#I am aromantic

[arabella-s-arts]

At some point, the fact that Destiel didn't become fully canon was not so upsetting because a ship I liked didn't get to be together, but that Dean never got to share that side of himself.

Dean Winchester is very clearly bisexual. If you don't think he is, that's fine, but to me, it is undeniable. He has crushes on men, flirts with men, checks out men, gets flustered by men.

Despite this, he is still very repressed a lot of the time. And that was instilled in him by his abusive, asshole father, who forced Dean to play the role of some macho man. In the later seasons, we get to see how with his father gone, Dean gets to be nerdier, he gets to do activities that are considered more feminine. He likes cooking, Scooby Doo, LARPing, he wore a night gown, listens to Taylor Swift, he's watched the movie "Frozen" and loves Dory the fish. He becomes a lot sillier, and it's clear that this is a lot closer to who Dean Winchester is rather than the man we saw in season 1.

But Dean never fully opened up, and I get having some walls up due to the trauma he's been through. But the fact he never could share this part of himself, is incredibly sad to me. I feel like he was getting there, but the show silenced him.

Dean was in love with Cas. And I think Dean also wanted a long term romantic partner. He needed someone who would always be there for him that wasn't just his brother. Wanting romance does not make someone weak, and is not inherently wrong. And after all the stuff Dean has been put through, he deserved a happy ending.

#dean winchester #supernatural #castiel #dean is bi #bisexual #destiel #spn #for those who think Destiel shippers make everything about romance #I am aromantic #and trust me #you do not want to start that fight with me

[plague-doctors-tomato-soup]

hello lads i forgot to say this here: i am aroace, and after nearly five years i can say that fucking proudly without immediately crushing myself under my own internalized aphobia

#aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aro #ace #aroace #still would be very open to a queerplatonic relationship though #that shit slaps #i feel that shit SO intensely #but gods it feels so good to finally say that #i am AROMANTIC #i am ASEXUAL #AHHHHHHHH!!! /pos

[alexcole1326]

when you get a platonic gf❤️❤️❤️ (qpr)

#aromantic #qpr #queer platonic relationship #wlw qpr #platonic girlfriend #I HAVE A PLATONIC GF IM SO HAPPY RN IM GOING TO CRY #aroace #aro pride #lgbt pride #lgbtqia #BRO I THINK ACTUAL PARTNERS ARE STUPID BUT MY PLATONIC GIRLFRIEND IS THE BOMB #SHE LITERALLY MADE ME A POEM #IM PLATONICALLY IN LOVE #i am aromantic #but if i had romantics feelings this girl man #like i KNOW im aromantic but seriously if i could have romantic feelings i would be swooning for her #but i can still platonically swoon #M Y P L A T O N I C G I R L F R I E N D #❤️❤️❤️ #shes so awesome

[oceanamethyst]

#ocean speaks #aromantic #arospec #omg #i am aromantic

[strangelittlelad]

POV: It's 12:55 and you simp for PokeVillains and plays Pony Town for a living

#pokemon villains #giovanni pokemon #ghetsis #colress #lysandre pokemon #guzma pokemon #pony town #pony town skins #i just want to clarify #i am aromantic #but #i do like the pokevillains #not ghetsis though #me and the boys throw tomatoes at him bimonthly #lysandre was made to match one of my friends sycamore cos #i must say #i like how this turned out

[silly0]

So real

#aroace #asexual #aromantic #i am aroace #I am asexual #I am aromantic #LOL #LMAO

[tdutb]

imagine experiencing withdrawls because you are addicted to a fucking person

#chicken thoughts #like #i am aromantic #and i'm fairly sure he is too at this point #BUT GOD DAMN DOES HE GIVE A HIT OF DOPAMINE #i know he'll prolly see this #i do not care tho #i gotta know how normal this shit is #vent

[captainjackscoat]

I want to go to a gay bar

However I do not want to go to a gay bar because I do not, nor will I ever, drink alcohol. I do not particularly want to be around drunks.

So instead of a gay bar, I propose a Queer Cat Cafe.

Non allergenic cats ofc

There's a section of the cafe where the cats can't go if you don't want cats near you. That section is the library.

There are lil pride flags everywhere, even the obscure ones.

They sell pride pins for £1.50ish each at the counter.

There are LED lights.

