#I am deeply upset

[esctrash]

btw if you’re wondering how long i’ll be mad for just know latvia slovenia malta serbia were my top 4 and they ALL fell below poland and switzerland with two of them not even surviving the semi (and one DEAD LAST)

#so the answer is A LONG TIME #i am DEEPLY UPSET #eurovision #esc 2023 #latvia #slovenia #malta #serbia

[iamnotdirtylaundry]

hey so my computer broke and i won't be able to draw for like a week or more lol so temporary (forced) break from posting art

#fml #seriously though #i am deeply upset

[ask-darling-xoxo]

I stopped consuming YBG content because of the drama and the toxic fandom, and now the same this is happening with John Doe 😭 But unlike Peter, it’s hard for me to separate Doe from his creator because they’ve said in their curiouscat that Doe is just them but with all of their personality(?) projected onto him

NO DONT TELL ME THAT, DOE IS NOT TRASH LIKE THEM

HE WOULD NEVER DO SHIT LIKE THAT

SHAME ON HIM, DONT PROJECT YOUR SHITTY PERSONALITY ONTO DOE, HE IS MY DEAR BELOVED JOHN DOE

Nope nope nope nope, I can’t handle this information I’m sorry, Doe is something I also cannot let go and I’m not gonna let that shitty person ruin it for my heart

#NO NO NO NO #FUCK YOU MORTISFOX #no more supporting mortisfox #I HATE THIS #I AM DEEPLY UPSET #I SHOULD SLEEP 😭 this is too mych for me to handle

[daddywarbats]

Hey so I want to preface that I apologize if this is a rude/hurtful ask as I am fully physically abled and genuinely don't know what those who arent ablebodied life are like I am also presuming that you can answer this based on your tags/post so if that's not the case just ignore me completely With that I'm asking, this is hypothetical Would you ever want a child knowing they may be predisposed to at least physically disabled or if we were able to alter genes to change that potential. *Curious

Okay, a couple of things here, Anon. Yes, it is a rude question to ask. Yes, it is hurtful. And honestly, if your first instinct is to apologize because it may be so, that is a clear sign not to continue asking it anyway.

I have taken a deep breath, put aside the urge to cuss you out, something I am well within my right to do given what you asked, and chose to make this a teachable moment.

Your question betrays a deeply flawed understanding of these topics.

Having a child is a deeply personal decision for anyone seeking to have one. It is an all-in, lifetime commitment. When you are having a child, even if you adopt, you do not get to choose what disabilities they have or may develop later in life. You commit to the possibility that your child may be or become disabled or you should not have children.

Disability is not restricted to genetics - becoming disabled is something anyone can become at any point in their lives. You cannot simply eugenics it away with gene editing and be done with it forever.

"Where did I say anything about eugenics?" you might ask. "I was just asking if you had the option, would you not want your child to suffer if you could change it?"

Your intent in asking may not be inherently cruel and you simply want to understand, but what you are fundamentally asking about is actually eugenics and this particular line of eugenics thought treats disability as something inherently cruel to even allow to exist, disregarding entirely the fact that disability can occur at any stage in life and, in fact, is the one thing guaranteed as you age.

Having a disability is not in itself cruelty. That your child may potentially have a disability is not cruelty. It is how you are as a parent to that child that speaks to your cruelty or kindness as a parent.

Children grow and they suffer in many more nuanced ways that do not require being disabled in any way, shape or form. Anyone who wants to become a parent must make peace with the concept that there may be times in that child's life where they will suffer and there is absolutely piss all they can do to prevent it.

If you have a child who is disabled from birth, do you love them any less than a child who becomes disabled later in life?

Ask yourself when you ask about magicking away their disability if it's really about their suffering or if it's about the fear of loss of potential "normalcy", of having to deal with that disability and all that comes with it in a way you cannot escape confronting, of having to deal with grieving one kind future you imagined and the reality.

Your kid could get in an accident. Your kid could catch a virus. Your kid could develop cancer. Your kid could have an invisible disability that goes undiagnosed for years. Some chronic illnesses only manifest in adulthood and those tests will read normal normal normal all day every day until they don't. You don't know what that child will experience as they grow, but your commitment must be 100%. You are all in or all out. You can't just freak out and quit if it turns out your kid needs glasses.

Parenthood is a deeply personal and private matter for many people, one that not everyone is in a position to commit themselves to for any number of reasons, and asking this kind of hypothetical, in this fashion, about a personal and private matter is deeply disrespectful, rude and hurtful.

And this is all I'm gonna say on the matter.

#disability #life with chronic illness #life with disabilities #life with autoimmune disease #chronically ill #i am deeply upset #living with chronic illness #living with disability #it's none of your business #always love it when the eugenics disability discussion creeps out #:| #I am CHOOSING to answer so I can let this go #my inbox is my circus and you volunteered for the ring

[othunderous]

@ircnwrought: ‘what more could i lose?’ (from wanda rip)

wind wisps gently through his hair, blowing loose strands in front of his eyes.  eyes that weigh with sadness as he watches her in silence.  wanda's pain is one he knows well; it is the worst feeling there is, he thinks.  to lose a brother.  he, at least, still has his home, his people, his father.  it is unthinkable to imagine traversing the universe alone, his bloodline narrowed down to only himself, the existence of his family only carried on through memory.  and to have lost them so young. . .

thor sighs, rising from the stone half-wall he leans against.  the sun glints against his eyes as he turns to face her.  only care & sincerity are written across his face.

