes of a lot of issues with feral/furry designs that use feathers in hair. I don’t necessarily know why the conversation only started and stayed in the wc fandom when horse/wolf/lion feral fandoms are still doing the same thing.

Now having feathers in the design isn’t a racial attack first thing off because there’s a lot of context around what feather’s are used, the shape, and where they are placed. If the look is anything like "rave Coachella looking tribal fantasy feathers and beads" it’s probably insensitive. I’m not to sure why it has to be feathers, I honestly think the wc fandom are holding themselves back when it comes to forwarding designs in a unique way. Tail feathers are also left out in this conversation as well, one or two feathers or feathers in the shape of a birds tail are fine but bunched together feathers are leaning to close to how we have our horses wear feathers. This is in the context of the design already looking like a "medicine cat" already its bad. it’s like those yt girls wear feather head bands but animal addition.

I’ve talked about this before but silhouettes are so important, like Native American stereotypes are on the global scale you cannot escape this silhouette you just have to avoid it. There’s no "but it’s in so many other cultures" no it’s not it’s totally unique to our people that’s why people flock to it because it’s so "mysterious, sacred" whatever their weird twisted up reason is. There’s so many unique ways to break this silhouette you just gotta be more creative. And I feel like instead of being more creative and coming up with totally different ideas it’s just easier to lean on these visual native stereotypes to get across "wild mythical nature fantasy"

I could get into the horse fandom and the weird situations they’re doing over there but that’s another crazy thing. I should say because someone will ask, ostrich feathers on like show horses or knights or puss in boots style is fine not the same thing (breaking the silhouette) they’re not related.

And it comes down to understanding what you are drawing and where this imagery comes from, I’m not gonna get my feelings hurt because of your design but I’ll question why are you drawing stuff like that. You cant remove that cultural/stereotypical imagery, and if you don’t care about it then you don’t care about the history or how it looks on your character and art.

I made it this far on the internet but if you want to be conscious about these things good on yea it doesn’t take much☺️👍

Edit: can’t believe I gotta say this but yes other cultures utilize feathers, if people are using feathers that are used in their culture then don’t harass them. That’s weird have some common sense. Ostrich feathers, peacock feathers it’s actually so interesting how native birds to an area affect the culture there.

#native artist #ndn tumblr #native american #indigenous #warrior cats #warriors oc #warriors #warrior cats oc #spirit stallion of the cimarron #furry #feral

[deadsetobsessions]

Sea Cryptic! Danny AU- Pt. 7

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“I’m having a child.”

Danny stared at Batman.

“…Uh, congrats?”

Batman whips out a stack of paper and a pen. “It’s you. Sign here and initial the highlighted spots.”

Danny instinctively, from years of dealing with Vlad, whacked the stack right out of Batman’s hands and into the bay. He doesn’t even feel bad about littering this time because, “Begone, fruitloop!”

Wait, no, that’s not what he meant.

“I mean- I have parents!”

“Not for long.” Batman muttered and then did a double take. “You have parents? How?”

Danny gasped, placing a hand on his chest to clutch his metaphorical pearls. He ignored Batman’s mutters. Everyone knows the vigilante has an adoption problem. At least, everyone who lived in Gotham did, as everyone who didn’t was somehow convinced that he “worked alone” or some bullshit like that. “Are you naturally this insensitive or were you dropped on your head as a baby? Obviously I had to come from somewhere.”

“They’re still… alive?”

“And kicking,” Danny said, inching away from yet another rich weird guy trying to adopt him. “Mostly the kicking part, though.” He said, remembering the sparring sessions. His mom could kick his as six ways to Sunday with nothing but jiu-jitsu and still have time to work in the lab.

“I see.”

“I’m charging you extra for the emotional upheaval. I have trauma regarding rich people trying to adopt me.”

Batman sullenly handed over a thousand.

“Sweet. There’s a group of shades down here asking if you could find their murderer. Apparently the serial killer is still at large.” Danny pointed.

“Of course. Tell me everything.”

The adoption papers disappeared as Batman went into detective mode.

Danny shoved the cash into his glowing chest and breathed a sigh of relief. He needed to make rent this month so it was a windfall running into Batman.

——

“Hey, Tim?”

Tim woke up from his Power Nap. “Huh?”

“Phantom’s complaining that Batman kept trying to adopt him.”