It's autism friendly, lights can be toned down if needed and everything is neatly spaced out

You can have a sticker to write your pronouns on

Mostly queer artists/songs played

feel free to add on

#lgbtqia #queer #gay #lesbian #bisexual #transgender #nonbinary #agender #genderqueer #genderfluid #pansexual #aromantic #asexual #polysexual #omnisexual #demisexual #demiromantic #biromantic #panromantic #skoliosexual #here queer and filled with fear #cats #cat cafe #I like cats #I like cafes #I like queers #I am queer #I am unfortunately not a cat #or a cafe

[almostshamelesspenguin]

Character: I think boys are pretty

Fandom: oh! They're gay! That's canon!

Different character: I have no interest in romance or sex. I don't understand it. Relationships confuse me. They seem pointless to me. I have no desire to be in a romantic or sexual relationship. I am an aromantic asexual.

Fandom: well, I guess you can interpret them as aroace...I don't see it though.

#has. has anyone else seen this or am i complaining about a virtually nonexistent issue #this is about a particular fandom that im not going to mention tho #not saying theres anything wrong with the first one either #but. cmon #bitches will give any excuse before having a character they can romantically ship #not every character needs shipping. not every character needs a realtionship #shut up for the love of god #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aroace erasure #aromantic erasure #asexual erasure #aroace rant

[blackplaaague]

"How old is your tumblr?" Well, my bio said romance-favorable for a while.

#ick #aro #arospec #I am aromantic #and not interested #turns out writing about ocs kissing is not actually liking romance #it's liking writing

[strangepersonhere]

Being aroace is so cool, but so, so hard sometimes. Watching all the persons you hold dear finding *their* person. Grieving the idea of an allo relationship. Realizing that, maybe, somehow, you're the second choice fo everyone. Because friends are great, but **lovers** are the goal in our society.

Most of the time, i am sooo happy to be aroace. And then, when im alone in bed, at 3 am, i find myself crying by fear of being alone.

And I think it's normal. It's grieving a certain way of thinking. And it's hard, especially when you were raised this way, and that everyone keeps doubting your identity.

So yeah. Shout-out to all the aroace people, wanting a deeper connection, without wanting romantic love.

I love y'all

#asexuality #aromantic #aroace #asexual #let me just be sad #also im doing what i can. #im having a moment #nah but seriously #what a fucked up society #also why i am crying while watching mama mia ?

[growing-past-me]

Okay Alastor being aro just makes radioapple infinitely more funny to me. Evil and fucked up QPR. Enemies to lovers with none of the romance or sexual tension. Just two guys who hate each other so much they have no choice but to spend the rest of their lives together.

#radioapple #Alastor #Lucifer Morningstar #hazbin hotel #alastor hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel alastor #lucifer hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel lucifer #qpr #aromantic #asexual #aroace #I AM IN A QPR NO ONE LOOK AT ME. #Flynn speaks

[ale-arro]

been going a little bit insane about this sentence from Ace by Angela Chen for the past week

#replace this with any other type of significant relationship too #also! this book actually rules btw i really recommend it #i didnt read it when it first cane out bc i was like. well i am already pretty familiar with asexuality and not rly interested in 101 stuff #but it turns out it doesnt feel 101-y at all its a super awesome piece of queer theory and also chen has Good opinions #and not weird watered down ones that i am sometimes wary of in aspec communities (frankly especially ace ones) #i think maybe if more people approached asexuality the way chen does (including and maybe even especially ace people) #i would be more inclined to still ID as ace #but anyways! #aro #aromantic #<- tag selections that reflect how i personally engage with this quote #also #described in alt text #also also #j tag #:/ #aro media

[silly0]

Yeaah

#aroace #I am aroace #aromantic #aro #I am aromantic #i am asexual #asexual #ase #LOL #LMAO #so real

[charlieswebb]

the greeks believed that our souls were split in half so we have to find our missing pieces. but i feel full. my soul is complete. aromanticism allows the soul to stay together

#we need more representation of aros loving the fact that they’re aro #bc bro i am so happy and sometimes feel a bit too superior bc of the fact i don’t need a partner #aro #queer #aromantic #ace

[love-too]

Just heard the sentence "non practicing bisexuals" for aroace people and I'm losing it

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #asexuality #roba mia #love #words #am i aromantic? #am i asexual #like