"look around you," he begins after a moment, collecting his thoughts.  he must tread lightly --- it is hardly an easy discussion to have.  "it may seem like all hope is lost and nothing remains for you, but that is far from the truth.  for all you have lost. . .  what of everything you have gained?  this place, its people.  i stand here before you, do i not?  none of us are going anywhere."  slight, there is an upward curl of his mouth.  he hopes the reassurance lands.  a hand reaches out, laying comfortingly on her shoulder.  "you needn't bear it all alone anymore."

#ircnwrought + wanda. #i am deeply upset #upset and unwell #𝙜𝙤𝙙 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧. main

[lewsvnc]

getting amrabat but LOSING FRED 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

#i love that silly little man who can't read so much #i am deeply upset

[flesheater9000]

Does anybody know a place to watch spider verse outside of theaters? I really don't have the money to go right now but I've been dying to watch it :')

#i am deeply upset

[frost-bitten]

A FISH?!

THIS WHOLE TIME I THOUGHT A RED HERRING WAS A BIRD ASDJKCKDKS

WHENEVER SOMEONE SAID "IT WAS A RED HERRING" I IMAGINED A BIRD

MY LIFE IS A LIE.

[nervousradiation]

honestly, how dare conan gray, wtf?

#conan gray #who let him read my mind #what the actual fuuuuuck #im not okay #i am deeply upset #this is unforgivable #disgraceful

[nyssalghul]

just wondering who let me spiral into a principal weems obsession before actually finishing watching wednesday SO THAT I HAD TO WATCH HER DIE????

#i am DEEPLY UPSET #SO VERY DEEPLY UPSET

[shewalksinbeautylikethenight13]

that moment when you get to confidant so the world takes you down a peg by having your glasses break.

#i am deeply upset #i may have sat on them #they may have broken from me throwing them on my bed #who knows #at least i have contacts?

[dreamykittenn]

What is this bullshit new Tumblr logo!!!!!!!???????????

#Tumblr #tumblr logo #I am deeply upset

[imogenkol]

Ok my first reaction was I didn’t like how the dragons disobeyed their riders like that, but after thinking about it I think it’s kinda brilliant when it comes to the behaviors of dragons.

First, both Arrax and Luke were really young and had absolutely zero combat experience. As soon as they saw Vhagar, it’s very obvious they simultaneously became a lot more tense. Then after Luke had his encounter with Aemond and left you can see Arrax looking in the direction of where Vhagar was in clear distress and Luke does the same thing before mounting. Luke realized their anxiety was high and he did his best to calm Arrax down before taking flight, but that all went out the window as soon as Vhagar gave chase. Now you have a child and a very young and small dragon that are bonded together in a very scary situation: being chased down by a behemoth in the middle of a raging storm (poor Arrax was flapping his wings as hard as he could) I personally think Arrax went on the offense to try and protect both himself and Luke, if only to give them a chance to escape. Both of them did the best they could.

Then you have Vhagar, an extremely old, massive, experienced dragon that is bonded to an inexperienced rider who is feeling a lot of unhinged rage and resentment. They were flying in attack maneuvers ffs I doubt she thought it was a game. And then this little dragon has the audacity to breathe fire in her face. Of course she’s not going to deal with that shit, as utterly tragic as her response is.

At the end of the day, dragons are not mindless war machines that will obey every command. They’re very powerful animals. No matter how trained or bonded with their owners they are, very powerful animals can and will do what they want.

#house of the dragon #house of the dragon spoilers #lucerys velaryon #aemond targaryen #Arrax #Vhagar #I know a lot of people are big mad but I thought this was well done #at the end of the day people gotta remember the book is from the pov of an unreliable narrator #the show is showing what REALLY happened #tbh I think Aemond is a lot more compelling villain #he can still be evil even tho he didn’t mean to kill his nephew #like the war hasn’t even started yet #and yeah that scene was deeply upsetting to watch #I’ll need an undisclosed amount of business days to recover #but I am nerding out a bit on the behaviors of dragons in that scene

[meyhew]

brothers who, at their core, are a brother first and person second. brothers who will always put their siblings first no matter the cost brothers who will bear the weight of the world and also burn it down for their siblings brothers who will deny themselves their own wants and desires for the sake of their siblings’ brothers who repress their own feelings to make room for their siblings’. BROTHERS!

#grayson hawthorne #declan lynch #they r one and the same to me u don’t understand how deeply upset i am rn #the inheritance games #the dreamer trilogy #seedpost #finn #landon #yeah they go in here sorry i forgot them before

[macksartblock]

Normal take my hand we’re going to therapy

#dndads #dndads spoilers #normal we have walked similar roads I am putting you in therapy post canon you will get through this #while his relationship with sparrow may not improve I’d like to think he eventually finds peace with that. it’s hard but it can be done #I did like a speed run through the stages of grief lol I think I was mainly upset bc a part of me wishes I could reconcile with my parent #but that’s just not a reality that can be pursued after being so deeply hurt at least not without harming myself further #and I think that’s very similar to Normal’s scenario #I don’t think I’ll get too deep here lol but meh #I am content and now just vibing #god I can’t wait for the CoC mini series though give me sweet horrors

[howboutsleep]

mr bonzo please not be following alice please please please please please please please please please please

#if anything happens to her im #im #i am going to be Deeply Upset and Dissapointed #tmagp #the magnus protocol #tmagp spoilers