Tim blinked. “Uh.. what does that have to do with me?”

Danny stared at him, a patiently amused smile on his face. “Just in case the rumor about the Wayne’s sugar-daddy-into the Bats was a thing. Other than that, we might have to confront Batman to get him off of Phantom’s back. ”

“You… want to confront Batman.”

“Hey, man, Phantom’s a friend and it’s ride or die.” Danny snickered. It was literally die, with his Phantom side of things. He held two fists up, and wound them, like Popeye right after eating spinach or something. “And if Batman bothers Phantom, we ride at dawn.”

“Batman doesn’t come out unless it’s dark, though? Or for the Justice League.” Tim grinned. He mentally classified Danny under his “to go to” list. That’s where Bart, Bernard, Cassie, Kon, and Garfield were. If he starts shit, he could count on them to have his back and cause even more shit. Danny, wanting to fistfight Bruce over the man making Phantom uncomfortable? He absolutely is making that list.

“Then we ride at, like, dusk. Or uh, like 10PM. I gotta get my beauty sleep.”

“You’ll definitely need it,” Tim inconspicuously texted the group chat, which quickly blew up.

“Shut up,” Danny playfully shoved Tim. “Wait, can Batman even legally adopt? Isn’t being a vigilante illegal? And how can he adopt someone dead?”

Tim dramatically flailed and splayed over Danny’s carpeted living room. “Dunno about his identity,” he lied to Danny, like a liar. “But Gotham has a bunch of laws for the undead/restored to life people so there’s probably enough gray space there.”

Danny spluttered. “You guys have undead friendly laws?”

“Yeah, geht do you think Grundy just chills out? Plus, we have like a minor resurrection event every few years. It usually doesn’t stick but sometimes it does. Bruce pushed for those laws when Jason came back to life, except he doesn’t actually want people to know he’s like, alive.”

“Jason died?” Danny blinked. Well, that would explain the vibes. “Huh. So what’s up with his rank vibes then?”

“Rank vibes?” Tim pressed record on his phone.

Danny nodded. “Yeah, you know how Phantom’s got like a really chill green vibe?” Inwardly, Danny snickered at his pun. Chill. Yeah, he meant that very literally. “Jason’s got kind of a rank green vibe. He’s kind of stinky? Definitely never introduce him to Phantom.” Danny’s senses got worse in his ghost form.

“Jason regularly showers, though?!”

“Not smell! Like, a spiritual smell?”

“You can smell souls?!” Tim sat up. “Bro, you’re a meta?!”

“Uh.” Danny hesitated. “Yeah. I can smell souls. It’s a thing. Everyone from my town can do it.”

“What?!” Tim paused. “Wait, can Phantom smell souls?”

“Yeah. We’re, uh, from the same town.”

“Danny, what the fuck?”

“Hey, don’t look at me like that, you’re the one with a soul-sick brother! Not to mention, you’re kinda stinky too!”

“Hey!”

“Soul-stinky nerd man!”

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“I stink?!” Jason spluttered out, extremely offended.

“The Lazarus pits. He’s most likely smelling traces of Lazarus pit on you, you imbecile.”

“We need to speak to Phantom. This instant.”

“I dunno, B. Danny sounded like he was gonna break your face if you bothered Phantom anymore.” Dick snickered.

“Yeah,” Tim chimed in, from his seat in front of the Bat-computer. “He was pretty serious.”

“Are we just gonna glaze over the fact that they’re from the same town?!” Stephanie exclaimed, practicing her moves on a training dummy.

“How does that even work? What does that mean? I thought Phantom was an immortal?” Duke asked.

“We also can’t rule out time-travel.” Barbara slammed her baton into a training dummy, twisting her wheelchair in an agile maneuver that left the dummy on the floor.

“No bothering Phantom.” Cass proclaimed.

“That’s quite right. You all have a warm dinner sitting above your cave and should it remain uneaten, I assure you that sherbet Sunday and crêpe Tuesday shall be canceled.” Alfred stepped in. The Bats, threatened, scrambled to ditch their gear and go upstairs.

#Danny: not another adoption! #Vlad and Bruce trying to adopt Danny even though he’s got parents:🤝 #batman #danny phantom #tim drake #jason todd #bruce wayne #dc x dp #bamf danny phantom #dpxdc #dcxdp #dcxdp crossover #sea cryptic! danny au